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~A little Advice for the broken hearts~
You are afraid and hurt and you dont know what to do. You feel empty and alone, like the whole world has just ended. You have a hole in your heart one that feels like it can never be repaired, but just know that in time that hole will be gone. Getting your heart broken is like getting a deep cut. It hurts really bad, and no matter what you do you cant stop thinking about it because you know its there and its hurting, but with a few stitches and a little tlc (friends and family helping you through) and some antibiotic ointment (ice cream) soon that cut will only be a scar (a memory) it will always be there but it wont hurt anymore, you are strong and you can make it through this!!
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I’m a 19 year old boy; I started stammering from the age of 5, Everyday my stammering get worst each day. My classmates tease me and I’m very sad. And because of my stammer I never had any good friends and I always sit alone in my house. Sometimes I just feel to suicide because of my miserable life. Is there any cure for my stammer?
Somebody told me that hypnosis therapy would cure my stammer.
You can go to speach threrapy or try hypnosis but you are perfect the way you are dont let others get to you... you are a wonderful smart boy and inside they probably envy you :) I am so sorry you have to deal with jerks like that good luck hun best wishes
ive known this boy for nearly 10 years sense i was 8 and the boy was only 5 and well as years passed he finilly told me he liked me at the age of 10 and i was 13 and he was the first boy to ever like me, im nearly 16 and he is nearly 13 and im not sure if he still likes me or not but when people like tease him about me they say he always get a big smile and his eyes get really big and even when i would talk to him he would just stare at me or smile really big but we used to talk all the time and have lots of good times but now we hardly see one another but when i would see him and when he'd stare in my eyes and when id stare in his i can feel inside me that he still likes me even though he told me he didnt but i get theses gutt feelings and thats why i think he still likes me but im really unsure on what to think.
what does anyone else think?
It sounds like he has an adorable crush oh you :)
This weekend my neighbor is going out of town, and left me to watch her house. She gave me permission to swim in her pool, but I started my period today. I've always worn pads due to the fact that I am deathly afraid to put a tampon in, I don't like the idea of something being inside of me. and since I am still a virgin and have noo idea how to put it in "the right way" i'm afraid it will hurt.
I know you can't swim in pads. Is there something else I can wear besides tampons that will keep me safe from leaking in her pool?
and another question, does putting a tampon in hurt if you're still a virgin? and if I do decide to wear a tampon, how do I put it in "the right way"? I really want to avoid asking my mom.. *awkward!*
You are going to have to use a tampon and no it doesnt hurt if you are a virgin here is a link to a video (its an animated dont worry) it will show you how to put one in... also remember to change it as soon as you get out of the pool :) good luck
http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to-insert-tampon-like-adult-235629/view/
ok so me and my friend are at the beach this week and we want to talk to some guys and possibly get their numbers!! but we dont know how to go about it/ say to them. How do we approach them and what do we say??
14/f
Walk right up take a deep breath and start talking compliment them guys like it as much as us girls come right out and say het can I get your number?? :) good luck have fun stay safe!!
Alright, heres the deal. I'm crazy about my cousins best friend. He and I text and talk all the time; well we used to. For the last couple weeks he just stopped talking to me. I used to be possitive he liked me, but now I'm not to sure. How do I make him like me again or even talk to me? ):
You dont want to go out of your way to change yourself for some guy if he doesnt like you the way you are then he isnt worth your time my advice forget about him there is someone out there who is going to love the absolute perfect you that you are :)
14/f
Hi! I'm going to be a sophomore and I was wondering how to dress more 'kawaii.' My style presently and for some time was dark and almost scene or emo. I want to be more colourful and kawaii and look like I'll taste like ice cream and rainbows instead of human flesh lol :) Like some anime girls and with little pins and charms and stuffed animals and such.
ALSO-
I don't want to look slutty or inappropriate or overly weird, or like I'm trying to look childish. I also want to keep my hair short and blue, and I don't wear makeup.
