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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.

Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.

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I feel that me and her are made for each other, but she doesn't feel the same. What can i do to change that? I really, really love her, mind you and i don't want to lose her.

you cant play with love and make , force someone to see your perfect for eachother.If she dosnt feel the same way, that is it, you cant change anything,it hurts but you cant.

You know that saying "if you love someone, let them go" i think thats what you need to do.
I know you love her but she obviously feels different, let her go,.You guys can still be friends cant you??
It will take a while for you to get over it, but it's best, you want her to be happy?Then let her go, let her find the person who she feels better with.

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what's the song that goes "i don't wanna work, i just want to bang on me drum all day" ?

tod rundgren - bang the drum all day

lyrics
http://www.asklyrics.com/display/Todd_Rundgren/Bang_The_Drum_All_Day_Lyrics/183630.htm

video

http://youtube.com/watch?v=ZclddLcOYYA

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AgMp8JZYEjg
like what do the lyrics mean?

plus i have a talent show and im gonna sing it. i spent weeks deciding on a song and this was one of my first choices that i thought i wouldnt do.. but i like singing this. so uh.. im wondering what i should wear. something black? lol like describe detailled-ly. or i'll just get a dress at like mandees or somethin. also how should i wear up my hair and etc too.

THANKS I LOVE YOU!

i think it means that nobody understands her and she wants a different scene in life, and she is leaving someone reffered as black bird, to go find a new experience and lover


Here are the lyrics to see my point
http://www.brave.com/bo/lyrics/byebyebb.htm

I think you should wear either a black or red sparkly-sequeinny dress with poofy hair/curly hair with a nice bit deleciate jewellery and a hairpiece...with smoky eyes - go wow em.

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i have this talent show coming up and im like an alto.. well i can sing a little higher than that, too. um i have no idea what song to sing! i have to make a video of myself singing for the auditions, which im going to make tomorrow, and i still need to pick a song! please do not say "fallin" by alicia keys. anyways, other songs i've considered have been:

bang bang - nancy sinatra (i want a more lively song)
band of gold - freda payne (i like this one, but i dunno if i should sing that)
heaven - los lonely boys (some parts are too low for my liking)
downtown - petula clark (a little too high sometimes, but i can sing it.. idk if i should do this, either)
fly like a bird - mariah carey (too high sometimes!)
deja vu - beyonce (i can sing this.. but i dont like how i sing it. its high but somehow i can get the notes. like a diff kind of high. also its too long.)
smile - charlie chaplin (too short and too high sometimes)

as you see, i really want it to show off my voice too, not be too long or too short, blah blah blah.

thanks for the advice! lol mainly im looking for songs i should pick! ♥

fly like a bird is way to hard for a lot of people
but

against all odds - phil collins/mariah carey + westlife

put your records on - corrine baily ray

unwritten - natasha beddingfield

I wanna dance with somebody - whitney huston

Unbreak my heart - toni braxton

beautiful - christina aguleria


Hope I helped


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well i know its possible.
but i dont exactly know what schools
give scholarships for dance.
either as a major or as a specialty school.
either one.
im just curious.
THANK YOU.

well i dont know if you live in the uk
but

stagecoach
sylvia young school
and pineapple dance studios do..

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So theres a mixed dance and im in charge of choosing the song!
great..one thing? i have no idea which song to choose.
It needs to show boys and girls..doing what they do best: flirting.
It has to e either a male voice or a duet, not a female voice. dnt ask why. :D
p.s its for dancing too..so make sure it's beaty? :D

I think you should go with

-wait a minite by pussycat dollz

or something like

give it up to me - keisha cole and sean paul
baby boy - beyonce and sean paul

it fast beated and i think they'd be really good

a move i think would be really good
its hard to explain

but

the boy stands behind the girl
he puts his hand on her head - looking like he's pulling it, then he moves her head so it goes round in a full circle and then after the head, she moves her bum in circle...i dont know if you understand but its really gd.

