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ok. so next year i wanna look like completely different from when i get back to summer. what are some tips on looking nice? i just wanna look a lot nicer for a new year!! thanx!!

aww, well anyways i dont really know what you are looking for but here are some tips that will improve anyones looks no matter what kind of style they are looking for:

-straighten up! no one likes people slouching in chairs. plus, you'll be able to think easier and you'll look elegant

-smile! a smile always brightens up your face. plus, it makes you look nice and classy.

-wear "you"! maybe your not the sporty girl or the abercrombie girl, so just where whats you. it doesnt matter how other people think you look. if you think you look great, great! plus, it will show your confidence which makes any person look better!

sorry i couldnt do clothes or shoes or any thing else you were looking for in perticular. feel free to ask another question based on your personal style.

xOx,
-thinkpink♥

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i have this friend... GRR AND SHES SO ANNOYING!! i mean i feel like i sorta have 2 be friends with her beacuse we were all this like group last year... but this year shes SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO annoying! i mean i invite her when we do stuff with our group but i think its because shes lonely... and i mean i dont wanna leave her out beacuse that wouldnt be nice and she would get upset... so i dont know what to do!! i mean grrr.... shes so annyoing!!

plz help!!

if you want to make her feel good, even though you dont like her, thats going to be really hard. is she a total loner? or does she have friends? if she has other friends, then dont worry about it, she'll probably realize that she can be with them too. if she doesnt really have any friends, then try to help her get more friends.

if you really dont like this girl, then just tell "i'm sorry, but you are getting really annoying for me now." and just tell her whats wrong and how you feel. most likely she'll understand, and if shes a good person she might even try to fix those bad things about her. maybe if she does she wont be so annoying and you'll actually want to be friends. sorry, i dont really know what to say. so just tell her how you feel and she'll either understand or get too mad to even want to be with you anymore.

hope i helped you!

love,
-thinkpink♥

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so i have this friend and whenever i talk 2 her on line she always seems so sad... even if i talk 2 her another time you know... i mean does she not like me or should i like not talk 2 her?

If she seems sad then simply ask her whats wrong. If she tells you, thats cool because maybe you can help her fix it. but if she says nothing then she either really does mean nothing or she just doesnt want to tell you. if thats the case then try to figure out from other people whats wrong or maybe you can figure it out. also, you could try to hang out with her one-on-one because maybe she will tell you. just keep talking to her, and try to figure out what's wrong. if you can get nothing out of it then atleast you tried. hope i helped, feel free to ask another question to see how it goez!

love,
-thinkpink♥

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Hey Brianna!! after you read this you might no who this is but w/e. ok so its summer! ya!! you shouldnt have any problems right? well.. summer going fine so far........ except for my retarted camp, but them i keep thinking about this one guy at school. i really liked him this year. we are really good friends but then some of my close friends say hes a monkey and stuff. but like ppl said he liked me at one point in the year, but then they didnt no after that, then my friend tried to ask him out for me, but he didnt say anything. omg its all so confusing but w.e . hes a really good friend of mine and he went to my preschool. (that totally gave it away!!) i think i'll see him over the summer cause he goes to a country club also and we will swim them in swimming meets. but then my spanish class wants to get together like at the beginnning of july and i have to organize it( cause they think i'm organized) but its kinda oukward calling his house! so much drama! i dont no wat to do!
HELP BRIANNA!!!

your right...i do know who it is! its obvious!!

anyways, if you are going to feel awkward about calling his house then IM him or e-mail him or you could even send out invitations through snail mail. but my advice for you is just to call him! what do you have to lose? if something weird happens over the phone, relax, you wont have to see him until the party. just simply call him up and say "hey its _____ (lol i was about to type your name) and ____, ____, ____ and _____ were thinking about having a spanish class reunion. wanna come?" and just fill him in with the whos, wheres, whens, and all the other w's. trust me it wont be that bad, plus...if your dream ever came true and you went out, then what? you would HAVE to call him. i know it might feel weird but its not that bad. once its done and he can come you'll wonder why you were so shy in the first place!!

hope i helped!! and good luck, you can always tell me how it goez after!!