Any advice? Thank you to anyone who answers :)
http://www.allthingskawaii.net/links/Shopping/Apparel/
above I posted a link that had online stores you can check out some kawaii clothing and accessories and get some ideas for your new look by the way before I did this search for you I had never heard of this look and I think it is so cute good luck and hope I helped
Im about to go hang out with my neighbor who comes up here for the summer, we have made out a couple times and i know that if i go he is going to want to make out with me again:) my mom doesnt approve of me hanging out with him all the time because i am 15 (he is 16 by the way) so i dont want to get caught making out with him? should i go or not???
You mom is just looking out for you... making out often leads to much more and you dont want to end up pregnant at such a young age... I would advise you listen to your mother she knows what is best for you and she is not trying to be mean she is just protecting yo she loves you.... But you are going to do what you want so make sure that if you do go and anything happens you have protection you do not want to have babies when you are still a kid yourself good luck
we were doing this class concert thing and decided to sing for the fun of it, i told people before that i can't really sing but after my friends were like wow you're great and some other girls in my class said so too so i decided to record my voice on my phone and when i played it back i sounded so gross like a little 5 year old my voice was all high and stuff. My teachers from my old school said i was a good singer too but i think maybe they were just being nice to me even though i told them i don't really care if they say i sing bad, i was wondering if it was the recordeed or i just can't sing and people are being nice?
Try recording your voice just talking and listen to it for some reason we always think our voices sound weird being recorded... I dont like my voice to be recorded on things like cell phones... they have things specially made to record yourself sisng try them out I am sure it was just the recording device you used :)
well i am 15 years old and there is this boy who comes up here for the summer. He lives a couple houses down from me and we have been hanging out a lot lately. He really likes me and i kinda like him too. About 3 days ago we were about to kiss but we didnt because his little sister was about to see us, so then the next day we actually kissed and yesterday, we made out several times. He calls me all the time and we talk on the phone for hours, he even calls me during his lunch break at work, he also drives his dads truck around my house when he knows im outside:) i really like him but i dont know if what im doing is right because im not dating him, so what should i do??? any advice will be appreciated:)
A little harmless flirting and kisses never hurt anyone but if you want to move to the next level and become his girlfriend you might want to talk to him and tell him how you feel maybe he is feeling the same way... good luck
so i have been crushing on my guy friend bryan from the day i saw him in 9th grade now were seniors. even though i have crushed on him for so long i have been in and out of relationships kinda waiting for him. he has been in a realationship for a year now. well they broke up i guess two weeks and i finnaly was brave enough to tell him how i felt he told me he'd been crushing on me to for a while. we started to go on a lot of dates for the past week. i knew i wanted to take it slow becuase they did just break up. well we had our first kiss then he took me home i was smitten. this is where the problem is his ex found out got really mad and called him begged him to go back out with her. so the next day he texts me saying he's sorry but he loves her and everything but how could he love her and have spent 6 days in a row leading me on then turn around and tell me we were just friends? how do i go back pretending we are only friends and i dont like him?
If you want to stay friends...You have to talk to him about how you feel or you will never truly forgive him and some day it may putt you even further apart... Talk to him and tell you how it hurt that he did that and let him know exactly how you feel and then forgive him... It is not going to be easy to go back to a friend relatonship but in time maybe it will be possible.....
If you are not comfortable around him any more and you dont think you can go back to the "just friends" than the best thing to do would be to just walk away and break the friendship its not easy losing a friend but it can be even harder getting your heart broken and have to be reminded of it every day good luck my heart goes out to you
i just wanted to say thank you so much for answering all my questions(:
i don't want to sound weird or anything but you seem really sweet and nice!(:
and your the only one i could really talk to and ask questions to because everyone else doesn't really listen to me or care, haha so thank you!(:
You Are very welcome if you have any more please feel free to come back I will do my best to answer them :) I really enjoy helping people!! I am so glad that you can come to me... Thank you for all the compliments.. it really does make me happy and it makes what I do on here worth while :)
so it takes about a week and 1/2 to actually notice it?
and thanks again haha(:
I started seeing clearer skin within the next couple days but for all of it to be mostly gone about a week and a half :) and you are very welcome
okay thanks for the stuff(: if the cucumber peeling mask treats acne, then how many time should i use it in a week or month?(:
You Can use it twice a week at first and then when you start to get results then reduce to twice a month :)
Every time I buy a book or something from walmart or target the barcode sticker thingy that's on the back of it would say something like US $12.99, Canada $14.99. How come things in Canada cost more than things in America?
