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15/f/california

ok well here is my question does anyone know a few really good diets that work! my problem is that i love carb (bread and such...) and i really really want to lose 5 lbs. i know i know no junck food or soda of any kinda and exercise but i do all that fun stuff and i havent lost anything, iv asked my friends but they give me speaches on how i dont need to lose weight.

thanks everyone
_lisa

If you really wanna lose weight u could go Atkins diet but that means no carbs. But it would really work for you if you really wanted to lose 5 pounds.

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i rly wanna get on birth control..because of my period..its irregular and BC is supposed to make it go back on track right???
and do you gain weight or lose it when you 1st start it??
how much does it costs and whats a good web site to get information about it???

You need to talk to your gyno/doctore if you want to get on birth control. BC makes it so you only have 2 or 3 periods a year i think. So it wouldnt be at regular times each month, you wouldnt get it as much (im pretty sure) But you need to see your gyno about it so he can perscribe you the right stuff. I dont think you gain or lose weight when u first start but im not sure. Hope i helped

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How do you minimize the Sims 2??

Push Alt and Tab together (im pretty sure at least)

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hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!

You should probably tell your old boyfriend how all of this. Because if you were togehter for 9 and 1/2 months then he still has to have feelings for you.

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Like the title says...
This is just an opinion thing. I'm curious as to what you all think. I'm turning 17 in 5 days, if it matters ^_^.
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and I still feel like I have a crush on him...
Lol I mean, I get nervous before picking up the phone and dialing his number...I get butterflies in my stomach when I see him...I hear his voice and I smile...
We're totally in love, and all that. He's told me he feels the same way, though not quite as strongly as I do (the "crush" thing, not the love thing.) Is it weird that I still have a crush on the guy I've been with for almost a year?

No its quite alright :-) You must really love this kid and there is nothing wrong with that!

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umm theres this guy that likes me alot and he is def. not my type...... but my friends tell him i lik him bc they feel bad for him... But i dont like him... Im going icekating on my birthday and soo is he.... he is giving me this real diamond ring and asking me out... what should i do?

Whatever you do do not go out with him. Being rejected isnt as bad as getting dumped. Just tell him that you just want to be friends right now because you dont want to hurt your friendship. If he really does give you the ring tell him you can accept it. Unless he would be really hurt by that. Hope i helped

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My boyfriend & best friend are very close. My best friend even hooked us up. The thing is, my best friend is always messing around with my boyfriend. They always play fight and laugh about it, but to me it's flirting. I get extremely jealous but try to play it off thinking they're just good friends. My best friend is the kind of person who if I told her about it would think I'm crazy but then flirt with him even more! I love them both, but I can't help feeling that they have some sort of feelings for eachother. He tells me he loves me and my best friend is just a friend, nothing more. Am I crazy for thinking this? Could there be something going on between them?

I had the exact same problem. Just try to deal with your jelous feeling. I know its hard but im sure they dont realize that they look like theyre interested in each other. But you mite want to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. And possibly your friend too. And if they are/were/get into a situation where they would be alone together and you dont/didnt/wouldnt feel comfotable with it..make sure you tell them. Hope i helped

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I recently started liking my friend, "Ray". We were hanging out a couple weeks ago & we were flirting a lot. Then we kissed.. Twice. The next day, I talked to him & he admitted that he has a girlfriend! Does this make me a slut, because I didn't know that he was cheating on his girlfriend!

No this does not make you a slut. You did not know that he had a girlfriend so you are completely innocent. He is the bad person in this situation because he cheated on his girl. But dont feel like your a slut cuz your not! :-)

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okayy .. sorry this is long but i need advice. so this guy from school and me have been talking online since last april. first we were gunna go to the movies over april vacation . but i couldnt go. and like he was gunna ask me out there and it was like the biggest disapointment .. then he was gunna ask me out so many times but never did. so like in august he was like so maybe we could hang out sometime and i was like yea because i really like him. we tried to go out to the movies like 10 times but something always came up for one of his wtth family or w.e. then this girl came from cali. she started i.ming everyone to tell people that she was new and stuff. well like she i.med him and they like started talking and she i.med me too. but like i guess they went to the mall and stuff together, my friend told me that like he had started to like her and i was heart broken bcuas i really thought we would be the best couple.. but like so he started to like her and she went over his house and stuff .. and i guess she liked him. but then school started and she didnt like him anymore. now he talks to me a lot more and i dont know if he likes me again but i dont want to ask because i'm so scared of getting hurt and like i dont wanna ruin anything we have as friends now .. but i still want to go out with him.. its like the worst feeling ever to be so close to pardise and then its completely g o ne .. blahh .. so i just need sum advice .. thanks =) your the best

well if you think he likes you..go on and tell him that you like him..or hint it to him and flirt with him..that might get things started how they were before. and if he doesnt like you dont worry about it..its ok to be upset but he liked another girl when yall were "talking" and he should feel bad about that..hope i helped

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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!!

Get a friend to ask him how things with you to are. But make sure its a friend you trust so they wont lie. If u wanted to know exactly what he says have ur friend 3way him but dont let him know you are on the phone. Hope i helped

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My 14 yr. old brother will be turning 15 soon and I was wondering if anyone knows where I can buy him some vintage t-shirts (i.e. Atari, Nintendo, etc.)? Thanks!

Hot topic has a couple of them..i got a John Deere shirt there once, and i know they have Nintendo. Another thing to try would be t-shirt sites online..such as www.tshirthell.com

Hope i helped!

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ok i like have discharge 24/7...and it really bothers me cuz sometimes i think i started my periode but i didn't...sometimes i have alot of dischanrge...i read n another one that a girl asked n yall said it was normal to have it...but is it normal to have it 24/7 n all the time...n for it to be kind of heavy..or should i go see my doctor about this??

plZe help...cuz it's really starting to get on my nervs!!

*ill rate*

I have the same thing. Xcept not as heavy as you make yours seem. But right before i get my period it seems to get a little heavier. I dont really get it now though. It might me safe to consult a doctor though if it discolored or somehting doesnt seem right about it. Hope i helped!

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sorry, this is gonna be kinda long...ok, this guy i am with, and love with all my heart, lets call him...Bob...now, Bob, has been making certain, well, comments, that makes me think that he wants to be with me for ever. like, one day i was talking about how whenever i get married my mom is not gonna like the guy, so i was gonna get a friend (lets call her Sally) to do what the mother does in a wedding...and he goes "don't let Sally do anythign special" so i was like "she'll prolly be a bridesmaid" and then i discussed soem dumb ideas a freind of mine had...lets call her Sandy...and i told him we wanted to do a double wedding in a cowboy theme. and he goes "i am not dressing up like a cowboy"
does that mean that he wants to marry me, or is planning to or what? it has stuck in my head and i just want to know if there could be a further meaning behind it.

Well...depends on how old you are. But my guess is hes not that serious. He mite think that he is but hes not gonna propose or anything. Its just fun to talk about ur future with anythere person. I had a boyfriend that i planned my life out with, but it was just a fun thing. Now we are broken up and i seriously doubt we will actually marry. So my guess is hes not so serious that he will propose. Hope i helped a bit!

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