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Okay so I have a boyfriend of almost 11 monthes now. Problem is his mom and I do not get along exspecially after last night!
So I seen she IMed me while I was with my boyfriend ((her son)). She said hey or w/e so I IMed her back sayin hey an I had a question so I asked her why did she let his ex gf stay the night knowing I don't like her. She told me that since chad was at work she thought it was fine plus her house is open to any one she care's about or w/e. So I got all upset you know cause' that make's me mad an basically told her you know that it's not right an supposively his mom already told him that one of his ex's misses him right? SO why would his mom tell him this if she knew he has a gf, an like that make's me wonder what the hell did she tell the girl after she said that, an it's seems kinda obvious she doesn't like me an she is tryin to get chad to go mess with other girl's or somethin ya know.
Okay now after all this me askin her about the girl stayin the night I told her how I felt an shit an then she tells me like I supposively hungout with my ex bf? Im like wtf I didn't hangout with my ex bf. And then she like went an looked at my ex bf's myspace an seen shit I posted to him in the past like cause we were tryin to make this girl jealous an his mom went on a rampage about it all telling me she would tell my bf an shit so I was like w/e go ahead do what you do.
Now like really, I honestly don't know what to do about her like he can't move out because like his mom will make him pay insurance an since he is gonna start going back to school he wouldn't be able to afford it.
So what should I do in my situation if he asks me to come hangout with his family, do I talk to everyone in cept her.
And am I in the wrong for being upset of his EX gf being there ya know. And like I know I could of handled stuff little better but I asked her a question an she was all a bitch about it an then brought up somethin that I told my ex in the PAST an shit.
Like Honestly she isnt my mother so she has no right snoopin in my buisness. PLUS if chad thought anything dont you think he would of went online an snooped himself, plus it was something said in the fucking past.
I thinks he has no life but w/e am I in the wrong, what should I do like no idea im goin crazay. Thankx you whoever takes the time out to read this!! (link)
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It probably wouldn't be a good idea but then his mom might invite the ex girlfriend over,it'll seem like you don't want to be around the whole family,just at least say hi to his mom so you won't look bad in front of the family, you don't have to talk to her either,and she should say she's sorry for butting in.Tell your boyfriend to tell his mom that he doesn't want his ex coming over anymore to his house, no matter what the excuse she has,and especially that he has a girlfriend who deserves some respect.
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I read a really sad thing about an abused dog throughout so many years and it made me cry and think about my puppy...and now i cant seem to get it off of my mind...any advice on how to let this go? (link)
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Yes you could give charity for poor dogs that are starving,being abused harshly, you'll feel a lot better that you did something very generous,and a thoughtful thing. It also upsets me when I find out about it and I say that the owners of these poor dogs should be punished for abusing their dogs,and that's just so cruel!
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hey people :)
So both my mom and my sister have very big boobs, like Ds and my family is very skinny. My sister and I weigh 97 pounds. I am a 15 and my sister is 22. But the problem is my boobs are only As. I was talking to my sister and she said that she was the same way until senior year and then it just happened. So my question is, is it very likely that my boobs will be Cs or Ds by senior year because all the women in my family has had this happen to them?
thanks :) (link)
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Yes it's a very big possibility since all the women in your family had this transformation occur to them.So you shouldn't be too worry about that.
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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
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You really should dump him he's no good,he's not worth it at all,he's definitely a player,and doesn't seem to have feelings to cheat on 30 girls,deserves no forgiveness for al his wrong doings,and when he grows into a very old person,he'll regret it but it'll be too late.
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Hey guys, I need some help here. I want to know if any of these are signs that my guy friend likes me.
There's this other creep at my school who sometimes hangs out with all of us at lunch. The other day my friend had to go do something in the classroom, so he wasn't there yet. This creep, we'll call him...'Sean'...ran up to me and grabbed me and said: 'I need to ask you a personal question. Are you going with anyone to the Sadie Hawkins dance?' When I said no, he asked me friend and my other friend. Anyway, later on I told my guy friend about it and he sort of got protective-like, and wanted to know if I'd said yes to 'Sean'. I said no, and he asked if I had a date, then sort of playfully suggested I go with him. Aside from the fact that the guys at my school have the Sadie concept all wrong, I'd like to know if he might like me. (link)
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Yes,I really I'm positive he likes you,he asked you playfully about if you wanted to go with him not to make it seem too obuvious,that should already tell you he is attracted to you,when he got jealous,and so you should be really happy if you feel the same way about him.But if not well you should just either talk to him about it or leave it alone it's your choice.