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post them here por favor.

ride on time - black box
rythm is a dancer - snap

they're 90s stuff I dont know if its electronic but im 98% it is

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Hey, I am a 13 year old girl. I live right next door to one of my best friends Amanda, (or who used to be). Last summer a girl named leah are same age moved in 2 houses down. Do not get me wrong, leah is one of my close friends but she is starting to get annoying. Whenever I try and hangout with Amanda alone, leah always sees us and comes over and know I think Amanda is starting to like leah more than me. what should i do?

Talk to Amanda, even if its on the phone and tell her exactly what your feeling.Leah just wants to be your friend and I guess she feels inscure because she knows you guys are friends and the reason why you think *manda likes her better is because your being all uptight about this and its all up in your face and you dont seem to relise that all of your fine and you have a good friendship.Have a sleepover wtih all of you there, that ought to clear up the air, even arrange to got out with amanda on her own..just make sure to tell amanda what your feeling, shes a good friend and she'll understand

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Hi.
http://i14.tinypic.com/4bfso4k.jpg
So here's one of the most recent pictures of myself I've got.
I've just gotten to feel fat anymore. =)
I'm about 4'9' and about 110 lbs. I'd asked a question earlier, and got a few responses saying I should lose some weight, so I was wondering how people thought of this visually. I've really gained alot of weight lately, and I'd like to get back to 90 lbs, maybe even eighty?
I don't want to be super skinny, just skinnier than I am now.
The problem I've got is my stomach. I seriously look pregnant or something in all my shirts, anymore, if I'm not wearing a jacket, and it makes me feel really unconfident.


So.. help? lol.


to me you look great, no fat whats so ever
but if its making you unhappy I'll tell you what to do , because im on a diet to

When you wake up, have cereal an hour later, then have lunch a couple of hours later your lunch should be a normal sanhwich and a snack like a peirce of fruit or chocoalte then have your dinner before 8, but have something after like a piece of fruit.

It helping me, because im not snacking on loads of stuff - it really makes a difference if you juist have your three meals and some fruit, make sure you dont deprive yourself of crips/junk food otherwise you'll eat loads in one go and feel terrible after woulds, go for a jog and drink plenty of water.

good luck xx

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So I was on someone's xanga and I found all of these song lyrics/quotes and I've already searched google for most of them, and nothing helpful came up. So, I was wondering if any of you know?

she strikes a pose && she dies inside
nobody knows shes such a beautiful suicide

We scream our insecurities, but mutter our apologies. And that's why this world will always be so wrong.

When you feel like giving up, Just remember why you held on for so long

she was much too pretty and much too depressed. he saw the beauty and overlooked the mess

"I'm not cold," she says,
But she's shakin
As she's lying next to me naked.
Pulled the hair back from her face To let that smile heat this place.

It was cold.
Your hands were shaking,
& I stepped in front of you
just to wrap my arms around you
as I said, "Lets pretend winter isnt here."
As you buried your head in my shoulder, you said,
"Lets pretend the snow is the only thing falling fast."

Tear me off a piece of blanket. Keep me warm and
we can make it. Here's my heart I'll let you break it.
Touched your skin and I can't take it

do you ever just wish you could hear the sirens of the ambulance
wake up in the emergency room
and hear the doctors say she isn`t going to make it
just so you could find out who really care's about you

your lips, they pout and twist
and i die trying just to keep myself from kissing you

i wanted to tell her how beautiful she was
but i just stared
i sat behind the wheel and watched the raindrops
and i know i dont deserve this
the capacity to feel

Think of me as you undo her dress.
I hope you hear my voice as you kiss her neck.
& as lust is screaming for release,
I hope to God you're remembering me.

and her heart is still on the floor in pieces
and all she feels is pain
&& she doesnt know why, but she still loves life
she loves living and laughing and flirting and smiling
and crying because sometimes it even feels good to feel pain,
because at least you're feeling something
she loves her friends and defending them in tough times
and loves fighting with her enemies
just everything about living
and she’ll never know why

&& her heart is screaming
GiRL JUST GiVE iT UP
but she promises herself
that she wont

&& she thinks
no one will care
about her, as long
as the only thing
shes bleeding is
mascara...

yeah.
they talk about her.
she smiles like shes so tough
she says inside
"hey can you talk a little louder?
i dont think my heart is broken enough."

