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i am goin out wit this boy, but like we never really talk to each other, and i dont want him to like dump me, but like i think we are both scared to talk to each other because we both like each other, or whatever. i want to talk to him alot but i dont know how to. i need to know how to talk to him without gettin all scared and stuff?? gracias, you know who this is and you know who my boyfriend is!!

lol..nice title young love!! hehe anyways yea, your probably right...you are both really scared and who would want to break up such a CUTE couple...so i pulled together some convo starters. (shh dont tell i got them from a AG book!!)

-Talk about activities : "How did your team do last night?"

- Make a joke: "Ok no more jello in science project, my cellmodel looks like it escaped from a horror movie" *Wtf? i know*

-Talk about a movie or Tv show

-Ask for the homework

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ok this is WITHOUT the book. those arent very good but w/e. the bottom line is just flirt with him and try to talk to him. the convo should come out naturally. if he doesnt seem like he wants to talk hes probably really nervous cuz i know he really likes you.

also, what you could do is see a movie. you dont have to talk that much during the movie but after there will be tons of conversation (and maybe some kissing during?!) ! if you dont want to go alone then go with friends maybe hes more confy with that. but yea, it just seems like you both have a case of the nerves so just relax. hope i helped

-thinkpink♥

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1 of my friends who im liek bestfreinds with is getting annoyed with me... and i dont know y?! i thought everything was good but its not! i mean like im getting a little annoyed with her 2... im just not gonna talk 2 her 4 liek a couple of days and ingore her.. it makes me feel better and also i want to
SHOUDL I?

before you decide whether or not to ignore her...ask her whats wrong. if she tells you your in good luck and you can TRY to work on it. If she says "nothing" which I HATE!!! then tell her it seems like something has been bothering her and you think it might be you. if she doesnt tell you after that then go to plan b. you tried all that you could...u saw if anything was wrong and she said no. so just try to be nice...and you dont have to ignore her. just wait till she says hi instead of saying it first. if she is mad she might get annoyed and what not. bottom line : be nice. If she is still acting annoyed then its HER problem, not yours.

hope i helped,
love,
-thinkpink♥

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This girl at my school always invites me to her b-day parties and anytime parties and i dont even like her! she thinks everyone loves her but they really dont..especially me. this time around i'm having a party and i really dont want to invite her. so what, right? but heres the catch: my MOM is making me invite her! should i? and if i do how should i act? HELP BRIANNA!!!

O what a sticky situation. well bad news...your gonna have to invite her but the good news is you wont have to spend 24/7 with her!! sure, she is coming to your party...but that doesnt mean you have to talk to her only. dont be rude, treat her like all the other guests, but you dont have to make convo that much. if she wants to know later why you werent talking with her that much, tell her you had other guests. i mean this way, she comes to your party and has a good time and you dont have to talk to her the whole time. just remember, be nice and smile...so what if its fake? just dont hurt her feeligs by leaving her out! hope i helped!!

-thinkpink♥

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Hi there is this boy who loves me very much and i used to like and now i do not like him anymore so how do i tell him i want to brake up with out hurting his feeling and his Cusin getting not agree with me becuase we r or were best friend but what say to himi can only Emial because he lives in north carolia so please help me brianna it it is one off ur bff in 5th grade not 6th not 7th not 8 th or any other friends

ok, thanks for telling me on IM also...now i know who it is but to break up with the guy ..make sure you do it sweetly cuz it might hurt his feelings. Dont go for the classic "Its not you its me" because he'll think your either joking...or being mean or something just say, i really liked you but i dont like you as much anymore. can we just be friends for now? he should understand!!! if he doesnt then ask me another question, love!!

xoxox
-thinkpink♥

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ok so heres rge thing... at the end of the year my school has a pool party.. i know i dont look that great in a bathing suit... but i now no i dont look bad... like with my legs and stomach.... ok but heres the thing.. all my friends r wearign bikini and 1 of my really great friends whos all sporty is getting 1... ok so im not skinny but not fat... but i have really big boobs.. and the problem with a bikini is that my boobs look like they r huge and i dont no i dont feel comfortable... but i want a bikin n e ways... but i have never had 1 so how do i say 2 my mom- 'i want a bikni' she might like say no but i dont know...

sorry this is sorta werid...

o ok, well i kinda said a lot of stuff about bikinis (you can look in some of my old questions) but all i can say is wear what feels right. if you want to wear a bikini, then Wear one, girl!! if you think your mom will say no, then tell her you would really like one. Tell her you dont want it so the guys will be looking at you , but because you want to wear one. she'll probably understand. so yea, just do that, and read my old advice cuz like 2 people asked me the same question. hope i helped!!!