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hello mrs deville i'm ready for my close up!
my name is "stacy" i love to act i love to sing i love being the center of attention1 who dosn't?!? i recently attended a theater summer camp! it ws great i went from being a NOBODY actress to a SOMEBODY..your probably asking...my problem? i rather spend time with my new found friends at camp then my ones at home there sooo boring its like listening to wanna be preps! no offense to them..its like they all have personality that has nothing to do with mine and my friends at camp there great! but well one of my friends at camp is moving to my school and my friends are having trouble accepting her (we met at a cafe once) i reallyyy wanted them to meet her turns out...THEY HATE HER i really rather hang out with her then my friends but i'm graduating this year and we were planning a big party with a limo and all! PLEASE HELP
signed
STACY soon to be drama queen (link)
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Well try to have them talk together,try telling them they should give her a chance that she can be a very cool person,that you want all your friends to be together,especially that you are graduating,tell them to do it for you just at least give her one chance,and that it would make you very happy,and that's all you're asking from them.
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I have been trying to eat healthier, so I have been substituting some of my normal snacks for fruits. But when I start eating them, I eat SOOO much fruit! Can eating too much fruit be bad for you in the long run? Like obviously you need fruit in your diet, but if you eat too much all the time can it cause you to gain weight or anything? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Fruit is good for your diet but you will need some food in your body as well because there were a couple of people I knew that fainted because they only ate fruit or vegetables.Fruit won't cause you to gain weight that's the great thing and that it's very healthy.
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Hey my best friend gabby just turned 16 and iam 17 and on her b-day both her parents let her drink a half bottle of beer and ever since then she's been saying how cool it is and iam sick of it how can I get her to stop drinking?Iam really worried. (link)
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Get rid of the beer so she'll stop drinking or hide it in a good place where she won't even imagine that you could of put the beer on that place.Tell her about the consequences of drinking beer,try convincing her to drink soda or water,get others to help you out if necessary.Good luck!
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okay well my hair is VERY dry and frizzy. the thing is my sister and ALL my cousins have nice thin straight hair. i just got my hair cut layered and sorta bangs. my hair isnt really really frizzy it`s just a little. so do you have any ideas what i can do with it to make it look pretty w/out doing too much work? (link)
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You could just use a gel called zero frizz,with also a hairspray to eliminate's frizzy hair,but apply some water on the hair first ,and that's all.
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I broke up with my ex a month and a half ago, and I'm still not over it. He dumped me, and then wanted to be friends.. and I refused, and we didn't speak for a couple of weeks. Then we spoke again, worked out everything, and agreed to speak in person, perhaps get back together (a couple of days later, he said he "thought about it carefully" and said he only wanted to be friends) We fought again, and then stopped talking yet again I was happy with this. I don't believe in being friends with someone afterwards, because I know I can't get over them that way and there's just no need for it. I was a little sad our friendship had been ruined because we had been good friends for 5 years, but not talking helped me to get over him. For a time. one day, out of the blue he came and apologized to me, said he wanted to put the past behind us, and invited me to a party he was having. I went, we had fun and acted like normal, I thought I was over him but that night I realized I was anything but.
I just don't know what to do anymore. We say hi and stuff, but I find myself intentionally avoiding him, or when I see him I avoid his gaze. When he talks to me, I try and make our conversations short. Every single time I see him or we talk my feelings become ever more intense. I'm kinda unintentionally acting mean to him so he won't bother speaking to me anymore and thus I can get over him.
The other night I unblocked him from IM and asked him about us getting back together ever in the future. He said you never know what could happen. I said I wanted to know whether to cut my losses and move on. He asked what kind of relationship I wanted, I said nothing serious just something casual and he said same, because he wanted to focus on more important stuff. He said if we were to get back it'd be nothing heavygoing. He acted like he was interested in getting back, and so we were joking around.. flirting and stuff, and then suddenly he changes hes mind like "i'm only really interested in physical stuff at the moment, something no stress or friendship. nothing that will distract me" and I felt awful because he had changed his mind like the drop of a hat. I said I'd never bring it up again after he said that. And I never will.
What can I do? I just am so confused right now. I don't want to argue with him, but I don't want to be friends either because it's tearing me apart. I only have a few months of high school left. How can I get over him? Should I just tell him outright I can't be friends with him? And why did he lead me on like that, and act like he wanted us to get back not once but twice?
thanks. (link)
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You should tell him that you don't want to be friends because that's not going to help you get over him and also why did he make you think that you too were going back together, and that he should of been honest since the very beginning instead of getting your hopes down.He should know how much he is affecting you.
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i am 16 years old, im 5'2 and i look like im still 10 years old. i am started my period when i was 12 so i am not completly messed up but i about 90 pounds and have 32 AA boobs. yeah there not even called boobs just a chest. so i dont think that i have alot of growing left to do? because i started my period 4 years ago, am i going to keep growing? are my boobs going to get bigger? (link)
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When girls grow up to be 15 years old their breast grow and other parts of their body since their maturing.You could even ask your teacher and she'll tell you the same thing.
