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Q: I was wondering which whitening system would be best, Crest or Rembrant? Thanks!

crest

Q: there's this guy, and i lik him. he's somewat in my social group at school, but at the same time, he's not. we were talking online, actually it was more like flirting. i know his personality, he does flirt alot. but i'm not sure if he likes me.is there anyway i can tell if he likes me without him finding out i like him??

well ask some of his friends. flirt with him more and mabye he will end up telling you. and Talk to him at SCHOOL

Q: will i win my last baseball game?

idk lets stick to real questions please and thank you

Q: I used to have the coolest and most understanding best friend in the whole entire universe. We had SO many inside jokes and we laughed at everything and we said we were 'soul sisters' (stupid, I know, but whatever). So we became best friends in the middle of 6th grade but starting in 7th grade, we started fighting. In 8th grade we had about...eh...6 fights? We are in our latest fight right now and I'm not sure I wanna be friends with her again. I mean, its hard NOT being friends with her, but I'm afraid if i DO become friends with her again, the same thing will keep happening over and over. Also, my other best friend (all three of us used to be best friends) well, she hates her. And I think I do too, but I am not sure. Should I try to be friends with her again? Thanks so much! (Emily-13)

well i think u should try one more time and if things dont work out go find other friends either way you will still have friends hope i can help

Q: how do i get back at my ex-boyfriend

tel him you like him and hang out with him a lot

Q: my guy friend is having trouble with this and if im more informed, i can help him out a bit more. well he has this gf, kelly, who is a good friendof mine and i got them together. theres this girl who is kelly's friend, bernie, who is always clinging onto kelly (almost like she likes her...) and so this guy cant pull her aside to kiss her. theyve been together for 4 months and for some reason kelly isnt being very nice to the guy...she doesnt want to hang out for dumb reasons and she thinks theyre going to fast when they barely hold hands, she never calls him or does anything sweet for him. before we thought it was pms but its been going on for a reallllly long time. (poor guy.."i didnt think it was supposed to last this long") he really loves her and i dont know what to say to either of them. any tips?

well i think ur "GUY" friend should go tell kelly this. also i think he should bring kelly out on a weekend and if things dont work out he should break up with her. if kelly wants to get back together with him let her because that means she likes him and she is just going through a tough time.

Q: my friends all have nice clothes and i think i have better clothes but they just said u get ur stuff at sukkish places wut do i do
(not true)

dont listen to them its your choice what to wear and if they think that your clothes are bad that there problem not yours

Q: my dad is dumb... he doesn't know nothing and anytime i try to talk to him, he walks right by me and doesn't say anything. sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl because i think he's sexist because he treats my mom's friends sons like best friends but yesterday, he didn't say ONE word to me at all... i just wish he would leave my mom because he treats her like crap and she treats him like a king and i love my mom and my sister and im sick of all of us having to go through all of this crap... im sick of not having a dad. he sits in front of the t.v all day and my best friends dad is divorced but he has a girlfriend and their all cool and stuff and why can my dad be that way... i even call her dad "daddy robertson" because i'm over there and im around her dad waaaaaay more than im around mine and im sick of mine... her dad treats me like a daughter and my dad treats me like a dirty old rag that he can just throw around anytime he wants but im sick of him! he doesn't love me. i try to get closer to him and he won't listen. i try to hug him and he tells me to go away because he's working... he's just rude! i can't say anything to my friends without him yelling @ me. Today, my best friend was telling her sister to stop being stupid and my dad yelled at ME because we sound alike!!! ugh!!! im just sick of my gay dad... he's not literally gay... or is he??? lol... well, what should i do to make him become a better dad... if my parents got divorced i would be happy because my mom would get custody
sorry this is so long...
signed,
kayla

well i do feel really bad for you. i think your mom should get divoreced my parents are and its much better. also you should not talk to your dad. if he is that rude just dont care about him even though he is your dad. but i do think this fathers day you should give him a gift. hope i helped

Q: OK, i want to do something really cool for fathers day. not like a gift, but something to do!
HELP! i have no ideas!

well bring your dad or something to a restraunt make him a really special card and make him breakfast in bed.

Q: i was soo excited that i would be graduating i worked so hard for it. but i was rele nervous i felt as though i would puke i cried because i felt so sad that half of the faces i saw in school today i would never see again. i cried during school and for graduation i knew that i would be the frist out of the entire 8th grade to go. i didnt want to go and i didnt . i let down my family because my fears over took me and now im full of regret and i keep crying. its like i stop crying but i still can feel something empty in me and i just start up again. i missed my own graduation and i feel so stupid and so fucking powerless. i cant beleive i let my stage freight take away something i would have loved to be a part of.

has anyone ever been through this. or whats should i do? i need a little bit of support

well that is normal to have stage fright. it might be hard to stop crying but you have to because you cant go back in time. it was your decision and even though you did miss your graduation you are still in high school now. if i was you just call your old friends and see how it was and hang out with them. hope i helped get betta soon and stop crying.

