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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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Im wondering if my period should be coming soon. I've done some reading and I found out that I have most of the "signals" *Pubic hair, boobs are growing, growth spurt, underarm hair, discharge etc.* But its been this way for almost a month and nothing coming? Should it be coming soon? *Btw im 13*

yes, its coming soon but it might take a year or a day.. its hard to say but it should be coming soon

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Ok I have to go out to my camp tomorrow. I do like going there, but I also want to go out with my friends because I don't want my friend to hook up with this guy who I like. My other friend offered me to stay over her house tomorrow, should I? Or should I sleep out my camp?

why cant you go with your friend and the next day go to the camp, the summer only comes once a year

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Ok so I Am only 13 but could I be in love do you think you cAn truley be in love at 13? or do think it is just puppy love? I rAte 5's
~MD_GIRL101~

i think you could be in love but i highly doubt it.. its usually just a crush

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were can you buy sex toys??

a sex (adult) store or right online.. online would be easier because i think you have to be older to go in those kinds of stores

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Ok, well Im 13 female and I haven't gotten my period. But I've been discharging ALOT lately, its Kinda gross. When I wake up There will be so much discharge down there, and like if im climbin over the couch or somethin and it accidently hits "down there" I'll start discharging like crazy. Whats goin on and how long will it last?

it usually means your period is coming soon, if you want, you can buy light pads so that way it catches your discharge

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Okay... my old friend constantly had boyfriends but I know I am prettier than her...and people have told me that but I can't seem to get a boyfriend. All the guys just want to have sex but not be in a relationship with me. I am 17 and have never been in a relationship. I know I can get a boyfriend but they all want to just have sex. Is there something wrong with me?

there is nothing wrong with you, guys probably like your friends personality better, that all. just wait, the right guy will come for you

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how long does it usually take for symptoms of STDs to show up?

i found a website that might help you out:

http://www.valtrex.com/about-herpes/index.htm

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so im not the thoughest person in school, i hang out with the ghetto croud but, im not ghetto enough ... so how can i become ghetto-er and become thougher like fighting wise ! cuz im not the greatest fighter in th world just any thing hat will make me stronger in a fight !

be yourself, nobody likes posers and that sounds what your trying to be and girls dont like guys who fight all the time but if you really wanted to become 'ghetto-er' then start working out and bulid up those muscles

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I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!?

dont take him back because those temptations of his will come back too, this time he'll probably have friends with benefits and you, just not telling you

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ok so for the 4th im going to this crazy party..there will be alcohol..firewors..etc. of course we dont want any of our parents to come pick us up from this party because we will be too tipsy plus it will be too late...we are thinking of calling a taxi to take us home..my dad works the nightshift so he wont be home and my mom almost always falls asleep early..do you think if we had the taxi drop me off at the bottom of the hill from where i live ( a country road) and turn its headlights off so nobody will be awaken by me..think it wwill work out? if my mom is laying in bed and is awake by chance..and she asks why im home so late i can just say because my friends family were out at this 4th of july fireworks display 45 minutes away and thats why im late (1 am im thnkin of being home)

tips on staying calm when tipsy?
tips on not drinking too much? i just wanna get a lil buzzed
if you dont like my plan what is yours?

not a good idea, how do you know that when your 'tipsy' that you are going to be able to call a taxi. then if you do, are you going to remember to tell the taxi to drop you off and the end of the hill and turn the lights off? and then what if he doesnt want to turn his lights off? i would suggest maybe sleeping at the party (if its someones house) or sleeping at a friends house.

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Does anyone have any suggestions on how I should co-ordinate my dresser? It has a mirror, and three medium size drawers [in a column]. I have a lot of products and make up and stuff, yet I also have a lot of clutter and hats and jewelry I dont need. I dont really know how to organise my stuff, and I'm just wondering how everyone else does it for some inspiration. The three drawers could be used for more useful things yet they are filled with junk. I dont know what to put on the dresser, and what to put in the drawers. Also, would it be a good idea to buy a shelf of some sorts?

Thanks.

you should first empty EVERYTHING outof your dresser and go through it to see what you want and dont want. for your first drawer, you could by a divider to seperate your make-up and hair stuff and jewerly or buy some containers to put the stuff in. in the second drawer you could put any clothes in, in any order. in the third drawer you could put your pants with hats and belts on the side, if theres room.

