Hi! My name is Melissa. I'm 15, from Oklahoma and sometimes it seems like I'm better at giving advice rather than taking it, (only sometimes). I love meeting new people and talking and all kinds of crazy stuff. I'll try anything once which is probably why I'm always in trouble but hey, it's hard not to be at such a crazy age when you have a car and a boyfriend and tons of free time right? anyways, ask me anything and I'll answer you and if you don't want anyone else to be able to read it , email it to me and ill get back to you, K? love you lots! BabyGurl_1503
E-mail: BabyGurl_1503@hotmail.com
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Location: Oklahoma
Occupation: student
Age: 15
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Irishchick24
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here goes. i met this boy over summer and we became best friends since we couldnt date since i had a boy. when me and my boy broke up i ended up leaving and going back to my hometown. the guy i met from summer(his names kevin) called me a few times and mentioned a girl once and he said she liked him and they might go out. the thing is i really like him alot but before i left i couldnt even kiss him when he wanted me to because i didnt want to fall in love with him. i came back last night and i went out with him tonight. he said he had a g/f and then the next thing i know he was talking about spending the night when my moms gone and having some fun and he said he only told me he had a girl to make me jealous. i really like him alot but i dont know if im ready to go that far with him. what do i do? someone please help me out. (link)
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can dying ur hair or getting highlights make u go bald? (link)
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no it cant make you go bald unless you do it alot! it will cause you to lose more hair than you usually would though.
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what is love? how do u know when u r in love? please help cause i have wanted to know for a long time (link)
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when your in love you get really nervous around that person and you get butterflies in your stomache and you would rather be with that person than anyone else in the world. when your in love your so happy you just want to laugh and smile all the time and want to make each moment with that person last forever. thats love.
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I got my first kiss wednesday and I want to be able to tell my mom and I want to be able to talk to her about things like that and I don't know what to do. Like what can i do so that my moms and mines relationship is stronger? and so i can tell her and talk to her about things like this. (link)
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just tell her. she will be glad you trust her enough to share it with her. trust me on this. it would really make her day if you would open up to her about something so important like that.
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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..
how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby? (link)
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umm id say about 18 or older. why>? dunno just sounds good to me
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One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust? (link)
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id say forget about him. hes not worth it. i dont even know him but i can tell by what you wrote that hes a jerk. he doesnt deserve you and you deserve better.
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What do you do when you feel like the whole world is against you!!!! thanks! (link)
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first off dont start doing drugs or cutting yourself. i know some people who did when they felt that way. when you feel that way you should try and talk to someone, a friend or family member or whoever and try to work out some of the issues going on and if you have no one to turn to then i dont know. you could do what i do. pretend like everythings perfect and be real happy and hyper and go shopping or something fun to forget about your troubles and meet some new people. youll feel a little bit better.
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my dad almost killed me, i wont go near him any more. im so scared! he came at me because i threw his glasses on the floor. he kicked me hit me and pulled my hair! oh yeah i did have a knife but i therw it on the table and ran!
im so scared what should i do?
Amy
ps: im crying my eyes out right now
pss i feal sick too
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amy you need to go to the police. and quick! you need to get out of there as soon as you can before he DOES kill you. people like that dont change. my dads the same way, dont stick around waiting for an apology because after he does it once hes going to do it over and over and over until somebody stops him. get to the cops a family member a school councelor anybody just do it quick
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what is the difference between seeing some one and being boyfriend girlfriend with them? (link)
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seeing someone is when your not really with them so your allowed to go out on dates and flirt with others as well as with that one and being boyfriend and girlfriend is when your only with that one person and not going on dates with anyone else.
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Does anyone know any cool hairstyles? I have blonde hair, a little past my shoulders. Thanks! (link)
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yeah die it burgundy! lol. seriously. i jusy did and it looks awesome plus EVERYONE i come across loves it! trust me, dont be afraid to go a lil crzy once in awhile.
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i have a friend shes one year younger than me and shes realy mean! shes my neighboor and i don't know what to do i can't just say i don't want to be friends with you anymore it would break her heart what do i do? (link)
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if shes that mean then trust me. that wont break her heart but like you said, lets not be mean so just be nice and try to stear clear of her and if she asks if your ignoring her just say your just really busy she'll understand and go in a seperate way and before you know it she wont be hanging around you and you wont feel so bad.
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i was with this guy for 3 months and then we broke up because he said he couldnt just be with one person and then 3 days later i lose my virginity to him then we went back out for another month and then we broke up again this time i did cuz he was acting like a jerk. but ever since he had been saying how he still verry much liked me and would write me letters and what not and then like recently he got verrrrry mad at me but b4 he asked me to HOMECOMMING and i already got my dress. and now that he is mad at me he was talking to some other girl who is like 2 yrs younger then him to go. oh and he reason why he is mad was cuz i told him about this party and didnt show and all the ppl there made fun of him and his crew of like 10 people and then yeahhh.... so what should i do about home comming talk to him about it or like go with someone else or dont o at all. im the kinda person who woulnd be bummed if i didnt go even tho i love dressing up??? what are your thoughts on such a situation...good or bad i am interested in knowing:) (link)
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go to homecoming and have a great time. just dont go with him. hes not worth it.
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How could i overcome my fear on stage? (link)
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i would tell you to picture everyone in their underwear but then you might not be able to stop laughing lol so id say just take a deep breath and repeat to yourself i can do this and keep a steady breath and everything will be ok.
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my friend told me that she started to cut herself and i was like fighting back tears all day but i swore i wouldnt tell anyone and everyone was like WHATS WRONG WHATS WRONG cause the cutter is like my really good friend...i dunno why she does it either because i always see her smiling and having fun and she has a lot of friends i guess shes just putting on an act for everyone but anyways i think shes like always depressed about different stuff but i never knew it was this bad until the other day...i talked to her about it and told her she shouldnt do it anymore and stuff but now i think she started again WHAT DO i DO?!
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hey. let me say this. when i saw your question it sounded alot like my best friend. she too cuts herself and heres what i did. i wrote her a letter just telling her everything and about how badly she was scaring me and her family and surprisingly that worked. now you could do that too but if it doesnt work, i know your going to think im sounding a little to motherly, but you should really tell her parents or the school councelor. she needs help and if you cant talk to her than you can atleast tell her parents and allow them to get her some help. sorry i couldnt be any more of help. good luck with your friend. i hope she understands what your trying to tell her.
babygurl_1503
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