Actually the canadian money is worth less than American money....
http://coinmill.com/CAD_USD.html#USD=1
go to that website and you can see the different values in money.
If you wanted to exchange an American Dollar ($1.00) for Canadian money you would get $0.96 back.. things cost more in Canada because American money has a higher value hope I helped
Sorry this is a weird question but I've heard stories about guys doing a girl so much at once that the spermies make her belly swell up. Could this happen?
Well yes a guy has sex with a girl and she gets pregnant and that causes her belly to swell up
okay so i read that website you sent me ad it says to but maybe in all through your hair then put a towel on?.. is it while the mayo is on? and then wash your hair... so idk if you put the towel on while the mayo is still in your hair lol, and is it okay if you use a any mayo?
what does this even do to your hair haha? i know if its damaged but what kind of damaged?
Yes you wrap your hair in the towel when the mayo is in your hair It will help dull the smell of mayo while you are waiting and yes any mayo will work :) It keeps your hair looking shiny and soft and healthy, it treats pretty much any type of damage hair I used it for my dry hair :)
is something like this ok?
http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.grocerycouponnetwork.com/images/food-products/Kroger_from_Concentrate_Lemon_Juice.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.grocerycouponnetwork.com/foodproducts/products.php%3FId%3D11217&usg=__JUUQfQsTcz0buM085Jv8pQp4qsc=&h=180&w=180&sz=4&hl=en&start=0&zoom=1&tbnid=HV_5FTBti_Be1M:&tbnh=123&tbnw=123&ei=j-UNTpeFOeGosAKDhOiMCg&prev=/search%3Fq%3Dlemon%2Bjuice,%2Bfrom%2Bconcentrate%26um%3D1%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DN%26rlz%3D1R2ADSA_enUS414%26biw%3D1366%26bih%3D533%26tbm%3Disch&um=1&itbs=1&iact=rc&dur=47&page=1&ndsp=25&ved=1t:429,r:7,s:0&tx=83&ty=13
and can you please tell me the routine for it again. and please look at the image to see if thats what i use and on my bottle at home it sayts concenmtrated only and how many times a weekm do i do it? and how long does it take for all my acne to go away? and how long do i keep it on for?
please answer all of these ^ thanks!(:
yes that is the same stuff I use... Just take a q tip or cotton ball and dab some lemon juice on it then leave it on while you are brushung your teeth and after you finsh with your teeth rinse it off its that easy :) When I first started this I did it every night before I went to bed, when my acne started healing (about a week and a half later my skin was a lot clearer) I cut back and only did it once a week or when a new one started to form I would use it... Only leave it on for the amount of time it takes you to brush your teeth its all the time it needs :) I hope I helped and feel free to come back with any other questions you have :)
can face masks, (cucumber) (the ones you peel off) get rid of acne?
Yes :) cucumber is known to help treat acne, soothe sunburn, and even help with high or low blood pressure
here are some health and nutrition benifits I got from another site :)
Health & Nutrition Benefits of Eating Cucumbers
•Raw cucumber, when applied on the skin, can help reduce heat and inflammation.
•The diuretic, cooling and cleansing property of cucumber makes it good for skin.
•Fresh cucumber juice can provide relief from heartburn, acid stomach, gastritis and even ulcer.
•Placing a cucumber slice over the eyes not only soothes them, but also reduces swelling.
•Daily consumption of cucumber juice helps control cases of eczema, arthritis and gout.
•Cucumber has been found to be beneficial for those suffering from lung, stomach and chest problems.