Q: i have a party in like 30 minutesz & i just noticed my bikini line is like all red bumpsz n shit .. is there anyway to get rid of it or no ?! ahh i seriously need help iLL RATE G0OD !!

ok well this sounds weird but put concealer on it

or well wen it gets wet in the pool it will be better if it is a swimming party

Q: i like this guy. and we are like best friends. but how do i show that i like him? is there a way through conversation?

well yes call him. if he is your friend he wont think it is weird that you called him. talk to him a while about just a random topic like a new movie or the summer or something. then bring up that some1 likes him. tell him you will tell him who likes him if he tells you who he likes. then tell him you like him

Q: Is wearing a blue jean jacket with jeans too much denim like if i have like a colorful shirt under it? like if the jacket and jeans are close to the same color?

well yes it is i think you should keep the blue jeans but the denim jacket is not in anymore unless you wear (like you said) a skirt with it

Q: i want to learn self defence but my parents don't want me in a class yet. i really need help because 1 time i was attacked about 2 yrs ago and i barely fought off the attacker who stole my purse(100$) what are cool/easy/basic moves that i could master quickly, please im paranoid that i will need these moves to defend myself thanx (i rate high)

that is a really good question. iam just the person to answer it my dad took karate for 17 years and was famous so first of all get a boxing tape it will help. put ur hand in a fist and put it infront of you chest and bring it back in that is called a puch. do that fast but not to fast. also turn your body to the side and use your right foot to kich out infront of you that is called a round kick.

Q: how do i get people to like me?

well dont we all want to no that. well first of all you have to be yourself. people will only like you if you are yourself. well if you are a boy then make a girl laugh and get her stuff we all like that. and kiss her that is a must haha. if you are a girl try to make the boy laugh and well hug him and flirt with him let him no you like him. the most important thing is to be your self. some one will always like you. trust me i no haha i had a lot of boyfriends and that was becasue i was myself not someone else

Q: I like this girl and she used to like me to, but we haven't see each other in a while because she lives in a different town and now I don't know how I can get her to like me again. We talk on the internet but its hard to impress someone online. What can I do or say to get her to like me again?

well cal her talk to her for a long time ask her is she has a boyfriend. go visit her. tell her you like her and send her presents. hope it works out

Q: okay..
there is this guy and ive known him for 2yrs and we've always been close as freinds like i can help him with problems and vice versa but we always flirt and i think he likes me hes been droping signals and i think i like him to. schools out and i dont see him as much but when we talk or hang out we flirt im goin to a party next week i think he'll be there--could u tell em somthings i could do to really send the message

well first of all i think you shoulld tell him. that is the same thing tht happened to me. if he says he dosnt like you then just go on being friends. you should stay by his side at the party and mabye ask him to dance. play truth or dare and ask one of your friends to dare u to like go in a closet or something and kiss ok hope it works out

Q: im 5'7 and 168 lbs. i have lost about 10 pounds since last year. and i got such a big boost of confidence. im starting this exercise program in 3 days called power90.they claim u can loose up to 40 pounds in 90 days,I hardly ever excercise, so this may be exactly what i need:) i am excited because i go back to college in 2 months. the truth is i have been obsessed with my weight for 2 years now. I dont ever over eat, so i cant imagine why i gain so much wieght. if there is any advise that can be given, i am willing to ty. because i am 100% focused. please share.

ok well first off all if your 5"7 then 168 lbs. is not that bad it might also not be that you eat to much but you eat to unhealthy just eat no sugar and a diet is ok just dont go over board

Q: Hey Id like to try a new look this summer but I'm not sure what to do. Does anyone know webistes with cute hairstyles, and websites with different ways on how to do your makeup? If you have any pointers please leave em. My hair is thick and a little wavy. I have lightly tanned skin. Thanks so much, I rate.

well yeah you should straighten your hair but only once in a while you should also try some black mascara and red lip stick and u can go to google.com to look that stuff up or go to makeup.com

Q: well, school is over for the summer, and im not that great at keeping in touch with everyone. most of my friends get upset at this, but then again, only 2 of them have tried to keep in contact with me too... i just dont understand why they get so upset when they arent trying either. i understand it is hard to go with out talking to your friends that have been there for you, but i just moved, and im around a different crowd, and i have to go to summer school, and some of my friends think im going to forget about them, and make new friends. i will make new friends, but i wont forget my old. i tried explaining this to them, but they just seem to get mad. what am i supposta do??

well call ur old friends like once a week talk to them and mabye this summer go and see them again that is what my bff does and well just stay in touch with them

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