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Even though every incident happened to different people (and not Caroline) I am just curious if the following incidents did happen to one person who I will name Caroline and it happened to her over a period of ten years and Caroline posted each incident right after they happened and received answers that made her feel better should Caroline forget about the incidents because she got reassurance from this typs of website and each incident happened many years apart. HERE ARE THE STORIES: (A) In the year 2003 a male clerk tells Caroline who does NOT weigh more than 110 pounds she weighs 130 and he said this with her standing behind a partition and all he could see of her was her arms and face and she was wearing a coat; (B) In July 2004 a chunky girl tells Caroline (a thin girl who is always told by strangers, relatives, and friends she is thin/skinny, looks like a size 4) that the chunky girl thinks Caroline is average and size 8, then pauses and adds in size 10; (C) In June 1991 a cousin asks Caroline are you a size 8 or 10 and when Caroline says size 8, the cousin said I thought so; (D) In September 1997 a vendor tells Caroline who is thin/skinny; you have to be a size 10, my daughter is a size 10 I am selling jeans which are a size 10; (E) In August 1987 A masseuse tells Caroline who is thin/skinny with no cellulite "You should use a cellulite cream; (f) Caroline was standing behind the Xerox machine and asked another girl if she thought Caroline was thin, and first the girl said well in a hesitant voice but later on saw Caroline standing erect and told Caroline she is very thin, and only said well because she never sees Caroline standing; KEEP IN MIND THOSE SAME YEARS, AND YEARS BEFORE AND AFTER CAROLINE IS TOLD SHE IS THIN/SKINNY AND LOOKS LIKE A SIZE 4
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i only like boys that are tacken, and once them and theur girlfriends break up, i dont like them anymore. whats wrong with me? how come i only like these boys? what do i do about it? thank you so much!!!
xs and os
btw, i wood nva go for any of them bcz they have girlfriends, but lyk, i hate that i like these people!
once someones off the "market" people seem to like them just to know they cant have them its weird ;but it just happens.
My dog threw up blood. Do you know what I can do to help?
it sounds like internally bleeding. with humans people usually die from it. im not 100 percent sure if they always do. and im not 100 percent sure but i dont think there is a way to help meaning i think your dog is going to die. sorry.
oh my god, seriously, what has the world come to...? i read a question on here and a girl had sex at 10 YEARS OLD. i was watching the news a couple of hours ago and an 8 YEAR OLD HAD SEX. yes, an 8 year old. i didn't even think 8 year olds knew what sex meant! on the internet news a 12 year old had sex and killed her own child because she said she wasn't ready for a kid. really, what's wrong with the world? why are people having sex at such a young age? do any of you agree that this is absolutatly crazy?
omg. i so agree. the world is coming to just needing sex thats all its insane.
my best friend sam has had 2 babies and she is only eleven she is pregnet again now for 5 months my other friends say not to be her friend anymore but we have been friends since preschool she is the school slut and wears short skirts and low cut half shirts and she doesn't know who any of the dads are should i still be her friend?
your friends eleven! woah. anyway. talk to her about it. ask her why she does what she does maybe you'll learn about her nd why she does it. jw. how old was she when she had her first baby.
edit- you need to get her help. if shes being beaten by her mom and raped by her dad she needs help. tell an adult you trust. a teacher. parent. anyone. shes too young and needs help.
everyone at my school laughs at the number 69
i dont get it
what does it mean?? im pretty sure its something nasty, but im not sure what it is
69 is a sex position.
im doing a project for spanish where i have to creat a cafe. the only problem is i dont know what to put as my name it has to be in spanish and the word cafe needs to be in it. some of my friends have cafe fabuloso and things like that any suggestions? i rate high
cafe excellente (sp)
aka excellent cafe.
I gave my boyfriend a handjob and when he cummed, it got on my hands and on his hands too. Then my boyfriend fingered me. Could I get pregnant from this?
no ;sperm dies instantly when it hits the air
my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i really really like him and i think i even may be in love the thing is even though we clearly love each other it's just that my family on my dad's side is really racist and they found out about the fact that iam dating roosevelt and the thing is he's black and iam white please don't give me any more lectures about only dating people in my own race i don't think i can take another lecture on interracial dating iam on a verge of a nervous breakdown right now so i really need your help.
I've already broken up with him 3 times and i don't think neither of us can take another breakup becouse yesterday i was actually crying on his shoulder at school so we started going back out again but i really don't know what to do please help me.
p.s racist people suck.
i know what you mean about racist people. the best thing to do if ignor them. say something about how you dont live to please them ;you live to please yourself. give him a lecture on how racisim isnt right. i have a black sister ;shes my half ;and i know how she feels. kids in my grade are black and the white kids in my school use the word Nig. alot. thats when you say that color is color. like age is age etc. tell him how this makes you feel. tell him you dont wanna hear it anymore. and you know youve found the one. and your going to love him even if you dont have his blessing.
hope i helped.
xo britnee.
We've decided to do this play in naturalistic style, and it is a comedy on an interviewer, interviewing someone for a job and many people are interviewed and they are all..simply..very weird.
some of the candidates:
A lady who everytime he says something just repeats what he says
An old pensioner with very bad hearing
A bimbo
A man that shouts and spits everytime he talks
A man that's perfect for the job, but then when his mobile rings he picks up and says 'Kill Her'
Any other ideas people ?
lmaoo. i love the last one but heres a few ;
a "wigger" who painted himself black.
a nerd who thinks very highly of himself.
a prostitute (maybe)
theres a few.
hope i helped. britnee.
