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Q: ok i have this thing about going back wards i get so scared to. and i a trying out for cheering and i go to gymnastics 2 times a week and my gymnastics trainer tells me that i am good and that i can do my back handpring by my self but i am to scared to. and like it weird like i taught myself how to do one before and i did it wiked good and then i fell on my head and now i am so scare to do anything backwords. and my trainer tells me that it is harder to do an arial then it is to do a bachandspring and i think that it isn't because i am notafrade to do anything front wards can any one help me or tell me a good way to get over my fear?
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yea i also have a fear of going backwards.. ive been involved with dancing/gymnastics for 11 years. Go to a wall and put your back against it. put your arms straight up in the air. put the palms of your hands on the wall with your fingers pointing down. slowly walk your feet out and hands down. Thats one way how to get a back bend. It is EXTREMELY unlikly to get a backhandspring before doing a backbend so make sure you've mastered the back bend. To improve your back handspring, have a few people spot you on a cushuned mat. need anymore help? drop one in my box. xO'ali
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Q: WEll me and my boy friend diego have been dating for almost 4 years now( im 17 he is 18) and well we both love each other. he even promised me many times the day i turn 18 he is proposing to me which happens to be in about 3 weeks. well his birthday was a couple of days ago (our birthdays arent that far apart) any ways well on his birth day him and his guy friends went to a club. there diego saw an old friend from when he lived in mexico. well they started talking and some how he got a hold of some drinks and he got really drunk and him and his friend Andrea went back to his house and had sex. i found this out through him only cause i got lucky with such an honest man. he said he was drunk and he saduced him. well i believe the seducing part because i had met her when we went to mexico so i could meet his family and she was all over him. well any ways im still really in love with him and hes the one and only person i have ever had sex wit and for me that means alot cause im am definantly not easy. i really love him. we talk were each others best friends and lovers and everything else. i am still going out with him but i dont knwo since he promised me when i trun 18 he is going to propose to me should i say yes our should i wait and see if this happens again cause im really confused and i dont know if i should say yess or iff i shouldd sayy lets wait a little while to see cause i have always thought im gona say yes. i dont knwo what imm gonna do
PLEASE HELP!!
~Princess Ava~
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the exact same thing happened to me (excpet the age and proposing) and pathetic enough.. im only 13. It's going to be a tough decision to make and no one on this website will be able to change your mind completely. What you need to do is sit down and think to yourself of * i know this sounds lame but:* the pro's and con's of the situation. What I did was I broke up with my boyfriend immeadeatly. But since your's might propose to you.. i dont know. All I can say to you is to stay positive but know that he is capable of breaking your heart. And know that it was him that went to the club, it was him who had the drinks, and it was him that had sex with another woman, just WEEKS before he proposed to you. But you also need to remember that this is the man you love and that loves you too. All I can say to you now, it good luck from the bottome of my heart. And i truely hope everything comes out alright. xO ali
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Q: ok well i'm gon out with this kid but he tells his friends that he thinks I'm prude..which i'm not really cuz i've gone farther than he has. and whenever his friends are around me like spell out prude or say oohhh looks like someones prude..well i'm wonderin..what should i say to them cuz its gettin madd annoying
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The only way you can make them stop is to prove them wrong! Kiss him right in front of them so they understand that your not prude. xO ali
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Q: how to i get my armpitts to stop sweating?
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Try a strong anti-perperant. IF the strongest kind doesnt work, you MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he/she might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dried out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol.
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Q: hey i know a lot of ppl ask this question but i sweat waaay too much.. and i cant wear long sleeves or sometimes even t-shirts.. is there another brand of antipersperant instead of certain dry (i can't find it anywhere, i'm thinkin maybe they dont sell it in canada?) but anywayz does this ever go away.. how long does it last? i rate high for good answerz
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You MIGHT have what I have. It is called hyperhydrosis. Hyperhydrosis means that you have overactive sweatglands. Go to your dermatologist and he might prescribe you something called Aluminum Chloride. It's awesome. I used to use but I moved onto a heavier thing. Its a pill that dried out your whole body. It doesnt hurt or anything. Your mouth just gets dry in the morning lol. But if it's not that, Ban and Certain Dry work good for most. Good luck. Anymore questions? IM me at gre3neyedxgirlx3 xO ali
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Q: Anyone know how to french kiss? Im a fourteen year old girl whos frenching someone for the first time today please help!!!I rate high :c)
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Everyone who said to just go with the flow was absolutely right... but when yoiu guys lean in, open your mouth and keep your tounge on the bottom. then when he goes to kiss you, and you guys are goin at it, slip your tounge in and keep darting it in and out. xO ali
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Q: theres this boy...my mom like loves him and she wants me to go out with him and he's all she talks about..well i rlly like him and he knows that..we walk home together everyday and just like talk about different stuff..but i really wanna kno wat he thinks about me and if he likes me back and stuff...please help me find a way to ask him wat he thinks without lookin desperate because he's not in my grade...he's a grade lower but he's my age so it's okay
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Come right out and say it. one day when you guys are walking home say, something along the lines of, "So, I have a question. You know I like you and all but, do you like me?" I mean even if he doesn't know that you like him, that will show him that you like him. xO ali
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Q: i have been going out w/ this dude for about 2-3 weeks.. he is REALLY REALLY into me.. but im not that into him.. i just went out w/ him so he wud stop bein soo sad.. and mad.. i wanna break up w/ him..but all his friends (that r gurls, which is ALOT!)said they wud jump me.. im sure they wud to..b/c he's really popular.. and he has ALOT of ppl on his side!! wut shud i do?? shud i break up w/ him? and how? or shud i not break up w/ him??
signed.. confused gurl
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You should just make him want to break up with you! Be like a wicked bad girlfriend. xO ali
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Q: Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.
