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Hey everyone! You are all awesome for reading this. I can tell you right now that I am probably the most outgoing person you could ever meet! I am really good at giving advice and I have 5's from everyone that rated me! So drop a question in my box anytime or just email me @ advicegirl28@msn.com whenever! Now a little about me!

I am 13/f and I play soccer and do drill team (dance) at school! I am very outgoing and energetic and I am a very good student. I earn my own money by babysitting and then go on a shopping spree and I can tell you right now I have fun no matter what I'm doing! EVEN HOMEWORK! I go through the problems everyone goes through with friends, school, parents, and sibblings, fashion, and decorating and everything else you can think of although I haven't had a boyfriend but I know what boys want because most of my friends are boys so if you want a boy to answer I'll just ask my friends and get right back to you. (I have a lot of friends that are girls too so any friendship problems are GREAT too)!!!

So drop a question in my box when you are panicing about any little or big problem and I will give you a fast honest answer!

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I really need a better room cleaning strategey. Does anybody have anytips on better ways to clean my room and keep it clean. everything just seems so overwhelming when it gets messy and then I just dont know where to start.
Anything would be helpful.

I had the same problem as you. My room was messy all the time. But then it all turned around. A few weeks ago I decided that I would clear my room. Literally! What you do is you take a lot of boxes or bags and gather everything out of your room and take it outside or in another room. Then you go through the boxes and only take back what you need. Then it's like starting with a clean slate (literally)! Even do it in front of the TV, or listen to music, or even invite a friend to help. That really works!
Good Luck!**

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Does anyone know the singer and the song name of this song? It's really upbeat and I couldn't tell what the words were. I heard 'absolutely' and it was sung by a girl, I know that for a fact. It's really like fast tempo and is very upbeat. We had a pep assembly and the drill team was dancing to that song. I really like it. I would appreciate any help. Thanks.

I can't help you for sure on that, soryy! But go ahead and find a girl who was on the drill team to tell you. If that doesn't work I am very sorry. I listen to a lot of songs so I couldn't pin-point one right now. Sorry again but the drill team will certainly help you!

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My old bestfriend did something unthinkable and I don't want to be her friend anymore; She did this in august and I didn't talk to her for a while and I said I don't want to fight anymore but your not my friend. But she doesn't get it. She keeps talking to me in school and stuff. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely?

I would just send her a note and say it nicely but tell her why! It is better to send her a note to argue with her. If she doesn't take it very well then you just have to say it in a way you know she will understand. I hope I helped!
Good Luck!!

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My best friend that I met last year...wellll
we arn't that close anymore. Over the summer we were always busy so we couldn't see each other. Now in school she's always hanging out with her friends... I try to get included and talk to her... but it seems like she doesnt want to be around me. I tried talking to her, but she just acts all weird and pretends theres nothing wrong. I feel like we are seperating from each other and I really dont want that to happen. I need advice!

If you and her hung out a lot last year try to remember some of her favorite activities such as shopping or bowling. Then invite her to come and if she does try to kind of act like you used to and maybe she'll realize she really missed you.

I hope I helped! GOOD LUCK!!!

-Advice-Girl-28!

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There is this girl who I like. I am planning to invite her to my holloween party on the 28th of next month but I am thinking it will be a little late. She reminds me of one of my old best friends from where I used to live. Me and this girl played together in gym class.(volleyball) And we had fun. but then there is this other kid who used to be my friend who keeps calling her a ho* and then ad a r in between the o and *. It really makes me mad. I also like these other girls who are just realizing that I live. I don't know how to choose someone. I am not ready to chooze. if it helps I am a 13/male...HELP ME!!! There is a total of about 4-5 girls who likes me and I like them!! again if it helps, I just broke up with my girlfriend so I don't know how to choose!!! sup4321

so this is what I think you should do is get to know these 4-5 girls and see whose personality you like best because girls also like guys who don't just think their hot and plus since you think all of them are hot chose which personality you like best!!! and or chose which one kind of reminds you of ur old gf if thats good or bad. I hope I helped you with your problem!

Advice: Emily Spencer and advice-girl-28!

