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Q: What are ways to boost my self-esteem?
Wear clothes that look good on you so you'll look better study and do good in school so you can be proud of your self try something new or a new activity so when you succeeded you can be proud of your self. Or this is kinda bad but just think of people in Iraq or New Orleans who have no home, and are getting bomed. Your life would probably be heaven to them so just think of what you have and what you might have. Hope I Helped!

Q: ok so i'm really flatchested and i don't feel very secure. any suggestions?
Sorry but the baically the only way to get 'bigger' is to take pills and please don't those will mess with ya or surgey. Don't worry bout your chest size that's not everything you could always stuff it! Or get bras that have really thick padding in em. But basically you just gotta wait. Sorry! Hope i helped

Q: please help me- i really like this boy, i can't stop thinking bout him. i met him last year, he was in my taster class but i never talked to him. the thing is i don't know him and he don't really know me. i once tried making conversation with him but i cut it short cos i was scared. he's not in any of my classes. i think i made it worse cos 1 of my friends liked him and told him and i was there and i was encouraging them on dating but he said no.i don't think he would go out with me cos there are so many prettier friends of his he might like. i'm scared of getting rejcted and how do i know if he likes me or not.i'm pretty but i wear scarf and the pretty friends of his don't.please help me...

i will rate 5's for any good answers.
thx.
well first be yourself don't act like anyone but you. Get his sn or e-mail and talk to him there and then when your good freidns on the internet ask him if he wants to sit with ya at lucnh then ask to hang out on weekends or try to do the same things he does afterschool. Um... try to become good friends with his friends. Um sorry that's all i can really think of hope some of those will work for ya tell me how it goes GOOD LUCK!

Q: ok.... i need to rdo my room... liek i need a new comforter...and like accesories.. i share my room... so i have no space at all...now.. whenever i ask for this people tell me to go to pbteen and like those places.. i do not have that much money.. i need something cheap but also something that is good... like i already checked out jcpenny, sears, macys,ikea,target,etc... so if u have any others please tell me.. or even if you have some ideas of how i could do it.. im a girly girl.. i love pink and neon green.... i hate stripes.. so maybe u can give me some ideas if you don't know any websites...
automatic 4z or 5z unless you are rude

Riss
you could go to homedepo and look at borders and pick one you like and take the border and put in in the middle of your walls and paint the top on color and the bottom antoher like pink or green. Also you could go to target and or bed bath and beyond they have really cute stuff there and they have cupond and those places always give me great ideas! Hope I helped!

Q: My friend nd i want 2 help the people that were effected by tha hurricane. we want to make crafts or something so it will be easy for us (we are good at crafts) but something that the people would need. I was thinking maybe soap and a soap holder or a toothbrush and toothbrush holder that we could decorate the holders and stuff but that sounds kind of lame. Any crafty ideas? Thank u!

♥ Rebecca ♥
I think soap is a great idea!! and shampoo!! i can't really think of crafts but you can make a leamond aid stand. Well i just thought of some things if your' good at sewing you can make blanekts and pillows and outfits for little kids or even make some dolls for them! And if you don't like any of those ideas you could go to a micheals or a craft store and walk around and look to see if anything jumps out at you or ask someone there because they prolly know alot of crafts you could do!

Q: ive had this wart on my finger for a long time, and I just got a wart remover thing a week ago. its Dr. Scholl's Clear Away Wart Remover. on the package it says it can take up to 12 weeks to fully remove the wart! the warts already getting smaller.. any1 know anything that works better? or is this gunna work?
Go to the doctor and get it frozen off or i heard duck tape works lol

Q: whats high mainntence or whatever? i duno how to spell it lol.
it's a person ..usually a girl who's into expensive things and has to have new things and is sorta hard to make happy lol but manily someone who wants alot of expesive things or just things in general.

Q: i have a sprint cell phone and i really want a new screen saver/ringtone, does anyone know how/where i can get one?


(its a sprint sanyo)
go to sprint.com and download some!


Q: theres this guy at school i like.. but before i get with him i want to get to know him better. what are some good conversation topics that i can talk to him about at school on monday?
If you have a class him talk bout that. Ask what he did on the weekend. If you two have the samefriend talk bout them..but nicly lol sprots music tv OMG i just had a great idea ask if he's doing anything for hurrican Katrina and if he's not then suggest you two doing something together to raise money or something. Basily talk to him bout anything or ask if he wants to do something with ya! Hope I helped!


Q: i usually crack my jaw.. is that bad?
sometimes it can be and can't be but i'd try to see a doctor or dentist not really sure which one lol but if it hurts i'd try to go really soon! Hope I Helped!


Q: Tomorrow is my wedding day!!! Wish me luck and all of the happieness in the world!!

Princess Ava
Good Luck!!!! You go girl! lol

Q: my dog was 10 yrs old n he died yesterday n i cant stop crying wut do i do to get over this? he ment so much to me! we were bffs
Well when i'm really sad i just go in my bed turn on some music i really like and just cry and cry till i can't anymore then once i'm done with that try to find alot of things to do. Call your friends i'm sure they'd go to the mall or hang out with you and help you get ur mind of your dog. And i'm soo sorry! Hope I helped!