It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.
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Shall We Dance?
best movie EVER
xO ali
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Q: your advice really helped were great friends again and she might like me again thanks for the advice
okay theres this really hott girl doesnt like me should i askher out???
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Well, you are very welcome. Well it depends, I need more information on this other girl. P.s. What's your username? xO ali
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Q: Could someone tell me exactly what ADD is. i know what it means but my friend keeps saying i have it and i dont think i do.?
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ADD stands for Attention Deficit Dissorder. Its where is hard to pay attention. If your friend says that, she's probably fooling around because you weren't paying attention to her lol xO ali
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Q: me adn my friend brooke spend an auwfull lota time together.. and people are starting to call us twins... we look nothing alike.. well kinda i guesss tall and blond hair... we both hate it so much and always say no we don't!! but people just keep saying it !! ugh ..what should we do~!
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Be greatful that you have a friend that is that close. Those dont come along often. Just blow the other people off and they'll get the hint. xO ali
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Q: You know, Ive read a whole lot of your advice answers, and what I find is that all the pregnancy ones say not to get an abortion.
you make pregnancy and teen pregnancy help sound as if its right... Ive seen first hand the life of my moms friend and what she has gone through already having two kids and a kind but unwilling father. Its sad to see those kids grow up, they are growing up in such a bad enviroment and they wont get much support in the future.
Why are you so against abortion, its really not that bad if its the earliest stage, and you know, I read one of your answers saying that it would really change your life, and guess what, its not good change. by the way, its murder, murder of a brainless shell which has not even entered a real state of living, thers not much harm in preventing its growth, its like pulling weeds, you thinnk the weeds lives are worth less than yours? Their premature, yet you throw em in a pile, all dead...
But your doing it for a cause, to let the plants with a real future grow up and be strong, same with abortions, your allowing someone to be free of a burden they dont want. I dont care if your a christian crusader advocating anti abortionism, its wrong to make people think they have no other choice.
By the way, ive seen the pictures on google, and frankly, its not your body, its theirs, and if they want a future, the abortion is the right way to go...
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Good quesion. Because I had just finished a group report on Roe vs. Wade. If you dont know what it's about, its about a lady who wanted an abortion but it was illegal in Texas at the time. Abortion is murdering a baby, murdering is murder, murder is illegal. I PERSONALLY dont think it should be legal. This site is mostly about opinions and I am stating mine. I dont make people think that there is no other choice. I give my opinion. Very good question and Im happy you asked. P.s. you dont have to give it to me, but what's your username? xO ali
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Q: I saw the Grudge last night, and I thought it was pretty scary,and now I'm really scared. Like when I'll be in my room, (my light always does this)the light will go on and off and I've never been scared by that, and now I'm totally freaked out! what should i do?!!
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Just remember that that movie was put on by highly paid acos/actresses. Thats what I tryed to remember when I saw that movie. xO ali
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Q: hey .... i was thinking of making a xanga or myspace. which is better in your opinion? also, could i see some of yours to get ideas?(dont worry im not a stalker lol) thanks!
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Myspace without a doubt because you can meet new people and its just funner lol xO ali
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Q: I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f
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totally normal.. im in 8th nd got it this year. xO ali
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Q: does anyone know anybooks that are a good read? books that will make you think or slightly uncomfortable? anything in the same league as "The Perks of being a Wallflower? thank you!!
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Speak
Wrapped in a Riddle
After
The Year my Parents Ruined My Life
xO ali
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Q: ok so this girls mom i know just died and my mom told me to go up to her and say something but im not sure what to say. someone please help me
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Go up to her, look her in the eyes, and say "(her name), Im so sorry about your mom, I know it must be so hard on you and your family. If you ever need to talk about it, you know Im here for you." xO ali
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Q: ok well, i live in PA, and i was in new jeresy at six flags today. Anyway well i was on medusa and this kid kept staring at me while we were waiting in line. Then when we got off, my friend went the other way and i felt really sick. So i went over to a tree and dropped my stuffed animal i bought and started throwing up. So he came over even though i didnt know him and put his hand on my back and he was help my hair back and picked up my animal..and then when i was done i looked up at him and he was smiling at me. I said sorry, but its like, it's okay come here, and he took me over to where him and his friends were standing, and he sent his friend to go buy me something to settle my stomach.. then after thati left and eventually i was in line for nitro and him and his friends were like 5 people behind me and he came up and put his hand on my shoulder and he was like, are you gonna be able to handle this one? Then when we got off i was walking down the stairs and i was like stumbling and hes like, you okay there drunky? and we started laughing, and then we split up again and then later we went on this ride that sends you over the lake, and i ended up getting broken away from the people i was with and i had to sit with him, and the sun was setting and it was so pretty. But then anyway, we were leaving, and i said bye, and i had left my phone with him because i was afraid i would drop it in the lake, and i opened it and i was flipping through the numbers, and it said tony with a heart next to it and his number. Just wondering, what does this mean?
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Damn that's soooo cute! lol Totally call him. He's probably a good kid if he helped you out! Calling him is going to be the only way you find out if you like him. And think about this: Would he put his number on your phone if he didnt want you to have it? xO ali
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Q: Can anyone help me find information on Teen Pregnancy?
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http://www.teenbreaks.com/pregnancy/pregnancyhome.cfm
xO ali
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44516
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