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Hey, I was wondering, you left an answer to a girl who asked what products work best for shaving 'down there' and I was wondering, does Bikini Touch leave red bumps? And after you use it to get the hair off, does that area still hurt when you walk, sit, stand, etc.? Thanks! (link)
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Bikini touch doesn't leave any red bumps,no it doesn't hurt that's why the machine is good to have,it doesn't cut your skin,and it's safe to use even on your fingertips.And you welcome.
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On myspace a band sent me a friend request and I accepted it. I clicked onto their profile and I loved their music! They arn't a popular band, they are just starting out so I clicked onto their pictures to see what they looked like. One of the members of the band, his name is Linzy, caught my eye. The second I saw his picture I fell in love. He's not even that cute, but he's all I can think about. On the page it listed all of their screen names so I IMed Linzy and I talked to him for an hour. I told him I loved him and I wrote him a poem and I told him hes sexy and I want to be his girlfriend, and first off these things just slipped out, I started typing them and I couldn't stop myself. And second of all I don't even know him and I'm randomly obsessed. I asked him for his personal myspace and I sent him a friend request. I sent him a total of like 10 messages and comments in 3 hours. I commented all of his pictures saying "your so hot and sexy." This guy is 5 years older then me and he smokes weed, and I don't know how I can love him but I just do. I found out he has a girlfriend, and I got soooooo jealous. I don't even know him and every single person that left him a comment on myspace, I got sooo jealous for no reason. I can't stop leaving him comments saying I love him. I asked him if he liked me, and he said well I never even met you. When Linzy is not online I talk to all of the other people in his band and I ask them about Linzy. What his interests are, what he does for fun and stuff. They seriously must think I'm a freak. I dream about him and think about him all the time, and the most I've seen of him is a freakin PICTURE. I tried deleting his screen name and deleted his myspace and the band's so I could get over him, but then 10 seconds later I added his screen name again because I missed him. I don't know why I'm so obsessed when 1. I don't know him, 2. He's not cute, 3. He's alot older then me. I'm soooooo obsessed I tell all my friends about him and stuff. And him and his band have a concert that's coming right near where I live and I already bought tickets. I don't know why I'm so obssessed with him, when the other people in his band are way cuter. He's the uglyest one. And I don't like him because of his personality, because hes got the most boring personality in the world and he's soooo shy. And I promised myself I would never like any one who smokes, and he smokes weed daily and here I am OBSESSED with him. He's really nothing special. What can I do to get rid of these feelings about him. I don't know him and I'm never going to meet him, so do you think the reason I'm so obsessed and like him so much is a warning or some kind of thing God's telling me that he's the one for me. Maybe God's trying to hint to me that he's Mr. Right??? I've never felt like this about a guy, and I haven't even met this dude!! And I know he's not a 50 year old stalker because my friend went to his concert. What do I do?!??!?! I'm making myself sooo anxious and I have to go online every 5 mins to check if he sent me a comment on myspacee. Help!!!! (link)
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Calm down this situation can be fixed,asking for help is a start you have to force yourself not to go on myspace for a while so you don't get the feeling to wanting to leave him a comment or anything.Tell your friends that you are going to stop talking you expect the same form them not even to mention his name.Do something to keep you busy like exercise,chores,watching a lot of television,reading a book or the newspaper whatever will take your mind off him.This will take some time but if you put effort into it the sooner you'll get him over with.
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In 6th grade, I fell in love with this kid named kevin. We went out for about a month but it ended up not working out and we broke up. After that we were still best friends but it was always akward seeing eachother because I never really got over him. Well, he's gone out with many ppl since then and i have gone out with a few people too. (We are now going into 8th grade) Last night Kevin told me how he has always loved me and how he never really got over me and I completely fell in love with him again the only problem is at the moment I have a boyfriend who I love but I know I really have always loved Kevin. Kevin says he'll wait for me but I don't know what to do. And I don't know if I can dump my boyfriend because I don't want to hurt him ANY ADVICE? Thanks so much in advance (link)
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You'll be hurting your boyfriend more by not being honest to him so be with Kevin if that's who you love but as far as your boyfriend tell himthat you never meant to hurt him but you have feelings for someone else,you prefer to end the relatioship rather than go on,give him false illusions,and that you're very sorry.
