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This friday it's my mates party. Now, i'm wearing a tutu (i'm mad i know lol), but im wearing it in a sort of punk chick way. I'm wearing a white tank top with it and dark blue converse. I was just wondering, should i wear footless tights, and if so what colour?

Here's a picture of the tutu http://img518.imageshack.us/img518/7275/92211bdd2.jpg
Also, what else could i do? I'm wearing devil horns, but i don't know what else.

Thanks a load =]

first off, i'm going to compliment you on your very, very cute idea. :)
next, i'm going to say that footless tights would probably be a very good idea. without, it would take away most of the 'punk' part of the outfit.

then, make sure your makeup is very dramatic. just take my word on that, it will look amazing.

best of luck with your outfit-i'm sure it's going to look AWESOME!

xoxo
kat!




makeup tips:

okay, so i'd say to use alot of black with your eyes. use either black eyeliner, or line your eyes with alot of black eye shadow, at let it go a big past the corners or your eyes. do this heavy eye shadow/eye liner on both top and bottom.
i think it should look pretty cool!
you shouldn't have to concentrate on blush or lipstick/gloss too much, though, because that may be a bit much, with the eyes.
basically, make your eye makeup heavy but fairly simple. :)


hope this has helpedd!

xoxo
kat :)

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i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?

like what are some signs to know?

guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=)

hm.. some of the signs i can think of are:
-only wanting to be physical with you when you guys hang out.
-not really wanting to talk or anything like that.. like i said, only physical
-not bothering to talk to you, other when you're on dates
-only wanting to hang out somewhere where you can do 'romantic' things.
-not wanting to hang around other people/friends/family when you're around
-ignoring you when friends are around

xoxo
kat.

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http://s166.photobucket.com/albums/u90/snopesbinary/Magic/?action=view¤t=pullapart.flv

Watch that video

HOW ON EARTH DID HE DO THAT.
I know he is an illusionist but oh my god. holy crap.
How did she SURVIVE that?! Did he put her back together too? She just crawled away...!?
Please, can someone please tell me how he did that.

haha, this kind of freaked me out when i first watched it. but, i watched where she was actually pulled apart, and realized something. you can see her shirt is much too long for her, and that her pants reveal no midsection. that would have to mean she actually has no midsection at all, or she was already legless.
it's also odd that she'd be able to crawl that well, and honestly the crawling was too fast to be um.. normal?

hah, basically, the woman was most likely already legless.

xoxo
kat!

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My sister and I were messing around with a light bulb and crayons and we put the crayon on the light bulb and it burnt of course and I wanted to know if the light bulb might have caught on fire or if the fumes from the crayon would have made us high or something. Basically what happens when you use a light bulb to burn a crayon?

haha you sound like my friend and i. i don't think anything too drastic will happen, though i wouldn't reccomend doing that again.. i'm pretty sure the fumes will not get you high, unless you're full out sniffing the bulb, or something.. but you are at risk of starting a fire. if it's completly necessairy for you to do this for entertainment, maybe try finding an outlet outside, just to be on the safe side :P

xoxo
kat!

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How do you guys get motivated?
I've gotten out of shape these last couple of months,and have put on at least ten pounds.
I'm feeling very unhappy, what with my new love handles and pot-belly.

What gets you guys into working out and eating right?
I just can't seem to get out of the junk food.

Here's all the proof you need, I love to eat-
http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/P7060486.jpg

okay, first off, you look amazing. i honestly don't think you really NEED to lose weight, but here's how i get motivated:
first, i think of how i'd like to look, and compare myself to that. get a realistic goal, and don't overwhelm yourself.

i'm a huge junkfood addict, too, but hear me out through this.. if you just sit and think "do i really need this?" you'll make the smart move. i didn't used to believe this when people would tell me to do this, but if you really think it through, it works! just don't get the food-don't just say "oh, screw it." just walk away.

one of the ways i actually got over the junk food thing was also requiring myself to exercise if i did eat anything. that would make up for the snack, or get me to not want to do the exercise for the snack, so i just didn't eat it.
try things like 100 curlups for small, fatty snacks. it really works, for me. oh, and let yourself cheat, once in a while! i do when i hangout with friends and go to sleepovers.

to motivate yourself to just plain exercise, however, music is a great tool. if you don't have an ipod, just try running or walking with a sibling, parent or friend. it makes it so much more interesting. you can also look for workout shows on tv, so that you'll get into thinking "this is only a half hour/hour, i can do this." if you don't think your tv has these programs, try buying a workout tape.

remember, take it easy on yourself, and don't stress over losing weight. you honestly don't even need to, from that picture.


best of luck, though!

xoxo
kat!

