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ok i have a question...do you think that a guy who wraps his arms around a girl and holds her hand and plays with her hair when they lay together and calls her everyday to tell her goodnite and smiles at her for know reason and looks at her while she sleeps just b/c he can likes this girl? the thing is that they are ex bf/gf...and he broke up with her and yet they hang out all the time and go to eachothers family get togethers and hold hands there and when they leave eachother they kiss eachothers foreheads or on the face but not the lips.

I think he likes her big time, and he either regrets dumping her or doesnt want a relationship and they are just friends with benefits.

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Okay, my b/f and I have been going out for almost 4 months now. Before we went out we were really good friends. I like him a lot and I know that he likes me a lot too. But I feel like I'm always looking and flirting with other guys. I'm kind of getting bored with our relationship I guess. What I'm asking is if I should stay in the relationship .. and if anyone has any suggestions for what I should do ? I don't want to hurt him or our friendship.
Thanks for any help !

Well, thats happened to me before and you should go and talk to your bf and tell him you are getting bored and break up with him if it doesnt help, and tell him your sorry and he still means a lot to you but that it wasnt working out. Good Luck

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Hey. I've been friends with this girl for about 4 years now and i just can't seem to get her out of my mind. I've tried to tell her how i feel but just cant seem to get it out. I did one time and she said she didnt want to ruin our friendship, but even though i told her it wouldnt she still doesnt want to go out with me. I told her how i felt a while ago. So i figured i would give it some time and see, but now i dont kno if i should say anything or leave it alone.

I'd talk to her and tell her you cant let it go and that you dont want to be just friends, and if u cant get up the nerve to write a letter. Good Luck

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Any idea how to get rid of a little unwanted body fat in the stomach? I've tried crunches and everything but no results. Anything would be helpful. NOT pills though.

ok this sounds weird but trust me it works, ok suck in yur stomach really hard and hold it in all day and make sure yur breathing, it builds up yur muscles in yur stomach and u loose weight,Good Luck

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I really need some advice, and I am open to ALL people to give me their opinions and advice, I have never been so depressed.

On Boxing night a few days ago, we went down to my brothers for dinner, everything was grand. My brother is a keen taker of drugs, but I never was really into them, I tried them once or twice, but thats it. He offered me some and I refused, as the night went on I got more and more drunk with the family, and he offered again while I was getting ready to go out and club with my friends, and in my drunken state I accepted to E tablets, and took them in the bar when I got down with my friend James.
The night was a blur, apparently I was falling all over the place, talking crap and generally making an ass of myself. In the end I collapsed outside the bar, couldnt talk and had to get taken away in an ambulance, with all my friends looking on,most of them in tears, concerned about my state. While James came out, didnt tell anyone what I had taken and went back in to club. My brother phoned up the hospital and checked me out, knowing well what I had took, my parents where oblivious, and have lost a son over a year ago to suicide, so they are always concerned about out well being, and I couldnt ask for better parents. Adding even more guilt on my part.
I went back home and my mate shorti had a fight withmy bro, andI shorti left in an angry and upset state, me running after him. And I got atacked with a glass bottle across the head.
Tpcut along story short all my friends where disgusted at me, but relaised I had made a mistake and forgave me, I aint a druggie, I have taken them three times b4 (i am 21) and I relaise more than everthat this was three times too much. My best friend david is disgusted at me, he told me I made a big mistake and now he wont even reply to my text messages. We have been best mates for year, and we have been through a lot together, more than I can say. But he refuses to talk to me becasue of what I did, but dont we all make misatjkes, and arent friends meant to be there to help us help when we fall, even if it is our fault, he hates me right now andit is killing me, I havent stopped crying, andmy lifeis awreck, I feel undescribable. I love him so much, and I hate the fact that I am such a gulable person and thought I would play "hard man" to my bro and take drugs, i need advice about my friend, what should I do???

Ok, well if I were you I would tell him how much u love and care for him and tell him yur not a druggie and you are not planning on doing it again. Then, if he still wont forgive you I would tell him a true friend would forgive you for your mistakes and help you move on and get better.

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look at what this guy said to me

*******: guys say youre white trash but ive only seen you like once

what is white trash and why do people think i am that?

White trash is considered red necks, lower class, rude, dress bad, and dont have maners.

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this one is for guys..i guess it can be for girls to..I would like to know what guys prefer..curly hair or straight hair?

