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I need new music. I like everything really so just any suggestions thanks!! (link)
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hotnewhiphop.com
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There is this boy i like-lets call him S-well i have known S for 3 yrs. And everyone knows we like each other...but at the beginning of the year my "friend" K kissed him in front of me and she knows that i have a crush on him...so now me and her are not really friends...so last week i had one of my friends go and ask him if he liked me and he said that he did but that i didn't act that way towards him so he was like now he doesn't know if he likes me anymore because he says i pretend like he is no one...how do i show him that i like him/build up the courage to tell him. How do i find out if he really likes me? Also he is a really big flirt. (link)
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Mayb he just needs a person to be with him so he wont be such a flurt.And if so just flurt with him a little or have convo's with him and just tell him the way you feel bit by bit or just give him signs
ex: you say: your such a flurt you know that
and if he says he knows say sumthing like "if i was your girlfriend i bet you wouldn't be 1
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im 16.f, and my sisters 18.f. She is now dating a guy who is 26, just got out of jail for drug possession and he was previously accused of murder, but there was "reasonable doubt" so they didnt convict him, and was kicked out of his house. He is a drug dealer without a real job..yet my mother lets him sleepover, EVEN THOUGH ive talked to her about it many times, nad told her he scares me and i cant sleep when hes here. I also hear them having sex at night and thats just disgusting. I really need help because i dont feel safe at night with him here. Please, i need some help. My dad doesnt live with us anymore, and ive tried talking to my sister and my mom but they dont listen to me. (link)
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If you havent talked to your sister about it you should.But at the same time have an open mind about him.That was his past and every1 should get a second chance.He might have not murdered any1 and if he did it was porbly self defense just think of it that way.If you feel unsafe wen his their ask you mom if u can sleep over your friends house wenever he is there but try to get to know him a little better too
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19/sophomore in college
boy #1: my friend tyler and i have had a history since spring of senior year. i guess you could say we were together, we went to prom together, but we never dated (he asked to become official, but i didn't see a point since we'd be going to college and we'd be at opposite ends of the country..he's on the west coast, i'm on the east coast) we've been on and off and we hook up when we're both home, we had sex for the first time together over winter break, but it didn't change anything between us.
boy #2: this past semester at school i became friends with this kid chris. we hung out a lot and went on "dates" together. we both like each other, but i think he likes me a lot more than i like him. he's in the same group of friends as me also.
my issue is i don't know what to do. i like chris, but i don't know where his heads at (i'm going to talk to him when we get back to school) but i'm nervous and i don't even know what to say or where to start. i don't know if i should date one of them, if i should just keep things the way they are or if i should stop it with one or with both of them. they both don't know about each other so should i tell them? it's such a complicated mess that i've created and it's making me go crazy. anything will help. thank you (link)
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You shouldn't tell them cause your not with eather of them yet.Chris is the 1 you should talk to and if he wants to be with you then you should go for it.If everythings good between yo two after a month or so then you have to tell tyler about him.Tell him that you are happy with this guy and if you two could just be friends.
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16/f
i have many insecurities about my boyfriend cheating on me or is flirting with other girls. the reason for that, was because my first boyfriend he cheated on me twice. and i got broken up a couple of times in a row because they started liking another girl by flirting or they were cheating. and my first longest relationship liked his ex girlfriend while going out with me and was talking to another girl in the beginning of the relationship. now my current boyfriend i've been with for about 13 months, he flirted with another girl in the beginning of the relationship. after he got caught, he actually admitted it. the thing is that he is very honest to me and he would actually admit it if he was cheating on me. i spoke to him about my insecurities before and actually told him why and everything, he understood me, but he doesn't exactly know what to do to help me. he said if he was cheating on me, he would tell me straight up and he wouldn't hide it or anything. i know myself he's not cheating o me, but i keep thinking at times that he is. like, whenever he doesn't really answer my text message or phone call even sometimes when i just see him 3 minutes afterwards i feel insecure. so i usually think about the possibilities like he has band practice, he's hanging out with his friends, he's sleeping, he's doing chores or something. but i end up running out of ideas and he ends up calling me later and apologizes saying whatever he did earlier. in the back of my mind or when i run out of ideas i keep thinking he's kissing another girl or having sex with them. i hate it when i think that way. i try whatever i can to ignore it. i try to think positive or think about all the possibilities from before. is there anything i can do? (link)
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You must stop that and start thinkin positive because if theirs no trust then theirs no relationship.You have to understand that he isn't them other guys or your ex's so you cant punish him with your insecurity because of the people who messed with your heart.You just have to think if you would like if he would act that way towards you when you had missed a call or something.If you really beleave deep down that his not like those other people then you shouldn't feel the way you do all the time
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My best friend of 6 years. Really did me wrong last night. She wrong on her statis on facebook. "mynamehere,Is a dirty slut & a liar"
Then all my friends started attacking it and writeing on it and curseing her out. but then she got mad, nd wrote all over my wall,4 paragraphs.On everything sexual ive done,My weight,nd alot of other stuff.I got so mad.Like so mad. Then for some reason my mother got in it.And started curseing on it. And all this 15 years olds didnt like it.So they were telling my mom to square up & what not.When i read all of this today.I was like how stupied can people be?