&& the worst thing about being lied to is knowing you're not worth the truth

we're such a beautiful disaster
but the scene is breathtaking

there`s a song blaring in her
headphones, it reminds her
of a boy who used to care

So she painted on a smile, and learned how to pretend

i like dead end signs
i think they're kind,
they at least have the
decency to let you know
you're going nowhere

Lonely boy died today.
Hanging from a rope.
Pretty girl died today.
Overdose on dope.
Jock boy died today.
murder for a trend.
Tragic girl died today.
because of lack of friends

They say
"Guns don't kill people, people kill people."
Well i think the guns certainly help.
If you stood there and yelled, "BANG!",
I don't think you'd kill too many people...

Her eyes like shadows
dark and grey
Her lips like razors
without words to say
Her hands are cold
Not lively, nor warm
The heart she once had
now broken and torn

pretty little girl with long dark hair;
no one knows her secrets,
No one seems to care.

i want you to remember the feel of my hair .
and remember the scent of my perfume I always wear.
remember my laugh and how sweet our kisses used to be.
remember the way that you used to love me.

&& tonight she’s blasting her sad love songs
while crying herself to sleep because of him

Now I know you're not my fairytale
&& dreams are meant for sleeping

her tounge has all the BITE marks from all the things she NEVER said.


you say hello. inside im screaming i love you. you say goodnight.
in my mind im sleeping next to you. you drive away from my car crash of a heart

and he comes back to her, after all this time
and he asks her if she still loves him
and she bites her lip, holds back tears
and whispers to him that now, hes just another boy to her
and he turns around and walks away forever

hey here are some links with the whole poem from some of the quotes

you wrote the "tear me off a pice of blanket"
it comes from here called "october nights" http://www.lyricsandsongs.com/print_song/83621.html


you wrote "you say hello.inside im screaming i love you" this is from a song/poem called "mixtaped" by butch walker
http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858492422

see the vid here
http://youtube.com/watch?v=bJU3jst3vh4


"Now I know you're not my fairytale
&& dreams are meant for sleeping" comes from HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL!When gabriella sings "when there was me and you"

"her tounge has marks" http://www.isfat.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=1116




hope i helped

most of them are just poems and stuff

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me and my boyfriend play this game on the phone where we ask each other questions like "have you ever been in love?" and stuff like that. i need a list of questions i can ask him. thanks :]

all the ones below me...

and

do you dream about me.
are you a virgin
ever had a crush on a teacher
ever tried on a condom
ever pictured me naked
Ever failed a test
would you cheat on me
would you bungee jump
would you save me from drowning
when was your first kiss
who did you first kiss
are my kissess the best
do you compare me to your exes
do you have a diary
do you talk about me to your friends
ever cried at something stupid
do you sing in the shower
do you dance on your own
do you dance with a broom
do you wash everyday
would your cry if i dumped you
ever looked up someones skirt
ever seen porn
do you read horrible , nasty magazine
would you punch your bestfriend if he insulted me
do you love me
do you wish for things
ever wish on your candles
what were your wishes on your birthday candles
do you beleive in ghosts/faires
did you take your nappy off and run around when you were a kid
what was your first word when you were a baby
who do you hate at school

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i dont know what is going on my anus hole itches so badly i know i dont have pinworms or anything because they told me to check my poop and i found nothing so if anyone can help i would be so grateful

There are so many things, but I think you have threadworms.


Threadworms are EXTEMLEY small worms and are very hard to see.It gets worse in the night becasue they hate light.You can get them from anywhere but its mainly some sort of germ from the soil or ground, you might of eaten some unwashed fruit or something.They are very very small and kind of whitish/yellowish, they are so small that they can get through your clothes and bed sheets.

