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i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do (link)
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Well you should let him think about it a little bit. I mean you guys did break up and then go out with someone else, he just has to feel like he can trust you, and that he still likes you. Im pretty sure he does still like you, but he has to realize it. Do not constantly ask him if hes made up his mind, until he does just be his friend and talk to him as if you two are just friends then he will realize that you still do care for him and that he wants to go out with you again. Thats my opinion, I hope it helps!
*Amanda*
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Thank you so much for answering my question. You are my favorite columist so far that answeed my questions. (link)
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It was my pleasure. If you have any other questions dont hesitate to ask me :)
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i am 19. i am in a 5 year relationship and we have a one year old son together. i am going to college to be a nurse. lately there have been a lot of problems between my b/f and i. well i was going to move out, until i found out that i am pregnant. now i have cancelled my new apartment and am staying here for now. i know that we will not be together forever and i do not want to raise two kids alone. i am considering abortion and have an appointment scheduled for next friday. my b/f wants the baby and is excited. everyone in our family already knows that we are expecting again. i am too young to give up my life completely. i do not know what to do. if anyone has any advice i would really appreciate it. by the way, i am 8 weeks pregnant and due on christmas. PLEASE HELP (link)
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Okay, you already have a 1 year old son, why not have your other child as well. If you do not want the baby, you and your boyfriend should talk. If he is very excited and wants it and you do not want to be with him anylonger, give custody of your children to him if he wants so you guys can live your lives. If not, their is always teh option of adoption. Please do not have an abortion, every child deserves a chance to live and to be raised by parents who love them, even if its not biologicaly. So just sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him, tell him exactly how you feel and you too will figure something out together adn that will be a decision you both made because even though you are the one giving birth to the child, you are both its parents and both have a say in what the babys fate is. He has to take responsibility as the childs father and you as the childs mother also have to take responsibility.
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Hi I am a 26 yearold lady and my husband has been beating me eversince we got married he even beats are adopded child and she is only 2 I am always trying to keep me and Shauna (my daughter) away from the house when people call for me he says im not there and hangs up and then throws the phone at me this may sound wierd about me asking a 15 year old for advice but any advice will help thank you (link)
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You need to leave the house as soon as you can. I personally would do it when he is not home so he can not try and stop you or hurt you any more. If you don't want to do it for yourself, do it for your daughter. You never know how far he is going to take his beating next time on you or your daughter. He could god forbid injure your daughter to any extent. Everytime your husband steps into the house you and your daughters life are at risk. Go somewhere safe and call the police and tell them what is going on. The safe place you go, make sure your husband can not track you down because he will come there. I hope my advice has helped you and your daughter. If you need anymore advice don't hesitate to ask.
*Good Luck...& leave ASAP.*
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my friend probably weighs like 160 pounds and she is 16 but she wears the hoochie clothes that are like 10 sizes to small for her!! everytime i say to wear clothes that fit or stop wearing hootchie clothes so says u just jealous cuz i look better, but she really really doesnt! everything i seem to say she doesnt listen, i even bought her clothes that fit but she just put them in the back of her closet and never wears them. what do i do and say??!! (link)
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In my opinion she doesn't like they way she looks and thinks that her wearing "hoochie clothes" will make people notice her and not her weight. Tell her the truth about the way she really looks, but don't say stop dressing like a hoochie or what not, tell her but say it as her friend, and make her realize that your not jealous of her and that your just trying to help her.
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ok, i need help quick, i put my clothes in the washer and then the dryer and then i went to get them out and there was a penny in there and that was all...no clothes! do you think there is some kind of clothes killer on the loose??? (link)
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Lol you sure someone didn't take them out for you?
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coke or pepsi? (link)
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Sprite! :)
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Sometimes I act like a boy bc I collect cards that like all the boys in my class have. I spend allot of time trading with this boy. Sometimes I think that he likes me. Should I keep on doing cards or act like a girl girl? (link)
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First, you shouldn't Classify your self as "Acting like a boy" Theres no way to act like a boy or a girl. I think you should keep trading you cards and colletcing them and do what ever you like doing. Like alot of people say I act like a boy because I like sports and stuff and I dont like Dancing or Cheerleading or anything but I don't let them bother me because they're my interests and not theirs. So keep doing what your doing, and keep trading with the spacific boy and you will find out if he likes you by the way he acts around you.
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wut r sum good love songs? list as many as u can think of please!!....tHaNkS...ill repay u by givin u advice!! (link)
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If I aint got you- Alicia Keys
This I swear- Nick Lachey
This I promise you- Nsync
Three Little Words- Nu Flavor
You got it bad- User
Also alot of slow songs from like Whitney Houston and Cliene Dion and stuff like that.
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I don't know what to do, my friends keep pressuring me to do things I don't want to do, and they are starting to get on my nerves. What do you think I should do? (link)
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Just tell them str8 up that you dont want to do the things they are asking you, and DONT BE SCARED!! Do not do anything you do not want to do or are not confortable with doing, you are your own person and dont let people try and change who you are.
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Ok I know this is wrong but Ive gotta ask!!!
My friend hes like a brow to me!! But my bestfriend goes out w/ him!! NOw shes being all weird and like if shes cheating! She doesnt deserve him but I really really like him like you have no clue!! He is so my type but I have the worst fear of regection! Plus I told mybest friend Id never go w/ him after they broke up. which seems like its coming soon. I cant get him out of my head and hes driving me crazy!!!!!! what do I do????
Live2luvu (link)
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First ask your friend what is going on with her and the guy, and if she tells you that she is planning on breaking up with him soon, thats when you tell her how you really feel about the guy. Tell her not to get mad or anything and that your just being completely honest with her like best friends are suppose to be. Once you do that, she will tell you what she thinks, and everything should work out to your benifit.
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