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I'm Jaz. I'm 17. I love photography and writing. and I've gone through a lot with self-injury, depression, and guys. I hope I can help you ask much as possible. I will give the most honest answer.

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OK..I ALWAYS go to bed late. If I try to go to bed early, i still don't go to bed until about
3-4AM. I've tried not to stay on the computer and tried to clear my mind and everything and i still cant sleep. After that i have a tendancy to wake up a tiny bit late (10-11 AM)..And i mean a couple times i may get to bed if I'm lucky around 1AM..i dont know what to do and my mom just thinks that i stay up on purpose so she doesnt wanna help me..what do you thinks wrong?? is there anything to prevent this from happening anymore?? thanks!!!

I have the same problem. I have to take a vitamin called Melatonin (1mg). I only take one before I go to sleep and it usually works unless I'm really stressed. *Talk to your doctor though before you take it*. You can probably buy it at your local food store where all the vitamins are.
hope that helps.

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Does shaving your legs make your skin rough and make the hair grow darker? I've been using many other products like exfoliators that don't work, and my parents refuse to buy me a hair removal cream because of the excess of chemicals. I want to shave my legs, but I don't want the hair to be coarse and dark. Is this a myth? Should I shave? My hair is already really dark, because I have black hair...

myth. just shave. you'll be fine. use hand/body lotion on your legs after you shave your legs (when they are dry), that should help them from becoming dry.

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is proactive really good for acne? i mean.. i dont get REAL bad acne but when i get pimples they get real red ..so do you think proactive is right for me and how much is it? where can i get it

I use the repairing lotion from proactive and it works for me. I don't use anything else from proactive though. and I don't have too bad of acne either. but it depends on the person.

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when i open google, there is a drop down list of things i have in teh past searched and i need to know if there is a way to delete some or all or not havea drop down list. i hae already deletd ym history.. i neeeed help.

use the 'up' and 'down' keys to scroll through the ones you don't want and and hit the 'delete' button. works for me.

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Does anyone on Advicenators have a clue about how to convert mp3 files to .swf or .rbs?

I have looked over the instructions for installing the radio.blog numerous times over the past day, and I still have not figured out how to do it. Normally, it's not this confusing for me, but I'm getting really frustrated with this.

If it helps any, whenever I've converted my mp3's by running convert64.bat, all I'm getting is a loud buzzing noise when I try to play the file. Also, the buzzing-noise file does not show up in the sounds directory where it is supposed to in order to be in the playlist.

You can find the site here:

http://www.radioblogclub.com

I've looked through the forums on the site, but sadly, I do not understand what they're trying to tell me to do. Nothing seems to work.

Help will be GREATLY appreciated.

- Sporkster

try a differnt .bat file. or read the readme.txt file.

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hey where can i get a free online countdown...like i want to put in my my profile to count down till my birthday! i rate 5s!

http://so-you.net/ go to "goodies".

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Okay, so I`m going out with this guy and I reallllllly like him. But the only problem is, he uses drugs and alcohol a L0T. I`m totally against this.. I have seen families torn apart and people`s lives ruined because of alcohol/drug use.. I would never do anything like this, and he knows that, and he`s okay with that.. But I don`t want him to hurt himself. And I really don`t like the fact that he does.. I know that I can`t change him.. What should I do ?

Um..talk to him about getting help. Or just get him help. That would be a good start. And if you don't want your relationship to fall apart...get him help.
That's all I can really say.

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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
thanks

You need to tell someone. End of story. You need to get help. And fast. Do NOT wait. If you wait, you can't do a thing about it.
good luck hun.

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Whenever I'm alone, I keep thinking about how bad the world is and writing dark poems and stuff. Once I nearly cut my wrists with a sharp knife. Do you know any way to help me have a brighter outlook on the world? Thanks. -Elie

Don't cut. Really. It has taken me so long to stop and it doesn't do anything for you except cause lots of problems. Do you really want scars that everyone asks you about when you tan? Not fun... And suicide does nothing, believe me...been there.
I suggest you talk to friends and hangout with people, listen to music, and WRITING is VERY good no matter what kind, it expresses your feelings. and Just everyday hope tomorrow will be better if things aren't so well. That's what I do and it keeps me from harming myself or getting too depressed. Good luck hun.

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I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do?

exercise.

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