But any way.I really don't know what to do.i did talk to her cause her mom called the school and tryed to say that i started it when i had to proof she did.So were not friends anymore.BUt i kinda want to get back at her.Or will that let me down to her leval.What should i do? (link)
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You should not get back at her.Karma comes around so you culd just wait till some1 does someting to her and you just sit back and watch it.Or for payback (which i dont suggest but would do) is if you know a guy she likes or something importent to her you go after it.But try and not pay mind to her so every1 can see that your the bigger person and she is jelous of you
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a boy in my freshmen class took his life thursday night
since 7th grade i had known about him, and wished so badly to befriend him...over the summer transition from 8th-9th grade, me and my best friend watched videos of him and the music he made. i even liked him a little. he was just so attractive and talented and sweet.
I was in such shock friday when the teachers broke it to us. the entire day i was just shaking and i could not stop it. i just felt so cold. everything felt dreamlike and out of focus that day. im sure for a lot of other people it was the same.
i barely even knew him, but i always felt that there could have been a connection between us..we had a lot in common and we could have been really good friends, so i took his death pretty personally.
there has been SO MUCH recognition for him among my grade-on facebook, events downtown, grief meetings...i think its really great to see how much of an impact he made on people. he was such an inspiration to everyone.
just to say, i'm not really friends with most of his really close friends, including his girlfriend.
he is having an open wake tomorrow and i really wanted to go. the thing is, i wouldnt know how to act, how to dress, or how to talk to his friends/girlfriend and family.
any tips on what to do?
thank you so much. (link)
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You should go and tell them how ur srry for their lost.If you dnt u might have sum regrets and you dont want that at all.
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So there is this guy at school that i have liked for a long while. We used to talk a little, just say hi and little questions here and there. He is pretty shy. He told me he liked me two weeks ago, so i decided that it would be okay for me to just tell him that i liked him too. I feel like he is too shy though because when we see each other all he will do is smile and give me a hug. I'm the one who tries to make conversations so things aren't so awkward. He won't call me for some odd reason. He will text me, and he doesn't say much.When he does want to hang out, he wants me to go over to his house, and he won't offer to find a way to come get me, or at least meet half way. This pisses me off because i don't chase guys. His friend and I have been tight for a really long while so we are really good buddies. He just told me last week that he liked me and all this other stuff about how he wants to go out with me. Since the guy #1 doesn't really seem to like me, wants me to chase him, i'm getting really sick and tired of it. I was wondering if you guys think it would be weird if I just ignored him from now on. And maybe go on a few dates with the guy that asked me out so i could maybe make him jealous?.....i hope this wasn't confusing...tell me what you guys think i should do? I still like the first guy, but i'm getting really irritated by his behavior...i don't know wether or not to look at it as shy, or if he is acting like he likes me. (link)
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You should go on the date and see other people.He cant expect you to wait around for him forever.Plus if you know the 1st guy really likes you then his going to approach you for the fact that your seeing other people.But eather way you win ur going out wit sum1 you like and if the 1st guy decides he acutally wants you n shows you then you can go out wit him instead
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Okayy so I'm 16, and sexual active.
I feel the need to be on birthcontrol , better to be safe. But my parents are not aware that I have sex. & I dont plan on telling them, well at this moment. My friends said that I can just go on base & theyll give it too me. But I don't know if thats true. & i'm not 17, like legal age. So can I have some help please? (link)
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You shuould ask an older friend to go and get birth control pills then give them to you.Or just stick to condoms and avoid your ovulation time period when you bouta have sex
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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been through alot, we've gone out like 10 times . No joke , and each time we broke up we'd miss each other like crazy so we'd get back together . We text , and the thing is i like talking to him on the phone but he just doesnt take the hint . He texts so BORING ! It gets me so frusterated ! He just isnt outgoing through text . When we're together hes sweet and nice , but through text he just bores me to death ! I don't know what to do to get him to just be more upfront and outgoingg ! Please help ! (link)
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You have to tell him you want more phone convo'z.If you dnt b upfront den ur not really being honest with eachother and if he doesn't say call then his probly just not ready for a real long term relationship
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