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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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im so wrong! i used to have a boyfriend we where together for 2 years then i went to ccaanada and broke up with him for a month and in canada i dated a guy that practicly started ignoring me when i didnt wanted to have sex with him but before that everything was so perfect with him maybe all lies but so good and i really liked hiim since i got there the first day i wanted him then surprisinly everything happen we kissed and everything it only lasted 4 days then i diitnt wanted anything and he just started ignoring me but 2 days after that i came back to my country ...i got back with my boyfriend 2 weeks after comming back ..and im still with him...it's been amonth and i still cant get over this guy. i see him online and his display with other girl and i get so sad like almost crying ..:S and i know i dont have too :S and we never talk on msn i mean we got each other but never have talk through it cause if he started ignoring me the last days i guess he just doesn't wanna talk to me i dont want to look like beggin...anyway i wanna get over him! cause i feel so bad cause i have my boyfriend back with me :S so i shouldn't be feeling so sad at the point of almost crying for someone didnt care about me but i cant!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
maybe the reason you feel so bad is because he didnt care about you. yeah, it hurts but you need to get over it and look to your current boyfriend. it sounds like hes a great guy who really cares about you and it was nice of him to take you back after you broke up with him.. a lot of guys wouldnt do that unless they really loved a girl. even if the guy in canada did like you.. long distance relationships dont work out. forget about it. consider him some guy you met on vacation.
xoxo
My lens is stuck and half is in and half is out and i keep shoving it back in and it wont budge!
how could i fix it?
try turning it off & on again..
if that doesnt work take it to best buy
thats what happened to my camera & they fixed it
1. I've made out with guys before but in my current relationship any time i make out with my boyfriend i get saliva around the edges of my lips, is this normal? (have i just not noticed before?)
2. This ones mostly for guys but, where do guys MOST like a girls hands to be when making out?
1. yeah its normal. some girls dont like that though.. maybe your boyfriend just kisses a little wetter than most guys.. haha
2. like around their necks, shoulders, waist, etc
i am 13 and my mom is a slut. She brings at least five guys a day. when she gets drunk and pass out. the man comes to my room. it is really scary for me. i can never have anyone over my house. My boyfriend really wants to do it with me, but i say no and he doesn't understand why. i don't want to end up like my mother. But i really love my boyfriend. What should i do. i need an outlet.
you should sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel. tell her shes not setting and good example for you and (your other siblings?..if you have any..and if you do you can have them help with this). what do the men do when they come in your room...? thats the question. and you shouldnt really be considering sex at 13.. i know you feel like you love him but you should wait until at least high school. you will be happier.
xoxo
I broke upwith my boyfriend four monthes ago. A week after he started dating my friend. It took me a while because i was just going to accept everything but now im mad at him for a lot of things hes done. And im mad at myself for staying with him. But i just dont want to hear about him or talk to him anymore, at least for now until i figuire this all out. We where bot wrong in the relationship, i dont think we respected eachother at all. Now were friends on facebook, and it keeps showing me alerts of him commenting on my friend's (his girlfriends) pictures...i kinda dont want to see that. Is it so immature to delete him as a friend? If i do, is it going to show up on everybody wall that i did? Is he gonna find out about it? Also, how long am i gonna stay mad at him? I mean okay so im mad, how do i work that out? Thank you so much.
ok what he did was wrong. its not immature to delete him as a friend.. whatever. you dont need to see how he comments on your friends pictures. he might see that you deleted him as a friend if he goes to look at your facebook. he will probably re-request you then (and then you know that he was trying to look at your facebook) haha. but no it wont show up in your minifeed or on anyones homepage or anything if you delete him. you also should have talked to your friend as soon as they started going out and told her that you were uncomfortable with it. she probably figured you didnt care since you were the one that broke up w/ him. youre probably gonna be mad for awhile. i was mad at my last boyfriend for going out w/ a girl like a month after i broke up w/ him. i mean they eventually broke up.. and i stopped being mad. it might take you that long. like whenever they break up you will stop being mad.
is it okay that i change my tampon everytime i have to pee? or do some people leave it in while they pee? i neever thought about it until my friend told me she didnt change it everytime she peed.
yeah its fine. you should change it everytime you pee. its easier that way
xoxo
13/f
Have any of you been in a relationship that lasted all through high school? I am really in love with the guy I'm dating now, and no one thinks we'll ever make it.
dont listen to anyone else. you guys will last as long as you want to last. i went out with my last boyfriend for about a year..and he went to a different school so it was super hard. and my friends gave me so much crap about him especially the guys because most of them didnt know him very well. but i ignored them and it lasted for awhile. so basically as long as you ignore everyone else you'll be fine.
xo
ok well i really like this girl n like is their n e thing like sexually like not real far but like that i can do to please her? thanks
kiss her. make out. kiss her neck. sloppy second?
xo good luck
make sure she likes you too before you just start doing all of this stuff.
when is it considered not being a " virgan " r u still a virgan if only the girl has an orgasim and not the boy ? do both people have to finnish to have sex ? or is it if one person does ur both not virgans haha im confused :/ please help me figure out if i am still a virgan haha :]
having sex has nothing to do with having an orgasm...
if his dick goes in your vajj then you had sex.
its really simple.
