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Q: How do you know if you love your bf/gf or not? Becuase I have feelings for my boyfriend but I want to know whether it is love or just a crush
when youre in love you'll know it, its different from anything else youve ever felt. only you can know wheather you are in love.

Q: Whats the song titly and artist for this song:

I THINK the lyrics go:
" Here without you baby. _____________ I know your still with you in my dream. Tonight girl, its only you and me"
hah I don't remember lyrics well * as you can see* but I believe it goes something like that.
Thanks guys =]
'Here Without You' by 3 doors down

Q: What does "When In Rome..." supposed to mean??
it basically means ceaze (sps?) the oppurtunity. Like, as long as your already doing something, go seeper. "When in rome do as the romans do," As long as you're in rome, take your chance.

Q: 13/f

Okay I'm gonna hang out with my guy friend (who is super hot and I really like) He is coming to my house and we are gonna just watch movies and cuddle on the couch and stuff so I need to wear something comfortable. I was thinking about wearing my PE shorts which are black and loose and down to my knees. Then a white wife beater that I cut a V sorta shape of the chest part. And a black bra. Then my hair in a cute but messy bun. Do you think thats cute? or slutty?

Thanks, I'll rate 5's
i think that outfit is neither cute nor slutty. Long Shorts on girls don't really work out most of the time. I would reccomend: really cute sweatpants in either grey or navy, and a cute tight white tee, i dont really think the bra matters. And either hair down and straightened, or yes, a messy bun.

Q: what does it mean when someone says that "(name) bites the big one?" what the heck is that supposed to mean? some 1 please help. thanks all 5's!!!!
it means (insert name here) has died. they bit the big one.

Q: i dont really want a site, but can someone just tell me..who was malcolm x? i was watching trading spouses and the family got mad because the caucasion mother didnt know who he was thanks bye
he was a black rights activists who died from white prison men beating him. He had a great view and was an inspiration to all black who came after him. The reason why the black family was mad was because he was a hero in their opinion and the white mother disregarded their feelings. And even if she did know who he was, he probably would have said he was an idiot who deserved to die. everyone has different views on malcom x.

Q: Hey, I'm making a CD of Christmas songs but from alternative, metal, rock ..ect. bands or groups. An example would be Thrice - Carol of the Bells.
Do you guys know any others? All answers are appreciated. Thank you!
the click five - silet night
i love it ♥

Q: OK, my mom holds out napkins in this bowl but (i dunno how to explain it) it's like instead of being a full "bowl" it just like clay that was rolled into a cyliner and was formed into a bowl I'm really sorry i just don't know how to explain it but does anyone know where i can find something like that or a cool bowl to hold napkins in thanks...sry that i didn't make sence
okay, i know what you're talking about. And i know this really isnt answer your question. But because this is an advice site, im giving you the best advice, because like you said; people wont know what youre talking about. And that advice would be; Just ask your mom where she got it. That simple.

Q: I'm 15/f and really shy. I can't phone people, answer the door, buy things from shops, talk to people I don't know well.. and basically stuff like that. Everyone else can do normal things like that easily but I can't.. my hands start shaking and my stomach goes all tight, I blush and I just wanna run away when that happens. I think I'm scared of people judging me or something. I know people won't really care if I make mistakes but I worry about things so much anyway that I can't talk to people.
I can't even apply for college because you have to have an interview! I probably won't ever get married or get a job and I'll be a huge failure just because I'm shy! I don't know if I can get counselling because how would they be able to help me when I can't even speak to them? It's ruining my life. People just say 'snap out of it' or 'get some confidence'.. well it's not that easy, you can't buy confidence. My dad calls me a coward because I hate walking past people in the street.. which I suppose I am, but he thinks I'm pretending to be shy or something.
How can I get over it without seeing a counsellor? Are there medicines that work? Thanks xx
Awwww sweetie that sucks. But, its that way for me too. I get nervous on phone calls, and make my parents go buy me things in stores. And in Presentation Skills, i cant even read aloud. I know it sucks, it really does. If there's one person you really can trust whos very supportive of the way you're feeling, practice doing interviews on them. And in the interview, stare above the persons head, always; focus on one thing and keep concentrated. Just ignore that people are there, picture your the plae you love the most, and keep fixated on it. Also, when you feel comfortable about yourslef, you tend to be able to do things like call people and make presentations. Dress in your favorite thing, and take a nice bath befre-hand. Loosen up, get comfortable with the fact that you will have to do it. As for not being married because of it, that shouldnt be a problem! when you find the guy you love, it wont matter that you're afraid. And no, there are no medicines for this. ALthough you could get anxiety pills? (ive used before). Just try. Make sure that you comfortable no matter what you do :)