-thinkpink♥

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i had a " friend" a while ago. we were so tight, i thot we were BFF. then she ditched me. kinda harshley. i just cant get over what she said! then once she gets in a fight and she wants me back. i dont want to set myself up to get hurt like i did before, but i really miss her. REALLY.

13
f.

okay, so basically if you miss her to, you should try to be friends again. maybe things wont be exactly the same but atleast you will still be some sort of friends. just make it clear to her how you felt (or how you feel if you still are hurt) and what you expect from her in the future. if she really wants to be your friend again then she will probably not try to make the mistake again and be more careful with your feelings. this way you wont miss her and you probably wont have this happen again from her. maybe even you can still be BFFs but if not thats cool, you still have other friends.

hope i helped. post me on what happens if you need another question
XO*,
thinkpink♥

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What happens if the boy you like or used to like likes your best friend. I'm a girl.

sometimes that can happen. if you think you like him enough to go out with him, then you should know one thing. "sometimes the friendships will be different if you ever break up or even during the relationship". just make it clear to him that you dont want anything between you to change because it can. for example, you might be nervous when you go out since your used to being bffs instead of bf/gf! Also, when you break up maybe because of a fight, the scars will show in the frienship. Just make sure you guys have a good friendship to stay strong before you jump into a relationship.

if you dont decide to go out with him because you dont want anything to happen to the friendship just keep your crush on the down-low until the time is right. some of the examples i listed above could still happen even if you just tell him. so just decide what you want to do. go out or stay friends.

hope i helped!
love,
~thinkpink♥

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help! im going out with a really hot girl. like, there is absoulutley nothing wrong with her. at all. but shes a little shy, and im active and crazy. latley, ive been flirting with this other girl who likes me. shes a lot like me, and we have so much to talk about and shes SO hot! im starting to have actualy feeling for her, but the thought of me not being with the girl im currently with is so horrible! i cant have them both! what do i do??!

- confused

age 13
male

this might sound really corny but you have to follow your heart. whichever way you think you'd be better off. if you decide to go with the other girl then break up with your gf nicely and dont mention to her that its because of another girl because then she'll be sad and mad. if you decide to keep going out with gf try to keep all the flirting with the other girl to a minimum and especially since she will probably get mad. just for now, keep the other girl as a friend--a very close friend. so if you ever break up with your gf you will still have a good friend and maybe even a gf. BOTTOM LINE: follow your heart (that sounds like such a disney movie answer but its true). you know best, but think over it.

hope i helped & good luck!!
love,
thinkpink♥

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I have a sibling in the same grade as me and i cant help but think that people like HIM better than ME! It seems like girls like him better. What if they do. also, everyone thinks of us as a 2-for-one-thing but how do i show people i am WAY different? TIPS?????? HELP BRIANNA !!!!!!!

okay, yea i Totally know who this since the title was "Twin" is but anyways...

There is no telling if all the people prefer him than you! I bet some people like you and some like your twin. it depends. and i am sure not all girlz like him better. again, some might like your twin more than you or vise versa. so just be you and certain people will like you for you.

and also, about the two for one, thats kinda the bad thing about being twins. instead of calling you Thing 1 and Thing 2, its like :Thing 1&2. They think your the same person which is Not true. You should just focus on what you like and your twin will focus on what they like. Maybe to show people that your diffent you can join and club of what you like to do.Also try not to spend so much time with your twin (if you do) so people wont just think of you as a package. hope i helped with everything!

love,
thinkpink♥

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i need some suggestions on how to earn some extra money. I don't really like to babysit but i do anyway and thats not really cuttin' it. I really want to buy a few new things, but i don't know how i can pay for it all! any suggestions?

Here are some ways to make some $$$ :


-have a yard sale and sell the junk you dont want. (one mans trash is another's treasure ;-) )

-i know you might not like to do this, but babysit at the pool.you can swim and watch the kids

-mow the lawn

-ask your parents if there are any chores to do around the house (like cleaning out the garage ...ick!)

-design websites for people

-walk some dogs in the neigborhood

those are just some ideas. hope one or more was what you were lookin for!

