Q: Does any one know of, or could recommend, any good professional wrestling schools? I found a few on google that were run by Lance Storm, Killer Kowalski, Afa Anoa'i, and Al Snow (Ohio Valley Wrestling). But I want more choices and people's stories. Thanks!

Q: Usually I'm the one answering peoples' questions, but now I want some opinions. Oh yeah, 19/f. The guy's 22/m.
The Background, as short as I can make it:
This guy and I dated for 7 months officially last year. We've been broken up since last July, but we never really broke up. We had a FWB thing going for awhile, and then we turned into barely friends but still messed around a little. Something happened recently and we reconnected, and we have the FWB thing going again (we broke up because neither of us was prepared for what we felt being in a relationship with the other (total loss of control of our emotions)).
Yesterday we had a conversation in which I accused him of being too closed off to people, only to realize it was really me that was too closed off.
I'm a writer and a recently changed-to English major.
I freewrite to clear my head and understand what's going on in my subconscious better. Because of this, I carry a notebook with me everywhere, and write down things that happen, things I think, and any conflicting or confusing feelings or thoughts that pop up.
He saw the notebook, and he's always wanted to read my freewriting. I've never let him. I've never let anyone read that stuff, because it's the inside of my head, and even though he was once deep in my conscious and knew everything going on in my head, I don't know that I'm ready or willing to let him do it again.
He bribed me, saying that if I let him flip to a random page and read it, I could ask him any question I wanted and he'd answer honestly.
The catch is, in that notebook is all the conflicting feelings I had a couple months ago, when I "dated" someone else, trying to move on. Needless to say, I wound up right back in this guy's arms. Thing is, I don't want him to know that I was really trying to get over him, or that I was ever really conflicted about who I liked/loved more (especially because the guy was his friend, and he doesn't know me and this guy were ever officially dating).

But I have a couple questions I do want to ask him. He knows me very well. If he suggested the question, he must know I'm curious about what's going on with us right now.
Honestly, it feels like we're slowly progressing back into a relationship, only we never let go of the physical aspect.
I want to ask him if his feelings for me are back where they were. I want to hear him say "I love you" again.
I want to know if he wants to get back together with me in the future, or if I'm getting my hopes up for nothing.
I want to ask him what he sees happening with us in ten years - I wanna know if he's had daydreams or visions of us getting married like I have.
But I'm scared to death of all possible answers to all of those questions.

What would you do? Would your curiosity get the better of you? 'Cause mine's starting to, and I almost want to let him read my possibly incriminating writing just so I have his honest answer to one of those questions.
On the other hand, I almost don't want to try to take the mystery out of everything. I thrive on drama, and I have none right now. If there was no question about anything with us I think I'd be bored.
So what would you do in my shoes?

Q: Hey khadia

I got an huge issue now.. I talked to him via msn and he said:

Mona says: what did I do to lose that trust?
N Sharma says: i dont think i ever did
N Sharma says: when i walked into that coffee shop
N Sharma says: saw you
N Sharma says: i thought this girl can be the one
N Sharma says: by the end of the night
N Sharma says: i didnt feel the same

I asked him if I cud meet him in person to clear any missunderstandings he said I'll try.. he said tonite he is seeing some friends and tomarrow too and saturday hes going to a wedding I said how about tomarrow before you go see your friends he said i'l try. I said well I would appreciate it if yoiu can try.. he said Ok.. like I dont get it.. maybe I gave in too easily SEX wise or the fact that I was really shy while with him. I dunno. He wont give me a proper response and I dunno wat to do. im going crazy here.. arrrrghh help me plssss.. can I call you and talk to you about this.. plsss

Q:
Hi Khadiya,

Do you think I shud wait for him to msg me and then wait and see what happens? do u think that he got scared that he was my first to have sex with and he thinks that I would want a serious relationship now? truthfully I do.. im not getting any younger and I want to settle down with someone.. but I also do not want to take soo much time in doing so.. thats y im soo confused.. cause I like him alot. and if its meant 2 be with me and him then I want him to give me a fair chance.. and vice versa...

Q: Hey Khadiya,

When he came down on Saturday..nite he didnt call but he called me on Sunday and wanted to do something hence our date which ended up as us making love to one another.. neways that turned out well I beleive.. and I understand that he has to see family as well and do his work.. but he shud make time for me if he really wants to see me. I dunno what I shud do.. Shud I ask him? or wait for him to respond? after the date we talk on msn etc..and he doesnt bring up wanting to meet..which I cant understand y.. and I dont want to sound pushy or desperate.. so what shud I do?

