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I'm 13 and i habe b36 boobs.I'm 120lbs and everything and i don't have my period. I don't want it- but I just wanna know when i'm going to get it. My mom died when I was younger so i can't ask her (duh haha), and my aunt can't remember. Is there like a website or something where you can plug in information and like get back a certain date?
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well as far as i know you can get it whenever it happens when your body changes and some people get it younger than others i got mine when i was 14-15 and all my other friend got theres around 12-13 so it all depends on you and how your cycle works and it doesnt matter that your boobs are bigger than most cause thats how mine were and i got my period late ya know
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hey this is kind of embarrassing to say but is it normal for your butt to heat up and sweat? it always does and one day in classs we sat on our desks to play around the world and when i got off my desk it was so completely wet from ym butt and i quickly put a book on top before anyone could notice (link)
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yea unfortuanly it is normal i know a lot of people who have that problem cause some people sweat more than others like have you ever seen some peoples armpits
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whats a pansey or pansie how ever you spell it like when someone calls someone a pansie what does that mean (link)
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when someone calls you a pansie there bascially calling you a bitch or a pussy if you know what i mean so it doesnt mean anything nice if anything its one hell of an insult
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Okay we know that it is alright for a black man and a white girl to date. But is it okay for a white man to date a black girl. If you are a white male, would you ever date a black girl. And if you are a black girl would you date a white man. If not,why? If yes, why?I am thinking about it, but I don't know. (link)
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well its all up to the person it depends how the person is you know some people dont like interrational relationships but the people who do go for them shouldnt be penalized you know you cant help who you fall in love with so like i said its all up to the person some do some dont
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Firstly sorry about the subject i didnt know where to put it.
My hair gets greasy so so so fast! I wash it in the morning and by the evening its greasy
I have to wash it everyday and its really annoying me.
What can i do so that i only have to wash it every 2 days or something?
any products i can use? (link)
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well do you use any products because if you do than that can make it greasy but if not than maybe its the conditioner like if you dont get all the conditioner out of your hair it makes it really greasy so what i would try to do is just use shampoo for like 1 day and see what happens you know try not to use conditoner everyday cause i had the same problem hope i helped
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my family keeps asking me if i am depressed what should i do to show them that truthfully i am not? its really bugging me for once i am not depressed! (link)
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well you need to tell them to stop telling you that your depressed because than your going to get depressed and about acting not depressed you shouldnt have a problem with it if you werent depressed you know laugh and talk more hope i helped
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about 5-6 monthes since me and my ex boyfriend did things (sexual things)
He now has a girlfriend, but I know for a fact she would never do any of the things we did together.
Do you think he still gets horny from the things we did & whatnot?
Im just curious
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do you ever talk to your ex? he could still think about you and all the things that you guy did like when hes talking to his friends and remebering how good you were and all im sure he gets excited and sometimes compares you to his current gurl now wishin that she could of been like you you know
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Are there any ideas in theories concerning relativity and the universe that at the end of eternity, time goes back to the beginning and starts all over again, following the same timeline of events?
I read about something like that a few years ago and was wondering if it had any base at all. (link)
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i dont know but i def beleive in stuff like that for example rencarnation you know like we may have been rencarnated from somebody from the past life and this might not even be us but somebody else long ago who got a second chance like have you ever had dejvo about something thats never happend to you before i have many other theories so i hope you dont think im crazy but i also agree with your theories interstin right that all of this couldve already happened and now it happening again
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Hey guys, my name is Sasha. Well, there's this boy(lets call him bobby) and I like him so much. I mean, I get butterflies everytime I see him. Anyway, he smiles and stares ALOT.We sit in the same places everyday(at Lunch) and we constantly make eye contact and he does things that make me laugh, but I don't know if he likes me. I don't know how to tell him that I like him and I'm a tad bit afraid of rejection. Can you guys please help me out? I'd like to get some ways of telling him or signs that he likes me back! Thank you so much!
