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Okay, well for my Life Management class, I have to work 10 hours of Community Service for free. I'm not sure what to do, I'm really interested in basketball. She told us that cleaning for a basketball team would be considered community service. I was going to ask the local WNBA/NBA arena if I could maybe clean the locker rooms or clean SOMETHING for them maybe 2 hours a day, but I don't know how to do that [ask them]. And they would probably reject that idea. Can you help me think of Community Service Jobs i could do that would interest me? I enjoy basketball, volleyball, and shopping. I also like music.
Thanks SO much in advance for any help!
hEY! i have to do the same so if u are already on a team like basketball or like band or anything ask the teacher and we like do u need help with the football games like the food stands and then after game clean ups. or if they are school events like a dance u can use that to help and still earn the hours. anything else let me kno if u wanme to explain it more. Take Care! Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Ok i just went to a hair dresser like an hour ago and got my hair highlighted. I wanted think dark blonde chunks and she ends up giving me these really super bright light blonde streaks. I hate it and i did it even tho my mom said not to...i didnt think the lady would mess it up. Well i came home and washed it like 3 times and its not lightening up. Someone plz help me, i dont know what to do, ill rate a 5. I cant dye it again, my moms not gonna let me.
hey. i would go back and tel the person that she did them wrong. you will have to wait a few days before it will sort of darken and bllend with ur hair. cuz usually they darken by itself. but yeah i would suggest that u go back and tell her that she did them wrong. Take Care. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
when i'm going thru pms (the week before my period starts) i break out in pimples really bad. no matter how much i wash my face, they are still there for that one week. but after my pms is over, they go away on their own and i have PERFECTLY clear skin until my next cycle. but when i do break out its really bad, and my dad suggested taking me to the dermatologist, but i was wondering if it's worth going because no matter what medicine i'll use i still think i'll break out during that one week reguardless. what do you think?
hey i say go to the dermatologist cuz they probably have the acne stuff for when ur pmsing yah kno? it's worth a shot. Take Care.. Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Ok. I have a '94 Jeep Cherokee which I love. I hate putting gas in it, but I am a "stuff" person. I like to carry stuff. The damn thing cost me half a down payment this week in brakes and a new air compressorfor the air conditioner.
Which I would not have replaces if the bearing wouldn't have taken out the belt that runs my whole car.
Incidentially, the amount I paid was probably half of the value of the car. It has new front brakes, tires that are only a year old, and a '98 engine that was installed last year. Do I keep patching it together and wait until it really pisses me off enough to scrap it or do I pray like heck I can get $2000 out of it?
Hey. wow i say you get rid of it...if it's causing you soo much trouble why not get a new one...i mean it will most likely cost you less to get a new car then to keep fixing ur old one...so yeah pray u get $2000 out of it from all the repair expenses and get a new car! Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o
Hey. yes i agree it's none of my business but the baby is so innocent...it hasnt even been born yet and have its chance to expirence life. i kno i have no rights or anything to tell you not to do it but please think about this carefully before you choose because this can put u in danger as well...with abortions is scary... Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Hey there. Um ... I can't take a test until next week to see if i'm pregnant or not, but i'm a little anxious. What are some signs you should watch for if you are in fact, pregnant. Some things I've experienced in the last week is not having any energy, very sore boobs, body aches, stomach has been bothering me, and i'm just very ... tender. Also, my boyfriend and me had sex last night, and after my lower back and lower stomach pained. Advice please!
hey. you could be pregnant if you feel like ur gonna vomit all the time and have wierd cravings for food. is it like sourish food? or you could have an STD...so see if you can get to a nearby clinic and get it checked out cuz it could be serious...Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Has anybody heard of gender identity disorder? it's when you are born one gender but with the opposite gender's body? example, you can be a guy trapped in a girls body. I think I have a friend who has this. She's more than just a "tomboy." She dresses like a guy, acts like a guy, does manly things, talks manly, denies that she has or ever will get her period, and she duck tapes her boobs down. what do you think of this?
