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Q: Does anyone know where you can buy the diamond Chanel logo earrings (the two C's)?? Store names or links would be fabulous. :)
thanks!
www.ebay.com HAHA jk lol or uhm
www.edesignerhandbags.net

Q: I just found out that my brother and his serious girlfriend of 2 years just broke up. I found out from her not him; he hasn't even mentioned anything about it yet. Idk how to handle this. Hes my big brother and I want to protect him. I wanna hate her for breaking his heart; but she was practicly my older sister. I dont know what to do; He doesnt seem very sad, but he could be just bottling it up. I wanna comfort him but idk if he wants me to know, i Dont think my parents know either.

what should i do?
Well. Changes are hes dealing with it well. If you know how he has acted with previous breakups though and he does bottle things up, go to him & ask if theres anything he would like to talk about. Casually ask him how hes doing and if everythhing is alright in his life. Then mention that you heard him and his girlfriend broke up, ask how thats going. If he responds in a negative way then be there for him, if he responds in a way that he says "Its going fine, im fine" or something along those lines than maybe he is okay with it. Maybe they had some problems in the relationship that made it easier for him to let go of her. As for her, you dont have to hate her because she "broke his heart". What happens in a breakup should stay between the people in that breakup. I think its sort of tacky when breakups happen & if they have mutal friends, they have to pick sides. Thats so wrong.

Q: is there any way to delete a web address from the thing you type the web site in(sorry cant think of the name)

will rate high! thanks for any help
Lol. The address bar. Yes there is. You can go to tools, and then interenet options at the top of your browser, and delete all temporary internet files. These would be the things that your browser stores, like past websites & such. Also, you can clear your history too if your worried about it that much =D

Q: My boyfriend and I can rarely hang out because my parents are so strict. I almost never see him outside of school. But he loves me alot and will do practically anything for me. But lately he has been hanging out with this girl, we'll call her Liz. And Liz obviously likes him. Liz has been using me to get closer to him but he swears that he doesn't like her. He always also talks crap about Liz behind her back. but they continue to hang out. But he doesn't want to break up with me.

Since me and him dont hang out alot, is he maybe trying to create a substitute of me that he can hang out with? What do you think?
I think possibly he might be trying to use her as a substitute, but even if that is so he shouldnt do that if he really loves you. He wouldnt want a substitute because that wouldnt be as good as the real thing. I dont understand why he would be talking shit about her and then still hanging out with her, it leaves me to wonder if he has something to hide. Maybe you should be 100% up front with him and ask him to be 100 percent honest with you also. If he liked her though, I'm sure he wouldnt want to tell you because he doesnt want to lose you, but its normal to like other people while your dating someone, as long as its just like. Its always a curiosity factor. Guys like other girls because their curious of what they cant have, but as long as they know they cant have them its alright, make sure your boyfriend knows that. =D

Q: Does anyone know if the Invisalign works? I was thinking about getting Invisalign instead of braces...has anyone had any experience with it?
I havent personally used it because I dont need braces, but I have heard that it does work & really well. Plus you dont have like metal in your mouth & noone can even tell you have them =D So if your afraid of looks wise, then there the way to go, but their more expensive.

Q: Ok. I have this friend from Canada and I Imed her and her aunt 'supposeofly' said that she passed out and then about an hour later i got back online and she said she didnt know who I was. I think she is lying. How Can I tell???
You cant tell that she is lying, but if you dont really know her in person chances are she is either A)avoiding you or B)making up a problem to get attention from you. I say you back off and leave her alone because if you pass out you dont also get amnesia from it. Basically its probably an attention getter.

Q: i am 15 and boobs are very small what are the best things to us to stuff a bra like not buying one thats stuffed just what can i use thanks i rate high
First off. Dont stuff your bra, people will finnd out and you will get made fun of, plus theres no way to make it even like regular boobs. So basically, I think you should feel comfortable with what size that you have & If you really want to make a tiny improvement, buy a water bra, or a padded bra. They help and dont look as fake. =)

Q: is there any ways i can get motivated to write? i don't know.. my boyfriend told me..that my writing would get graded an F. umm yea. that really hurt..and now it's bothering me. i know my grammer sucks...but that really messed me up..now my authors block is lasting longer than usual.
First. Its writers block. It happens when you cant think of anything to write about. Im a natural writer, not being conceited or anything. Some things that help me write are thinking about life, or listening to songs and basing it around that.

Q: ok my parents were not home so i took there car out to practice my driving.then i took the car to go out to the mall and go shopping.when i came back from shopping there was a huge scratch on the hood of it!please help!!!
Get some wax and buffer things from a car part store, and wax the hood till the scratch comes out. Or jsut tell yourparents you went joyriding, lol.

