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I am so tired of people writing "liek dis" Spell correctly so that you can actually get some advice! I don't even know how those questions even appear on the site if it's not even understandable...Does anyone agree with me or am I just illiterate? (link)
i agree with you totally your so not illiterate

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MESSAGE TO ASLL PEOPLE WRITING LIKE THIS
STOP CAUSE ITS ANNYOING SO DUN RITE LIEK DIZ PLEEZ


okay. well i have been best friends with the same three people for 4 years now and we do everything together and i love them to death but now they have new friends and they will talk about plans right in my face and not invite me and so i do other things with my other friends but i cant help but get jelous. its like sometimes i dont want them to be happy unless there with me. I hate feeling this way. I hate being jelous, but i cant help it. Things have changed and i cant take it. I try to take my mind off it and do other things but none of my other friends are as close as they are. i cant just give up on out friendship. How do i stop the jelousy? and Should i tell them how i feel? cause they would probbaly laugh and get mad at me...

sincerely,
Sojelous (link)
i HAD the same problem and i just asked if i could go and they would say yes so it all worked out its just a matter of asking now all of my old friends and the new ones they made are together in a group and im in it too

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there's this guy at school and he always like bumps into me, and says sorry. before i didn't think anything of it, but now it's happening like almost all the time! does he like me? or is this just some weird coincidence?! (link)
he totally likes you! mention that you see him doing it again and again and if yor into him say you like it and if your not tell him to stop

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I am soo confused I cant figure it out...how would you know if ur bi or straight bc i thought i was straight but now im trying to find out bc i dont think its wrong to be bi and theirs nothing wrong w kissing another girl to me that is so please answer back ill rate also (link)
answer the following questions- is do you open up females or males better? do you enjoy talking to females or males better? do you hang out with females or males more? are you more touchy feely to males or females?

if you answer all these questions and answer mostly female you are lesbian

if you answer all these questions and answer mostly male you are straight

if you answer all these questions both you are bi

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what are some topics to talk about with a boy you just met besides the basics? it's getting kind of boring talking to him. (link)
his past what he did who he dated and other stuff like that

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i have a 250 word essay to write about how to survive my teenage years. i have no idea how i am going to do that. what am i supposed to write about? does anybody have any ideas? any comments and ideas are welcome.

this essay is due 4/19/05.

~~Chelsey~~ (link)
talk about your life and how you feel

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I am desperate to get my ex-boyfriend back. He doesn't want to get back together because we fight alot. I will do anything. How can I get him back? (link)
dont get him back i had the same problem and i got back with him and he dumped me the next day for his girlfriend

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everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height? (link)
no i dont but i asked my doctor what weight i should be for my height and he told me the whole wieght chart so just ask your doctor

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ok i like this boy and he also likes me. but he likes me and this other girl.like we always talk and hang out and he tells me how mean she is to him and stuff and people have been telling me that he has been asking them what he should do and stuff like that. well i just dont know what i should do with this whole situation as to let it go or wait until he makes up his mind? (link)
let go of it i think its best for you and him because no matter what he will always still love her

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I just got braces a week ago and after I came home, I noticed these tiny tiny black spots on my teeth...I tried brushing it off, but they won't come off...Now it's a week later and they're still here..It's not really noticeable unless you look closely but I notice them. Can anyone help? I rate. Thanks (link)
tell your dentist who put the braces on you and he will knwo what to do or you shoudl try brushing more maybe if you dont brush enough

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Ok, well i have this guy friend who like's me alot but i don't like him the same way alot of the time he is all over me and when i tell him to get off he dosn't i don't know what to do cause im wanting to be his friend but not more than that but he dosn't feel the same and i don't know what to do anymore...please help me (link)
tell him you just want to be friends and if he keeps up being all over you you guys wont even be friends and he will ruin the friendship

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14/m 8th grade
i met this girl t the beginning of the school year at a football game. she goes to the other jr high in our district. i havent hung out with her in forever, but lately we have been getting back in touch. she always tells me on the phone about how much she likes me and wants to see me. she said she'd make out with me or anything i want from her. she also said she would go out with me if i went to her school. i really like this girl and i know she has a thing for me. the seperate schools are the problem. what should i do? (link)
bad idea separate is a big no i just recently went out with this guy form another school and he was cheating on me since we went to different schools he used to lie to me and everything