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Okay, I know this might sound weird, but has anyone done the yuko system on their hair, or knows about the actual results? Its a herbal hair straightning thing that is very expensive but is said to leave your hair permanently straight, without burning it. So no, its not like relaxing your hair. My hair is curly, like cork-screw curls, not waves. But its really soft.

i found a few websites that might answer your questions. i just looked the up on google

http://www.beauty-channel.com/yuko/

http://www.yukosystem.com/

http://www.rochesalon.com/newsite/yuko_nb.htm

http://www.connectionsforhair.com/yuko/yuko.html

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well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me....

why are you so scared to tell her? its nothing to be ashamed of and thousands of girls wear them. just sit her down and say "Mom i lied to you the other day, that thong you found was mine and iv been wearing them for about a year now." not only will your mom appreciate your honesty but she'll be happy that you could open up to her

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i havent got my period yet and i want to try on a tampon to c wat it feels like and my friend said u can like get a disease or sumthing??
so i was wundering cen i try on a tampon??

if you really wanted to you could try it. your friend was talking about TSS (toxic shock syndrome) but you can only get that from wearing a tampon ALL the time so dont worry, go try it out.

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Well, which one would you choose?

Option 1 - University: All I have to do there is study art, math, physics and english. It's a 4 year program, and once i get the diploma i can get one hell of a job. The thing is that i don't know anyone there, I'm only 16 and i don't think i'm that good at art and design. But I love art and i've been in love with it since forever.

Option 2 - School: I get to do the IB program, which I've been waiting to do since forever. I get to do IB music, IB higher maths and IB higher french, and a bunch of standard subjects. I know everyone in my class, but i won't have my best friend there with me. I get to study my fave subjects, and since I'm planning on becoming a guitarist one day, IB music sounds like heaven to me. The only thing I'm afraid of is that I'll be lonely.

I'm already accepted at the uni and I'm only 16. But I'd LOVE to do higher music. (My plan is to transfer to the states and do music as my major after art).

I'm kinda stuck here. Please help?

Thanks loads.

Troubled Artist

no matter where to go to a university you wont know anybody, thats how you make friends. but to answer your question, it sounds like you already made your decision.. go to schoolfirst and after you can go to the university.

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You no in aim profiles the little quotes from songs, i cna never pick the right one! can someone give mye a littlew quote from one of theses songs


Bobby Valentino- Tell me
Grind with me- pretty ricky
loose control- missy elliot
cater2you- destinys child
or nay songs like that thnaks cna oyu name the osng wit hit


thanks

you could do:

Babie grind with me
Relax y0ur mind take yOur time with me
ii l0ve yOu deeper if y0u ride for me
Now come and kiss me till yo body gets weak

the others i dont really think are fit for profiles. if you want other lyrics jsut do your favorite songs


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Ok so tommorw im goign to the cape for a week. Can someone give a lis on what to pack its gonan be 80's al week
and ill be swimming in our pool or beach everyday thnaks

i will tell you EVERYTHING
shirts
shorts
at least one pair of pants (just in case)
sweatshirt
make-up
jewerly
bathingsuits
flip flops
sneakers
pocketbook
money
brush
deorderant
pajamas
cd player
cds
a few snacks
sunglasses
suntan loation
camera
diary/journal
slippers
bras (if your a girl)
underwear
skirts
capris
socks
straightener
hair stuff

have fun!

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No matter what I do there always seems to be ants in my room and My room is always clean I never bring food inside my room either. what should I do there driving me crazy!Please Help
Signed, I don't want to be their manager!

you should buy ant traps and place them in your room. also try to find the source of the ants, where are they coming from? if you can block off their enterence they cant come in anymore! you can also buy spray so if you see them, you can kill them on the spot.. good luck

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a few days ago my best friend(a girl)asked if i wanted to go to the movies.i said sure and i decided to invite my boyfriend to come along too.he has done things with us before but never said what he said to me.he told me he didnt want to go because he didnt like my friend and he never has he was just too afraid to tell me.now i am really upset because my best friend is upset. we cant do things together nemore. i am really close to both of them and now i cant even talk about them near each other because i know they dnt like it even if they dont say nething.what should i do?

how did your best friend find out? did you tell her because if you did then you've had to known that she would get upset.i think it might be for the best anyway at least your boyfriend thought you could handle the truth and told you and now you can have one on one girl time with your best friend, besides im sure she must've gotten tired of you two being together and just her, like a third wheel or annoyed that your not paying as much attention to her as you used to

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ya i no this is completly stupid but i gotta no. How do you make a heart like on your profile or on a question? do you have to press a certain button or what?




even tho this is a dumb question ill rate high

just do & hearts ; without the spaces

♥ see?

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