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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do?

uHh.well i alreadie gave you my opinion ((you know who u are!)) and i personally dont think its right..im not gunna go on and on about it tho

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i had sex with a guy a few times and now im looser down there. is there any way to get things back to how it used to be before i did anything with him ?

nope, there is nothing you can do..but look on the bright side if you really cared about him or still do then it was worth it right?

x0x-dani

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I don't know what to wear for the first day of school. I don't really have a great sence of style and i was wondering if you could help me. My hair is brown and eye brown and i am 5'2. Got any good styles for that???

uMm...well idk what kind of person you are..like are you the sporty - preppy - skaterish - gothic

gothic- hot topic:) they have the best clothes there!
preppy-aeropostale, abercrombie, american eagle
skaterish//surf-pac-sun hollister

check out old navy too! their clothes are pretty rad!

x0x-dani

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ok well i was like wondering what is the best position for sex?

what ever your comfortable with! i reallie wouldnt know personally since i havent had sex...but try it regularly..have the guy be on top so the girl can lay back!

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Ok theres this girl who I've been friends with for 12 years, and our moms even longer. I'm so sick of her because shes really mean to me one minute and nice the next. If I tell her about it she'll like scream at me and then i'll get in trouble with my mom. Also, she doesn't get along with anyone because she's really weird and stuff and she follows me around and its SO ANNOYING! PLEASE HELP!

haha! nose picker! (hehe! srry!) tell your mom you dont like how she treats you. shes your mom, she should understand and say something to her friend...and hopefully the problem doesnt arise after her mom has spoken to her!

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well i am a very honest person and i tell him everything and how i feel i tell him it bothers me when hes an asshole to me and he says hes sorry but then he just does it again and again.. idk what to do with him..

~Nikki~

sweetie..if it really bothers you that much, then drop him! honestly..there are so many guys out there and its just the mattter of finding the perfect one for you. its hard to say if hes playing hard to get, or if hes just being an ass. flat out tell him that you dont like how he acts at all, and leave it at that. dont fight with him about how dumb he is. make him think and realize how much of an ass he is. and try and move on!!

x0x-dani

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ok does anyone know what song this is in..and who its by? and its like rock(i dont its not much but its repeated in the song a lot)
"What I really ment to say...is I'm sorry for the way...I am..." and so on and so forth. if you've hear it then please let me know.

"Cold" -Coldface ..such ah great song!:)

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what are some things two girls can do together? like besides making out, i mean things that lead into sex and everything, i just need some step-by-step things for me to do.

uhH..im not really up-to date with girl on girl action..but do stuff like girls&guys would do ((im guessing)) makeout-hug..uMm..dry humping? haha! i really dont know..im probably not the best person to be answering this..but I figured i would help. Do everything a normal couple would do..if you really want to edge her on to do more romantic things then try and go down on her...touch her down there..your a girl so you should know what you like and want!:)

Hope i helped..i dont kno much about this!

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I have blotchy skin like pimples and its kinda red should i go to the dermatologist? Also what kind of face wash should i get? Thanks

Definitally go to the dermatologist! He/She helps out alot! they will probably prescribe something to you, it may take a few weeks..but dont give up hope..be sure to use to everyday (or when recomended) so it all goes away and clears up!:) For right now, try noxeima..they have really good products!:)

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Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott


am i weird or what?

No you arent weird..its natural for guys to look at you and think your attractive no matter how you dress or look. Looking older helps you out in some situations! (hehe!) take advantage of that when you get into J.H and high school!!!

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I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate!

wow! crazy ass gym teachers now a days! haha! Icy Hot works MIRACLES! haha! BELIVE ME! but dont strain yourself doing these warmups..if you have to, sit out a day. ask your mom to write you a note cuz your too sore to participate that day. even tell the teacher that your sore..maybe it will make him/her realize their a hard ass and working kids till they die! (hehe!) gyms suppose to be fun..have fun with it!

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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!

Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend

Once again ((i really stress the honest issue)) anyways..be honest with her, tell her that you really like this guy that you two met..and you feel you have a connection with him. Dont tell her about the mall just yet, tell her that your really into him and hes into you. Just be nice about it..dont be all bitchy and "im better then you" attitude..cuz that will just cause problems. Tell her that you really like him and want to hang out with him alot more, maybe start a relationship. (Let me know what happens!)