Q:
Hi Ms,

I am confused about somethings..I dunno.. but on our first date,, we made love.. it was great.. it was the first time I have ever done it before and im 26 and so is he. He didnt buy into the whole fact that I had not had S** before.. neways.. he had mentioned that after having S** that how can you want to do it with me you dont even know me.. and that kinda bothered me. I told him well I like you.. and I wanted to.. and Im glad that it is with you. He didnt respond to that.. neways he is here not just to see family but for work too. He is also doing work while he is here. and I dont want to sound pushy you know and drive him away.. what should I do?

Q: Okay so heres the deal.. Ive been talking to this guy for a month now.. its going great.. he lives in Virginia.. he came down on Saturday night to see his family and see me too.(hes here for a visit for a week). We met on Sunday.. Had a great time.. and the next day I asked him if he wanted to do something on Tuesday.. he said he dont think hes doing anything but he will let meknow.. ok.. day goes by.. next day I ask him.. wondering if u still wanted to do something today.. didnt respond to that but he tells me that hes soo tired went to the border yesterday(monday) and had to renew something and that he came back at 4 in the morning..took him 7 hrs to get there and that he is exhausted.. I had mentioned that he shud rest so that tomarrow he will be refreshed.. and he agreed.. and then went offline. My question to you is....do u think its wise to ask him if he wants to see me again.. honestly speaking? or am I jumping the gun too quickly..

Q: my mom says if i dont part my hair the other way ill enlarge it? i have a bald spot on top of my head??? i thought everyone had that little spot

Q: Okay, so there's this guy named "R"

and here's how we met:

His ex best friend martin met one of my bffs yuval through myspace..and yuval told her bffs (who are my friends too) carly & sammi..who started talking to martin. Yuval LOVES martin but martin treats yuval like crap and likes sammi and carly. ANYWHO, yuval + carly+ sammi + jen [another bff] meet martin who brings his now ex best friends garret and "R". My bffs tell "r" about me becuase carly and sammi got boy friends and garret and jen hook up. So he requests me on myspace and we start talking...

sorry that was long & complicated =]]

so we start talking and on the third time talking on the phone we talk from 10 at nite till 6 in the morning playing 21 questions about each other.
He flirted ALOT with me and we were naming everything we liked about each other..and asking realllly personal and sexual questions..so yea we liked each other..

but like 3 weeks ago he met one of my friends and she's SUPER pretty and he described his dream girl to me wen we first started talking and she fit it to a T! so he doesnt even talk to me anymore and he justs talk to her! and they post buillitens at 2 am saying nothing but i love you and i love you more! and he used to/ or still does like her. But she told me she would never go out with him and thinks he's gay and weird. SHe told ALL her friends that.

My Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THIS GUUY

Q: Has anybody heard The Obama Girl's Song "I've Got a Crush on Obama?"
Well I'm in lovee with ittt, and I would like to get it as my ringtonee, but I don't want to have to subscribe for a service/plan.
Does anybody know a website that offers this for like 4 dollars max, without having to subscribe?
Thaaankkksss

Q: 18/f

okay, i'm born out of the united states... and i really want to go to college. but the colleges don't accept passports (my dad told me to use a passport). and they said they only accept green cards not passports. they gave me a sheet or a form about how much it costs to get into college if i'm not a us citizen and i don't have a green card. it costs about one thousand and something dollars each semester. but the problem is that my family doesn't have enough money to pay for it. and not just that, my dad says that they HAVE to accept passports when i told him a million times that they can't, and that they only accept green cards. so you know what he did? he took the sheet or form, and just teared it up and crumbled it and threw it in the trash. and yelled "DON'T GO TO COLLEGE TO LEARN THEN." but i don't want to be a failure in life (i'm not accussing anyone out there).

so is there any way i can get into college? get another green card? pay lower price? anything?!