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Ok. There us this guy named Josh. We have had plans to go out after my best friend had broken up with him (for the 50th time). We wanted to wait a while so she wouldnt get mad and so she would get over him. Well it turns out she isnt over him and hes not over her, but he still likes me. So i see him flirt with her all the time, and it really hurts. I know he still likes me because we always flirt together all the time. But i just dont know what to do. I don't think he can choose between me or her. I REALLY like him. But i dont want my best friend to hate me. And i am affraid that if she goes out with him again i will be really hurt and depressed, i have a funny feeling i wont want to hang out with her anymore. PLease help! I dont want to loose my best man or my best friend!! (link)
i had the same problem in november .. i was so confused just like you well what i did was tell the guy that he needed to pick me or her and he said i dont know i like both of you and then i said well think about it for a week he did and replied with the same answer so i took it as a hint he didnt like me better then her and he didnt want to tell me so i just said fine this little thing is over bye and it turns out i was right he didnt want to tell me he went out with her the next day dont like him he is trouble try your best not to

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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate! (link)
i dont know what is it but it cant be good you should deffinatly go see a doctor ASAP before it gets worse

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Hello,
I have a problem. I'm conservative and the guy i liked is shy. So what do I do? Will I be the one to do the first move? But i'm a girl and its not proper for a girl to do the first move with boys and they say it could make a boy turn off. (link)
send him some signals that you like him such as eye contact or smiling he should get the hint and make the 1st move

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I didn't want to go to school today in the 1st place bc I have too much on my mind (that they don't even anyways) and I was really tired bc of all the thinking, but I got ready and I got out late so I missed the bus, bc my mom was yelling at me bc my parents got into a fight bc I didn't want to get up in the 1st place and go to school. My dad had woken me up @ 6 and I have to be out by 6:25 and I missed the buss bc someone decided to move the soap and toothpaste and I had to run across the house and get it and ect. Now my mom wouldn't drive me to school and my dad already left for work..it's 7:50 AM and I am bored out of my mind till everyone comes home @ 2 PM...any suggestions? (link)
you could answer some questions on here (advicenators) or watch some tv you could also listen to some music or an i-pod if you have one

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i'm going on a trip to a law center this week

theres no dress code, but you should look presentable..we're part of a mock jury..any ideas? (link)
are you a girl or a boy? because if you are a girl just wear like a skirt and a sorta dressy shirt and heels to go with it adn if you are a boy just wear like a grren shirt tucked in with a belt and tan pants

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This morning my boyfriend is being a major jerk. I don't know why, but it's like he doesn't even care how I feel today. I wish he would just talk to me. I am trying to send him hints, but it's not working! How can I get his attention? (link)
tell him how you feel and that you think he is being a jerk today if he cares about you then he will understand if he doesnt he wont another good way is to kiss him tenderly

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How do you make a nice healthy sorbet using a fruit smoothie or juice? Thanks. (link)
well im not sure if you are talking about making one yourself or what ingrediants you need to make one but i know either way ..
1. making it yourself- get a smoothie book and buy all the ingrediants it tells you to in order to make one or if you dont want to buy the smoothie book just bring a pen and paper to the store and copie the ingrediants form the book

not making it yourself-i love smoothies also and i dont make them myself i go to target and get smoothie mixes to go with my smoothie maker i have that i got at bed bath and beyond another good place for the smoothie mixes is also bed bath and beyond

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my boyfriend always trys to get me to do things in front of other guys... and when i dont' he gets mad and says stupid and prude. he gets his other guy friends to rag on me. and the other night i was on my rag. he wouldn't leave me alone.. so i took out all my anger on him... then he told me i was lucky to have him... hes realy sweeet wen nobody else is around.. and i dont' want to break up with him...what should i do? (link)
tell him in a sweet way that you dont like the way he is treating you and that your not something to show off to your friends and to treat you the same way as he does when you guys are alone when you and him are wth his friends if he doesnt understand it wasnt meant to be if he does he really cares about you he is a keeper

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