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sorry this is long but its really important that i get an answer before i pop!!theres a girl that we'll call Taylor and she skipped a grade and everyone favors her because she's little. Everyone except me. she's really a b**** but nobody sees that and when they do they cant get mad because its Taylor. i dont get it. now my friend Michelle is starting to see this too. whenever we have a party we have to invite her because if we dont are friends will practically refuse to talk to us because they're like "how could you not invite poor innocent Taylor, she never did anything to anyone" but really she did so she always ends up forcing herself to the parties. and it really pissed me off when our friends were talking about one time when they went shopping with Taylor and she was being really b****y but they just forced themselves to ignore her attitude because "it was taylor and you cant get mad at her" which of course this just makes her self esteem so high which makes the situation worse. oh and one time i had really small shorts on and taylor was trying to fit in and she was like "oh my god look how small your shorts are, what are you a size 0" so i said "no they're 3's and i dont feel like hearing your mouth right now" which made her and her "possy" mad at me for a little while but she still wears kids clothes she's so small and how can she judge me!? so basically i need help dealing with her. either make my friends see how she really is or just something to say to this Taylor girl and a comeback to my friend when they try to defend her. i really like my friends when they're not around her so dont tell me to get rid of my friends. i just need them to get a reality check. thanks for listening i know this was long. (link)
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What you should do is make your friends see how she really is so they could just stop defending her all the time and I understand that it must be really annoying,frustrating,and your friends need to open their eyes,and see the truth.
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Sorry, it's long but please read anyways!
Okay, so in 8th grade, I met some of the best friends I've ever had, and in was in 7th that I met my very bestest friend in the world wide world. Basically, 8th grade was like the year we knew who we were friends with and we loved each other and were crazy and it just felt like one big party. (drama included) Not trying to brag or anything, but I had ALOT of friends. I could go to like 5 different groups of friends and fit in perfectly.
The problem? I'm going into high school next year and everyone has said that you will loose alot of your friends from middle school. This is almost definitely going to happen especialy because we are like all really different. I really want us all to stay friends. It's almost as if I can't imagine life without my friends. I know I'll make new friends and everything but does anybody have any suggestions of how I can stay in touch will them and not loose them completely?
By the way, I am pretty busy after school with cross country and horseback riding and stuff.
Oh and please do not say "if they are your true friends, you wil find a way" because I just want suggestions. Thanks! (link)
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Like ask them what school they are going to,perhaps come to an agreement to go in the same school or ask for their phone number, and where they live so you can visit them whenever you want to.
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Hi.
We have these profile thingys to fill out for our yearbook, and there's a box that you put them in. Well, I got curious (Shouldn't have done this, I know) put my hand in, and grabbed one out. I wanted to see what other people had said before I did mine. Well, by some amazing stroke of fate, the one I picked up had mentioned my name.. under "Idol" the person had put my name.. and then said "Just kidding.. I idolize how long shes survived having her face run over by cars"
I barely even know this girl and I've done NOTHING to her. I was very upset reading this. I KNOW the yearbook people would put this in.. because they have stupid questions like "person you want to hunt down" and stuff, so they're encouraging that kind of thing. I still have the profile form. Should I rip it up, so she misses out on having her profile in the yearbook? Or should I do the "right" thing and put it back in the box? I'm sorta upset about this and I don't know what to do. If it gets in there, it'll be around for years.. you know how long yearbooks last and I would never live it down.
Thanks for your help. (link)
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I think you should since that is something terrible to say something like that especially for others to see what she wrote about,will be painful, and like you said last for many years but don't get caught because you could get in serious trouble.
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ok well i just got the nair bikini hair removal and it SUCKS! it removed hair but it left cuts and they hurt like hell and it didnt remove the hair from the skin because it just grew the next day what is out there that really works?
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A machine that is called Bikini touch,it's painless,removes hair everywhere on your body,safe to use,you can carry it anywhere,and it's only $9.99 at any pharmacy you can find it.
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the subject pretty much explains it all... (link)
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Like every three days because then the tiny hairs on your eyebrow grow very fast,and you want it to look invisible,and have fine eyebrows like the celebrities have theirs.
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Hi!I'm 27 years old and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. We have been planning to settle down in the near future but we were just waiting for him to finish law school. Some time last week, he told me he wanted to break up with me because he's been going thru a lot of pressure with his studies. I told him that I understand and that I'm willing to wait for him. I said I wanted to fight for our relationship cuz I love him so much. Then he confessed... He got a girl pregnant from a "One Night Stand" he had a couple of months ago. I asked him if it was an affair and if he loved the girl. He said he didn't and doesn't have plans of marrying the girl. I was just thinking, had it not been for the girl getting pregnant, then I wouldn't have found out that he cheated on me. Please advice on what I should do. I love him so much but I don't know if it would be right to stay with him knowing that I might not be able to give him my full trust anymore. He's not only my boyfriend but he's also my best friend. I need your advice cuz I can't think clearly now. Thanks! (link)
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Like I told other people if they cheated on you they'll most likely wind up doing it again.But it's worse when you not only find out that he's cheated but he kept a bigger secret that he made someone pregnant I don't think you should forgive him but it's your choice though. Yes, I think if it weren't for that girl that got pregnant you wouldn't of found out he was cheating on you.If you decide to give him another chance it's going to be very hard for you to ever trust him again.He should apologize for what he did to you.
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