hey yeah that can happen. from wut i heard she/he could have been born with a guy part and be a girl with boobs and everything usually ur suppose to get this fixed when u were born and depends on wut the parents want him/her to be. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
If your belly button peircing is infected and bleeding because you messed with it too much as in taking it out and putting it back too much, can you put peroxide on it?! If not what can I put on it?! Thanks
DONT USE PEROXIDE! IT EATS THE SKIN!!! from wut i heard... use sea salt soaks and use dial soap to clean it. use the dial brand body wash about $6 at Walmart to clean it when u shower and dont play with it as much. i use the dial brand body wash and mine has never got infected. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Ok I have my cartilage pierced and it's beel pierced since the end of May. I ran out of the cleaning stuff the store gave me and now it's infected and swollen. I was wondering what I could use to clean it. I have hydrogen peroxide and isperyl alcohol (not sure if that's what it's called). Would either of those work or should I use something else? Thanks! I rate!
hey. you can use alcohol or peroxide....it will work or just run to walmart and get some ear antiseptic at the jewelry section that are for piercings on ur ear.. TatteredDreams you're not suppose to use peroxide on any body piercing...it eats the skin from wut i heard but i hope ur piercings are okay now.. when i got my bellybutton i didnt use that or alcohol and yeah so if u ever get ur bellybutton done..dont use peroxide or alcohol on it. Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Okay ..i have this thing is sum1 starts with me in school or anythin ma sis is out to get them.but the thing is that some people i think are just preteding to be ma frined..so its kinnda weirs i mean i dont tell ma sis she finds out and i like it ..its just that sometimes like while im in the hall and ma sis is around alot of peopple come up to me and be like hey ..so im kindda curious ...do you think there pretending or are they ma true friend...
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hye. i'm not trying to bring you down or be mean okay? this is wut i think and i hope it helps... anyways okay here goes. maybe they are saying hi and everything cuz ur sis is around and maybe they wanna be her friend but does it happen when ur sis isnt around? do u chill with these ppl that say hi to u and everything? and wen you mean they are predending to be ur friend like wut they do tho? try to let me kno and i wanna be able to help! Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
I go to HHS and I really like this guy Named Derrick problem is I dont really know anything about him and he doesnt know anything about me He doesnt even know my name I just really really like him for some reason We all hang out at lunch And my friend said he wont go out with me unless I talk to him But IM afraid to what should I say to him Ive never talked to him before in my life except I said HI once Im a really shy person when it comes to guys I like so someone help me Please I need to talk to him 2 morrow
hey. have ur friend or whoever get his sn and then talk to him that way. it should be easier then talkint o him face to face or on the phone? and dont be shy when it comes to guys..its part of life so go and get him! Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
my friends like different music than me i like rock and they like rap and all that... they get upset when they listen to my music but when i listen to their music i'm ok...what can i do Adrienne my love???(lol) love ya! Alyssa
hey alyssa. i love u too! lol anyways let them kno that you feel wierd that they get upset when they listen to rock and ur totally okay with their music. and tell them that you think it's not fair amd everything too that if ur around them you can listen to ur own music that you LIKE. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
okk.. im a grl.. bi.. have a g/f.. been wit her 4 almost 2 mthz.. weve only made it 2 second base.. but i wanna get farther.. but @ tha same tym i dont.. wut do i do? cuz im still a virgin.. 4rm a guy nd grl.. but she'z not.. she'z had sex a cppl tymz b4.. nd idk.. im scared that i wont be good enuf or w/e.. nd idk.. a bit insecure? cuz yah.. nd wut do i do if i wanna get farther? plz help! im 14 if it helpz..
