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alright....umm im in this situation where ive been dating this girl for a pretty long while and i love this girl but i dno how to let her know or tell her..any suggestions???

by the way whats ur status---single..got a boyfriend??

thanks

Make it special... Take her to her favorite place, or yalls favorite place and tell her then. Make her feel special!!! Look into her eyes when you tell her, maybe even hold her hand.
I am kinda dating a guy,but hes not my boyfriend yet ,why?

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My Situation is that I am different. I have a small webbing on my left foot. Its not like an ugly one or anything it's just different. And that is one of the things that I dont like... being different. I'm someone who wants to be perfect. I wish every day that i didnt have it. But wishing wont do anything. I've gone to a surgery place to see what they could do about it but they said that a standard proceedure like that will cost $5,000 and I dont have that much money. At school I cover it up by taping band-aids around it. Then when people ask what happened I tell them that its none of their business. But this gets very old. Am I stupid for feeling this way?

Most people probably wont even notice! Learn to love yourself for who you are. There will never be anyone thats perfect.Just love your flaws! I know I try to... Its not that bad :)

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Ok, here's my situation, I really care for this guy who is turning 18 in July and im 15. Me and him both really care So0o much for each other and know this only my parents don't liek the fact that hes turning 18 soon and that hes black...we don't want to stop doing what we're doing with the worry of my parents putting a Restaining order on him or have him sent to jail. What do I do? Is it legall to date him with out parental consultance at 16?

Yes, its illegal.. Just talk to your parents . Tell them that you really care for each other. show your parents that your responsible, Im shure they will soon enough understand......

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Ok i need some help. I'm 15, 5'2, kinda pretty I guess?? not the prettiest and not the ugliest girl in the school. The problem is that I'm shy. I know people tell me this all the time. I'm not shy around my friends at all, but when it comes to meeting new people I just dont know what to talk about! Nothing comes to mind when I'm around new people. and i dont want to say something stupid like "wow the weather is nice" or whatever. Help me! What should I say?? How do I become more outgoing with people? I think If i were more outgoing I might meet new people and meet new friends. am i right or wrong?

I was the same way. Yes, If you become more outgoing you will meet LOTS and LOTS of new people. Just tell them about yourself and ask them questions about themselves. Usally u can ask what kinda music they like and if you like the same kind then you could have a 30 min conversation. Just find something that you have in common.

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i was wondering the best way to... "enhance" my chest, thick bra, gel, etc,. i dont want to use tissue or any thing like that. is it true pushups, and milk enlarge breast? thanx again

Your boobs are fine the way they are!!!! Dont worry about it, THEY WILL GROW :)

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OK i have a major problem!!! I'm a big flirt and I just love guys. The problem is that whenever they end up falling for me back I end up stop liking them! Whats wrong with me?! I mean I DID like them a lot!! but then suddenly it stops... i dont know what to do. I have a feeling that it has something to do with like this other guy and he's never liked me enough to go out with me (but he told me that he has liked me a lot). I dont know what to do... please help

Maybe you crave attention from guys, and when you get it, your satisfied, so you give up. Either that or u just had "lust" that happened to go away when they fall for you because your challenge is gone

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how do u tell when people are flirting

Most of the time they try to make eye contact , touch you or make you laugh! Some guys even make fun of you .. Depends on how old they are

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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what

Yes, but dont be mean about it.

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I gotta lotta problems. okay so last year i had a ton of friends and i fellt on top of da world. But den I moved to anoter skewl and I only have 2 friends. I dunt know what ta do. Everything was so gooooooood befor an now I try to hang out wit other peeps but it seem like no one wants to git to know me. wassup wit dis?? i need sum helllpppp

Walk up and introduce yourself to people. Join in on a discussion. Ask your friends to introduce you to their friends. Just be yourself ..... good luck

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Oh man.. oh man.. I just met this guy 3 days ago and he told me today he was in love with me.. and I even have a boyfriend!! What am I supposed to say to him?!
Signed,
YIKES!

Thats a little fast.... :S

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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music !

I like some of it

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ok, i've been gettin vaginal discharge, and i haven't started my period, is this normal to get it before u start your period, does this mean that i'll soon be gettin my period, and if so are there any other ways to kno that your period mite be startin??
please help
if it makes a difference im 13/f/nc and ill be 14 in the 1st wk of Nov.
thx a bunch!!
~*~*~*wondering*~*~*~

Yes, its normal to get it before your period :) Any other ways that you know your periods coming could be : Tender Breasts, Mood swings, Cravings for food, and Cramps or a tighter tummy :)

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wat do u do if ure friends b/f is flirting with u??!??!?!??!?!??!?? help me wat do i do!!!!??? quick!!!!!

Tell him that hes making you uncomfortable & let him know that since he is your friends boyfriend that nothing will ever happen between yall two. He will probably understand, but if he keeps on, tell your friend.

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I NEED HELP! SEE I LOVE MY BROTHER BUT HE KEEPS COMING IN MY ROOM WITHOUT PERMITION AND I NED MY OWN LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!I NEED ADVISE!!!

-bubba78

P.S. I'm a girl so all I need is help and help and help and HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Put a lock on your door :)

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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!!

Call him and tell him it's not true! Im shure he will understand!

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Me and my bf were going out for about 3 months until he broke up with me but he didnt tell me why and i want him back real bad. What should I tell him to get him back or what should i do?

Talk to him!!!! Find out why! Let him know that you want him back!!

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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*

You are the only person that can decide if you are a "slut" or not. But if you feel bad about it, then the only thing you have to do is stop, or find one sex partner. It all depends on how you carry yourself also. Im shure your not a slut!

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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore.

Read the below answer :)

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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been relly confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore.

Talk to him about it! Ask yourself: Do I really love this guy? Would I ever want to spend my life with him? I had a x-bf like this and we just talked it out and its all fine now! I cant tell you if you should get over him or not.... its up to you! But just talk it out! Good luck!!

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My boyfriend has been talking about blowjobs... but the problem is I dont know what a blowjob is!!! ahh please help me!!
XoXo -- CURIOUS

Well its when you use your mouth on his penis. Ask him for more details, or Im shure you could find out on a porn site?

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