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I've heard some people shave down there. Are you supposed to or not and why and do you shave it all or no (link)
you can .. but you dont have to
if your having sex, you should ask your b/f what he likes best.
but if you not .
its really up to you. you can shave some, or none, or all


do you get blood after the 3rd day of your period? (link)
you might .it all depends. i get it for 3-4 days.
but its all up to your body


Here's the story....
I went out with this guy named Jay for 4 months, we were really happy and any thing then i found out he was moving, so we decided it was better to break it off. So then i was single for a whole,( Still liking Jay) and met this other guy named Chirs. Chris is a really awesome guy, he is just like me, and we get along really well. But just a couple weeks ago, I found out that Jay wasnt moving any more. So we started haning out alot more. And then, Jay asked me back out again, and I said yes. And I am very happy with Jay, but I still can't stop thinking about chirs.It seems that every time i am with Jay, I wish i could be with chirs too.. What do I do.?

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well if you are thinking of Chris .. that means Jay isnt giving you all you need.
i would break things off w/ Jay, or atleast take a break. and you date Chris for a while .. and see if you really do like him.


what does it mean when a guy shows you the numbers "69"? (link)
well did he just show you them..
or did he say 'i want to 69 you'?
69 is sex. so depending how how he used he .. he probably wants to get in your pants


i dont think you give very good advice..you seem to be so into looks.. (link)
oh alright.

i could really care less


okay there is this guy, my friend was like "would you ever go out with her?" (link)
flirt.
and act sexy


Ok i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me or not but he's older so he told me that he wont go out with me just b/c of my age and i was wondering if maybe his friends saw me and thought i was hot (well atleast one of them) that he would change his mind cuz i think that the whole reason he wont go out with me is b/c of what his friends think? Also how can i seduce him? (link)
dating younger is a big deal for a guy ; its not that bad. but they rather date old
yeah .. i think if one (or two) of friends thought you were hott and told him about you .. his mind might change.
why to seduce him ..
just be sexy .. and flaunt a lot.


ok do you know where you can get those black tights you wear with regular shows ans skirts like they arent complete the stop at your ancle area. (link)
you can probably find them at dance studios.


this can get tricky so listen carefully.
okay, i am bisexual and i have a gf, i love her but i would rather be with a guy. but she doesnt know it yet. meanwhile i like this guy in school and he is so cool, i would love to get with him but i dont know how to tell my gf that i would rather be with him. later in life my ex-girlfriend calls me saying she loves me and she wants to go out with me.i told her i was bi, and also i would rather be with a guy but she does not want to accept that, she is crying saying why cant i be straight and stuff like that. I am so confused right, i dont know if i should stay with my good looking gf, go back out with my ex-girlfriend who could help turn me straight, or go with the guy i had in mind??? i really need ya'll help this is sooooo confusing!! if it helps i am 15 yrs old. i would rate really high if you give me a good answer!!! (link)
what do you want to do? do YOU want to be bi or straight?
Maybe you could try the guy . just to see if thats really what you want to do. and if things feel weird . or dont work out you can go out w/ your ex girlfriend.

but i think you should break up w/ the girl you are with right now .. it seems like she isnt giving you what you need.

this is all up to you tho.


one day i just woke up with this bump kinda thing on my lip. its sensitive and really annoying. today i think it popped or sumthing but idk wht to do about it. easy 5's for wht it is and how to get rid of it (link)
it might be a cold sore .. they are also called fever blisters and stress sores.
you get them by stress, to much moisture in your lips, and by blowing your nose.
DO NOT POP IT! it will come back and scar .. ouchh

you can get ride of them by putting a hot compres on it for a little, then putt on zovirax or blistex. i used something that starts with a A but i cant think of the name.

if you do that 2 times a day for a week it'll be gone soon.


I have gym first period this year...ouch!! I use Smooth and Dri Deoderant now and it doesn't keep me from sweating in class or in gym class. My mom says my expectations are all wrong and that no deoderant can keep you from sweating in gym. Is she right?? I need help!!! I heard of Certain Dri. Can that help me in gym? (link)
no deoderant can make you completely stop sweating.. but it helps not sweat as much. if you want a REALLY good one, you can always ask your doctor when you go in next time you go.
but i've heard that certain dri works good. also ban works.