xoxo,
-thinkpink♥

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ok so i didnt mean 2 but..... when i started 2 shave my legs i shaved my arms too!! ok so now i know it was dumb and your not spposued 2!! btu then i didnt!! ok so if the hair keeps on growing back how should i stop?!?! i mean i dont wanna stop cuz then it will look liek i did shave but stopped.... and every1 always ask me if i sahve my arms and i say "no i just dotn have any arm hair' you dont know me but what im asking is.... to stop shaving or keep on?

also how to you shave your legs withotu missing spots??

sorry but you dont know me!! i just thought you gave great advice!!

o thanks about the giving good advice thing!! but anyways, if you stop shaving then it will make you look even hairier than before so hm... but if you keep shaving people will think you have been shaving. so really i think its up to you...personally i would keep shaving and stick with the story about not having a lot of arm hair. and um, about shaving without missing spots, its kinda hard, just make sure your legs are on the shower ledge or something elevated and take your time and try to go in the line from your ankle to your shins or wherever you stop. just take your time and try to not miss a spot..if you put shaving cream on it then you should know because if the cream is gone then mostly likely you got the spot. also, make sure your blade is sharp becuase maybe your missing spots because it is not cutting the hair well enough.

hope i helped ya!! love,
-thinkpink♥

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Hi there my name is Karen and I got a very big crush on this guy!!!! But I want to know if he really likes me or not? But I'm to sacared that he will say no & I'm just gonna end up sad. But if I tell him & it looks obvious that I'm asking him & that my friends are gonna make fun of me. But then I really want to know before school is over because that will be all I'll be thinking about this whole summer & I just want to have fun this whole summer.SO I'm not really sure if I should ask thats why I came here.But if I should ask him how will I ask him. Because this guy is kinda shy.

Hi Karen! I totally understand the whole wanted to know...cuz then the WHOLE summer will be ruined. anyway, i think that you should tell the guy you like him. all you need to do is walk up to him or ask or if youre too shy to do that then write an IM to him. Say "hey (whatever his name is) i kinda like you..do you like me?" if he says yes then yay! if he doesnt answer or seem kinda uneasy about it then dont worry! hes shy so maybe he is uncomfortable with answering. if he says no then o well. u had to find out sometime...instead of not doing anything and crushing on him forever. that way the situation can brush by you in the summer and u will probably meet some other cuties so it wont matter. sorry i am kinda getting off topic, but the bottom line is just ask...the worst he could say is no. hope i helped, karen!! love ya

-thinkpink♥

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ok.... so theres this guy and hes going out with this girl

ok.... is there more to the story? ask me if there is
-thinkpink♥

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How do you get a dog?
please help?

To get a dog, you ask your parents first. If they say yes, then your job is done, but most likely they will say no. Just show them you are really responsible by helping out with other neighbors pets, by doing extra chores, and just bieng good. I dont really know what your guidelines are for getting a dog in your family but feel free to ask me another question with more detail! love ya!
-thinkpink♥

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please help me! im a 13 girl and i REALLY like this guy and he likes me. whats the deal, right? well he hasnt asked me out yet, and i finally got the guts to ask him out, and he said yes! i need help on where to go, what to wear, and how to act! help!

good job! well anyways about wat to where: anything that makes you comfortable. Dont try to over-do it or it WONT look cute. How to act: Be yourself. Thats why he likes you isnt it? Just be yourself and dont worry bout a thing! Where to go: What do you mean, on a date? Hope i helped ya so far. If that is what you mean, feel free to ask me another question! good luck with it all and have fun!
-thinkpink♥

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what are the babysitting costs? what should i charge? thank you..

You should charge $5 per hour. You get enough and parents dont think its that much. But if you want extra moolah, tell the parents that you can charge $5 for weekdays and $7 for weekends because most parents go out on weekends.

hope i helped. love,
-thinkpink♥

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Hey, well the thing is, I really really like this girl and we went out for 2 weeks but 3 days ago she dumped me. When we were going out it was kinda boring but i didn't want it to end so fast. I think she shouldve given it more time. We were great friends before we went out and now were still friends but it isnt the same. Should i just act like it was before, or somehow let her know that I still like her alot?

That sucks. Just try to flirt with her or tell her that you still really like her and maybe she'll catch on. Maybe she liked you too and felt the same way as you...like it was really boring. Just keep on being nice, and she'll see you still like her as friend and maybe more. It kinda sucks that you were such good friends before and now its ruined. All i can say is just be nice and hope for the best.

hope i helped ya
love,
-thinkpink♥

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I'm going to a movie with my best friend, her boyfriend, and his friend who I like tomorrow. The boy I like and I are good friends but I want to know if there are any hints I can give him tomorrow at the movies, maybe to lead him on. People say he likes me and he's been giving hints but how should I act tomorrow. Any tips?