Ok well I asked one of my friends and he said most likely straight but curly looks good on some people, and another said straight all the way.

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okay, there's this like kinda clear sticky stuff that's been appearing in my underwear, is that normal?

yeah its totally normal, and sucks lol hope that helped

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Hello. I am a 14/m. A few months ago I made a REALLY bad choice and it got me arrested. :-\ Now everyone of my friends parents hate me.... except for two. Those are the two who have met me. The ones who have met me like me. All the others hate me for no reason at all. Half of them have never even seen me and they hate me. They won't even give me a chance. I regret what I did. But i think I deserve a chance. It just pisses me off so much. Is there anything I can do?

Well if I were you I would explain to them that you are trying to clean up your act and to give you a second change, and if they still hate you their not worth it. If they don't even take the time to know you but just judge you I wouldnt even waste my time on them. I would just laugh about it and see how shallow they are. hope it all works out

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I just recently started to fall for my best friend. We've always been close, but I never suspected that he liked me. Then all of a sudden he started flirting with me, and it was really cool. But then the next day, we got into the conversation of who we liked, and he straightout said some other girl. I got heart broken, but I still contiune to hang out with him. Now everytime I see him, I just get a bad feeling in my stomach, and I just dont want to be in a bad mood. I'm not the same person around him anymore. I know he could have just been to shy to say he liked me, but my other feelings overpower those. What should I do?
If you have any advice, you can talk to me at kmvb82791 on aim.

Hey, I'm sorry about that guy but I think he was screwing with your head and if he wasnt he was pretty thoughtless to just act like he likes you and then say he doesnt. If u want things back to normal you should sit down and ask him why he was flirting with you, sometimes what we think is flirting is just people being friendly, but yeah i would sit down with him and talk it out if you want to be close to him again. Well Good Luck

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alright well im 13/f and still prude.. and there's this guy i like and thinks im not purde and wants to hookup with me.. but im kinda nervous and idk what about..how can i not be nervous and just do it?? i appreciate any help and i will rate fives

Trust me it is absolutely normal to be nervous I was sooo nervous the first time I kissed a boy, and i realized i was soo nervous because i should of kissed a guy i was more comfortable with. But if u want to stop being so nervous try to talk to him more hang out with him more and get more used to having him around u. Good Luck

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ok i do about 300 sit ups a night and im not feeling "the burn" lol that sounds kinda weird

i was just wondering if there is any other way i can work my abs...
i kno they're machine for doing sit ups...but i dont have any of them and i dont really feel like buying them...i just wanna do something i can do right in my room...on the floor...in minutes....

i just wanna work my abs more

Hey, if you have one of those exercise balls/yoga balls, you should get on the ball on yur lower back and do sit ups and then flip over on yur stomach and
roll the ball so its right under yur knees and then bring yur knees to yur chest and do like 20 a day or
how many u want its a really good way to work yur abbs. Hope that helped.

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ok this is going to be rather long but lets get to it i am a 14 year old female i love my like and have thousands of friends...but there is this guy i know nick he is so hot and super sweet about a week ago me and my friends Jessica & sarah went to a movie with nick. me and him sat together.. when i went to get a drink my friends asked him if he liked me he said yes but he wasnt over his ex girlfriend. but then half way through the movie he grabbed my hand..i was super happy adn we kinda cuddled then at the end of the movie he kissed me and we kinda made out this is normally not like me but if just kinda happend then we walked out of the theater holding hand and we hugged outside untill the minute i left..then he kissed me.
then next day he sent me a E-mail saying he really likes but but he can't go out wiht me i was so crushed and he told me to sit around and wait for him to be over his ex....
this is so not like nick he is not the kind of guy to EVER do that amnd everyone was shocked.
then a couple days ago he totally forgot abput me and told my bestfriend that he didnt like anyone ....there is lots mnore o the story but i am so crushed i tried to tell him how i felt but all he could say is i dont hate you i like you.
so know i dont know what to do ...he kissed me and then just left me???
Please help.
Reality.

Hey, I'm really sorry bout that guy, but he sounds like a selfish jerk, he used you, and expected you to wait for him and then he forgot you, I say you get him alone and ask him face to face why he did that and if he gives you a lame answer o what did I do, tell him he is selfish and he knows exactly what he did he sounds like a typical selfish heartbreaker, srry if this doesnt help, please rate, I'm really srry again.

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