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okay well my boyfriend and i just broke up and like i miss him soo much! and i think it may be kinda weird with us but i dont want it to be cause we were like BFFL before we went out and i miss him walking me to my bus and holding my hand and coming to my locker every day just to say hi to me and all! gosh i miss him sooooooo mcuh and i want to go back out with him but i dont know how to get him to like me again or if i just need to move on and find a new bf but he was my best ever! gosh im sooo confused i mean we were the perfect couple everyone said we looked like brother and sister almost!! arghhh i miss himmmm!!!!!!!!! please help me get him back or get over him(even thought i dont want to)! thanks for any help and sorry if i sound obbsed and took this long just for that.

Ok I have had this happen to me and my advice to you would be if you think he feels the same way about you still. Like you feel about him now then talk it over with him and realize what You have done wrong in your relationship and if You can work it out I would say give your relationship a second chance and if things don't work out and he doesn't miss you as much as you miss him and you end up fighting when you try to work it out. Then I definetly encourage you to move on and become close friends with him! the guy I went out with last year has become one of my best guy friends ever. And we hang out most of the time. I hope you take my advice and good luck with him!

Advice from: Emily Spencer with help from
advice-girl-28

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Hey,
I need to know something. Alot of people say that my friends don't like me but I talked to one of them and she said she does but I don't know because there's three friends and like 10 people who think they don't like me.
What should I do?

Well, what you should do is try to talk to one of your better friends that you know likes you and have them talk with your friends and report anything bad or good they say about you. Tell your friend to bring you up in a bad way and see if they agree. And then you know what you are doing wrong and work on that.
OR
Stay away from your friends during classes and lunch and if they come to YOU then you know they really do like you and if not then they aren't your true friends.

I HOPE I HELPED YOU!!!

Advice from: Advice-Girl-28 and Very Helpful Friend!

Thanks for your question. I can answer any others that you might have.

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I was wondering what an average babysitter charges, because I am pretty new to the whole thing and I would like the help!
THANX! : )

Well I babysit every Friday and I charge 2 dollars per kid/hour. But i am 13. if you are older you could charge 3-4 or even 5 dollars. 3 or 4 is very acceptable for a 13-15 year olds
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a-g-28

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Heii! does anyone know where i can get the hats like Emily Osment in Hannah Montana?

I have seen those hats at Pac Sun, Zumies, Macy's all those stores had/have them!

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i want a change in my life so i thought of changeing my style. Right now i wear like somewhat preppy clothes but i dont wear hollister and ambercrombie and fitch because i cant afford it because i would have to buy it with my own money and im 13. But i where the tight pants short shorts tight shirt kind of thing. and i want a new style. Maybe like vintage or classy, any ideas on looks, any websites and/or pictures. Thanx a ton.

The best advice is going for something wild and unique. Not quite too wild but something that stands out. if people at your school are punk then you can look vintage. Vintage or classy are the perfect styles to change from pretty. Gold and glamour is what people wore when they dressed classy. Like a pretty vintage fancy top with some jeans and sandals with a gold purse. that would be perfect!!!

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This isn't like a real question,its more like just seeing who agrees. I want to give out advice but it's hard giving out advice when I have my own problems. Like I can't go on any type of love, friend, family, or school topics because I'm going through the same things. Have you ever felt wanted but can't give any help because of your own problems, and then you feel even worse? Well thats how I feel... The one place where my opinion matters, I can't help.
~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~

Well i go through some of the things i give advice about and I agree, it's kinda hard, but i think that it is easier to give advice on things that you are going through b/c you understand and give them the advice you would give yourself. it works for me!!!
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a-g-28

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I'm 15 and i need at least 350$ before thanksgiving can someone tell me a fast way to make a lot of money? I really need help!

I would suggest having a clean sweep of your room and find things for a garage sale and have a big huge garage sale and you can babysit for anyone that has littler kids and maybe have a car wash with your friends! It could work if you work for it!
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a-g-28

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so, i have dark brown eyes, i was wondering what color eyeliner would look good with them? thanks

I think that dark brown or black would look good. I wouldn't go with any other color such as blue or green or purple! So I know that will look good on you. I hope you are satisfied!
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thank you
a-g-28

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Dear Advice-Girl-28,
I have red hair and freckles and I look like the picture of Linday Lohan that you have (for your display pic) and I would like to know what colors of clothes or jewelry would look good with my hair. I have wore black and it looks weird and so does pink! Please Help!!!

