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i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell?

if you're serious about this guy, i think you should be comfortable telling him...and if he isn't interested in you afterwards, then face it - he ain't worth it ;)

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I'm having some troubles getting guys to come up to me and start a conversation. How do I get them to start talking to me more?

Signed,
Guy Troubles

i think the easiest way to start talking to a guy (especially one you don't know) is to be outgoing, even if it's by acting a little weird cuz it'll at least give you something to talk about ~ for example, one time i went up to a guy and told him he had the same shoes as my brother; another example is to get the guys opinion on something ~ like if me and my friend are arguing about which movie is better i'll go up and ask him "isn't zoolander waaaay better than the goonies?" lol

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whats the best way to start a conversation with a friend that is a guy or a boyfreind...if they dont talk much at all?

You should try playing the would you rather game - for example: would you rather take a bath in blood or spit?? okay, so that was a gross example, but you get the point ~ this way you can compare your answers and it'll get you talking and laughing a lil

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im 11 and i way 110 puonds. its really hard for me to keep up a normal body wait especially in the summer. all my friends are skinny and ive been really self concious lately. is there any way that i can loose10 or 15 pounds by september??
thanx

At the age of 11, you really shouldn't go crazy with dieting, but it's definitely a good idea to get healthy. I suggest putting exercise into your life by riding a bike or playing catch when you're bored instead of watching tv. I know that I eat more when I'm bored, so try to keep yourself busy and active. Also, even if you still want to eat junk food, try to take smaller portions of it - don't just let yourself sit on the couch with a bag of chips, put a little bit in a bowl instead. Hope I helped!

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well me and my friend are over..and i was j/w if anyone knew any quotes about friendship being over..thanks.

I don't know if you and your friend drifted apart or got in a fight, but here are some lyrics and quotes I found on boardofwisdom.com:

You and me
We used to be together
Every day together always
I really feel That I'm losing my best friend
I can't believe This could be the end
It looks as though you're letting go
And if it's real, Well I don't want to know
~No Doubt

I thought you were my friend
That you would always be there
But now you’ve gone and left me
For some other friend somewhere
We had so many secrets
Some that nobody else knew
But now that you have left me
You’ve left those secrets to
Why did you find a new friend
I thought that I was your best
Now it feels like all my heart
Has died and gone to rest
I hope you have new memories
To share with your new friend
I just really want to know
Why our friendship came to an end
I guess now I’m finished,
I’m done asking 'why'
But if this friendship is really over
Then why does it hurt to say goodbye?

Misfortune shows those who are not really friends.

A friend who turns into a enemy has never been a friend.

Years of friendship can be destroyed with a moment of madness and years of madness can be helped with a moment of friendship.

Even though from here on in,
our paths may change,
our lives may vary,
and our encounters less frequent,
there will always be the memories,
which bind us togeather,
memories of love, friendship and trust,
years comprised of joy, sadness and laughter,
experiences which could only be felt with the heart,
and times which live on forever in our thoughts,
and you see my friend,
even if we ever drift apart in our hectic lives,
remember this,
you mean so much to me and will ALWAYS be a friend for Life.

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my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too?

You should definitely tell them because otherwise they'll probably be offended and really jealous if the guy starts to like you back.

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