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i need a good heading for my myspace. any ideas?? plz & thank you. :)

what i did was use my name, or a nickname, capitalize it, and put an exclamation near it.
this is what my display name looks like:

[KAT!]

if that dosen't work out for you, try picking a random food you like, object or something, and using the same format. something like a candy name would be cute.

i'm just warning you, don't use the long quote thing. those usually don't look too great...


hope i've helped!

xoxo
kat!

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whats with girls and being all "oh my gosh, im so fat, i need to lose soo much weight" when they look really good? are they just fishing for compliments or really think that they are fat?

with some girls, it's an honest to god, kind of "oh my gosh, i need to lose weight" kind of thing.
i, as a girl, am honestly not sure why we view ourselves this way. i guess it's all the pressure in the media to look like that. because, from our perspective, all we see is tons of stomach, and too much fat.
we also compare ourselves to each other, and only see the flaws in ourselves, and the good things about others.
it's kind of a sad situation, but everyone's unconfident, now a days. :(

there's only a small percentage of girls doing it to get compliments. those are the kind of girls who wear revealing clothing, regardless, so you should be able to tell.

hope i've helped at all..

xoxo
kat!

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Are pirated dvds bad? Do they affect you?

pirated dvds are basically just dvds that are sold illegaly, with bad quality.
they will affect you in a sense, that if you are caught with one (unlikely, but possible) you could get into trouble with the law.
i would just say to wait for the real deal of the movie. it might be more expensive, but for better quality, it's much more worth it.


xoxo
kat.

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My best friend told me she's been cutting herself, and her excuses never really are reasonable to me. I mean I used to cut before she did, and she noticed and told me to stop.
But the she admitted she had been a lot lately.
I don't understand because it seems like she has everything, she has amazing parents who are still together, her family is close, she has animals, clothes, a boyfriend, I dont understand why she couldnt be happy.

I'm not trying to compare our issues, it just her excuses to meare like .. "my parents like...ugh they are weird around boys, they embarss me around my boyfriend" and I'm like so, my mom does tha ttoo, but it doesnt mean go hurt yourself.

Its just really starting to worry me, because i dont want to tell on her, and DONT tell me to tell her mom. But I want her to stop, because shes beautiful, and I envy her so much.

But I dont know how to help her>

i don't understand why this is becoming so popular, but here's my say:
for one thing, the problems may differ, but the feelings are the same. i'm guessing she feels she can't control certain situations, and the cutting may help her feel in control. that, or it may be giving her adreneline to make her feel better when she's actually doing it.
no matter how small or large this issue may seem, though, it IS an issue, and shouldn't be overlooked, along with the fact that it may be harder for her to handle certain problems, than others.
try to plan a time to hangout, because the computer and phone will help nothing. it needs to be personal and everything, so maybe try to have her come over your house.. then, talk to her about how you're worried and need her to stop. i know it will be hard for her, but you need to let her know that it will never help anything. she only feels better at the time, because of the chemicals going around while she's actually doing it (the feeling of a rush is what makes it seem like things are better, or whatever) and that it will only cause even more problems.
tell her about the reasons you look up to her. she'll probably deny it, but let her know she's a great person, and she shouldn't do that to herself, and her friends and family.
think about the reasons that got you to stop, then present those reasons to her. you don't have to say you used to be into the same thing, or anything like that, but make her really think.

once you've got your points through, let her tell her side of the story. eventually, make her PROMISE not to do that to herself again, and let her know you'll be looking out for her. she needs to know she has a close friend, who she can talk to, so let her know of that, aswell.

this should work out, but if it dosent, you need to tell her parents, because even the slightest problem could turn into something horrible.

i hope i've helped, and best wishes for your friend..

xoxo
kat.

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i am giving my boyfriend a gift for our 6 month anniversary and i don't know what to get him! I know for a fact that he is giving me jewelry

i'm already baking him cookies but i also want to do something else for him

i'm 14 and i don't have a job so it cant be something expensive

big congradulations on your six months! here are some ideas i came up with.. (sorry, they're not the best..)

if you know where he shops.. you could get him a t-shirt, or jacket, if that's in spending reach. if you'd like something non-expensive, completly, then.. i'd reccomend the following:

write out a letter of how much he means to you, and some of your best memories together.

or, you could do what my best friend did for my birthday, and find a song that means something to both of you. then, frame it, and put pictures of you two all around it. it's a really great gift, and he can keep it for a while!

then, you can give him the cookies, and maybe some candy with it.

i hope this has helped, and i hope the anniversary goes amazingly well for you two!

xoxo
kat!

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