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Hey SeXiiEz and HoTTiEz! Don't be shy. Ask me anything. I am always open for advice.

**I LOVE TO DANCE**


A little bit about me...
[A]ge: NINTEEN candles
[B]irthday: September 29
[C]olor(s): PiNk and tUrQuOiSe
[D]ream boy: *YES*
[E]yes: Green/Blue
[F]riends (best): Joanna, Margaret, Ewa
[G]reatest things: Family, Friends, Love
[H]air: Blonde
[I]nterest(s): Dance, Gymnastics, Family, Friends, Watching TV, $hopping, Chatting online
[J]ealous of: Gorgeous and famous people
[K]issed?: Yes
[L]ocation: Illinois
[M]arital status: Single
[N]ame: Anna
[O]bsession: DANCE
[P]izza(s): Cheese and veggie
[Q]uestion: Where is the love?
[R]andom: BoW cHiCkA BoW bOw
[S]chool: UIC
[T]alent: Natural Blonde ;)
[U]nbelievable moment: Dancing with Kamil
[V]ery best thing about me: I'm a positive thinker and I'm always happy and jolly
[W]orst thing about me: I say things I should not
[X]anga: Don't use it
[Y]ummies: Chocolate, Cookies, Frappuccinos,
[Z]odiac: Libra

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E-mail: AngelicFl0wer@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Occupation: Dancer & Student - Freshman @ UIC
Age: 19
AIM: AngelicFl0wer
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: January 9, 2007
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im 13/f never made out with a guy and i feel so...unloved lol! is there sumthin wrong with me? where did i go wrong?!?

No girl...you are fine. Many girls go too fast and have their first kiss at 12 or 13, while some take it slow and have their first kiss at 15 or 16. I'm sure you'll get yours soon. Don't worry and most of all...don't rush it and make is special because it will be your first. Aww...Goood Luck and No Worries!!

**[Ania]**

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I spend a lot of money on my hobby so much that sometimes i have little or no money for essentials like food or car payments etc. Is this a bad thing or should i really start payin off all my debts?

It is so nice to have a hobby. Like mine...it's dance and it is expensive at some point. You have to pay for the classes and the ballroom-latin shoes and then you have the outfits (the outfits are the most expensive). It's nice to spend money on your hobby, but you should really start paying off your bills and essentials. I think that as soon as you get your paycheck, set the money that you need for essentials and your bills aside so all you have left is the money that you can spend for fun...like your hobby. Then you won't have to worry about not having enough when it comes to the bills or essentials.

**[Ania]**

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My parents are both very picky and will argue about anything!!! Yesterday i was bathing my hamster in the sink and he got away! I had to up all the doors with towels and the whole place was a mess. And he was scared so he left behind droppings! And this was in my parents bathroom too. So, i cleaned it all up and now i see that my parents are fighting so, i take my hamster back to his cage and i had already cleaned up the droppings but i didn't put all the towels and soaps and washcloths away. My mom walks into the bathroom... and then she blames my dad for the mess. I have caused a huge problem. And i can't even try to tell her it was me cause they locked themselves in their room and they sitting there yelling and bickering at each other. I feel terrible because it was not my dad's fault and he is getting the blame! Help!!!

Many parents argue and it is normal. Maybe arguing is their way of communication. Arguing is better than not taking at all. If it really bothers you, tell them that you can't stand them arguing about every little thing. Maybe they will consider going to counseling. But as soon as your mom cools off, tell her that you were the one who made the mess and not your dad. She might still get mad at you, but then she'll say,"At least you said the truth." Hope it all works out!! My fingers are crossed!!

**[Ania]**

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i was wOnderinq if anyOne knOws whO sinqs the sOnq that kinda qOes like

"i want you to want me"
"i need you to need me"
"i`d love you to love me"
"i`m begging you to bed me"

anyone know who sings that song?

I know two artists that sing it. One is a guy from Cheap Trick and the other is a girl from Letters to Cleo. It is the same song except two different people sing it.

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--

You don't want a relatonship so I suggest that you stop doing what you are doing. You guys can still be friends and kiss each other as long as he knows you guys are just friends because you don't want to lead him on and get him hurt. Hope it all works out!!

**[Ania]**

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Hey anna you seem like a really cool girl. I need your help because I don't know what I should do. I'm 17 by the way. And I havent started shavin yet!!!! I don't know if I should rite now or not....do u???n when did u start.PLEASE I NEED YOUR HELP

17...you should have started already. Omg...shaving is a hastle. Before or after bathing yourself simply put some shaving cream on your legs and shave upward. If you shave downward, you might end up cutting yourself. If you don't feel shaving, you can also wax. It does hurt, but then you don't have to worry about it for the rest of the month. It's your choice. Which ever one is comfortable for you.

**[Ania]**

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

You shouldn't just gain weight to make some people happy. You should do it to make you happy. Do it for yourself. But I'm not saying to gain weight. I'm just saying that if you do, do it for you. I think that you should just deal with the people that are harrassing you. It is not your fault that you are skinnier than your twin. Maybe you have a problem gaining weight or maybe you just have a faster metabolism. I don't think that you are anerexic either. They might be jealous that you are 5'4 and only weigh 94 pounds. I know I would be (but I wouldn't make fun of you). But remember, it doesn't matter on how much you weigh as long as you are healthy. Hope I helped.

**[Ania]**

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ok.. in 2 days im going to the eye doctor and im gettin contacts.. what i would like to know if what color would go best with dark brown hair? please help ( i rate mostly 5's ) thanx!