Try to sit next to him. Also, what you can do is act like you dont have any $$ for popcorn and a drink or whatever and ask to share. that way you can maybe reach into the popcorn at the same time and it will be all movie-ish. not that looks are everything but dress comfy and cute. when you look good you feel good, and when you feel good the natural beauty of you will float out and he'll totally be attracted. Just relax, flirt, and enjoy the movie!! hope i helped, -thinkpink♥

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I really like this boy, that people would make fun of me for liking. ANd i told him one day i liked him but he wont believe me cuase he thinks no one will ever like him.So how can i make him believe that i like him?...... -the one in love!I am 13 and i am in middle school.

Just try to talk to him. Tell him that you really like him and your not kidding and you realy would like to go out with him. (well if you want to). i mean, its kinda sad that he believes this, but just dont worry so much that people make fun of you for liking him. You cant hide your feelings. uhhhhhhhhhhh lol that was really bad advice cuz i really dont know what to say. sorry, i hope i helped you alittle bit ♥-thinkpink

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ok, so like the other person... my school is having a pool party at the end of the year. i am not completely uncomfortable with myself but im still not very comfortable. i realyl dont want to wear a one peice though because that just looks stupid. i also just dont want to wear a bikini... please help!

so many bathing suit questions...lol! but anyways, dont feel bad if your not comfy with yourself almost every girl and guy for that matter at this age isnt 100% happy with their body or totally comforable. if you dont want to wear a 1-piece...thats fine..and if you dont wanna wear a bikini then whats left? i guess you could wear a tankini. it has the bottoms of a bikini (and like i said before you can wear a skirt overit or board shorts) and it has kind of like an undershirt top instead of a bra-like thingy. I dont know what you wanna wear, but just relax...i bet you wont be the only one feeling totally uncomfortable. and plus, if you really dont want to go through with it, just dont go..maybe you wont be the only one... ♥ good luck with everything...thinkpink ♥

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14/m
what are ways that i can pull my girlfriend aside from all our friends and get our first kiss? like what are ideas that i can do? what are things that i can bring up the romantic event once i pull her aside?
Background: she has been getting annoyed with me for absolutly no apparent reason, sometimes just because im around-we go to the same school, and are in the same classes, and hang around the same group of friends. sometimes i get the impression that she gets annoyed whenever i pull her aside for a while just to cuddle with her, or talk by ourselves, its like she thinks i am hogging her from everyone, when really its just some of our friends are so obsessive with her (they are almost all girls, we have like 2 or 3 other guy friends) and they (a few girls) like obessess with her and shit. so how can i pull her aside without her thinking im trying to hog her to myself?? thanks for the help!

Drama! Well, anyways you can take her aside and ask her to come over after school or something. Maybe you could watch a movie and just hang out. Also, about the annoying friends and her being mad, this might be hard but try to seem less "obsessive" i know you might really like her but you can also hang out with your friends. When you are going out with someone you dont only have to be with that person 24/7. Maybe she feels the same way and just wants to spend time with her girlfriends. Hope i helped ya ♥ thinkpink ♥

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My school is having a pool party at the end of the year and I don't look very good in a baithing suit and like all my other friends do. i'm afraid that the boys will make fun of me. what should i do?

hmm..thats a toughie. If you really arent comfy with your body then dont go for a 2-piece like everyone else, but if you arent comfortable you shouldnt put more stuff out there to show to the world. Just cover up...but not too much! Enough so you feel comfortable but not too much so its more like an ensemble than a bathing suit. Just pick a bathing suit that YOU think you look good in and dont worry about it. People Might talk, but it doesnt matter if you think you look good. Your friends will back you up, and know that of course you look good. The pool party should be fun, and plus, you'll be in the water half the time so people wouldnt be focusing THAT much on you! Well, ya, thats all i can say. have fun at your pool party! ♥ thinkpink ♥

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My family is planning a trip to California in the Summer for my Uncle's b-day. I am still scared of going on a plane even though 9/11 happened a long time ago. What should i do?

Alot of other people have the same problem--including me. Really, there is nothing you can control its all in god's hands. What helps me is to pray (i dont know if your religious or anything) and to just picture good things. There is a small chance 9/11 would happen to your plane but you never know, so just be safe and dont worry! good luck! ♥ thinkpink ♥

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so I've never been kissed but pretty soon its gonna happen and well, will he know? I dont wanan tell him just because its kinda embarassing. But can he tell? !! thanks.

he wont know unless you tell him, so just pucker up and relax!! ♥ thinkpink*

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ok so im taking this class this year and the teacher whos so FRICKING me 2 me thinks im like retarded!! I HATE HER SO MUCH!! and next year im gonn ahave her 2!!!! I MEAN AHH!!! im telling my mom this and were telling the office ppl 2 like change my classes BUT NO!!!omg what if i have her next year what should i do!?!!!

HELP ME

tell your mom exactly why you hate the teacher...maybe she'll understand. if she doesnt, which parents almost never do, then try to deal with the teacher. try to avoid them and sit in the back of class. maybe it wont be as bad. i mean, teachers are teachers...that'll never change! hope i helped some ♥ thinkpink*

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