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ok so i cut, so obviously im depressed. i cant decide if i should go to a psychologist and have them give me anti-depressants, or if i should just go to our family doctor and get some from him. what do you think? i dont want my parents in the same room as me if i went to the doctor, so how would i do that? id feel bad if i said i dont want my parents to come in, but is that what im supposed to do? is the doctor going to ask me questions? and would i have to show him my cuts? their really teeny and a little red, so they really arent that noticable, but would he still give me anti-depressants? im not wanting anti-depressants just for my cutting, i am depressed so i have other problems other than cutting. thank youuuu (link)
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Go to a psychiatrist if you think the meds will help you. They can give you meds, and probably refer you to a good therapist.
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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?! (link)
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Nothing. I used to do that for fun. It is simply an Urban Legend. ^^
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WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do
PLEASE HELP!!
~Princess Ava~ (link)
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Wait. If it was a one-time, never-happen-again incident, then it will blow over, and you won't have any doubts going into the engagement. If it is a trend, you'll have time to see that, and avoid it.
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ok...so i've been wanting to get this puppy for SOO LONG! i'm fed up with my mom saying no and yelling at me for it. How are some ways i could get my mom to let me get this dog? I know how to take care of it because i take better care of my cousins dog than he does...but my mom doesnt let me do anything. i do everything for her. i take care of my cat, sister, i clean the house. i let her go out on weekends with her boyfriend while i have to stay home and watch my sister. i compromise with her. i do everything for her and she cant even let me get this dog! how could i get her to get it? (link)
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Talk to your mom about it. Do some research into breeds, and find one that would be the least hassle. Try petsitting for a while, so your mom can see you can handle a pet. Or volunteer at a shelter, so that you can spend time with dogs, and again, show your mom that you care and are responsible.
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Does anyone know where I can find some good writing classes? (link)
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It depends on what you want to write.
My reccommendation is to find a website where you can post your works, then ask for some constructive criticism from other authors there.
Or, if you like that kinda thing, practice writing by roleplaying online. Makes you think on your feet. ^^
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ok so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend its not like i need one but all of my friends have had atleast one everyone tells me that i dont make it odvious enough so how do i make it odvious in a way that doesnt seem needy or pathetic i also want some advice on how to flirt not just generic stuff but really in depth please help!!!
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At fourteen, why worry about a boyfriend? I'm 17, and boyfriend-less. Look at it this way: when the right guy comes along, you'll be free! ^^
How to get guys to like you? Be yourself. Also, take interest in "guy things" If you like sports, or videogames, etc., talk about it with them! Common intrests lead to friendships, which lead to relationships that won't screw you over.
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well, my cousin was just diagnosed with cancer, and he is 16. my mom said he will only live til his 20's and im not taking it very well. =\ anyone have any ideas on how i can take it better?? please !!!
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Learn everything you can about his cancer. Information can help to slow or cure the cancer.
And think of it this way: you will be able to spend time with him. It isn't sudden. That can be sad, yes, but you can make use of every second left.
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okm my best friend is mad at me because im goin out wth this guy that i really like alot and she thinks im making a big mistake.
should i break up with him or will she gradually begin to stand by with me and my decision (link)
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You may be "blinded by love" and your friend can give you an objective perspective. Ask why they disapprove. Keep their advice in mind.
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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false? (link)
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It can be bad for you, if you overdo it.
If you are tired of water, drink fruit juices. Minutwe Maid now had diet juices that are quite good. Also, try flavored water. Things like tea are also good.
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Hi.
I have acne and whenever I wash my face, it feels tight and starts to get dry and sometimes flakey. What's this mean? Also if it helps I just started using this face wash. (link)
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Try a milder, less drying face wash.
Also, try an oil-free moisturizer.
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