Okay.. I'm going to break up with my boyfriend of 1 year. He is probably going to cry etc. but i want to make at as painless as possible and just get it done and over with. How can i make it easy on the both of us?
try to make it obvious that its coming. if you completely suprise him it will hurt him more. believe me..i just went through the exact same thing. and hes probably going to want you to have like a legit reason why youre breaking up with him. if its because you like someone else.. DONT tell him that. tell him you just dont like him like that anymore but you still want to be friends. he might be mad at you/hate you for awhile but eventually he will probably come around. (it might take him a few months though).
good luck xo
p.s. MAKE SURE YOU THINK THIS OVER BEFORE YOU DO IT BECAUSE IF YOU BREAK UP WITH HIM AND THEN REALIZE THAT YOU CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM.. YOURE SCREWED BECAUSE HE PROBABLY WONT TAKE YOU BACK
im from greece so excuse me for my english.last week my boyfriend fingered me it was my first time so he didnt get too in. If he touched his penis before he fingered me even if didnt "come" is there any chance i can be pregnant? I ve heard that before a guy "comes" there is a "thing" coming out of his penis that with it you can still get pregnant.....
the "thing" that youre talking about is pre-cum.. and yeah you can get pregnant from it. it actually has MORE sperm in it than the regular cum. theres a very small chance that you will get pregnant from himMAYBE touching himself and MAYBE getting it on his hand and then fingering you and MAYBE getting it in you. youre probably fine.
xo
when a girl is being felt up, first of all.
how do the guy and girl sit or stand.
what does the girl have to wear.
and what does the girl do while she's being felt up.
1. it doesnt matter how you sit or stand.. you can both be sitting(he can be behind you, in front of you, next to you), you can be laying down (next to or on top of eachother), or standing (him behind you, next to you, or in front of you).. whatevers comfortable for you
2. it doesnt matter what you wear.. you can wear clothes or no clothes doesnt matter
3. you can kiss him, touch him, or you can do nothing.. usually ppl make out
so me and this boy were really getting into our makeout session, and he like undid my shirt and started kissing and sucking my boobs. i just closed my eyes cuz i didn't know what else to do, is that right?
welll theres not really a right thing to do.. but yeah thats kinda what feels natural. just make sure he knows that you enjoy it.
xoxo
After I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend I bled a little and now for the past 2 days I have been bleeding on and off could I be pregnant?
YES YOU COULD BE PREGNANT. IF YOU HAVE SEX WITH NO PROTECTION THERE IS A VERY HIGH CHANCE OF GETTING PREGNANT. NEXT TIME, THINK OF THE CONSEQUENCES BEFORE YOU MESS AROUND.
take a pregnancy test.
My boyfriend & I have been dating for almost a year. We have had sex multiple times but I want new ideas on how to get him hard, something sexy... Got any ideas?
um you could wear like sexy longerie (sp?) or dress up for him or something. you could also try teasing him a little.. like idk if you give him bjs or not.. but you could pretend you were gonna like kiss down his stomach but then go back up again.. that will make him go crazy. thats just like an example though.. you can tease him other ways too
Alright so i read the harry potter book the day it came out since the first book. I mean i grew up with Harry and Hermione and Ron and now the series is over. I thought it was the best book i have ever read, but so sad. How can i get over it???? I mean like i have never cried this much over a book!
also, i have formed an obsession with Tom Felton who plays malfoy in the movies haha and its like i cannot stop thinking about him. I watch youtube interviews with him and like i think im going crazy. How do i get him off my mind??!!??
my friend is obsessed with tom felton too. theres nothing wrong w/ that. as long as the obsession isnt like unhealthy. try to find another series similar to the harry potter series. i know theres like nothing that compares but you probably like reading books about wizards & stuff so find something like that. =]
What do you think would be a good time to wait for like doing things with a boyfriend
This guys gonna ask me out and were gonna go out, and we've already made-out, but I know that he'll want more, but I don't want to do anything too early, because that makes me look easy.
So what would you consider long enough to:
Feel up, finger, hand job, blowjob, and sex
I was thinking first 2 a month, hj & bj 2 months, and sex about 4-5
Is that a good time? Or is it too long/too short
if you let him finger you in the first month.. people are probly gonna call you easy but you can do whatever you want. i would just let it happened & stop worrying about it so much. you dont really have 2 worry about ppl calling you easy if you & your boyfriend keep it a secret. nobody else needs to know whats going on in your relationship.. & this question is kinda hard to answer bc i have no idea how old you are???! if youre like 13 then im saying no you shouldnt have sex after 4 months! and if youre older then maybe if you really love him. just dont do anything you think you will regret later or something that doesnt feel right!
what are those last names with hyphens in between two of them?
um it can either be that a person marries someone and they keep their last name and take their spouses name
OR
it can be the child of a mom & dad that both decided to keep their own last names so therefore the child now has both last names
The guy I was having sex with said I had perky nipples,I wanna know if guys think thats a good thing or a bad thing?
I didn't want to ask ...
haha um yeaa thats a compliment
Is "Abercombie" out of style?
And what about side bangs?
I just got clothes from abercombie. And i got sidebangs. So im not sure if im just paroniod or something.
please and thank - you :)
no abercrombie isnt out of style.. look around, most people are wearing it. and side bangs are getting kinda old.. but people still have them. but honestly you shouldnt care what other people think! if it makes you happy then wear it!