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Q: yea i have a lot of it it sucks
how do i get ride of it should i shave it or get it waxed?
(srry if it in the wrong subject)

dont shave it, i would try hair removal products or waxing? anything but shaving it

Q: Okay I'm a 16 year old female, and I was wondering this: Um do guys care if a girl gets wet very easily? Like for example if he's going to go down her pants, is it considered gross??

noo its like the opposite, guys like it when girls get wet because that means there really turned on by them

Q: I've read online that studies have proven that there is no sperm in pre-cum. The only time there is sperm in pre-cum is if the guy has recently ejaculated and still has leftover sperm in his shaft. If he has recently taken a piss and cleaned it all out then there is most likely no sperm. Anyways, I was wondering what everyone else's opinion is on this. Is this really true? I've read it on more than one webpage and they weren't phoney pages. They were on real pages like sex advice pages run by experts. People say they've gotten pregnant from pre-cum, but what I'm thinking is that was all because they weren't careful about there being leftover sperm in the shaft. I mean pre-cum comes out clear and the ejaculation/cum is always a white color. Lemme know what yall know/think of this.

i agree with what you said the only timesperm is in pre cum is if they recently ejaculated

Q: Does porn always give your computer a virus?
cause im too scared to watch it i dont want it to get a virus or to have my parents find out

any tips?

not every site gives off virus, just delete the history on your computer when your done! =]

Q: I've been having sore boobs for a while now. I can't seem to enjoy sex anymore because it hurts. I've been having sex like 3-5 times a day for over a year now. Out of nowhere.. It feels like he got bigger or goes in deeper.. when he doesn't go in deep! I always end up holding onto my stomach because it doesn't feel comfortable.
What could be wrong?

it might be you just need a break for a couple days
go to a doctor for advice on what to do

Q: how do you know if you have herpes

seek medical advice from a doctor

Q: What position is the best for having sex?..me and my boyfriend are trying to find the best but i would like advice from you guys .. please and thanks

everyone likes diffrent positions,
personally i think the girl on top
and sideways are the best haha
but everyones diffrent try typing in
"sex positions" in google you will come up with thousands.

Q: My boyfriend told me he wanted to french kiss me 5 times. But i want to know the difference between french kissing and making out???

making out and french kissing are the same thing, there isnt a difference they both involve the tongue

Q: Ok so me and my friends are going to be Juniors next year and we are planning early for our Senior prank we what to do something that will be remembered for a long time but the thing is that we dont want to do anything to illegal and nothing that is going to permanatley damage anything or hurt anyone in anyway and we dont want to get in so much trouble that we wont be able to walk at graduation we were thinking about buying a bunch of sod and lining the main hall with it from end to end but we are still not sure what to do so you guys tell me what you think of what we were thinking about doing and give me some fun and creative ideas that you guys have, I would love to hear them thanx for all your guy's help!!! =D

go to this website or go to google and type in senior pranks so many good ideas come up

http://www.squidoo.com/SeniorPranks

Q: i realized they hurt alot when you take them out when you are done using them...is there any way i can take them out without it hurting so badly?
thanks

they shouldn't hurt taking them out unless you put them in wrong? or maybe your just really sensitive or something but i don't think there is anyway to make it less painful? try using pads

Q: ok Im really scared of getting into the pool with my period...my mom says where a tampon and ill be fine....but the thing is i usually have my period 20 days after the last one...but its been off a couple of times....last one was 10 days before...another was 4 days after....its really cofusing..i dont know when to expect it because i never feel bloating or cramps...

any advice?

well make sure you keep track of your days and if you haven't had your period in a while and are really worried about it you could put in a tampon while you swim? but if your periods are that irregular you should go to your doctor

Q: This is somewhat long..I'm a girl, 16. I've never been in a relationship.
I met this guy he's a year younger than me and goes to my school. He is totally nice, respectful, and fun. He is somewhat of a nerd..in some people's eyes..He's a bit overweight and has glasses. About a month ago we told each other we liked each other on the phone. Immediately after he hanged up, I got sick and threw up. I don't know why, but I just felt disgusting and that I shouldn't have told him. The next day we decided to meet and discuss it together in the park. He asked to kiss me and I don't know why I did, but I said yes. We only kissed twice on the lips for like half a second, it was nothing crazy. We just sat there for a while, his arm around me blah blah.. Later that night I called him and I told him that when he kissed me..I felt nothing. I broke his heart and he cried. Three weeks later we made up and made a truce. We talked on the phone again, but just as really good friends.
Last night, I told him I still get weird feelings around him..he said he did as well. He told me he wanted to kiss me one last time..I agreed. I told him tho that I my feelings for him are on and off. I would get over him soon. But he was being so nice and so romantic. I felt so bad. I told him today that I don't feel like that anymore and that I was wrong to say I still liked him.
I know I'm a major jerk. I like him sometimes, but then when I try to picture us together, I never see it. He's a great friend I would never want to lose, but I can't stop these occasional feelings. Please help. Thanks in advance

