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hey i'm courtney! :)
i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.

advice

i've been using the ab lounger like everyday for a month and im not really geting any results. what should i do??

Try it for a little longer, are you on a diet. Or maybe you're using it incorrectly.
or maybe it's a crappy ab lounge. plain old situps work hon. :]

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Okay theres this guy peter who asked me out on msn right. well i knew him he used to go to my school and now he does again. so my friends think he ugly but hes totaly cute. I dont know how to talk to him at school though I mean 2 of my Xs are in his class. I'm in Gr 8 so this sucks how do I talk to him??????

write him notes. it's clever, and romantic. ;]

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whats the easiest and most useful way to get rid of stage fright?

Think positive things. :]

know that everyone does it (gets on stage) once in their life, and no one is perfect. :]
try praying to god, he helps me.

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can someone tell me how you say "reach for the stars" in spanish?

and please don't use the free translator junk. it doesn't come out right.

please and thank you!!

alcance para las estrellas

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is green tea really bad for your heart? does it make a difference if its diet green tea?!?

green tea is very healthy.
It helps with cancer, tooth decay, and some deoderants and lotions on the market are starting to contain green tea. It's quite good for you. I'm not sure if diet green tea has the same affects though sweetie.

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Me and this guy Blaine have been talking for a while now. We've kissed a lot but nothing more. We hang out and talk on the phone all the time. He's really cool and nice and everything but I don't know if I would want him as my boyfriend. He likes me a ton and we have so much fun hanging out, but the thing is I like his best friend Mark better. Here's the only problem..My best friend is talking to Mark. I just wish me and her could switch guys! HELP! I don't know what to do..

Well, you have to know who you like for sure. &stop leading Blaine on if you like Mark more. Blaine has a right to know honey. &ask your friend if she really likes Mark, and tell her you do too. You can't have both guys hon. Just see if she really liikes Mark. &don't try and be mean about it, tell her your serious and don't let the two guys ruin the friendship, GUYS aren't worth that. :]


good luck.

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umm im 14 years old and i never had my period yet and i have no boobs at all

Some girls grow slower than others. It just depends on your horomone levels. You're fine. I know a girl woh didn't start until she was 15. Don't worry about it sweetie. :]

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hey!
Just got my ears pierced, I know you're not supposed to take the earings out for like six weeks because they can close up, but I was wondering why you cant even take them out for a few minutes to clean them. Can they close up that fast?

just clean them with them in. Only take them out if they start to get infected. it's not going to feel good to take them out, &believe me, you won't want the pain of getting them back in.

clean them in your ears& clean them hon.

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I'm thinking to try this product because I'm dying for something that helps my hair. Do you think Sunsilk is good or do you prefer something else?
My hair is frizzy, curly, dry, breakable, and poofy! Any shampoos or products that can cure this problem?

THANKS!

omgoodness. sunsilk is the ultimate best product for hair like yours.
i've used it, and loooove it. :]

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Thanks in advance everyone :>)

Alright. First you should know that I'm the very romantic type and look forward to things like dressing up, going on dates, I want to go sit in a coffee shop with someone and have a nice conversation (too bad im only 14..haha)...and I just love the whole idea of being with someone and having them to talk to and lying under the stars together.... :>)... but I've never had a real boyfriend, almost all my friends are boys though.

alright enough about me. Here's my situation.

My friend, Jenna, has liked my friend Mike since 7th grade when she moved here. Now, Mike is my bestbestfriend. I am really fond of him, too, and was really hoping he'd ask me to homecoming...because it would be romantic/fun/etc. :>)

HOWEVER...Jenna and my friend Katrina are best friends, and Katrina said to me the other day, "you're close with mike, right?" and i said yes. Then she said "do you know who he likes/is planning to ask to homecoming?" and I said, "nope..." she said "I'm trying to help Jenna get him to ask her. We'll need your help too though, she reeeally wants to go with him."

but she barely talks to him and I almost am SURE he is going to ask me...but then if I said yes to him, Jenna would be mad at me, and if I said no, I would feel like I missed a great, fun chance. I know there will be more dances but you know, it's my first high school dance.....Im very excited. (remember, I said i over romanticize everything.. :-P)

So basically, I'm stuck. What should I do? I probably wouldn't have a hard time going with someone else cause someone's bound to ask me, like I said I have a lot of guy friends. but....what should I do? I really wanted to go with mike.

