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just friends when i know you want more too
so i have been crushing on my guy friend bryan from the day i saw him in 9th grade now were seniors. even though i have crushed on him for so long i have been in and out of relationships kinda waiting for him. he has been in a realationship for a year now. well they broke up i guess two weeks and i finnaly was brave enough to tell him how i felt he told me he'd been crushing on me to for a while. we started to go on a lot of dates for the past week. i knew i wanted to take it slow becuase they did just break up. well we had our first kiss then he took me home i was smitten. this is where the problem is his ex found out got really mad and called him begged him to go back out with her. so the next day he texts me saying he's sorry but he loves her and everything but how could he love her and have spent 6 days in a row leading me on then turn around and tell me we were just friends? how do i go back pretending we are only friends and i dont like him?
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If you want to stay friends...You have to talk to him about how you feel or you will never truly forgive him and some day it may putt you even further apart... Talk to him and tell you how it hurt that he did that and let him know exactly how you feel and then forgive him... It is not going to be easy to go back to a friend relatonship but in time maybe it will be possible.....
If you are not comfortable around him any more and you dont think you can go back to the "just friends" than the best thing to do would be to just walk away and break the friendship its not easy losing a friend but it can be even harder getting your heart broken and have to be reminded of it every day good luck my heart goes out to you
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You hit the nail on the head. She will leave him again without a doubt. She is just playing games with him and he is dragging you and your feelings into it. What you naed to do is move on. Find someone else and when he comes crying begging you to be with him it will be too late. Trust me, he'll be back but please don't be there for him to use you and then walk away. He has already proven that he is capable of playing with your emotions only to leave you in the dust so don't let it happen again.
You are worth so much more than what he is putting you through. Let him see what he is missing out on by living your life, having fun, and accomplishing all your dreams and aspirations. You don't have time for his childish games. Find a man that knows what he wants and knows who he is. Bryan looks like a fool chasing after a girl who probably only wants him back because he started dating you. Sounds like he totally used you to get his attention. How pathetic is that. He'll be sorry. . .
I know this must hurt but please know how special you are and that you do not need to take this from anyone. Bryan will be a distant memory before you know it. Everything will be ok.
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