•The potassium in cucumber makes it useful for the problem of high and low blood pressure.
•Cucumber contains Erepsin, the enzyme that helps in protein digestion.
•Cucumber juice is said to promote hair growth, especially when it is added to the juice of carrot, lettuce and spinach.
•Cucumber juice, when mixed with carrot juice, is said to be good for rheumatic conditions caused by excessive uric acid in the body.
•Cucumber can prove to be beneficial for those suffering from diseases of the teeth and gums, especially in cases of pyorrhea.
•Being rich in minerals, cucumber helps prevent splitting of nails of the fingers and toes.
•Cucumber has been associated with healing properties in relation to diseases of the kidney, urinary bladder, liver and pancreas.
•Those suffering from diabetes have been found to benefit from the consumption of cucumber/cucumber juice.
and here is a recipe for a cucumber mask :)
What do you need:
•1/2 cup finely ground Oatmeal
•1/2 ripe Apple
•1/4 Cucumber
•2 tablespoons Milk
How to do it:
Cut the apple and cucumber in pieces and put them together with all the ingredients in a blender and mash and mix it well until you have a smooth substance
Smooth the paste gently and equally with your finger tips on your clean face and neck; keep the eye area clear
Now lie down, relax and leave the mask on for 20 minutes
Then wash it off with lukewarm water and end with a splash of cold; pat your skin dry with a clean towel
(borrowed from another website)
the two webstites I used to help get this information are listed below
http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/benefits-of-cucumber-1678.html
http://www.natural-homeremedies-for-life.com/homemade-acne-mask.html
thanks for asking me I hope this helps
You are probably the only person that actually put a Meaningful smile on my face,i really appreciate that you would trust me with your email, im really sorry if my last message sounded like i was a freak, but i was crying during writing it, Being closer to god really helps me , i trust him, and i know that he wont let me down, i always ask him to Guide my ex to the right path,and to calm him down,My email is wazup_ppl11@hotmail.com.. i made it when i was in the 6th grade haha dont laugh! :( id appreciate if you would tell me your email, because i dont really add people i dont know, so i need to know yours to know if i can accept it or not..you gave me hope that i can get over his smile,and his laugh..and everything about him that im crazy about because his personality has nothing to love anymore. please dont forget me,ill need you sooner than you think:( By the way, is it normal that i am trying to move on, yet i find it difficult to call him my ex? or even talk about it..instead of telling people its over? Im not in denial,but i dont know why i do that, it pains me i guess.
I am going to give you a special email address that I made just for this because our messages are not privet and I dont want the whole world knowing my personal one you can add me with that email and then I will give you my personal one through a privet message ... it is STEPHIESADVICE@AOL.COM
I am glad that I made you smile even if it was only a temporary one atleat it was a start.. Dont worry I could tell you were terribly upset and I didnt think you were a freak at all :) I am glad you are putting your faith in God... My grandpa use to tell me to pray when I am happy and also when I am sad... and when something happens I need to thank God even if it sounds weird everything happens for a reason and even though sometimes it hurts God has a plan for us and if he lets us he is going to make our lives wonderful!
Right now you are hurting and its going to be hard but you are going to get through this and I am going to be here for you as long as you need me for this or any other problem you may have...`and dont worry I am not going to forget you... I know what its like to need someone and be forgotten and I wouldnt do that to anyone.... And yes its very normal finding it hard to call him your ex although you want to move on and get over him right now you just are not ready to fully except it and that is okay! :) I hope to hear from you soon
do you know a really good inexpensive mascara that makes your eyelashed black and pretty.
i have mascara but when i put my makeup on it only looks like i have eyeliner on and it looks like i have no mascara on, any suggestions?
http://www.covergirl.com/professional-superthicklash-mascara
I use covergirl professional super thick lash (link above)
It is $3-$4 at walmart... Its not expensive and it last a long time and it makes your lashes look darker and longer and it doesnt clump up and look fake it is awesome I love it hope this helps