It almost feels like they're completely ignoring my feelings...but Katrina is very very nice, so I'm sure she's probably just oblivious...after all everyone does think of us as just friends so I wouldn't really expect them to think I wanted to go with him...I almost want to tell them but that would be really hard.

Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. Gosh, just writing that got me all excited. :>) but worried at the same time.

Thank you
:>)

Well, wait it out first, and see who mike decides to ask. If he doesn't ask you or Jenna would you ask him yourself? I mean I know you said you and mike are close, but do you like him that much to ask him yourself? Ifnot then you probably should just let jenna have this one. & you said that some other guys bound to ask you.
Also, tell jenna& katrina that you feel for mike too. Explain that you're not being childish, your feelings are real, not jealousy. And see what they say. They are really nice you said. &if they are your girlfriends, then they should understand and not be mad at you.
And, if mike asks you, explain your dilema to him. He has a right to know that jenna is interested in him hon. :]

goodluckkk, god bless.

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Hi, there is this one girl I like but she acts like a complete playerette. Pretty sure she makes up most of what she says but not positive. Just wondered if you had some tips for dealing with her and talking to her. Other than that she is pretty cool. Thank you.

Is she bothering you? Some people act differently about themselves. Some things about her might not be true. But, she is more open about herself apparantly. Is she bragging or what? hmm. Well tell her, (when you know its a lie) that she doesn't need to make up stories. It's not helping her any, and you like her the way she is. :]

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how come whenever i put up an AIM away message then i look at my profile to see it, the away message says "No Information Provided"?

Maybe your computer needs shutdown or something.
try going into your edit options-edit preferences and see what your aways are checked in.

good luck. :]

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Why do young girls come on here to ask about sex when they can't even spell right? I find this to be a very sad look at young girls in american society today. Do you agree?

This is how the world is today. People (children) are having sex at young ages. Orgasms at 14, 15. Even 13 sometimes. It's traggic how the world has changed like this. But the only thing you can do is educate yourself right?

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ok i like this boy and he told me i was cute but he didnt like me like me so like wat should i do cause he is soooooooo hot and i really like him so wat can i do to get him to like me

try flirting with him. And be more adorable for him.compliment him, but don't suffocate him with attention. Just let him know you like him& want to try dating him. :]

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okay. i orgasm but i dont know how to make it last longer. mine are only like 5 seconds long. i hate it.
--- thanks
15/f

Try doing something different. Maybe aa different way. Some girls don't orgasm for a while. You can practice doing it others ways and maybe it will help. Good luck, :]

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Ive like this guy for a while now and I told him last year like three days before we were let out for summer on the phone and he said he likes me too. Now we're back at school and freshmen and everyone is tring to hook up with each other and i told my friend that I still liked him..well my friend told him and he said he liked me too..but now when I was about to get with him he just walks by me in the hall way and dosent talk to me ..my friend said that he just want to chill this year meaning staying single I understand that but I still want to be his friend but he want even look at me nor talk to me

Give it some time. If he likes you too then don't worrry about it. Him wanting to be single won't last forever. Just be patient. Or try making him want to date you. Flirt with him a little. Maybe you need to make him acknowledge you since he won't do it by himself hon. Good luck. :]

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Me and my bf have been together for almost 10 months now and its all been great. But in the past couple of weeks he said that i'm not kissing him like I use to. I can tell that there is a difference but I don't know what to do about it. Is there anything along with kissing that I can do to keep him mind off of it? Plz help!

It's just because you are thru the "spark/butterfly" stage. You want to feel comfortable with him and you are. You guys have been together so long that your kisses will change. It's a fact of love and relationships. Maybe try and spice things up a bit. Go on a nice date, or try kissing him differently. Or just try to spend time together doing others things. I think you both are just putting too much thought into it. You said you're happy. That's all that matters. Good luck. :]

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when does the next season of the tv show house start?

thanks!

Tuesday Sept. 25th @ nine.



this could have been googled hon.

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Anyone know where I can find the theme music from America's Next Top Model??

Go to a music website like...

morpheus.com and type in the theme song.
Or you could maybe buy the song online .

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for spanish, when do you use "a" i think i am using it too many times... like

la madre acusa a Juan.
or is it just la madre acusa Juan.

I believe it's


la madre acusa Juan. No a in there honey. :]

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