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i sweat really bad i need advice on a good deodarent taht will stop teh sweatin or another trick or thing i can do Thank u *

There are deodrants out there that can help you out with this..Ask your mom next time your at the store! Just kinda shock her..and be like.."Mom, I need a heavy duty deodrant! any sudgestions!" haha! and laugh while your saying it..so she knows you want her advice but is kinda joking at the same time. Usually on the deodrant it says what it does...Some guy deodrants work really well for girls aswell! try some out! Ive heard Right Guard with those crystals..or w/e work really good!

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My boyfriend and I haven't been going out for that long. When we're kissing and really into it, he tries to finger me and I really am not ready for that right now. How do I explain/tell him I very much enjoy kissing him, but I don't want things to go too far just yet?

BE HONEST!!:) guys like girls that are honest with them. Tell him that you arent ready to do anything just yet, tell him that you really enjoy kissing and being close to him..your just not ready to move any further right now. I remember when Ryan and I started going out, he told me that he would never force me to do anything I didnt want to. Meaning, I kind of ran things when it came to doing stuff..which it should be like that. If you dont want something, then he should respect you..if he doesnt then you really need to have a talk about that. A relationship goes both ways, it bends and straightens out..you need to bend for him a little bit by talking to him about it..and hopefully he will bend back by understanding causing it to straighten out!:) ((haha...my lovely analigy! [ah-nal-i-g]

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I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour?

Definitally tell your doctor..they can help you out alot. Im not closter..w/e haha so I cant tell you what I would do I guess...idk how it is. Tell your doctor before you go, so he knows what to expect..I know you cant move the whole time..So ((idk if you can, but if you can)) close your eyes. Think of your friends and songs you like..it will go by fast!

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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..?

Wow..sounds like a situation I was in awhile back! Tell him honestly that you dont like it how he jokes around with you about things. But be sure to tell him that doesnt mean he cant joke around with you anymore! lol! Be honest and just tell him straight up that you dont like some of his comments, their just flat out rude. If you still really want to be with him then I sudgest he better clean his act up..if he still loves you this is a strange way to show it..but guys are VERY strange..so this seams kinda normal if youve been through some of the things i have! haha! Anyways..stay true to yourself dont let your guard down just for a guy!

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what is the best conditioning treatment or product or whatever for dyed hair? thanx

If you got your hair dyed professionally..go back there and ask whats the best conditioner to use..they have products right there!:) But Ive heard Pantene and Herbal Essences work great! I use Herbal Essences Fruit Fusions on my hair ((its not dyed)) but it works great on my thick, curly hair. it makes it straight, shiny, soft and smells GREAT!!!


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Ok here's the deal. My friend lives down the street from me and me and my other friend are planning on going to his house to get wasted/drunk in a couple days. However, how am I supposed to get into my house at 930 at night w/ out getting caught drunk by my parents? How do I pretend to be sober? OR, how do I get sobered up enough to walk home and go inside my house (with my friend who is sleeping over) without getting my parents suspicious? I'm going to be walking back to my house drunk w/ my friend and most likely have my parents spaz out when I get home. What do I do? And please..don't give me shit about being too young or whatever..I know the whole deal.

Ohh..I definitally have been in this situation before! Eye drops help out your eyes, so they dont look too glossy! and if youre really THAT worried about getting caught - dont get too drunk. Just have a few and then just chill with everyone. Make sure to tell your friend this too so your not alone. Another great idea is, share a drink with your friend..its half the alchoal. You could also ask you parents to stay over your friends house down the street, so then you dont have to worry about going home! (great idea!! haha!) Just have fun, but if your really worried about your parents then dont drink too much! have fun...but cut yourself off by one beer (if your a light weight) or two (if you can handle it!)

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me and my friend has been friends for a long time. And she was always has a attitude and makes me look like the bad girl... I really dont want to loose a friend but i am getting really sick of her wat should i do?

Be honest with her, I know it may sound kind of mean..but tell her how you feel..without coming out and saying I DONT want to hang out with you anymore. Tell her you want a break.."things have been hectic lately when you and i hang out" something like that..be nice about it too! hope this helps!

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hey .. i shave my legs every morning and by noon they r all prickily LOL well do u guyz know ne thing i can do to keep them smoother for longer* thanx

try waxing them..it doesnt hurt that badly! but if your not into that, ive heard from friends that the vieve or w/e..the cream you put on your legs then use a plastic kinda like razor works pretty well! also, there are plenty of lotions out there you can put on your legs, Jergens has a few out there that makes hair less visable and thinner. it works very well!

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