OX,
thinkpink♥

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OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?!

that sucks...well instead of waiting for them to call you up to hang out why dont you call them? try to see if you can hit the mall or see a movie or go to the pool. if they say yes, then just try to get closer to them so they will realize how they just forgot you like that. but if you still want to be friends with them. i personally think that real friends shouldnt just ditch you like that, so try to see if you can make new friends. join a camp or an activy or just hang out at the pool. maybe you'll make a friend and you wont feel left out.

hope i helped & keep me updated if something goes wrong

love,
thinkpink♥

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how do you get your friend to stop acting like someone elsethat she isnt because when im around her she ask her self when im not around im around her and im with someone else she acts differnt and im a girl and im 11 years old.please help me

ok, so just tell your friend that you think that she acts different around people and how she acts with you. she might be mad, because maybe she doesnt want to admit it, so just let her think about it. all i can say is talk to her and maybe you can get something out of it. update me on how it works, because you can always ask another question! hope i helped!

love,
-thinkpink♥

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heyy... so i sorta know what cover-up is but not completely. can you just explain it to me completely so i understand it?? THANX!! (by the way... your so cute and so good at giving advice!!

Thanks so much!!

OKay, about your question, i know 2 kinds of cover-ups. if your talking about crushes & jazz like that its when you like someone but you are covering up the obviousness by acting like you like someone else, even when you dont.

The other kind of cover up i know about it for bathing suits and its something that would cover up your skin like board shorts, skirt, surfer shirt, or a dress type thing.

so i hope i helped ya! have a fabulous summer!
love,
-thinkpink♥

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Ok well my friend was talking about their period,..and like she said something about TSS,..do u know what that is? I didn't want to sound stupid and be like o i don't know what that is because i feel dumb around her. But do you know? and if you do please tell me

no, i dont know what it means. and you wont sound stupid if shes your friend! just ask her! and if you really dont want to ask another girl or look it up on the computie!

hope i helped,
-thinkpink♥

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ok so we have an end of the year pool partay tommorw... most of my friends are wearign bikinis but im not... and liek my bestfriend int he whole wide world is wearing a bikini i dont know if this is werid but i feel really liek sad and lonely that she is... like no1 eles will be and yah... should i tell her this? i dontknow... please help me....

I dont think you should tell her, to answer your first question. If shes happy about wearing a bikini dont make her sad, because she'll probably wear one to make you feel better. But also, so what if your the only one not strutting their stuff in a bikini? I know this sounds lame and so old, but if you feel comfortable thats all the matters! I mean, if you are only not wearing a 2 piece because you are afraid even though you think you'll look good, then it goes either way! You can wear a bikini too, but dont just wear one because everyone else is. All i am trying to say is wear what feels comfortable for you, dont make a decison based on everyone else. P.s. i dont even think you will be the only one!!

Hope i helped! Love,
-thinkpink♥

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hey bri!!!
ok so... its not anything important..... but like i need a new sn im-
~tall
~burnette blondie with curly hair
~luv sports- softball, basketball, swimming, softball (in order)
~luvs summer pool and beach
~luvs all my friends!

and thats about it!

thanks

lol, i know who this is! Well anyways some ideas are :

p.s. all of the ideas would have choice of your number

~SwimmingBlonde
~BBallBlonde
~FuNiNtHeSuN
~BeachBlonde
~BeachBrunette
~SwimGirl
~SoftballChik
~xoBlondiexo
~BlondieGirl
~XoDirtyBlondeoX

Yeah, i can probably think of more later...so since i know who this is i will keep ya posted!
hope i gave some good ideas,

love,
-thinkpink♥

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I'm 15 and i'm DUH! a girl.So there is this guy who i liked, and he asked me out, but i said no cuz i was going with this other guy. Then i realized i liked him. But then he went out with my friend. Everyone said that he still liked me while he was going out with her, but i'm not possitive. It' been a while (me and the other guy broke up)(i'm not frinds with that girl anymore)and i think i like him again, but i don't know.Actually, i know. I like him. Should i ask him out or would it be bad?

is it just me, or does it seem like he was trying to make you jealous? when you went out with the guy and then he instantly went out with the girl..it just seems like he was trying to make you jealous. well, if thats the case, then you shouldnt ask him out right now because hes already going out with someone and because the someone is your friend. Just wait until they brake up. But also what you can do is have a friend tell him that you like him. it would be weird if you told him, so a firend would make it seem like gossip. if he likes you, he will probably break it up, but if not he'll probably still keep going out with ur friend. hope i helped, i am kinda tounge tied on what to say!

