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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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14/f. jonathon, my best guy friend, has been acting like a jerk to me the past few weeks. i got mad about it, and we kind of stayed away from each other for a few days. he and i were really close before then and told each other everything. as soon as jonathon and i quit talking for awhile, sarah, my other best friend, started hanging around him and he apparently "replaced" me with her in the sense that he began to tell her everything and stuff (his "depressing" life story and the big part that i played in it). so last night jonathon and i resolved our issues, and he told me that there's no excuse for the way he's been treating me, but the only reason that he's been weird is that he has a major crush on me and kind of doesn't know how to act around me right now because he likes me but doesn't want to scare me off (we had talked about not dating anybody until high school, so even if we like each other we kind of vowed to just stay friends). so now things are kind of how they used to be (after we were "cool" again, he asked me to this big banquet for next year as friends and i said okay). now i'm hoping that things are going to be just the way they were before. but, i'm worried that he's replaced me with sarah as somebody to talk to. do y'all think that i'm overreacting? by the way, i don't like him in that way, he's just my best friend. do you think that maybe he started hanging around sarah more to make me jealous or something?

hey, alk to him about it. let him know that you dont like him in that way. hes probably just looking for soemone to talk to because hes afraid to talk to you. the reason why hes afraid is cause hes now intimidated by you because he likes you. cait♥

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I ordered a soda dispenser off the internet and I typed my credit card number and address and everything correctly, but after i confirmed the order i noticed i made a type in my email address! is the incorrect email address going to affect my order in any way, or is it no important?

hey, i dont think that the email adress matters. but if you really wanted to im sure you could either call the company and change it or there might be a link on the site. cait♥

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truthfully, yeah in always pop my zits or squeeze black heads, who doesnt. well my nose is really dry now and the skin is pealing, part of it pealed so much its beat red and so dry and very bumpy? i dont know how it happened or wut to do

hey, popping zits alot would cause that. apply lotion and mouisterizing daily face wash to it. cait♥

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I am always getting the hiccups. Always! Sometimes when I hiccup its only just once then i get them again and then its just once. Then at different times when i get the hiccups i get several and they dont go away for quite sometime. I know this sounds stupid.. but could this be a bad thing?

hey, i dont think that anything to do with the hiccups couild be bad. but you never know. you could try asking your doctor. drink lots of water when you have the hiccups too. cait♥

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ok I finally downloaded knight online but How come I can't log in to one of the servers? Each world I click on has some sort of meter that shows green to red. Does that mean that world is full? Please help me and again I will rate 5s. Also some help about the game will be highly appreciated.

thx!!!

hey, ahah i just answered your last question about knight the same. try google. haha. cait♥ EDIT: TYPE IN GAMES OR KNIGHT ONLINE GAME.

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Okay...so I was on this site and it had like how too's! IT was sooooo weird...they said that you can use an iron (the one you use to iron clothes and smooth out) to straighten your hair. They say u can't use it often (i wouldn't try it) but does it work?

hey, yes it does work! my friend kelsey always straightens it with a straightener first and then go over her hair with the clothes iron. if your trying to straighten your whole head of hair wiht a clothes iron thats not going to work. but if you want to do like a strand of hair or just run over it, its fine to use! cait♥

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I've been best friends with this girl for like sense we were born sense our moms knew each others.Well lately my friend hasent been hanging out with me that much mostly in school we allways used to spend the whole morning together and at lunch and stuff.Is just that lately shes been hanging out and flirting with lots of guys and thats why she hasent paid much attention to me.Also one of the guys shes been mostly flirting with is my bf. Wich really gets me pissed off cuz he dosent do anything is her that gets all over him.I've tried to talk to her before about this but she just says shes having fun and shes not doing anything wrong is just that i worry too much.

hey, you probabaly are over-worrying jsut a tad bit. but i totally agree with you that her flriting with your boyfriend is wrong. she can talk with him and maybe flirt a tiny bit but over-flirting is jsut unacceptable. shes paying attention to much to byos right now to pay attention to you. thats what it seems like to me. shes boycrazy and everyone gets like that between ages 13-16. just hang otu wit other friends more then her. give her time. she will come around soon. cait♥