You can stay with your natural color of eyes or if you want a change go ahead. Personally for dark brown hair, I would go with brown or green. Blue would make it look unnatural because you hardly see people with dark brown hair and have blue eyes. But if you want to be one of a kind, then sure get blue but look for a light blue color. I'm sure that whatever color you choose would be fine. If you want, you can take a friend with you to help you choose. Even your mom can have you. Have fun!!

**[Ania]**

Don't forget to IM me and tell me what color you chose.

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has anyone seen the play hairspray?? if so how was it!?

I haven't gone to see it, but the whole cast was on "On Air with Ryan Seacrest" (a show) and they performed a little for the whole audience. It looked awesome with all the dancing and the clothes that they had. And the songs that they sang were awesome too. I would so go to see it.

**[Ania]**

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can u get fat by drinking milk

I don't really think so...but milk does have calories. If you don't burn those calories off from the milk then I guess you can gain weight. Milk might be a liquid, but it has those stupid calories. But I don't think that you can get fat from milk.

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is it a good think when a guy calls u a barbie?

I guess it is. I think it is a really nice complement. You are probably very pretty and so cute and kind and adorable...like BARBIE. Now since you are Barbie, GO FIND KEN...lol.

**[Ania]**

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okay ive been messing with the new layout and i dont know if i should change anything about it... could you check it out and tell me what you think?

love Michelle ( blackmamba)

Omg...gurl I love it. I love the 2 little thingys on top which are kissing-->so cute. Then the have your "legal" countdown...LOL. And all the colorsal around are just amazing. Keep it up gurl!!!

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ok i want to compete at where i take dance from but all the girls on there...there like really tiny and flat and im like 5'2 and lets just say im NOT flat but i mean im not fat or n ething but idk if i should even bother trying out or not?

I think that you should try out and at least give it a shot. So what if you're different looking than all the other girls. The judges should not be looking at that. They should be looking at your commitment to dance - if they gave you a part, would you let them down. By letting them down I mean not showing up, not practicing, not making it your top priority. If you would do those things then they have no excuse for you not to compete. I love dance. I do ballroom - Latin - and I love it. I know it is kind of old, but it is so much fun. And I always make it my number one except when there is school. If you really love to dance and you know that you won't let them down and that you will give it your all...THEN GO FOR IT!!! I know you can do it, but now you have to believe it in yourself.

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I know someone asked before but i never read the responces, why is my advice coulum red, background and teext, it changed my settings, and there isnt an option to edit the colors anymore, anyone know why? its an ugly red =p

Yeah, girl, it happens. When you sign in, under Welcome _______, try to go to column settings and go to automatic color schemes or pick your own colors. If it doesn't work let me know.

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Know any good metal songs?

Sorry, metal isn't really one of my favorites but I did ask my friend and he meantion these:
Iron Maiden - "Iron Maiden"
Iced Earth - "Atilla"
Iced Earth - "The Coming Curse"
In Flames - "The Jester Race"
In Flames - "F(r)iend"
Dimmu Borgir - "Burn in Hell"
MegaDeath - "Family Tree"
Blind Guardian - "Run for the Night"
Blind Guardian - "Another Holy War"
Children of Bodom - "Needled 24/7"

He also said that there isn't no such thing as a bad metal song other then nu-metal like korn and stuff. Hope it helps

**[Ania]**
(Chris...you rock. Thanks for the help on the question. MUAH!!)

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does anybody know any good love songs?
thx.
erin

"Pieces of Me" by Ashlee Simpson
"Like Lovers Do" by Heather Nova
"Keep on Loving You" by REO Speedwagon (good one)
"It's Gonna be Love" by Mandy Moore

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hey heres my problem...whenever i shave my bikini line i get lots of red bumps every where around the area i shaved, someone told me there ingrown hairs, but what can i do about it? I dont want laser hair removal and i really dont want to go get it waxed. Does anybody have any little tricks they want to share so i dont get these little red bumps?

Never take a hot shower after shaving your bikini line. That also creates those bumps. Take a shower in warm water but warm water that quickly turns to cold water. Also use lotion right after. That will help those red bumps not appear. Good Luck!!

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How often a day should you brush your teeth?

You should brush them twice. Once in the morning and once at night. You can if you choose to brush them also after dinner, but that is your choice.

**[Ania]**

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i need help i want to pant my room but f i do not know what color to pant it so here are some of my favorite colors
-red
-black
-purplish blue
-gray
-green
-blue
PS IM SORTA GOTH

I wouldn't paint it black because it will make everything look small. You want a room with flavor, even if you are Gothic. I woulcn't make it gray either. Red would be nice. And so would green - like a bright lime green, if that is the kind you are going for. Purple-ish blue and blue would look nice too. So now we have these choices:
*red
*green
*purple-ish blue
*blue

Out of those 4 I think you should either paint your room like a lime green color (one that wouldn't hurt your eyes) or a purple-ish blue. Red and blue are the sort of colors that you see everyday and they are not "shocking". You want people to come into your room and be like "WOW!!!" and with lime green and purle-ish blue, I think they would. Hope I helped!!

After you paint your room, IM me and tell me what you did!!

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hhow do u get cool designs on ur advice column.? i dont know where u could get them. if anybody nos where i can get them please help!
thx!
xoxo
sweetheart00

You can go to http://www.thedollpalace.com/topsites and then where it says SEARCH, click on it and type in backgrounds and then just look at those sites that have them or you can go to http://carrielynnesworld.com/backgrounds.htm or http://www.geocities.com/ncg741/backgrounds.html or http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ or http://www.geocities.com/invu4ubaqt04/. Have fun!!

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