This can easily be sorted WITHOUT going to the docotors, just simply go to the chemists and ask them if you can by some threadworm tablets.Throw you pjs/some underwear away and wash your bedsheets, after you take the tablet, the tablet kills them and they come out in your poop (they do anyway because thats what they live on)you won't see them or anything.Everything is fine.Tell your parents if your not old enough.

Many children and teens get it.And its nothing to worry about.I've had it twice.

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Is belly dancing really a great way to slim down?
Cuz I'm thinking of taking belly dancing classes this summer vacation.

yeah.totally.it will slim you down....and its also a great way to enjoy yourself and make friends (and no you wont be considered a slut)

Its such a good way to slim down



go do it girl

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whats so great about being able to fit a whole fist in your mouth

nothing...i guess people think its such a big achievement - not everybody can do it.

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that have something to do with
a girl that likes someone who doesnt like them back
a girl who likes someone who is taken

a girl that has been hurt by a guy
something like that

any genres
kthanx

breakdown - by mariah carey
http://youtube.com/watch?v=j8VJ0QY_T_Q

I'ma do it right - 3lw

http://youtube.com/watch?v=663Qo1cJIF

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Ok, well my name is Erin. And I need a new HOT AIM screen name. here is some stuff about me...

I have brown hair.

I play basketball and softball.

I love guys.

AND IM JUST UR AVERAGE GIRLY-GIRL, WITH A SPORTY SIDE.


Any ideas for a new screen name???


Thanks a bundle!

x0x0x0

Bow Down its....IkkleMizzErin

ErinIzMizzSporteh

Ikkle-bit-of-barbie-likkle-bit-of-ken
(because barbie is girly and ken is like manly and likes sports??)

$$erinISyour home gal$$

GalykErin

SportehBabi

Let meh come and ERINFY you


That's sooo Erinfied

xxxerinxxxlovesxxballsxxx

--xxactiveerin--xx

xxSpOrTzYxx

**RiNz**

$$Erin est sportif $$


^^Rinz-Rinz is Sporty^^

***BrunetteBaller***


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which on do you like better. (just so i know) list them in order .. the first being the one you like the most
-thongs
-bikini underwear
-boy shorts

boy shorts
bikini underwear
thongs

personally i dont like matieral up my cr**k

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I came onto this site a few weeks ago asking a question about becoming a model and how you have to look.


But, what is beautiful? Someone on this site told me "If your not beautiful, then don't bother"

But what are the criteria for being beautiful?
..

You don't have to be beautiful to be a model..
there has to be something "different and catchy"...like kate moss she isnt PRETTY there is just something unique about her.And being beautiful is a matter of an opnion, you just have to have something different unique - like your eyes are quite big, or yout lips are a strange shape.

Some people say you DO have to pretty but you dont have to.

There isnt a criteria for being beautiful because we're all different and beauitful.It's all about opnions, one may say yeah your pretty an another...no she's not much to look at, so there isn't a criteria.

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my best friend is 12 and shes turning 13 in may.she asked me for some ideas for her b-day party and i can not think of anything.i don't wanna b like"i dont know ask someone else"bcus shes my best friend and ya. so any ideas?

For my thirteenth i had a hawaiin themed b-day party and had like the hula skirts and limbo and all the decoratons, it's really good

You could like a spa day at your house, just a girls sleepover with

movies
makeup
perdicures
face packs
krispy creme donoughts
confessions
prank calls

A complete ebauty day, you and her can go out and buy some face packs and stuff

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14/f


im the average female. im active, i do track and cheerleading. ive had this problem for a while, and i sweat badly.. on my butt. my crotch and ass sweat bad, like i get sweat marks on the back of my sofie shorts when i run. i feel like i pee my pants but its sweat and i get really sefl conscience. also when i tumble at times, i pee my pants a little. its usually funny but it is so uncomfortable and it makes me feel so dirty. how can i lessin the sweat and not pee my pants? haha thanks in advance

you have a weak bladder - go see a doctor about this

and about the sweat thing, get some deodrant spray it on your hands.rub on you hands, then rub it on your bottom - works like a charm

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