what you can also do it put it on in the morning, and have one in your gym locker (if you have one) and put some on when you change into and out of your uniform (if you have one)


whats a g-spot and how come when ever you type in g-spot in google it comes up with pics of some people pinching a pussy? Also what comes out from a guy after he has sex with a girl and what comes out of a girl when she has sex with a girl? Also can i pinch your g-spot? (link)
-supposedly located inside the anterior of the vagina, which if properly stimulated induces the expulsion of a large volume of fluid from the vagina at orgasm
-because that is where its located
-i can not think of the name for this one
-im not sure either
-and yes, you could .. its called fingering yourself.

sorry that i can not think of those two words!


whats the difference between foundation and concealer (link)
concealer hids JUST your break out. foundation you put all over your face and it goes over concealer.

but you dont have to wear both, you can wear one or the other.


okay so...i totally have this thing going with this amazzzinggg guy. i really love him. like i really do. this isnt just like one of those 2 week things and then your over him. i really love him. and idk it just seems its so much easier to talk to him on the computer. but i HATE THAT. i want to beable to talk to him in REAL LIFE...it really annoys me how i get like that. i mean i dont like freak out or anything...its just like so much easier on the computer. so thats why im happy schools coming soon and i get to talk to him. any good tips to calm down...or good lines to say? anything ill rate high. thanks a bunch! love, -me (link)
laugh at some stuff he says, and smile. that will make is easier for the two of you.
i understand its easier on the computer, there are no akward moments. but you've got to talk on the phone also.
you really shouldnt say lines.. just make stuff up. i dont know how good you guys are with joking, but you might wants to joke a little .. and have fun with it.. but nothing over the edge.

have fun .. smile, laugh. you'll do fine!


i have a problem.i think am not shy and am more out going.but thats not what people say.they think am shy and very qiute.when am aroun ppl i just have nothing to say.so am qiute.i would love to get to no people better. come ouut of my shell and make friends.anyone have any help for me.i would like to make friends and make more friends.be outgoing.
**i rate 5**^^ (link)
just pretend you are around you close friends. be outgoing .. push your self to be outgoing, and challenge your self to be loud. but not to loud. be really friendly to people, they will most likely be friendly back, and you will feel more at home.
dont think about being shy , that will worrie you, and you will end up being shy. just breathe, loosen up.. and have fun!


My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 months. We're very serious. We laugh, we have a great time, we're passionate & have tons in common. We talk about the future alot-- getting married 10 years from now, etc. I just want to know if that's possible, if relationships can last that long & what are some ways to build it so it does? (link)
yeah ..it can last for a million if you make it .. but you really should plan that far head, it might be over tomorrow.
but just always have a good time, make sure you tell him how you feel about him .. remind him. and dont do anythig stupid.
know how to have fun with eachother, but then be serious at time.. its all about understand eachother, and what you/him want.


well i like this kid, but my friend is going out with him, and i would never want her to be upset if she found out. if he found out i like him, and he didnt like me, it would be really weird between us.. but i tihnk i realy like him. what should i do ? (link)
well do you think he might like you? because if you dont .. dont do a thing. but if you think he might like you . talk it over with him. and ask him, make him promise, not to tell anyone. tell him your feelings, and ask if he's got any back. and if he does, then you guys can either tell your friend .. or ya'll can just wait until they break up.

but this is going to be hard .. going out w/ a friend's ex. she will always thik that you broke them up . is it really worth losing a best friend over?


I like this guy and i talk to him on the phone sometimes and like i talk to him online all the time and i was wondering like what kind of signs he can like me. He's the shy type so unless u like make the first move i dont think he will! I really need to know this cuz i want to know if i should give up on him or if he actually might like me! (link)
you said he is shy, so i would make the first move if i was you. you can never know with these shy boys.. they always drive you insane wondering. maybe you can just ask him .. so who you liking these days? or you can say . i like you, do you like me back? or you can say 'will you go out with me' maybe he is shy around you because he does like you.
some signs could be ... not looking directly in your eyes, touching you, laughing a lot, turning red.


hey, im thinkin about switchin to tampons and i have one question. do you have to change your tampon every time you go to the bathroom (like every time i go pee)? (link)
it depends on how often you pee, and how much you bleed.
you need to change your tampon atleast every 2 hours. but you should probably change it more if you have a heavey-er flow.


Ok I asked this girl to Homecoming and then if she said YES i was going to ask her out! But then she said NO to going with homecoming! Here are her exact words: "well i dont really like you that way cuz i think your such an awesome friend and i wouldnt want anything to happen and it hurt our friendship" So what should I do now? When girls say this what do they actually mean? (link)
she could mean two things:
she doesnt like you
she really doesnt want to ruin the frien ship.
i think that she really doesnt want to ruin your friend ship, she said it in a nice way.

maybe you can ask her to go with you as a friend. that would still be awesome




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