--SASHA:) (link)
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stare and stare and flirt like crazy make him think thats theres no dout that you like him but dont over do it make him laugh and make hints you know tell him that he looks nice to day and ask if hes seeing anybody to let him know that ur intrested and want to know and give him your number and be like hey you should call me sometime you know and ask to hang out and try to talk to him more and try not to be afraid of rejecton because than your get no where or hey play 21 questions that should be intersting you know hope i helped
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I hav gone to some problem with my family. My dad is in cuba i'm here with my stepdad and mom and brother. my stepdad has been with me for 8 years he is nice but he doesn't treat me the way he treats my brother he gives my brother freedom n he is only 7years old. I'm 13 an d he doesn't let me bring no boy or girl to the house you friends only soe he lets my brother bring all his friends home and he gets to go to the neighbors house. aqnd i just stay home cleaning and helping. please help mewhat should i do?????????????? (link)
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you really need to have a serious talk with both your mom and stepdad tell them both that you have a life and that your not there made i had the same problem i couldnt do anything i had no life but i told that you even trust me and give me freedom or ill make my own freedom you know hope it works tell them that your not asking to stay out all night just hang out thats it its not the end of the world and they should have more trust you know
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Ive never used a tampon, Ive been fingered and had sex and it didnt bleed.
Is my cherry popped? (link)
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well it doesnt matter you couldve broken your cherry many other ways for example horse back riding riding a bike the wrong way you know what i mean you couldve broke it with out even knowing it so dont worry and maybe you did bleed the first time just exstremly light i learned that in health hope i helped
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i am 13/f and have never had a b/f. I think its because i am ugly but everbody in my family (except my brother) disagree with that. I really want a boyfriend but i cant tell if nebody in my skool likes me. plus to add onto this i m moving and going to middle river on the 18 of december. wat should i do i am really desperate since all of my friends have had b/f's??????? please help
~tomboi524~
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well your moving so it give you a chance to make a new start and everybody wants a boyfriend you really shouldnt really be desprate cause that can be a turn off to some guys be confident and try to flirt you know not sluty flirt just let them know your a gurl and that your on the market and not just some other gurl you know
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15/f
I have had a bad past with relationships. All these people have lied, used, and hurt me.. so I'm unsure if I want to start a new relationship. It's been about a year or longer since I was in a relationship.
But I really like this girl. But my parents are homophobes.. "I will hurt you, if you're gay" something like that when I was younger .. recently, it's okay with them.. They just don't want to see it. (kissing, etc)
I'm just afraid of what they will think.. growing up always hearing these gay jokes and insults about lesbians.
And I also don't want to rush into a relationship just because I like someone. When do you think you should go out with someone?
I've known this girl for 2 years.. We weren't really close.. until this year.. We have gotten closer and hung out like 3 times in a week and a half. It's just weird.
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well do you like her like her and does she like you i know you said that u had bad relationships but u cant always let that stop you or your get no where and your always be alone but dont rush into something your not ready for and you'll know when your ready and your parents will just have to get off there high horse and love you for you
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16/female.
Let me just start out by saying that I am a STRONG believer of gay marriage, and I have absolutely NO problem with homosexuals in the slightest.
One of my friends is a lesbian, and I love her because she's amazing, she really is. But, lately she's been really touchy feely. She writes me notes saying, "I know you're in denial, I know you're conservative & straight, but you should atleast experiment & give it a try." I AM straight, I was born it, so I can't just change and be a lesbian, that's what I think & feel. I'm not attracted to her at all.
She'll like come up to me in the halls at school, and hug me and kiss my neck and shove me up against a locker, and it seriously is beginning to look like I'm a lesbian.
When she does this, I just say, "Nooo! STOP IT" Like, I don't know if she takes it seriously or not, but when I say stop she does. So, today on AIM, we were talking, and this was our conversation:
Her: I'm going to look hot tomorrow in school.
