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This boy that Ive liked for 10 months hasnt talked to me in a long time.We used to talk all the time but now he just ignores me.And whenever he sees me he stares at me for a long time.My sister says that he likes me.What do you think and why?

okay this is my guess. and i never really realized this could happen until the last guy i had a 'thing' with. he probably likes you back. in my case, the guy stopped talking to me as much blah blah blah. i think he did that because then when he talked to me it was more 'special'. he was a smart kid. when you talk to someone less its more fun when you do actually talk to them. like something to look forward to. same thing with the staring thing. he would stare at me ALL the time. HE DEFINETLY LIKES YOU! and for the talking thing, maybe its not what i said. maybe hes just shy. it could be either. go up to him and start talking to him so he knows youre interested in being his friend...or more! hehe ;)

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I need to Get in shape and tone in 1 week. i have a photoshoot in a bikini and i need to tighten up everythinmg. what can i do to get toned asap!

ill rate high

try to eat really really healthy. cut out desserts, fatty foods, and soda. try not to eat too many carbs either. this will help you tone up more easily. RUN RUN RUN! maybe do some weights and stuff too. and sit ups of course =)

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okay so i dont wear the ``in `` clothes .i wear what i want when i want.lots of my clothes are tye dye or are pink,blue,black,or brown.i also have a favorite sweater that my grandma made me.it is hot pink,baby blue,white,and a mix of the pink and blue.everyone at school (not teachers)hates it.they say that i should burn it.do i wear it,or do i not wear it and hurt my grandmas feelings?

if its your favorite sweater, then wear it! who cares what other people think. if it embarrasses you too much then just wear it when you go to your grandmas house so she knows that you appreciate the gift! =)

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I really like this guy. I am pretty sure he likes me too. We always flirt with each other... and it seems like both of us go out of our way just to run into each other at school. He is always picking on me in a good natured way and we always have fun together. ... problem? he has a girlfriend that goes to a different school :( ... What is the appropriate thing to do in this situation. I know he has a girlfriend, and I should stay away... But I really LIKELIKELIKE this guy... Like if he gave me a chance I know I would fall like head over heals in love with him. i can tell he likes me too... ... but ugh I guess what would you do in my situation??

i know this sounds bad, but you said "what would you do in my situation". well i would pretty much think, i dont know this girl, so she doesnt exist. ha. she goes to a different school. keep flirting with him. dont back off because of his girlfriend if you really like him. you dont know her so she will never bother you about it/ know about it. hopefully he will realize it is more convenient to have a girlfriend from his own school and dump this other girl =)

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Okay, so im 17/f and I just broke up with my boyfriend.
I've masturbated before, but im looking for some new ways to have orgasms.

Any ideas or suggestions would be helpful.

Also, is it bad to masturbate while u have your period?

thanks!

showerhead. end of story.

no its not bad :)

good luck babe

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i have always been the person that all the people thinl is wierd and i've been trying really hard to get people to like me. i want all the guys to be swarmig around me just in case i drop a piece of paper in between classes. how do i get to be that girl.

you can't really just become that girl overnight. but you can make changes in yourself that will get you more friends and help you work your way up there. wear cute clothes. look pretty everyday for school. wear make up. do your hair nice. be nice to people. laugh and smile a lot. flirt with the boys. good luck babe :)

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I dont have a camera so i cant put a picture of me on myspace.I wanna know how do you put a display picture but its not your picture??Like how do I put a graphic as a display picture??

save the graphic on your computer. right click and click 'save as'. then upload the picture to myspace. its simple =) good luck

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So i had a sleep over with some friends and we got to the subject of where we want to have sex with our husbands when we're older. a couple of us named off in a hot tub, but a couple other friends said that it's bad. they heard a girls ovaries got busted doing it because of the water pressure.

i was wondering if that's true. is it even possible or risky?

i dont think thats true. its probably an exaggeration. but it is dangerous because you can get the dirty water inside yourself and get an infection. its just not a good idea. maybe sex in the shower instead? ha

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my bf and i had dry sex and made out for like an hour and he has nice tan skin but his cheeks were red like he was blushing. can anyone tell me why?

when you get really turned on your cheeks get red. it happens to everyone. thats why for some people their face feels hott.

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so i had sex with this guy ive been inlove with for 3 years the other day
im 14
anyway
it hurt but like felt good at the same time
i obviously broke my hymen cause it bled.
well
does it bleed the second time?
does it hurt the second time?

it depends on the person. i dont think it will bleed again. i heard it still hurts the second time though. usually by the third or fourth time it stops hurting.

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What does it mena when people say get "eaten out"??

um its when someone gives a girl oral sex.

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i need help.. ihave really thick hair and i really want to scrunch it for school! i need help! i tried alot of things but they just dont work! HELP!

i had the same exact problem. try wella scrunching gel for colored hair. my hair isnt colored (and im guessing yours might not be either) but get it anyways because it works really good!!!

