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hey i have a question 4 u! i'm 14 n i'm a freshman in hs, there is dis cute guy in ma class and i have a crush on him. I THINKK he likes me too but i'm not sure, do u kno any signs dat i should look out 4 if he likes me? and if he doesnt like wat could i do 2 make him like me?

~lost n confused!

Hey,
O.K. here's what signs you should look out for. If you ever glance at him and notice that he's staring at you that's a sign. It's also a sign if you turn around and look at him while he's looking at you and he turns away really fast that's a sign also. If you also if you see him smiling at you that's another sign and if he finds ways to talk 2 you like little things like " I like your outfit" or "I like your hairstyle".

I hope my advice helped.

Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2

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I really hate my life.I moved away from everything i had..i've been here in a year and i havent seen any good..everyone hates..makes fun of me..and this girl took out sissors and cut some of my hair off the other day! (it was about 2 inches..my hair is long so i didnt care much,but it was very rude) i have a good life were i used to live,but here,everything is bad,i cant focus,and i dont know what to do.As soon as the prices go down for houses,we'll buy one,maybe,but i dont know how long that will be :(

Hi. Don't feel bad because you moved, think of it as an experience to meet new people. Now if these people are mean to you then my best advice for you is to stop talking to them. Don't even think about them. But as for the hair issue, make a new trendy hair style of it.Make that person feel really stupid.They'll feel stupid because they thought that they were doing something that could bring you down, but keep your spirits up and show them what your made of.

your freinds,
advicegodesses2

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okay well i have a major crush.

on this boy jon, and well i need to tell him, but im way too shy. and afraid im going to look stupid !

so yeah can you please help me in a way not to act stupid?

ps hes in my classes and theres nothing to ever talk about.

Hey gurl,
This is what you should do. I had the same problem with this boy named Reggie(my now boyfriend o yeah buddy lol). 1st when you see him in class like since you're so shy drop your pencil on purpose and say "Can you please pick my pencil up for me?" And then from there, start talking to him more each day. Then eventually, ask him for his # or give him your #. Then either you call him or he calls you, then ask him out over the phone or you could tell him how you feel about him 1st then you could ask him out. If he turns you down, just ask if y'all could be friends then maybe once y'all have known each other for a while then maybe your friendship could turn into something more.

Good Luck,
Advicegodesses2

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my bff (i will call her jane) & i have been bff for a while now. i like her (obviously) but sometimes she acts so insecure...like she wants to be friends with these other girls who obvioulsy aren't that nterested with her. sometimes when i am with her & feel bad, because she seems so focused on being frineds with them that i feel like she doesn't want to be hanging out with me. i know she likes me, but every once in a while she will do something on an important day (like dances, new years eve) & if i ask her if she wants to do something she will be like "no i can't, i am doing something with _____" and she won't even offer to have me come, which is something i always dowith my friends (unless they hate each other, which almost none do, they all get along). it makes me feel bad, but i also know that jane DOESN'T have that many friends, so i feel like she does it to sort of show off that she's doing something. ahould i say anything, i mean its not that serious & it only happens once in a while, but i feel sort of unwanted. we like never fight though, so i don't want to start anything!

Hey,
I'm so sorry. My friend kinda answered your question. Now here's a way you could work the problem out. I think maybe you should tell her that it it doesn't matter if you're friends with thos people that you want to be friends with. All that matters is that you do have friends that do care about you and love you as a person. Tell her not to worry about who she's not friends with. Tell her to just think about the friends she already has. Also, tell her how you feel whenever you ask her over and she says stuff like "No, I can't" and how much you miss how it use to be.

Good Luck,
Adivcegodesses2

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i hav a friend who is like my best friend and ive known for like 4 yrs but just this yr she moved to laval and changed schools, i thought i would never be replaced and she even told me that i wopuld never be replaced, but just yesterday i was talkin to her on aol and she added a friend from her school and she was acting totally different and telling me sbout how everyone there is soooo open and funny, and she had all these inside jokes and stuff and when she left the convo she said nice talkin to me, but she told her friend sum inside joke and started laughin away. And shes always telling me about how she went out with all these ppl at her school. Im starting to feel super left out. (and she didnt lie about any of this)
-feeling left out (female, 13)

Don't feel left out because she did move, but that doesn't mean that she isn't the same at all. Sometimes when people move they do act different, talk different ect. but if you talk to her about it maybe you can help her understand how you feel. Maybe she'll take it to heart and actually try to stop doing it.

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I'm 13/f in the 7th grade


For a while, I've been having a real hard time paying attention. I get really bored easily, and I fidget a lot, I'm really slow (physically), and I get lethargic a lot. and I'm VERRRY disorganized. My school learning specialist said that there's a possibility of me having ADHD. but when I was little, I was always full of energy. Usually ADHD shows up in kids when they're little. Does my case sound like ADHD???

x0x0

*Cheyenne*

No, it just sounds like you don't pay attention. I'm in the 8th grade and I'm ADHD and trust me hun you're not ADHD.

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I am so confused as of what i should do. My friend ("best friend") is sooo annoying. She hardly hangs out with me anymore, shes too busy hanging out with the 2 popular kids in our class,,its so obvious to tell shes trying to be cool. the 2 popular kids were talking about celeberty poker and how they love it. and shes like OMG I LOVE CELEBRTY POKER! haha!" and this is so untrue cuz, 1. she doesnt no how to play it,,or at least i think. When i told her about my camp stories and how we played poker she was like YEAH UMM FUN.
2. her tv doesnt even work.

and yeah, stuff like that keeps happening and its really starting to get annoying, and i let it go everytime but im soo anoyed...what should i do? be friends with her, tell her i dont want to be friends, what? we have been best friends for 2 years and this stuff hasnt been much of a problem till this year. it happened like once a couple years ago, and sometimes last year, but its getting bad this year. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!

btw i rate 5's for good help, and non-stupid answers

I think that you should tell her how you feel. Also you could ask her why she's secluding you from everything and what happened to y'all's friendships. Then tell her how much you miss her and how much you want it to be like old times and like how it use to be. The reason why she might be doing this to you is because she's probably unsure of what group(stereotypes) she wants to be in. She might just not want to be one of thos people that isn't in the in crowd. Or give her some time. I hope this answer helps you. Good luck.-Advicegodesses2

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