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Can I please have a link to where I can see Mariah Careys new video, "Say Something?"

hey, try www.urbnmix.net or www.musicfeet.com cait♥

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When did Captain Jack (The guy from DDR) die and how did he die? I will rate 5 stars for proper answers. Thank you.

hey, he died at a party on october 21 2005. i got that info from google. if you want ot know more try there. cait♥

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hi! well one of my best friends is going out with my brothers good friend. they have only been goin out for 2 days..and their relationship just bugs me for some reason--dont worry im not jealous one bit lol. its just that we share a locker and he is always there now...it seems like they are always together now..and talking to each other inbetween classes. it also kinda seems like she is trying to brag about stuff and throw it in my face. because i just talked to her and she was like yeah so me and ryan (her boyfriend) went over to nicks..and nick is this kid that i had a thing for..well for a night but thats a different story. and then shes like well yeah your brother came over there and it was all just weird. and i dont know i dont see a reason to tell me that? sometimes i just dont get her anymore. they just bug me when they are together and everytime with her when shes talking to ryan..she makes me look stupid..like saying weird remarks about me and stuff..i dont know if she doesnt know she is doing it or what but i look at her like what the hell is going on? i told her that i thought it was weird theyre going out but she doesnt seem to care. i think its weird that she now hangs out with my brothers friends and sometimes my brother. im scared im gonna lose her. and i told her that and she was like ohhh dont worry thatll never happen..blah blah! but seriously their realtionship just bugs me soo much and i dont know why! what do you think i should do? i have already tried talkin to her bout it..but nothin really happened and i dont wanna get into a fight about it! i just dont know anymore..things are all screwed up! seems like she likes to rub it in my face that she has a boyfriend and i dont??? well im im 10th grade--16 and shes in 9th grade--15 and ryan the boy she is goin out with is in 11th grade--i think hes like almost 17?! what should i dooo....like i said please dont suggest talking to her because i already did..and im suppose to hangout with her this weekend..but lately she has been buggin me..and i cant cancel them either!?..

thanks! i'll rate 5 for anyone who answers.

hey, i think that right now shes caught up in the whole idea that shes dating an 11th grader. to her its an excitement. give her time. continued hanging out with ehr and trying to make the realtionship work. because if you ignore her and not talk to her as much its going to make things worse. cait♥

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I'm 16, female, and straight. I have a few really close female mates, and occasionally I get really strong feelings for them. Like the other night, I was on the sofa with one of my closest friends, watching a film and we were just holding hands like we often do, and she was curled up with her head on my lap, and I had these really weird feelings, like I wanted to be closer to her, and have a really special relationship with her... I didn't say anything coz I thought she'd think I was really weird. But then the next day, she said to me "you know when we were on the sofa yesterday, I had this really odd feeling, like I wanted to kiss you or something," and I was like "thats so strange, I felt the same.."
We both have boyfriends who we love, and are straight. So whats with these feelings?

hey, it could be that you are bisexual. your probably thinking eww bisexual gross but being bisexual isnt that different. its totally normal actually. alot of people are like that. but its not normal to be holding hands and having her lay in your lap. theres def. some love attraction thing there. cait ♥

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Well, i like this guy named jp, and it is the first guy so far that i have been moving slow onto for a while, because i have been having bad luck lately, but i think that it just had been because i had been moving too fast and had wanted them right when i had started liking them, instead of taking time.
i really dont know what to do about this guy though, because i have a weared feeling about this one but dont know why.
i dont know if i want to like him though, because i dont want to be hurt again.
So, should i go for him and risk it, wait a while, or not even go for him at all?