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17/F, During the dance, my ex boyfriend who dumped me last year kept staring at me and my date(my guy friend)from the beginning to the end. then, while my date and I were dancing, my ex walks next to us, and he was freaking and grinding hardcore with this girl. I think that he was trying to get my attention or make me jealous. When we were leaving, I noticed that my ex kept looking at me in the parking lot. do you think that he still has feelings for me?

im guessing he probably does. he was really really jealous of your date. he either still has feelings for you or he doesnt but he doesnt want you with another guy either.

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ok so do guys think its hot if girls like kiss each other on the cheek or sleep in the same bed? my friends and i are just like that and hold hands and hug and kiss each other on the cheek and occasionally sleep in the same bed if we have sleepovers or w/e. my bf said it doesnt bother him and he understand cause we are friends. (tho guys would NEVER do that hahaha) but i have heard some guys think girls r hot when they do things like that-but my friends and i dont like makeout! we are just friends who love each other a lot and show it :) thanks so much!

um yeah actually A LOT of guys think its really hot for some reason. honestly, i dont get it. sometimes me and my friends text guys and tell them were sleeping in the same bed just for fun. because they think its really hot. some of my guy friends have tried to pay me and best friend money to make out. boys are silly...

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What stores sell hair crimpers?

- any hair salon.
- target.
- walgreens.
- walmart.
- k mart.

hope i helped :)

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I'm painting my room tomorrow. The walls are going to be pink. The theme is Peace Love and Happiness. I'm like a hippie. I'm anti-war. Thats what I want my room to be represent. I'm gettting chalkboard paint and painting a heart on my wall above my bed. My friend said it would be cool if I put a smaller peace sign beside the heart and a smiley face on the other side. If you have any good ideas for things I should do please answer this question.

i like your friends idea. but you could also write something like save the earth. or drop beats not bombs. make love not war. something along those lines. just some more quotes. i would go to google and type in peace/love/happiness quotes. im guessing peace quotes would give you the best results. but yeaa i also think it would be pretty sickkk if you put a huge peace sign above your bed.

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this girl in my class is a slut! she is fake and really annoying and a suck up. she has fake boobs and trys to get all the guys to like her to hard. she cheated on her bf over the internet a while back and she used to be my friend but now i hate her and she asks me if i still like her. what can i say to her?? that she is a slut and need to clean up her act or ignore her? plus if i dont talk to her one day or talk to a guy she likes she'll say really bad things behind my back. i just want to punch her.

okay babe. there's always gonna be girls like that in your life. just be nice to her. that will give her no reason to talk shit behind your back. don't get in a fight with her. let her do what she wants. if you really want a frienship with her maybe you should tell her nicely that she doesn't need to throw herself at guys for them to like her. she might get really offended though. so i would just stick with being nice to her at school. but you don't have to hang out with her outside of school or anything like that.

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How do they pierce it? And I know it hurts...and I am 14/f....and do you think I should wait? I want one really bad because I just got up the confidence to buy and wear a bikini and I want one to complete the package...and do you think that it is trachy or slutty? all adivce is welcomed! Kthanks =]

they pierce it with a needle. they slide the ring in through the needle. i heard that it doesn't hurt very badly. so i wouldnt worry about that too much. it's over in a few seconds anyways. if you want to get one.. go for it! you don't need to wait as long as it's alright with your parents. i like them a lot and i really want one but my parents won't let me get one! i don't think its trashy or slutty but my parents do. ha. as long as you like it thats all that matters. i'm getting one for sure when i'm 18! you're a lucky gurlll

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I have befriended my old schools social worker. She gave me her num,ber when I left my old school and we talk every once and a while when I get up the courage. Well during this past summer we went out to eat and got a chance to talk. (by the way this was all her idea, I just called to schedule!) Anyways...my family told me it was weird that I was talking to the social worker and that I should have left her behind. The problem is, is that I don't talk to my mom and I need an adult outlet, and she is it. SO do you think it is wrong to keep talking to her on her personal phone and going out with her every once in a while? She is in middle school and I am in high school if that helps

Thanks a bunchh

it sounds like its totally fine. she's a professional adult who works at a school. most likely she's safe but you never know. there's been a lot of teachers that have like raped their students and stuff. just be careful. i know that a lot of girls from my school still talk to the middle school social worker. once you talk to someone about your problems and you completely trust them, you form a special bond. it's okay to talk to her. it's her job. she probably enjoys being a social worker and that is why she's keeping in touch with you.

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14f ok so.. well whenever I get the chance I love to make guys nervous or well idk. If they ask me who i like ill say you because I want see their reaction. Or Ill say hey sexy or baby or names that probably seem like it would come from their girlfriend. Or sometimes depending on who ill sit down next to a guy stroke his thigh and say hey. But I let them know that I'm just kidding. I guess I dont have a problem but I just want to know what people think of this. Like should I stop since I dont even like like them or just as long as they know Im playing then its okay?

yes everyone loves doing that. i do it too.. dont wory its totally normal. people might start calling you a 'slut' or a 'whore' though. so i would try to stick to guys that you actually like. i mean its fine if they know that you're just playing.. but you don't want to piss people off. it's not good that you're telling guys you like them when you don't though. that could get someone really hurt.

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