-colordisaster!!!

Dear colordisaster,
Blue and green would look great with your hair color. Try not to wear orange shirts or bottoms but incorporate some orange in purses, necklaces, bracelets, earrings, and shoes. You are going to look gorgeous!!!
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a-g-28

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I have this friend mandy and she is soooooo annoying. At first we were bff's until this one guy she liked noticed her. Then she came over to my house and didn't talk to me once unless she was telling me how great he was!!!! I don't know what to do or say!!!! She is mean and ignores me when I try to talk. Should I be friends with her?? I would like you to help me please. Thank you!!!!

I suggest that you just tell her that she is treating you like a doormat and if she doesn't shape up don't spend time waiting for her to. Move on and if she needs you later see how loyal she is. Don't try thinking about it and trying to even the board, forget and have fun and find some other friends that will treat you with R.E.S.E.C.T.
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a-g-28

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I love fashion but i just recently got lots of money to buy my own clothes. What kinds of colors go together in outfits??
Thanx in advance advice-girl-28

Complimentary colors look awesome 2gether such as
-blue and orange
-pink and green
-purple and yellow
Try to avoid 1 color shirt and jeans. put on some different color earings. Like Green and Orange look good together and purple and orange. pink and yellow look good and blue and pink. Try not to go with orange and yellow or orange and red or blue and purple or pink and purple. Try to get 2-3 colors away. I hope you pick some great outfits. I am not saying that you need to buy shirts with more than one color but if you are going shopping and you are wearing a plain green shirt and plain jean skirt then put on some pink earings and carry a pink purse and maybe some green and pink braclets.
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heyyy everyoneee.i am soo sorry but this might be in the wrong catagory i didnt know where else to put it., but im fourteen and a female soo.. i feel a little weird about this;; but i shop wayyyy tooo much! i know all girls claim tro be "shopohaulics" but i am the true definition of the word. you know how some peopel eat icecream or cut them selves when theyr sad?.. well when i am sad i go out and spend money. as a result i spend all the money i make at my job and the money my mom gives me. most of the things i buy are impule buys and end up never being used. its a problem.. soo im looking for advice on how to stop this aditction to shopping and any good ways to spend my time when i am sad so as to keep em from shopping lol thankyou so much for your time!. =)

hailey

I would suggest opening a bank accout. And whenever you make money go put it in your account before you spend it. Then you can save up and when you want to buy something that you would really use you actually have the money. If it worked for me it will work for you!!!
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-thank you
A-G-28

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I saw You, Me & Dupree today and it was rated PG-13. At one point in the movies, Dupree said the F word. Since when is that word allowed to be in PG-13 movies?

I was surprised when I heard that word in a PG-13 movie a year ago but it is allowed in those movies because they tell you if it has language and sexual humor and stuff like that on the rating. So it is normal that PG-13 movies allow that!
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Hi, my room is light green and white. Like the walls are light green & the trim & doors are white. Most of my furniture is white with green decorations and like everything in my room is green and white. So my question is, can I have multi-colored pillows or would it look stupid? (My comforter is light green & white stripes) because I have like ALOT of pillows but none are light green and white. oh and my bed is a daybed, so i usually put the pillows like all around it, like 20 of them and it looks good (the way they are arranged) but i dont know if i should get like 2 pillows that would match because thats all i can afford right now or use one sleeping pillow and none for decorations or what? thnx.

I think that multi-colored pillows will look fine. The only thing is you would have to incorporate the colors of the pillows in your room with flowers and a vase or a throw pillow so the pillows wouldn't look random.
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I have always wondered if you burn calories when you talk, sing or laugh. I know this is a weird question!

I know for sure that you burn calories when you laugh but I am not sure about the singing and talking. i think so because when you move you burn calories. Not many i know, but some!!
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