Q: 13/female...

I know it's hard for you guys to answer specific questions like this one if you've never met me or the guy i'm about to tell you 'bout. But thanx if you can give me your honest opinion on this, i'll rate you if your advice helped me!

Okay, so there's this guy I like. I'm on his bus. His locker's kind of near mine, and his house is within walking distance. We used to talk a whole lot last year, but we don't really talk to much now..I mean, we still do, but not as much.

So anyways. I have some signs that he likes me too. They are -
-when he passes me in the hall sometimes, he doesn't say hi, but he says "ew, it's you!" in a flirty kind of way..then he smiles at me.
-he always laughs when i try to make a joke or be funny
-one of his friends talks about me and the guy i like when i am alone with his friend (he just talks about conversations we've all had and stuff..nothing too important..)
-he always tries to sit near me on the bus, if he can. but sometimes he'll try to sit with his friends. Sometimes he even sits with me, but that was only twice.

Also- there are some signs he doesn't like me. They are:
-He flirts A LOT with other girls, not just me.
-He asks other girls if they like him (BUT NOT ME)
-He says he doesn't like me (my idiodic friend asked him one day! now he avoids me a lot, cause he has the right idea, that i DO like him!)
-He also tries to sit next to this one girl who I HATE (cause she's pretty and seems like she's perfect, pretty much everything that i'm not!)
-His friends and him talk about me sometimes, and they were calling me retarted and stuff..but that's just the way boys are lol

I'm SO sorry this is so long, but my real question is - do you think there is any way I can get his attention on ME and not other girls? Also - do you think he likes me and what can i do to get him to ask me out/what can i do to ask him out? Please help. Thanks so much! Like I said I will rate if it helped ♥
lol ihave the same problem! Well I'd just go to a close friend of his and MAKE them tell ya if he likes yea. Or you get one of your friends to become real good friends with him and have your friend tell ya what up. Or just plan out ask him if he like you. Sorry that's all the adivce i really have hope that helps though!


Q: how can you tell when a guy likes you?

i have this one guy and he pretty much flirts with me ..and he says all these sweet things
Ask one of his friends or have one of his friends find out if he likes yea! Or if your' really brave go ask him! lol Hope I Helped!


Q: hey
do you guys know what home thing i could use to do highlights on my hair?? i heard that lemon or lime juice works im just not sure witch one it is and how to apply it HELP please i need to get them before Monday easy 5s for fast answers
I'm 99% sure there's like this sun in stuff that you can buy at like walgreens and you spray it in your hair and you can use the sun to make it work or use a hair dryer try that or you could just go to Walgreens,wallmart, or your a saloon and ask them or look there for something! Hope I helped!


Q: Hey Everyone! I was just wondering how to get to my profile section of my xanga? When I sign in, it brings me to my personal xanga site, but the only buttons I see are on my navigation. They are: Xanga, In or OUT, Look && Feel, add me?!, and my Buddies. I would like to change my profile picture and personal profile. Thanks! I rate!
ok here's the link to edit your proifle information or your wizard info. so just click on the link then click the one you want. The link... http://help.xanga.com/profile-xangaprofile.htm Ok well hope's that what you were talking bout! Good Luck!


Q: I am really shy. sometimes when i get real shy and nervous my face turns red, like cherry red.
Back in like the 2nd grade i had a big crush on this one guy and he really liked me to. But i moved to a dif school and havent seen him since. i kind of liked him all thruout the years until now. there are two middle schools in my town. now that im in the 8th grade i go to one, he goes to the other.
i am like deathly afraid of seeing him. what do i do when i see him? i mean, my face will turn redder than ever. once my friend started to talk about him and she asked me why my face was turning ruby red.
WHAT DO I DO??? HELP PLEASE I RATE HIGH!
Well there's reall nothing you could do bout your face maybe heavy concealer? But try calling him talking to him on aim so that you and him are like best friends that when you talk to him on the phone your face can turn red then. And when ya see him in public hopefully it won't be a big thing just another conversation and your face won't turn to red. And if someone asked why your face is red tell them you've been running cause my face gets reaaly red when i run. Well I hope that sorta helped. good luck

Q: How should cucumbers be stored?
in the fridge

Q: i believe in bhuddism and people make fun of me for it. i sacrifice turtles and llamas for my own pleasure. I wonder why people hate me sometimes. How should i cope with this?

also,

my grandma is addictited to meth and pot. She smokes everything she sees. She even tried to smoke my cat one time. Im afraid shes going to smoke me sometime soon. WHAT SHOULD I DO SHELLYMEISTER?!?!?!?!?!?!?

i really need serious help or im going to have to commit suicide..please help me nowwwww!!!


-arabjaka



Q: what should i do? my grandpa is a porn addict
Sorry but there's nothing you really can do. You could tell him alot he's a pervert. Or Grandpa you have a gross mind to hint to him to stop. But think of it this way there could be worse he could be doing that just looking at porn he could abbuse people,do drugs, or drink irresponsable. HOPE I HELPED!


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