Q: does anybody know of any cute *name brand* jeans other than american eagle (i basilcly have all of their jeans!) that has *petite/short sizes* that come in zeros!
thanks!
i rate high!
tractor jeans are very cute. They come in kids sizes and adult-ish. They're very cute and habe almost a lightning strike on the back pockets. Im sure you can find them in a mall or a local boutique. But if not, i really do recomend abercrombie. They're the best!

Q: For english we have to get verses from songs from other people and try to figure out what we think the song is trying to say. So could anyone who wants to send me their favorite verse from their favorite song? Or just your favorite verse from any song you like? Thanks so much. I need them by tonight.♥
okay i know this isnt exactly what you asked for, but here i go anyway. I have a few songs you should do lyric searches for at 'lyricscafe.com'.

1)big machine > goo goo dolls
2)hey there delilah > plain white t's
3)Unwritten > natasha bedingfield
4)Heaven > Moonpools & caterpillars
5)Follow through > Gavin Degraw
6)Chariot > Gavin Degraw
7)best of you > foo fighters

those are just a list of songs that have quotes that are amazing and hidden meanings. < 33 i wish i had a proj. like thiss...

Q: what are some good family poems like for mom + dad, brothers, sister in law, and sister and sister's boyfriend. Friends? Please give me some good ideas! PLEASE AND THANK YOU!
i have a wonderful poem about dads right here

Q: Okay, I need your opinion. I'm writing a song and I need a title first according to my vocalist. Please pick your fave out of the choices below:
a) Hollywood Heartbreak
b) Generation Change (sounds 70's right?)
c) Beautiful Heartbreak
d) Broken change/ promise
(On d, change or promise? if you chose d.)

Any other suggestions on titles? Or anything else about songwriting in general? I'll rate high.
i, personally, like B. Generation Change. Sounds mighty cool < 33

Q: what are some good techno songs? i want every one you know.
i really only know one techno/electronic song, but ill put it up here anyway.

How we Do
by the mount sims

okay, ill admit it is a little bit innapropriate. But if its just for your listening pleasure, its a good song. < 33

Q: Last year my Pre-Cal teacher told me that if I went on to take Calculus AP that I would flunk out by first report card. I knew that I wouldn't and the only reason I decided to take the class was because she said that about me even though I kept an A+ average in her class. Well, it's coming around to the end of the semester and I now have an A in Calculus AP. I was wondering; if this happened to you, would you tell your old teacher about your grade?
Yes, i would. Its perfect. The teacher who assumed you would fail was absoluteley wrong. She said you weren't smart eough to be in an AP class. And what do you know, your recieving an A. Go back and visit her, talk about how your year is going. and when your about to leave, say "oh, just to let you know, im getting an A in calculus AP.." Goshh, i would love to have a chance to do that.

Q: How do you make like a layout or add a background to your advice column?
scroll down to the bottom of the advicentars page to where it says 'miscellaneous' and g to page backgrounds. pick one you like and enter it into your info < 33 (it will specify where)

Q: how do you get a pretty background on myspace!?!?
go to: www.whateverlife.com

click on myspace layouts and select the one you want. Copy the code and put it in your 'about me' section