Q: Okay, first of all NO lectures.
there is this guy i really like, he is the sweetest. But he is ALMOST going out with this one girl. And she is prude. And one night we were talking dirty and he said that he had never talked to anyone about that stuff before except for me. And he was like i want to have sex soon, and i asked him if he wanted to do it with his almsot girlfriend and he said no. And then he was like bragging about stuff to me like his penis size and that he is a really good kisser. But he never says any of this to his almost girlfriend. One day i told him i liked him and i said that i shouldnt because i felt it was wrong because i would be getting in the way. and then he is likewell would it feel wrong if i liked you back, and i said no. He is definitely not the one to cheat on his girlfriend. But what do these signs mean?

Q: (SORRY THIS IS SOOO LONG!)me and my sister tell each other almost everything and were good at not telling anyone else.its just that shes good friends with our god mom and sometimes shell tell her things i have told her thinking our godmom wont say anything.well most of the time it ends up back to me cus our godmom starts asking me questions about it.well anyway i recently got a bf who works at my school over the summer and i go there everyday cus my dads the principle.well hes 18 and im 14!im always talking to him on the phone and one day my sister askes me who was i alwys talking to on the phone and i told her it was none of her buisness and she got super mad and was like why wont you tell me! then she said well i guess we dont even need to talk at all! and she got really mad and walked away!im afraid that if i did tell her she would tell my godmom cus again there very very close and im afraid she will take it really bad and start asking me questions and it might get back to my mom cus there also good friends! also even if i told my sister to promise not to tell anybody one day if she gets really mad at me i afraid she might threatn to tell cus she has done that plenty of times before.and then im also afraid that if i dont tell her shell get really mad and might tell that ive been talking on the phone with a boy almost every night!i just realy dont want anyone to find out about him but then again i still wanna talk to my sister! if my parents ever found out(especcialy my dad) id be on punishment 4ever!!!theyd murder me!!!!(my siter is 16 if u needed to know)

Q: i've been molested, as a child. it happened often and i've tried so hard to block it out but now i feel like it defines me. nobody knows, i can't say anything nobody will believe me. everybody will hate me. he ruined me. i picture how my life would be if it never happened, the way i am now is horrible. i make so many mistakes just trying to make myself feel better but nothing works. i dont know what to do, i cant talk to anybody. im 16, this happened the summer going into 5th grade then into the year.

nothing makes it go away i don't know what to do i want to die so badly.

Q: Is it possible to be allergic to mosquito bites? Because I think I am, whenever I get one, it swells up to the size of like two quarters and its hard and red...What do you think?

Q: when i give my boyfriend a handjob, my elbow cramps up really really badly. does anyone have any suggestions on how i can prevent that?

Q: ok heres the deal
my friend A is having a party on the 28
and its the party of the year
with 3 bands
and the whole school is going...
except me.
i have to leave the 27 for a family reunion in ohio
i want to go to this party soo frikin bad
also my crush is going to be there.
and you dont even know how badly i want to go
is there like a solution
to me being able to go?
i suggested like my parents driving seprate
like my dad stay home, while im at the party
then drive me and meet up with my mom in ohio
sence its my mom's family at the reunion
but they completely blew off that suggestion
because they said it would be to expensive
plz look at this from my point of view.
my crush, my friends, my whole scool
and all these bands.
is there anything i can tell my parents
to convence them bout some kind of solution
thhxxx

Q: Since summer started a few weeks ago, i've gone out in my pool a lot, almost every day to tan. And from my stomach and up, i've gotten a really nice tan. But i can't seem to tan my legs. I'm not sure why this is happening because i've layed out on a pool raft, so all of my body would get tan.

Earlier this year when I wanted to wear shorts, but didn't have a chance to tan, I used an at home spray tanner, but I only really used it on my legs since the rest of my body would be essentially covered up.

Before the first time I went to tan outside this summer, I scrubbed off all of the self tanner because I thought it would look better if I had a natural tan all over my body.

But lo and behold, now I can't seem to tan my legs. They have a little color up where I didn't put the self tanner, by my underwear. So I think that might be the reason why.

Could self tanner cause me not to tan? If not, what might cause this? And what can I do to tan my legs without product?

Q: how do you block your friends list on myspace?????????

Q: Hello!
Please, don't think I'm a jerk or something- I'm just a curious person...

I wonder if you would tell me what kind of life challenges you have faced being albino? I would guess that growing up could have been pretty rough looking significantly different from the rest of the kids?

Also, really silly question, I know, but do you have colored eyes, or are they pink or red?

Like I said, I'm not a jerk- I'm just a curious cat. :)

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