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Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!

ok first your 13 and he's 12. You are wayyy to young to be doing that to anyone. And on another note he's probably using you so if u do he'll go to you whenever he wants a BJ.

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i was overweight for a long time and now i am only 8 pounds away from my goal weight. but these last few pounds just WONT COME OFF!!! >__< what should i do?

most people when trying to lose weight will hit a plateau. Its because your gaining muscle mass. Muscle weighs more than fat so you might be stuck at this weight for a little bit of time but you should be down to your goal weight within a few months and congrats on getting this close to your goal weight

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my friends and i frequently get headaches at the most inopportune times, upon which we dont have aspirin or anything. what is an effective way to lessen a headache considerably using only your own two hands?

when you get a headache use your index and thumb and squeeze that part of skin inbetween your thumb and index on the other hand for 15 secs. I don't know how this works but it does its some acupunture point and its been around for years

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Ok...I bleached my hair blonde and it looks really good but my aunt is a cosmotigist or however u spell it and she said it would look better if i got dark highlights put in it...what color highlights do u think i should put in it to make it look better?A chose between red,brown,or black.Thanx!

this girl Danielle that I know had blonde hair liek that and she got highlihghts in all those colors and it looked awesome. but if you want only one color try the brown.

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Hi, I'm 14 years old and my mom doesn't allow me to wear thongs!!!! So she makes me buy the regular kind or boy briefs, whatever. I used to own a whole bunch but I think she threw them away so now I only have one. And my question is that if a guy finds out that I don't wear thongs then they will think I'm not good enough, or sexy. And I don't think they should base it on that. But I feel really insecure and not good enough because I don't wear a thong. What should I do? How do I get over this? Thanks for your help!

Guys seriosly care what underwear you wear. BC if they see underwear they will be more concerned that they might be getting some rather what ur wearing for undies. Also wearing a thong doesn't make u sexy. Confidence is sexy and if you give off that I know I'm sexy vibe guys will sense that...I hope that helped

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hey my mom said whenever i want to become sexually active she would give be birth control pills does that mean she cares or not?

she does probably care she just wants you to be safe

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what are some good songs you can dance to at a party?

any type of music is fine w/ me thanks!

Christina Milian, Christina Augilara, Justin Timberlake, 50 Cent, Nelly, Kelis, Beyonce, Pharell, anything techo or like the remixs of most songs are more techno.

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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you?

But yea its fine as long as they have the same maturity level

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

only a really nice guy would do that. and those are def. some turn on's for me when I'm on a date but everyone is different and people have different ideas on what a guy should do on a date. So the next time ur with a girl, it doesn't matter if she's just a friend or girlfriend but look to how she reacts when u say open the door for her. And just take it from there

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do you think girls like me need to get sexy underwear like thongs to impress her boyfriend, or do u think there are more important things to worry about in a relationship, like having fun together or their personalities? should i get some to make him the slightest bit happier, or should i just not get anymore? does it turn guys on to see girls in their sexy underwear or anything? where is the best place to get cute, but inexpensive thongs?

no girls do not have to wear thongs to impress their bf's but if u wanna like show off for his birthday or a special occision its cool. my favorite place to buy thongs is Fredricks of Hollywood.

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What is neglachay? Is it like lingerie or undergarments?

A neglachay is like a teddy which is lingerie. A neglachay is just a little more revealing/racy than most lingerie

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I'm 15, and I'm a 32D/DD. I wear a pant size 3 tho. I'm not FAT. I need to know if anyone knows any good stores for swim suits! I have a problem where I can never find a good suit because either the top is too small or the bottoms are too big. I like it when they sell them seperately. A lot of stores dont sell Xlarge tops too. I NEED HELP

Victoria's Secret I know has bathing suit tops that look like bras and made for smaller girls with large chests. They might be a little expensive but they are supposed to last a while

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okay this is really dumb but all my friends say "this one time at band camp......" and then leave it at that! wut is that from? is that from like a movie? lol sorry im so dumb!
w/b sooon

American Pie 1+2 those movies were soooo good

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Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them?

wow I've gone through the same thing everyday for the past 3 years. What I've learned is just ignore them. By skipping class your letting them win and show them that they don't intimidate you.

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I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss?

Wet 'n' Wild, NYC and Maybelline

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i know its early, but i already got my homecoming dress (GOOD sale) .. i dont know if i like it or not tho, im gonna decide today if i wanna keep it or return it. but one of the prblms is, it has a really low back that kinda like, laces up, but its open .. u know what i mean?? wat kind of bra can i wear with it .. its too low for a strapless one (but it would hafta be strapless) .. and the "backless" styles come like all the way down to your belly button and are kinda constricting, and i dont wanna be like that for homecoming .. so do you know of any other types that would hold up good for the whole night but still be comfy??
thanks TONS
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http://www.fredericks.com/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Specialty+Bra+Collection&Page=1

the last row...I hope this helps

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latley i have been doing a lot of different things to my hair, ive spiked it and been using colored gel, but im always getting looks from people, i dont know if they are good or bad, i love my hair being this way but i dono if i feel comfortable with everyone lookin at me, wut should i do, i have red and blue colored hair and ive been gettin mroe and more creative latley. what should i do?

as long as your happy with what your hair looks like why should you care what people think??

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Hi. I have been going out with girl for about 2 weeks now and she is coming over to my house tommorw. We have not kissed or made out yet, and I was wondering if anyone had any advice to get her to want to do it. Such as things to do, etc. I got a pool, TV, dvd player, computer, anything, lol

ask heer what she wants to do that way you'll get to know her better and have fun with her at the same time

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ive been goin out with this girl for almost a month now. everythings been goin great and we really like eachother but we havnt kissed yet. i want to but i dont know if its to fast or if she wants to. is this only my fault? help

This is NOT your fault she might even be wondering why you haven't kissed her yet. So nest time your alone try and kiss her and if she pulls away say somthing like why not and tell her that your only comfortable with what she wants to do and you wait however how it takes for her to feel comfortable to kiss you

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im 15/F and lately ive been like peeing alot and not being able to go to bed AT ALL!! i dont know if its cus i drink before i go to bed or what but i cant sleep and i have to pee like every 30 minutes, me and my boyfriend have alot of sex and im on birth control and have been for a year or so but i got my period last week another signidicant thing is ive gained like 20 lbs but i have been eating more which is another sign of pregnancy so all im hopin is im not so if anyone has been pregnanyt or if they know what it could be then please help me im freakin out and i have no one to talk too..

it doesn't sound like your pregnant since u got your period but because your nervous about this that's probably why your eating more or your going through a growth spurt

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