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Not much to say today. I only know I should be getting to bed because it's late. Oh snap. Here comes another calender day.
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I wanna lose 25 poinds by draake relays. anyway i could do that?
Go slow at first...like 5-15 minutes a day. Cut down on fatty food and after a week or so challenge yourself but extending the amount of minutes.
what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at?
What do you mean by "my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at?"
A lot of girls at my school have legs that look like sticks and wear skrits anyway. Or do you mean you don't shave? Whatever the reason, you could always wear pants that are on style for spring. Or just long skirts like someone else said.
I havae never had a boyfriend. Every time i ask someone out they say no. Does God want me to have one. I don't know how to flirt? What am I doing wrong?
Maybe they just don't like you. Let them come to you.
Their is a boy I like and their is a three year age difference. He said I'm too young. Am I really? He's only two grades higher than me, but that is my brothers best friend. Do you think it would be wrong to go out with him?
Actually, no. A lot of people at my school in 8th grade wouldn't go out with 6th graders, (even if you two are in highschool,) because most of them want to be "cool" in not dating them...that they are too young. That *may* be the case...or maybe that is his way of saying "I don't like you."
-shrug-
Ok me and this guy have been talkin on msn messenger for about a mounth or two (don't worry i kno his little sis) And we have no clue what each other look like now he wants me to go and meet him @ the bowling alley His sis says that he's kool and all and that i should start to date him and i don't kno what to say or do! I mean we both seem to like each other. Should i go with him, or just keep talkin on messenger?
Love,
!!Plz Help!!
You know his sister? On MSN or real life? If on MSN...it could be him...just on a different username rying to trick you on going out with him.
I would talk to him for a few more months if I were you...just to be on the safe side.
NO.
okay, my boyfriend heard me say to another person " No you cant tell anyone", and so now he wants to know, what should i do¿
signed,
confused about it
He probably thinks it is about him. If you trust him and the secret isn't as deep, tell him. He shouldn't need to know, but bleh.
What do you do when all you think about is dying?
Get help. Talk to someone.
www.safeyouth.org
Killing yourself may be a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm responsible and respectful. I don't drink, smoke, have sex, do drugs, or anything of the sort. I haven't had a boyfriend in almost 4 years and have no interest in having one, I get exceptional grades, and I'm extremely focused on my schoolwork and acting career. The problem is with my father. This past winter, I met a guy in my drama class. I'm a freshman and he's a senior, I'm white and he's black. We have no interest in a relationship, but we are very good friends. I have alot of guy friends, and this was no different. I'm friends with this guy because I can relate to him. We both struggle with depression, have a love of acting, and we just get along great. He gets good grades and has a future. He's respectful to authority and gets along with everyone. We started talking on the phone. It was just general stuff-cooking, acting, music, that kind of thing. My father is kind of racist, which is stupid, i know. He thinks that a person shouldn't associate with a black person outside of work or school. He's being a hypocrite, since I know that he's had plenty of african-american friends. Anyways, my father (whom I have no respect for for several reasons and who doesn't live with me and hasn't since before i was in kindergarten) found out and now I'm not allowed to talk to any guys on the phone whatsoever unless its my boss or a male relative. He said he'd reconsider when I'm 16, but he's already said that he probably won't allow it until I'm 18. This is ridiculous-I've already told 3 guys this year that I wouldn't go out with them, and I dont want a boyfriend at all. I'm a responsible teenager and I simply want a little freedom. I never go anywhere with my friends, and I've never done anything to make them not trust me. My father gets mad if I say anything about my friends, or anything at all besides my grades and schoolwork.He constantly puts me down about my grades and schoolwork and makes fun of me, but i'm required to call him once a week and endure the rude remarks. I just want to be able to talk to my guy friends on the phone, and i think this is extremely unfair. He won't listen to my point of view at all. How can I get him to see things my way?
He probably will never see tings your way.
He doesn't live with you anyway...how is he going to know what you do or what you talk about with your friends? He has alomost no control over you.
Talk to the person you live with is all I can say. If you still can't talk to your male friend on the phone, then just tell him when your with him. You may not be able to talk to him on the phone, but you can at least see him at school.
The other day me and my friend got caugth smokeing and drinking how do i tell people cuz i'm under-aged so please help
-never get caught!
Who caught you?
If they don't tell, you could get away with it, but if I were you, I'd stop smoking and drinking less. Get someone to help you. If you don't stop now...you will be lost in the future.
should i ask my mother if i can have sex or not?
It depends on how old you are. She'd be freaked out if your 19 and younger years old. You have to know what *can* happen after you have sex. How do deal with and and it's YOU that has to feel ready.
It's your choice. (But I think it's creepy that teenagers have sex. Ehh...)
If she says no, you can always masturbate. No one gets in trouble or hurt. There's nothing wrong with it.
Will ya'll let me know it this is a good idea for spicing up my relationship....Ok Here it is, After school tomorrow I'm going to the band room, and before i walk in the room my boyfriend will be at the time walking towards the room ,so i'm going to look at him and gesture him to come here..and i'm going to go in turn of the lights and i'm am going to go to an empty room and when he walks in i'm going to gesture him to come in there and when he walks in shut the door and push him up against something and startin kissing him and slowly move my hand slowly down and unzip his pants and then give him head... How does that sound???? please let me know before tomorrow!!!!
In the school? ... How old are you anyway?