i say that you aren't a jerk, just confused what you want.. but you need to figure it out soon. Your saying you only like him sometimes? if you only like him sometimes then you probably don't really like him in a relationship type way like you stated so you should stop toying with him and tell him straight up because it seems like your leading him on and thats not good for either of you so i think you should set him straight on what you want and don't go back and say you like him when you don't

Q: you answered my question about early pregnancy signs, but what did you mean by spotting? cause on thursday i had a little bit of brown discharge it looked like. could that be it?

yeah spotting is when, there is a couple drops of blood or red/brown discharge depending on the person this happens when the egg is implanting itself
so if you didnt have your period and you had brown discharge then you may have well been spotting

Q: what are some very early signs of pregnany, like 2 weeks in? i'm due for my period any day and i'm really freaking out. i know i need to just wait it out but im so scared and i cant get a test. the only pregnancy symptoms i have is sore breats and constipation. but i did have unprotected sex when i was ovulating. (he never came though) help. :(

the really early signs between 6-12 days after conception would be maybe a little bit of cramping and spotting because thats when the egg implants itself in the uterus although some women never experience this.. diffrent symptoms come with diffrent women at diffrent times the sore breast is a common one though

Q: tmrw is my bf birthday. we started going out yesterday. and im not sure what to do. he is going to be busy all day. plus he doesnt even doing anything for his birthday.

since you just started going out.. unless you were friends before i would just get him a card

Q: 13/f

I have been babysitting for my step mom's home daycaring service for 2 summers now. A couple of weeks ago I told her that I would work for her. Last week an offer came to my doorstep, someone my sister works for neeeded a baysitter. My step mom gives me $12 and day while the other #30 - $40 a day. I am going to high school next year and I am planning to save my money for college. I told my step mom that I can work for her the days that I am off and she got upset. My dad said that I should have stuck with my step mom... but this isn't all for me... this is for my furture of dreaming to go to vet college and become a vet... Now my dad wants to talk to me... what should I do???

explain to him your reasons and if your step mom isnt willing to raise your check then.. explain why you want and need the money and why you want the other better job

Q: SO, how bad do you think the economy is really going to get? I see gas prices soaring, my rent was just raised AGAIN, we have lost two contract accounts at work, and it seems like people are generally broke. In your opinion, how bad can it get before it gets better, should I be saving every penny? thanks

you no or head of the great depression? yeah im pretty sure something like thats gonna come around again

Q: i removed a box, not the application, from my profile and want it back. how do i do this?

it's for bumper sticker

go to edit applications on the left and theres 3 collums edit setting (profile disable) and remove
click edit settings and you can restore it

Q: ok so i was at a party that got busted and I ran away, the thing is they have a list of everyone who was there, is it against any rules/laws to run away from cops at a party? will i get in any trouble? btw im 16 years old

ahaha yeah thats illegal my friend

Q: 16/f. I really want to get a small tattoo of a 'V' (to represent my vegetarianism and who I am) on my left wrist kind of to the right side next to the vain. I asked my mom about it earlier today and she said she will think about it but she made it pretty clear that she doesn't want me to get a tattoo until I am 18. But I really want it now. What can I do to convince her to let me get this done? I am a good kid. I don't get bad grades and I never get into trouble. I convinced her to let me get my eyebrow pierced almost a year ago so I'm pretty sure I can talk her into letting me get this done if I do it in an adult manner.

try putting it in a diffrent place.. im 16/f also and i got a tattoo of cocopelli and my mom didnt want me to get it but then she said i could if i got it in a diffrent place where it wouldnt be noticable so if i got a good job or something it wouldnt look trashy i put mine on my upper thigh where you can only see it if i wear a bikini try telling your mom you will put it in a diffrent place or think about it .. it made my mom agree

hope that helped