Me: Ahah, Whyy??
Her: I got new clothes.
Her: Kiss me?
Her: :)
Me: Ahh, that's nice! :)
Me: lol, No thanks.
Her: No thanks, what the fuck?
Her: Why did you say that?
Me: To the whole "kiss me" thing.
Her: Whatever.
Me: HEY! don't!!
Her: Don't what?
Me: Be mean. :(
Her: You did this yourself.
Her: It's your fault.
* BLOCKS ME *
Ahhh, so. I just would like to know if this is any of my fault at all. I'm not LEADING her on, I wouldn't even know how to do that. I'm dating a guy & I'm really attracted to him & she knows that. But she'll always say that I need to experiment with her & stuff, and it's just really weird for me.
Thanks in advance. :]
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its not your fault your not attracted to her and she knows it shes just mad so just tell her that you like her as a friend and nothing more and you dont want to loose her friendship but if she wants to be immature than w/e
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15/F
My boyfriend of 11 months and I sometimes will makeout and stuff with just his boxers on and just my underwear.. I was wondering are there any risks of anything happen when we do this? (link)
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well it depend what u mean by risk the only risk i can think of is having sex other than that your just havin fun hey if you guys decide to do oral theres less to take off but remeber if you decide to have sex there are risk but making out is harmless
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From my question: what are the deadly sins, I commited 6/7. Does that mean I'm a very bad person and will go to hell? I'm only a teen and I try so hard not to commit those sins but it seems every day I'm envious and jealous and angry but I never yell I only keep them in my head but I have head aches all the time from keeping it all in. And does anyone know the words to Hail Mary? I beleive it's a prayer to ask god to forgive me.. (link)
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the 7 deadly sins lust greed envey pride sloth glutieny and anger everybody has them everybody has the 7 deadly sins everybody feels envious angry lazy lust and everyone has pride and everyone can over do it but nobodys perfect remeber that but some people over due there sins you know so dont worry about it as long as you dont take them to the extreme like kill somebody remeber god forgives all who wish to be forgiven you have committed sins but not mortal sins remeber that
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I had sex with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago, and I've no idea when, but im guessing on withdrawal, the condom slipped up just under half way. It was still on fairly tight only it had slipped up a few centimeters. Shes due to have her period about this time, shes had stomach cramps and sore breasts (but neither very serious) which are both signs of pre-menstruation and pregnancy. Is it possible that she could be pregnant? (link)
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so it slipped up well did any semen get into her do you think any semen could have gotten into her if not than dont worry but remeber condoms arent always 100% affective
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This is going to sound so weird but i dont know how to kiss. I'm nervous. Really nervous. Please Help! (link)
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awwwww i know i had the same problem and all you need to do is relax and do what feels natural you know just let it happen your'll be fine and if you trust the guy who your kissing than it should be easy if you must let him lead and you follow
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I'll assume some people know how to play secret santa here, so I'm going to get straight to the question. I have to buy a gift for somebody I barely know. Shes short and asian, shes smart and that's all I know. What could I get her that's beetween 10-15 dollars? Thank you (link)
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wow you dont know her so get her perfume or a body washes and soaps and if you dont want to get her that try candles and if she dont like it oh well its the thoughts that count right
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I am really worried my boyfriend thinks i am boring. I need ideas of fun things to do with him, but the thing is, he is really picky and stuff like that. He wnats to hang out with me this weekend, but the only way we can hang out is if i come over, and thinks his house is so boring. Are there any fun ideas u can do with the two of us at his house? Please help me out i want to hang out with him this weekend. I appreciate any ideas!! (link)
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your houses may be boring but your not my god you guys are going out talk, wrestle, play, joke there are plenty of things to do, you know flirt or play poker but make up your own rules lol play 21 questions and you know make it worth yours and his time worth while and if you guys cant find anything to do check to make sure you guys still have the chemisty there has to fun sometime
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