Hey. do wut makes you feel comfy. if you feel like you are ready then go for it with lotz of confidence and dont be afraid. cuz she already done it doesnt mean she wont think ur good and it's only ur first...so do wutever makes you feel comfy. let me kno if u need anything else. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
does anyone have any good ideas on how to make ur hair look shiny and be soft
hey. wash ur hair regularly and everything. eat healthy and ur hair will be great...shiney and soft with glows..lol Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong?
hey. ur normal you just need a little more time to maybe think about it? it's all ur decision so when ur ready ur ready and it cant and shouldnt be rushed. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
oK.... so this isnt the hottest thing in the world...but my hair smells sometimes even though I wash it everyday. ne shampoos or ne thing that would help me out? thanx
hey, wut do u mean by it smells? jw so i understand but wash it every other day with herbel essances i use it and it works well and if that doesnt help that much spray some perfume onto ur brush and brush it threw ur hair. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
i have the worst cramps ever! any girls now some good cures?
hey. take midol or is it modil. it's something around there. it works well and it's just for that. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
im bi.. 14/f wit a g/f 4 about a month and a 1/2 now.. i love her 2 death but idk.. thingz r just changing between us.. especially since tha skool year started.. she'z afraid of wat otha ppl mite think so itz hush hush @ skool.. nd she dont wanna tell her parentz.. same wit me.. but idk.. she's been actin different lately nd more distant.. she'z broken up wit me once b4 our 1 mth nd got mak a week b4 it.. we were broken up 4 4 dayz nd those were tha worst dayz of my life.. i cried my eyez out nd it hurt like hell.. i guess im afraid that i mite go thru that again.. it doesnt help that she'z mostly in2 guyz newayz.. she just made an exception 4 me cuz she liked me 4 a long tym.. well newayz.. so i just wanna kno.. wat do i do? itz just this huge communication prob nd i cant talk 2 her about it.. there'z either not enuf tym or she dont wanna talk bout that shit.. so yah im confused.. can u plz try 2 help?
hey it doesnt matter wut ppl think it's ur decision to be wutever u want and everything...but yeah write her a note about it if u can. im her invite her or leave her a fake message and meet her saying ur one of the guys friends and talk to her about it see wuts going on and that you sooo confused. it should work let me kno how it goes it u can Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
hi . ok well im 14 and last weekend my friend and i went to the movies and she wanted to invite her b/f who's 17 . well his friend who is 18 drove here and stayed . well we went into the movie "open water" but then they threw us out cuz we were underage or sum shyt . so we left the theater cuz there was nuffin else betta to see . so we stayed by the guys car and were wondering what to do . so we sat in the car and listened to music and like 3 min. later he's pulling out of the parking spot and he's like " lets go driving round" and i was panicking cuz like what if he got into a car accident or got pulled ova . and i seriously thot i was guna piss my pants literally . so i told him to turn the car around and go bak to the movies . and well my friends paretns idnt evn kno that her boyfriend was meeting us at the movies and my parents didnt evn kno i was that movies and so he turned bak and dropped us off and we got ou and sat ona bench , and then they take off in the car and ditch us .but i feel rly bad lying and sneaking around like that cuz i nevr usually do that stuff , so i can i get guilt this guilt off my chest?????? it means A LOT to me whatevr ur answer is cuz nethng wuld work right now. thanx
hey. i would just straight up and tell your parents...theres nothing better then telling them the truth and finally be free...i kno how you feel and everything so let me kno and of corse you will get punished but at least u might feel better. let me kno if u need anything else. Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.
Ok tomorrow's picture day and I think I'm going to wear a black and pink skirt, pink flip flops, and a pink tanktop with a pink cool looking thing over it (I don't remember the name of it) Anyways, I was wondering how I should do my makeup and my hair. I want something easy to do but I don't know what. I'd appreciate the help! And yes, I rate but if you ask for ratings I will rate you a 1. PlEaSe HeLp!
Hey. great outfit! lol anyways i say some light pink eyeshadow and silver eyeliner and mascara would be nice. and you hair...try parting it to the side instead of the middle. hmmm put in a few curls and leave some of your hair straight and pin them to different sides until it looks cute. or part ur hair to the side [or even pulled all the way back]and putting it half up and letting the tops of it flare out yeah kno and then bring a few pieces of hair in the front. anything else let me kno! Take Care...Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.