Love,
-thinkpink♥

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I need your advice! So towards the beginning of the year I became friends with this girl. We hung out a lot- it was fun. Then it seemed like she was ignoring me all of a sudden. I talked to her, and then it was all a misunderstanding. THough now she's ignoring me again! Today I smiled at her in the hall and she comepletely ignored me- and shes really nice so it made me sad. I want to be her friend again! I want to talk to her but 1) what should I say and 2) WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE ME???? HELP!

i hate when stuff like that happens...its happening right now for me!! so what you should say is "hey ____________, i havent seen you in forever! we should get together or something." You could say that to her face or in her yearbook since those are flying around these past days. And to answer your second question, she might not like you. But that isnt for sure. Maybe she feels *like you have been ignoring her too. When you say what i told you to say, if she answers "oh." or something short like that she probably doesnt like you very much (:-( i know its sooo sad). if she says something like "i know! its been forver" or something else with enthusium and maybe an actual smile then she probably likes you and just hasnt gotten around to talking to you. Just see if you can talk and hang out with her more. It will fix everything!
Hope i helped ya

Love,
-thinkpink♥

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I really really really really REALLY like this guy. The only thing is, is that my best friend ALSO likes him! i really want to ask him out...but i dont want my friend to get mad. she knows that i know she likes him and that i like him, and when we are both around him its like a battlefield! She always tries to flirt with him, but i dont because i dont want to be mean! i want to get the guy AND keep the friend...what can i do?

whoa, that is alotta drama! well tough thing is, its gonna be really hard to get the guy and the friend. i recomend keeping the friend first. no matter how cute the guy is if she is really your friend a guy shouldnt come between you guys! its also really hard when you want to be nice while your friend is practically stealing your guy, so just talk to her. tell her that you and her should not fight over a guy! its so not cool, cuz both or one of your feelings could get hurt! Just talk to her... you will probably be laughing about how crazy you guys were acting. hope i helped
love,
-thinkpink♥

p.s. : if your friend ever stops liking the guy and you still do...GO FOR IT!! ;-)

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My brother is ten and does not have enough self confidence. He is shy around everybody expecially at school. In class he totally blanks out if a teacher asks him something. The worst thing about this is that his french teacher hates him. He comes home everyday saying that he has no friends yet everyday he is seen talking to someone comming out of the school building. My parents sent him to a psycologist and he (psycologist) made him answer questions for around three hours. The psycologist is not helping what so ever and I am the only one that actually understands my brother. What do I do?

Why dont you try talking to him since you are the only one that really understands him. Maybe he just needs a friend. Also tell him that he is wonderful and if only he would not be shy everyone could see that. Also, if you know any other 10-year-olds of kids in the neigborhood about his age try to form a play-date for him. They could all do something they like to do. If it goes well, he wont only have you, he'll have other friends in the neighborhood. Your brother is just going through a tough time and needs someone to talk to, and that person should be you! Hope i helped!

Love,
-thinkpink♥

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ok, so there is this guy that ive liked for a couple months and ive always wondered if he likes me. i mean... we are REALLY good friends and he flirts with me but it seems like he flirts with like a lot of his girl- friends. i have no idea how i can tell if he likes me and in this situation i DEFINITELY dont want to ask him if he does. please help!!

one of the ways you can tell if a guy is into you if he stands within 3 feet of you when you are having a casual convo and when he stares directly in your eyes even if its just for one sec. (so i heard). but maybe he likes you and he doesnt do those things...so what you could do is ask one of his friends or your friends to find out if they know or can find out who he likes. maybe youll get some luck there! other than that, you wont really know unless he tells you or u ask him!!

hope i helped!
love,
-thinkpink♥

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