I work for a solicitor in a town in Australia. This morning my boss came out to me and another work mate and told us that we may have to start looking for new jobs in the next few weeks.
He told us that he's going to have to close the business because he will be declared bankrupt if he can't do anything about it before the 16th of April!
I don't want to lose my job, I love working here! The girls are great, I like the work, but we are struggling for money every week to pay us!
Is there anyway at all that I could possibly do something to help my boss keep his business going?
I feel so sorry for him, he has no family and his life is dedicated to this place! I just want to help him out.
Any suggestions? Thank you so much!
I'm sorry that this is happening to you.
try a fundraiser examples ;
car wash
raffle - chineese auction ; or have a bunch of prizes and tickets + you have to buy the tickets and in front of the prize theirs a bucket and if your entering you place the ticket in the bucket.
bake sale
yard sale
carnival/fair type things. with cheap 1 dollar or used (good condition) prizes
remember ;to make money you need to use money.
hope i helped.
xo britnee.
i have suffered from bulemia since age 13 i am now 17 as i have weened myself off it i occasionally feel the need to start it up again.how do i gert my food to stay down...without needing to make myself sicl and what affect has this done to my body in/out...
everything everyone else has said it 100% right. you could always try online counseling. i know at crisiskids.com or something they have a section for online counseling & a section that tells you all about eating disorders. im not sure what they'll say ;but hey its worth a shot.
I've been getting a lot of pressure from my mother to do really well in school. I really do try my hardest, and getting a bad grade makes me upset. But she seems to think that I'm not smart enough. Which, by the way, is not true at all. All of my classes are honors. However, I'm just not that good at math and science. I never have been. She yells at me everytime i get a bad grade, when all I need is support. I've tried to tell her that she's not helping me at all, but she just gets madder.
I just started to cut myself, and I'm trying to stop. But her pressure was part of the things that made me do it. It's that bad.
What can I do?
well ;i know you know everything about cutting just listen this question isnt about me but in the middle of 5th grade i started cutting! i didnt stop untill the beggining of 7th grade its very - almost addicting.
but about your mom try asking a guidence couselor what you should do to talk to her. or an online conselor. like from kids crisis tell them everything they will be able to help you more than anyone on here. Just believe in everything you do ; if she is like dissing you ;ignor her just kind of tune her out.
I've heard that guys like it when a girl isn't always available to go out.. when he calls, for example, she's not always available to go out, or at least pretends not to be. WHat's your opinion on this?
well ;i know i pretend sometimes just because i dont wanna seem desperate or something. so yah i think its okae for a girl to do that but if she is constantly doing that the boys are going to stop callng and asking
hope i helped
xo britnee.
I am quite pretty but I always feel self-conscious cos my teeth are wonky. I mean, I have a great figure and a pretty face except for my teeth and it really gets to me. Like, I don't like smiling with my mouth open because of my teeth. It makes me feel really self-conscious and makes me not very confident. I'm just wodering, if you saw a pretty girl with a good figure and then saw she had wonky teeth would it put you off? Also, I would like to know how I can stop it from bothering me so much, any advice?
By wonky im supposing you mean teeth that have gaps or something? well ;im a girl but if i saw a guy with bad teeth JUST BECAUSE teeth mean alot to me i might be a little put off ;but as soon as i learn more about him i would like him more ;as for it not bothering you ask your mom if you can get a gap filling ;or if braces are an option thats all my advice i have
i really hope i helped.
xo britnee.
Okay, I know I'm going to sound lame but oh well hehe [: .. Okay, pretty much all of my friends are MAJOR flirts. An I want to be like that too, not like copying how they flirt or anything cause they just act like whores and thats not me. But I want to be able to flirt in like a funn way, anyone want to give me any tips? Like stuff to say an stuff like that, it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks :D
omg sorry i thought this was under the "be the first to anwser this q. catergory" sorry omfg. im sooo sorry.!
I have to do a huge project on basically what I want to be when I'm older and I have NO idea.
I mean I'm interested in owning my own fashion botique but that doesn't seem original at all and it doesn't spark my interest as much as it should.
So does anyone have any ideas?
well. fashion boutique makes you sound creative so maybe ;artist;photographer;coreographer(sp?);musician;author;poet anything like that is creative. but really. i would need to know you more like ellie94 said. so if you need to know more. please do not hesitate to send me a msg to my inbox. jsut tell me a little more about yourself. like your personality. dont worry im not a creppy 50 yr. old stalker man. im a 13 yr. old girl lol.
I used to use singingfish.com A LOT for my music downloads....but now its somehow taken over by aol video. Does anyone know any sites where i don't have to download a program onto my computer, and has a wide selection of music to choose? Thanks
mymp3.com
seekasong.com
try that too
Well I posted a question on herre asking about a song and I got the name and artist. But now I can't find it anywhere! I've tried limewire, itunes, and singingfish.com. is there a place where i can download this song: Amazing, by Janelle. It's a really pretty song. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you! =]
heres a link of the song if its helpful to anyone:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=WsqsWWdjjyo
try blubster
I need someone to talk to, to ask for advice, and to TALK TO AS A FRIEND. Like daily? I want to know about you, same for me. Anyone interested? Im not some freakish old guy, dont worry.
P.S oh yea, im girl and im 13. so if ur thirteen that perfect.
P.P.S i want to talk by email. NOT IN PERSON. because im not exactly aloud to go out yet...
anyone who's interested...answer question...and ill give u my email.
im 13 ill talk to you daily if you would like. jst msg me for my sn and we can talk whenever you want
edit - if you wanna talk my aim sn is B00 X0 Y0U WH0RE lmao. so anytime. just tell me your from advicenators.