Q: Okay I really want to pierce my own cartlage but I don't know exactly how. I want to do it the right way so I won't get it infected or whatever. Could anyone give me precise instuctions? Thanks in advance!
Well. Basically. You can either numb it and shove a needle through, or you can just shove a needle though. Theres no exact way to piece your cartilage, because theres no nerve endings that you would damange, and no veins that you would bleed to death from hitting. So basically, just stick a needle through your ear. Make sure you sterilize it, and put a gold earring through it, to minimize the chances of getting an infection. Even people who have it professionally pierced still get infections so really theres no right or wrong way, make sure you clean it daily with alcohol or peroxide and a Q tip though, to also lessen the chances of possible infection.

Q: can you get any STD's from being fingerd....i didnt cum or anything like that ...but i was fingerd and it was my first time and i worried
No, you cant get STDS from bein fingered. The only way you can contract an STD is from oral sex or actual sex, if they have STDS in that region. Other ways would be making out with someone who has a cut on the inside of their mouth, or cold sores on the surface of their lips. Nothing to be worried about.

Q: hey - well ive asked you for advice before and it was really good, so can you help me out again?


how do you get rid of cellulite?

how much should the average 5'4 9th grader weigh? thankss

ily
Heyy! Actually, Getting rid of cellulite can be done by exercising, to minimize the ammount of fatty tissue in your body, and also there is creams that you can apply to the areas that contain it, and it will go away with time. Also, standard weight for someone thats 5'4'' is 120 lbs. But it depends on your body frame. If you have a small frame its 110, medium frame, 120, and large frame 130. =)

Thxx for asking

Q: so i started my period about a year ago en just started to use tampons. en i was wondering when i put a new one on should i wear it for the whole day or change.
Hey! Sorry it took so loing for me to answer, i usually check this alot but lately I've been soo busy. Anyways, hm. It usually says on the box how often to change it, but it depends on how heavy your flow is and what kind of tampon they are. If their those light flow ones, every 3 hours I would say, if their the heavy flow ones or super absorbent, about every 7. Depending on your flow if your light or heavy. Check on the box though, and if this didnt help, ask someoe else. =(

Q: k well..i had/have this friend and like he thinks i lied 2 him and now hes all mad at me and his friend wont leave me alone and idk what 2 do so he wont be mad at me nemore..and the thing is i didnt even lie..so what do i do?
Well, talk to the friend and explain to him that you didnt lie and you want to know what he heard or anything to make him think that you lied. Then talk it out and hopefully things will turn out okay.

Q: hey i was wonderin if you new a website we're you can look at colors of hair, im considerin dying my hair. google,yahoo,and ask jeezes were no help, i need an actual site based all around hair color. i rate 5's. kthanks.
Yuppp. www.clairol.com

Q: hey can you tell me how to get highlights out of your hair with out dying it. thankss
Well, you can go to the salon and have them stip your hair. Thats the only way that I know of, but it ruins your hair and makes it dry, but if you do decide to do that just get revitalizing shampoo so your hair will become healthy again.

Q: if you have ever had laughing gas like when you had stuff done on your mouth, can you tell me what its like please?! FAST
Lol, aw. Well when I got my tonsils removed they gave me laughing gas and they put a mask on your face and tell you to count backwards from 100, you only get to about 98, and when your counting down you inhale the gas, and it knocks you out. Thats pretty much all that happens, you cant feel a thing and you wake up about an hour or two after the operation or work or whatever is done.

Q: I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it.
Ive never had a friend that had to come out before, but from what I've read and heard, its better to come out and admit these things, instead of living a lie, but also I've heard that its very crucial in high school and sometimes if you admit it during high school you could get made fun of for it. So if your insecure with yourself, or not comfortable with your sexuality quite yet, I would maybe wait till after high school is over, because people tend to be more accepting outside of the high school scene. but if you are comfortable with who you are or might be, and dont care what people think about you, then come out if it will make you feel better about yourself.

Q: hey after i ask you a question and you answer it - how do i rate youu?
lol. You sign into your account that you asked the question on, and then you click "Your questions" Find the one that you asked me and I answered & it should say 1 . 2 . 3 . 4 . 5 - then you pick one and if you want to leave feedback like thanks or whatever, you write that in the feedback box =)

Q: hey i saw a commerical and an add in a magazine for studioline new hot straight cream by loreal and it says that after the shower when hair is wet to put in before blow drying - how wet do they mean - 10 mins after? 20 mins? an hour? it also says it helps it stay straight during humidty - do you think thats true? my first day of highschool is tomorrow and i wanna wear my hair down and straight in a highschool with no air conditioners so post back
Yeah it works. Towel dry hair right after shower then apply about a quarter amount on palm, and work it into your hair. Hope that helped doll =)

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