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Your really smart. Has this happened to you? (link)
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No it hasn't, but I have known people who it has happened to. Just don't feel as if you're doomed to having no good options. If you end up being pregnant, try to find out as soon as possible and tell people soon. And again, if you need any further advice, don't hesitate to ask -_^.
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ok so I liked ur answer for my marraige question, but wat do I do if we've had sex and I think I am pregnant? (link)
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I'm not going to try to influence your morals and beliefs, but if you are pregnant, you need to decide if you are going to keep the child. If you intend on keeping your baby, then the best thing to do (for both you, as the parents, and the child) is to get married. However, if you know that you can't provide a child with an appropriate life that is healthy and happy, then you really should make sure that your baby is given to a foster family. But if you are pregnant, then the best thing you can -possibly- do is tell somebody. I'm not going to ask you your age, but if you are young and know that your parents (or whoever is your guardian) won't be happy about it, you should still tell them. It's much easier to tell them now, early on, as opposed to waiting until there isn't time to make plans for anything. Not to mention, by the time your baby is born, people will have accepted it and have gotten over most anger in their reaction. Even if you don't plan on keeping your baby, it might be a more appropriate move to get married. If not marriage, then the father should at least stick by you. Pregnancy means you won't be able to work or go to school. And if that's the case, you certainly need all the help you can get. If you're afraid you're pregnant and can't put your worry to rest, just remember that it's only going to get better from here, as far as anxiety goes. But in order for that to happen, you need support and you need to tell your family. I really hope that this all works out for you well and if you need more advice, I'll do everything I can to help.
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so...I need help. I am dating this guy and weve been together for 6 months n he wants 2 marry me and I want 2 marry him but I m not sure about it. What should I do? I'm 14 and he's 16. (link)
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You need to look at your options and your understanding of him as a person. Because two people like or even love each other doesn't necessarily mean they really should get married. When two people get married, love isn't the only thing they should share. They should be able to help each other exist and live in the world. They should be able to build upon each other without distracting each other from being efficient and happy at the same time. Granted, many couples have trouble with this more than others, and if it's not right then there's nothing keeping them from moving on from each other. But nobody would like getting divorced and admitting that they were wrong about the person they married. So it's really better to get it right the first time. So ask yourself some questions. How mature is he? Is responsible? Would he make a good father? Does he make me want be a better person? Can I trust him? If we couldn't see each other for a few months, would I want to break up with him and move on? Do I know him well enough to be able to predict him? (And what I mean by that is: Do you know his character enough to be able to have a full understanding of him?) If you have known this person for a long time (longer than you've been dating) then maybe you know him well enough to really answer these questions. Additionally, the answer to them doesn't -have- to be yes. But if he's not mature enough, or isn't responsible, or so on, ask yourself "Can he change his flaws?" A person who is aware of and accepts his or her flaws can change them much easier than somebody who doesn't. For example, if he has a short temper, does he know about it? Does he acknowledge his temper? Does he apologize for it? Does he talk about it?
If you want my short answer: Just wait. Maybe he won't like you sustaining the answer to his question. But if you aren't 100% sure about it and have to think about it for even a moment, then you need more time with him to know if you should marry him. Don't tell him no or yes. Simply tell him that if he wants to marry you, then he should give you the time you need to answer it and simply keep showing you that he would make a good husband for you.
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My computer is so slow, and i always do a virus scan n it says i have no virus's. But now the side of my screen like in the computer is black and then just today the bottom turned black, how do i fix this? and what can i do to make my computer faster. I dont want my mom to ground me if i break my computer :[.
anything is apreciated.
thanxx. (link)
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Well, I'm guessing you have a windows computer. Have you tried defragmenting your hard drive? I know that sounds like something bad, but it's actually quite the opposite. Just click Start, point to All Programs, point to Accessories, point to System Tools, and then click Disk Defragmenter. It's a good idea to do this about every month. It's also really important to make sure your hard disk is free of problems and errors. You can use the Error-Checking utility for that. These are the same instructions as on the microsoft site:
Be sure to close all files before running the Error-Checking utility.
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Click Start, and then click My Computer.
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In the My Computer window, right-click the hard disk you want to search for bad sectors, and then click Properties.
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In the Properties dialog box, click the Tools tab.
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Click the Check Now button.
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In the Check Disk dialog box, select the Scan for and attempt recovery of bad sectors check box, and then click Start.
Additionally, if you can free up any space on your hard drive, it would be beneficial to your computer. If you have an extensive library of things, you might want to invest in an external hard drive. These can range in price, but it's well worth it for a dollar per gigabyte sometimes. I would imagine around 100 gigs for under a hundred dollars.
If all else fails, buy a Mac (kidding!!...well, it would help, but that's up to you, lol!)
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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Well, as for the age difference, I think it could really make things depend the two of you as people. As for being engaged at such a young age, I think it really depends on how you and your boyfriend view things. Ask yourself and be totally honest, Do you think that you could marry this man? Could you wake up everyday to his face, no matter how angry or happy you are with him? Are you sure about your answer? If not, then ending an engagement at your age is not a reason to break up at all. You don't have to end the relationship, you are merely making sure he is right for you, and there is nothing wrong with that. And make sure you take -everything- into consideration. I'm not trying to accuse him of being disloyal at all, but you might want to see if he has had relationships like this in the past? How honest is he everything else? How many relationships has he been in the las week before meeting you? month? year? 3 years? Make sure you know this guy and every part of him. Deep down, you know if you can last from now to when you can actually be married after high school.
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