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E-mail: sweetscorpio2006@yahoo.com
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Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!

I'd try a really dirty blonde color, or a light brown... depending on you coloring, you could even go for auburn, which is always so pretty... and always reminds me of the falling leaves. or! you could go with a brownish color and add in some nice streaks varying from copper to more red... that could be so pretty!

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I'm 15, female, and I've been BEST friends with about 11 people for a long time now. Last year we were together all through our first year of high school...and now there are so many things splitting us up. First...one of my guy friends, "M", has liked my best friend for two years now...aparently he didn't know that last year she was crazy for him...and now i was the one who told him she was...which makes him mad at everyone and jealous of my best friend because he thinks the reason she smokes pot and drinks is because of who she's dating and the older kids she hung out with over the summer. Another friend of mine has liked "M" for two years now and he's known it but doesn't like her. I kinda got her to like another guy who liked her back, and they were so cool for each other...but now she told him she didn't like him and didn't want to go out with him, and she told him in a way that really hurt bc she's never done anything like that b4...now their both miserable and the reason she said she didn't like him was because she liked "M" still even though she thought she was over him and didn't like him. Now she's crazy for M, M is crazy for my best friend, my best friend is dating an older guy who has no problem with her smoking and drinking, and I'm caught in the middle of all this! And now, my other friends think they can tell my best friend to stop smoking and drinking or not be a part of their lives...they are going to make this so miserable for them...my best friend is too proud to admit she was wrong and stop doing shit she shouldnt...I'm sorry this was so long, but I need to know if there is anything I can do to help them work this out or help them in any way, because what I've tried b4 isnt working at the moment...plz help me

sweetie, it's for the best that they encourage her to quit her destructive habits. maybe she wasn't responding to slow nudges in the right direction and all she really needed was a kick in the rear. let the drama aspect work itself out, it usually does.

i wish you the best of luck... take a breather once in a while chica, let me know how it all goes

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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?

generally helps if she likes you to begin with. but if she doesn't, do something sweet and try to win her over. most girls would prolly like it more if you noticed them for their minds, not their boobs or their butts by the way. so find a way to connect with her. make her feel special, but don't base all of it on how she looks. show her you can be compassionate, etc.

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this boy i like ..-tom- well we just broke up..and he got over me really fast..but i think he did becasue my so called frined told him that she liked him..but the thing is that me an tom were still goiN OUT...and then that night we got into a fight so i dumped him becasue he was bein gay about it ..but now he likes tha other gurl..an the thing is i wanna know how he could get oveer me soo fast..plz help..

ah... simple: ask.

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Hi! I am 5'3 (I think) and I weigh 127 (Or a little lower) ( My scale is messed up). Anyway, My friends say I'm not fat and stuff, but I do have a flubby tummy! I tried everything, from dieting (didn't last a day!),excersing (could'nt do it daily), and so nothing worked for me! I would love to have a flat tummy before Christmas because my mom always talks about how my stomach is so flabby and things like that and I would like to show her that I can do it! I have'nt had a flat tummy in 5 years! Can anyone one tell me any ways to get my tummy flat! Thanks so much! I rate high!

Tell your mom that you're not fat, and that she has no right making you feel horrible over nothing.

However, if you'd like to achieve a flat stomach for yourself and your own self esteem, go for it. But it's not going to work without diet and exercise. Sit ups and crunches my dear, with a reduced fat intake to boot.... gl

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Is it considered cutting if u only scratch to where u have scars? I went to a website and it said it is considered cutting.

yes. please get help, it's a serious risk. don't let it turn into more, so stop asap.

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ok my boyfriend will leave me messages and at the end of them hell tell me he loves me...and then when i call him back or watever or in person he wont say it....like i wrote i love u on his hand one day cuz we wer messin around and he just smiled....im so confused why wont he say it to me in person or on the fone but hell say it in messages?

you wrote it on his hand... but did you ever say you loved him first? maybe he's nervous.

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my boyfriend of one year has told me that he wants to take a "break" from me and he wants space. I didnt have a problem with it at first until he started to be mean to me and not wanting me to call him. He says we used to argue alot and he feels if we take a "break" it will make our relationship better when we get back 2 gether. i love him and miss him and i dont understand why he's being soo mean and why he expects me to act as if i dont care

HELP ME PLEASE

darlin', i think he's broken up with you... he just doesn't know how to let it be final and all. so he took the coward's way out. which, honey, means you can do so much better. i think it's time you play a little hard to get.

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