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Q: Heres the thing,
I am in Middle school...and there is this creepy assistant princapal. And he picks on me..in an embarassing way...like one time, i was looking at the clock and he he shouted out to the whole lunch room "WHY R U LOOKING AT THAT BOY?" and it really embaressed me....and me and my friend (not my boyfriend just my friend) walk out to the bus after school together and he keeps saying "OOOOOOO ur with him good choice" and it makes me feel so uncomfterble

and i just want to tell him off but he is the assistant princapal and he needs the same respect on any other princapal but it is soooo embaressing
~is there any way to tell him off?
help me
that sounds just like i a situation i am in. the vice principal is pretty much the most annoying person around. I personally just ignore it, and whenever he comes near me, i pull up my sweat shirt & try to blend. And sometimes my friends walk on the sides of me and try to hide me. Yes, thats kind of weird. but the principal is immature, so who cares if you act that way too? Well, i really dont know what to say except tell your parents, im not sure, but at my school we have a differnet principal for grade. Suggest youd like another grade principal. You can also talk to the school guidance counselor about it, who will tell the vice principal, and if he really cares about keeping his job, he should stop being that way. Because making a student feel uncumfortable around them, is a very bad thing (especially if hes a guy). As for telling him off, i dont really suggest making rude remarks at your vice principal. Just calmly tell him to stop making these remarks about you. (and possibly suggest someone else he can pick on, preferrably someone you're not too fond of) haha. okay well i hope i helped your cause. Sorr for they lenghty answer!

Q: okay, i am soo sorry 4 asking about icons again!!
well,
i tried to submit my icon to iconator but it said that a "50 by 50" had to many pixles or w/e

o ya my iconator sn is TOluvR
it means it had too many frames, or too much going on in the icon. iconator doesnt accept icocns w. more than 7,000 pixels or something. so delete frames, and try to edit the icon as best you can w.o ruining it.

Q: okay so theres this girl "n" that told everyone lies about me, "n" and i were really good friends over the summer...

Theres this girl "m" that ive became really really great friends with over the beginning of the school year.. un till "n" told everyone about me...

im peatty much the nicest person ull ever meet. i once offerd to take a bullet from a gun (no kidding) but then someone stopped me with a bullet proof vest...

i live in westchester county NY, and thats where all of the snotty people go, i admit i am snotty, but not as the others.

Ok so my friend imed me: heres the exact copy. but I obviously changed the screennames :)

this is with "c"

c: how dare you
me: who is this
c: your worst night mare
me: oh hi carly
c: how do you know it's me
me: your profile
c: o
me: lemme guess now you are going to go against me
c: ahhhh
c: yea pretty much
me: why
me: hello?
c: long story
me: well explain
me: i have till 10
me: because i really thought you were a good friend., i really did.... but now i guess not and i thought wrong

C signed off at 7:48 PM.


This is with "n2"

n2: did you get my ims before
me: no
n2: i dont want 2 be friends w/ you anymore
me: why?!
n2: b/c you were spreading lies about me to marisa and you told her lies about me and dont say no bcuz missa AND nicky said you admitted that and so did britney

i admit i DO talk about ppl behind their backs... but she has to notice everyone talks about her behind her back... SAME AS EVERYONE ELSE IN JOHN JAY!

and a few days priror from this day about a week ago... i had one up about marisa, brittany and i a 3 way conovrsation

they made all of my friends go against me

so really... this is a true story, i cant take this anymore, if makes me gag, Also makes me cry. I litterally have 1 friend, and i dont know if she will go agianst me, and ill be friendless.

I cant make new friends, everyone went against me, im in 7th grade, 13 f.

im litterally in TEARS now...

i wanna quit life...

my life isnt fair, my gram-gram is dieing, my parents are getting divorced, my sister is going away to college, one of my best friends who lives in NH got cancer.. I have a desiese... i cant take this anymore!!!


HELP HELP HELP HELPPPPPP!

please :) Laurie
wow. im not going to lie, your life is sounding terrible at this current point in time. its too much for one person and their one lonely friend to handle. there's only one thing i can suggest. Move schools. If you have/had friends in the other school(s) in your tow so that might not work. but thats really all you can do, change schools (maybe even a cheap private school). And for me personally, right before i left the hell hole school w. friends who dont trust you, just spill your feelings, maybe even yell at them. tell them what went on. (you can also do this before deciding to move schools, maybe it would fix a few things). As for your sister going to college, and your friend w. diease, i cant help you. My advice for now would be, Start Over.

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