But that was off-topic. Sorry. But I really don't think it's correct. Slow down a bit.
i have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and the sex has been normal, however recently for some reason i have gone off sex, i just dont feel like it as much as i used to, is that normal, cause my boyfriend doesnt think so and he's getting frustrated about it, we keep arguing all the time because off this, help.........
It is normal. I heard before that *too much* sex isn't very good for your health anyway.
Your boyfriend should respect that...hit him on the head.
My boyfriend and i haven't had sex yet and recently i saw his penis and it was curved or bent
a bit is that normal i did'nt say or do anything
i did'nt want to make him feel insecure about it
its the first time i have seen a penis do i say anything to him?
I think DruidX said it was normal before.
Mmmhmm.
If your still unsure, you *could* ask him...it probably isn't anything.
And on the side note, you don't have to have sex with him.
My boyfriend has ask me for a blow job and i never done it before but a friend of mine told me
that boys like it when you go under the head
on the underneath side of the shaft its the most
sensitive part of the penis is that true?
he has a big penis im worried that i will gag.
I thought I answered this :-/. If I haven't...
Your friend gave you pointers...but maybe she has never done it before secretly. And not all guys would like it the way she told you.
But, you should talk to your boyfriend first. If you do not think you are ready, then don't do it. He should respect your choice
Okay, I do one thing wrong and where does it get me? IN A HOLE. WHERE NONE OF MY FRIENDS LIKE ME! I have 1 friend now. Her name is Ellie. See, I did one mistake to Sabrina. Now she is mad at me. Then all of her best friends which happen to be mine too hate me. (Sabrina, Amanda, Bella, Monica, Rosalie, and Samantha) What can I do to get my friends to like me again?
It depends on what you did...or on how the person took it. Then it depends on all your other friends, what kind of mind they have. Talk to Sabrina, and if every one of them still dislike you, then i don't think you need those kind of friends in the first place.
my boyfriend is having trouble keeping an erection
we he goes to put his penis in he goes limp
and he can't get hard again he is really self conscious about it he thinks its his size is the problem hes 17 and about 4 inches long is there
anything i can do to help him.
To tell you the truth, I honestly don't know.
I would let him go see a doctor if he thinks it's serious.
Ok ok. Guy trouble.
I've liked this guy for 4 years (5 in August) and I told him through a friend that I liked him. He said he just liked me as a friend back.
Well in class he'd try to ask me for something like a calculator to try to strike up conversation. I never had a calculator, and I think he knew that.
Over the phone my friend called him (I was on the line too, but I didn't talk) and asked him if he liked me.
Friend:"So do you like Hannah?"
Him: "...n...not really..."
Friend: "Why not?"
Him: "Uh...because I have a girlfriend."
Her: "So?"
Him: "I...I have a girlfriend."
Her: "You could still like her and have a girlfriend ya know. Anyways I guess I'll talk to ya later. Bye."
Him: "Bye." (very hurried and he hung up really fast)
Well now when I was in Science today he was flirting with me alot. In History, I'd look over at my friend and in the background he would be looking at me. He actually started a convo with me! ("Hey, Hannah, what hour do you have (teacher)?") Well I don't know but I felt all excited and stuff. =D
But I wonder what he would do if I called him and asked him how he felt. Do you think he would feel bad about it since he has a girlfriend, or should I go ahead anyways? Or should I just wait and see what'll happen?
You can still talk to him as a friend...the typical friend stuff. Nothing about girlfriends or crushes. It's his choice if he wants to break up with his girl friend or not. Just wait...he is probably just confused at the moment...have teo different girls liking him. :p
ok. i was going out with this guy for 2 weeks, and i didnt no it but he broke up with me. he told my friend he wanted to break up. he said the reason was because he was happier bein single. then a few months later he told my friend that he broke up with me because his stepbrother thought i was ugly. so my x-boyfrind believed him. now i always catch him staring at me. and never wantin 2 b by me. Also wenever he see's me he try's to get all over gurls. I dont like him anymore. but i kinda do. why does he do that?
Two weeks only? Bleh...you shouldn't care if he thinks you are ugly, and your not with him anymore! Woo! Now you have the power to win another guy's heart...pick a good one this time, though.
I know that it's heart forget a person who you once liked / loved, but he just wasn't right for you. Especially when he is "all over" the othe girls. Doesn't he have self control? It might be that he wants you to get jealous or just wants you to see his "power." Don't think about it...he is just a jerk.
my boyfriend that i live with read my email from a man that i was planning on sleeping with in the near future and i no he knows should i bring it up he is giving me the cold shoulder my live in that is what should i do should i bring it up should i just ignore it the only reason i was planning on sleeping with the guy any how is that my live in and i have a non existent sex life and i was desperate well i hope someone out there can help me get back in the good graces of my live in
A bit confusing...like the other two said.
I think it was fair of him reading that letter. Cheating on him for sex...you know there are better things in life, and if he was a good boyfriend, well then you lost his trust if you two are still together.
Do you even know the man who wanted to sleep with you? He has no respect at all.
How old are you anyway?
I am in love with this guy and I think he is in love with me too.We are both 13. When we are by ourselfs he is all over me but when we are around other people he acts like he is just my friend. What do I do? I am a girl.
Sweetie, if I am too young for love, you are too.
He probably is shy...but he's all over you, then that means he just wants a piece of you and push you aside whenever he feel like it. Like nothing. He is not the one, dump him. If he could get you pregnant and you start to live with him, believe me, it will not be pretty.