Hev

hey, wait a while. get to knwo him mroe and see if you can picture yourself dating him. like you said dont rush things. sorta give him an idea that your kinda interested in him. but dont seem desperate. cait♥

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but what happens if i am jumping to the wrong conclusion, wouldnt that make things akward?
what am i supposed to say if he says were just goin as friends? what am i supposed to say period?

hey, no its fine that you asked another question. well start it off like this (his name i like you as a friend maybe a little more than that (say the part after the wrod friend if you feel that way) i was jsut wondering aout the talent show. in your opion, what were you thinking it was suppose to be a date or just going out as friends. im not trying to make it into anything but i just wanted to know... well there you go! you can add to it as much as you want. cait♥ also if you ever need anything send me something in my inbox!

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Okay, so i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. We frequently get in fights, over stupid things though. An example is last night, i got mad because he added a girl he used to like on myspace, like 10 minutes after he made one. I wouldn't care, but i liked him while he liked both of us, and he was choosing her over me at the time. And he falls fast for people and i got scared he would drop me for this girl. And i love him to death and i would be so lost with out him, i care too much for him to throw what we have away for some girl.

So i guess what i'm asking is, am i not giving him "space" or am i being too like, protective of him or something along the lines of that?

Have you or anyone you know been like this with relationships?

please help, it will be appriceiated.

hey, im like that alot with relationships. its an issue that you have a constant fear that your not good enough and that he will pick someone else to like. so i get you. what i do is just calm down and think he loves me so hes going to pick me. if he ends up not choosing you then you were too good for him = ]. cait♥

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What are some of the top Graphic Design colleges?


5's just if you give me any...

hey, try searching google. cait♥

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female/14 We have a school talent show every year and you buy tickets from one person in your Homeroom who is called your "Homeroom rep". In my homeroom noone wanted the job so we dont have a homeroom rep. I was talkin to my male friend about this and he said he would buy me tickets in his homeroom and we could go "together" my other friend was sittin with us at the time and later was joking around with me about it, saying it was a date and stuff. I think she was kidding, but what if it is? I'm not sure what he thinks it is, and im not even sure what i want it to be. I'm not sure if I like him like that and I dont even no if im just over thinking things. Please help

hey, the only way your going to find out is if you ask him. if your nervous to ask dont ask in person. ask on AIM or by phone. cait♥

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well currently it's spring break && im feeling like its summer all over again. I'm not an only child, i have two older sisters who have lives an hour away from my house. I live with my mom and her boyfriend and my dad and his girlfriend live like 20 minutes away. ALL during summer, i'm home alone. A lot of people take advantage of the fact that their mom stays home or that they have sibling to live with. At least they have somehting to do, I'm home alone all summer long from 7-5 :(. I feel like its summer and this is one of the reasons i DONT like summer, im bored and lonely, which makes me sad and i get sad alot and i hate being sad, HELP.

hey, you should make plans with friends as much as you can to avoid being home alone. if your going to be home alone plan out a nice day for yourself. give yourself a facial bubble bath manicure and pedicure. if your old enough to drive go out by yourself to shop or soemthing. cait♥

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Does anyone have any good cheers for freshman tryouts??? Please Help!!!! I need some cheers tryouts are less than a month away....

thanks always.
me.

hey, well i dont know what the cheerleading tryouts are for. so if you will please send me what the cheering tryouts are for in my inbox. i have cheered for basketball and football and i believe that i could be a big help. cait♥ EDIT: YES BUT THE TRYOUTS ARE FOR WHAT SPORT?

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Is there a place I can put up stories and poetry I write for feedback that doesn't fit into a specific genre?

Like, fanfiction.net stopped allowing people to post fanfiction there that wasn't based on something (like Harry Potter or Lord of the Rings or whatever).

Thanks!

hey, http://www.deviantart.com/ cait♥

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my mom always hits me. i have scratch and bite marks all over me. how do i stop my mom from punching me? she always hurts me for no reason. i really don't know what to do. i'm scared. she never hits my sister. only me. and my fat pig sister always does the wrong things and i don't and nothing ever happens to her. help.

hey, i would tlak to your dad about it or someone close to you. then called the child protection services and report your mother. cait♥

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