ummmm well im a 15/f and i think that i may be pregnant and i know for sure that if i am and i tell the daddy he's going to say it not his(he's a bitch). Now normally i dont believe in abortion but i dont kno wat to do i mean my mom would be mad but she would help me but i dont know if im ready! they said that i can have it and take care of it, get an abortion, or adoption but i dont want to kill the baby or give it to someone els! im very confused! if i am how or should i tell the father??? should i keep it??? plz help me i dont know wat i should do!!!
you should probuly figure out if you pregnet first
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I've kissed my boyfriend twice. The first time my brother told us to kiss and the second time my cousin wanted to see if we would actually do it. I want to kiss my boyfriend more often, but he is so shy and wont make the first move, even though he admitted and tells his friends he wants to. What do I do to build up my courage to make the first move? I'm too scared he wont want to kiss me when I want to kiss him. Please help me. Thanks
Take a riskk you never know what is going to happen until you try to make the first move.And i'm sure he will like that youve made a move.
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My boyfriend is kind of a criminal. He tipped trash cans with some of his friends and broke security cameras and flag poles. He's now grounded and is kind of on a house arrest thing. I love him, but how do I go out with somebody like this?
i agree with what the person below me said.
your probuly wayy better for sombody who is like that.you should probuly move on to somebody who is so bad or in your words a criminal.But if you rather stay with him just explain to him that you dont wanna be with sombody who gets in so much trouble.
hope ive helped
alex
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Ok...so im not a virgin but everytime ive had sex i told the guy to keep my bra on. My reasoning for that is my boobs look bigger in my bra and i dont want it to be a disappointment when it comes off. I really hate it because my boobs look like they are like an A when my bras off. What should i do about that? And my other problem is you know how people have hair on there stomach? Well since im full italian mine is like dark so it kind of grosses me out what can i do about that cuz that also bothers me?
aw dont worry about your boob size
the guy likes you enough to be having sex with you,so it shouldnt matter.And about you being italian theres things like laser hair removal and waxing .
hope ive helped
ALEX.!
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I love my boyfriend, but he recently cut all his hair off. I go for skaters and now that he has no hair he looks way less of a skater. I still love his personality but im not physically attracted to him anymore. Ok im only fourteen, so I know I'm kind of young to be physically attracted to someone, but he just looks so... not my type anymore. I mean, he cut a foot of hair off his head. I love him, but I feel different when I'm with him now. What do I do?
hahah i understand what your saying
he looks ugly with short hair.
Hair grows back and if you like him
then it shouldnt matter and you say you like hes personaility so that should be what counts
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i had sex with a 19 year old over the weekend. i mean. he was like abercrombie model hot. and im only sixteen, and he didnt use a condom.
im so scared im pregnant. what should i do
please help me out immediatly. please please please
Hmm well you have about an 80% chance of getting pregnant, but sometimes you might get lucky.
The best thing to do is try and get a pregnancy test ,dont stress over it though because it will cause you to think about it more.
Try that and if it results in pregnancy, then we have a problem,but do that for now :]
Good luck!
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14/m
ok so i met this girl a while ago, and she's now my girlfriend. the only thing is that she lives about a forty-five minute drive away, and when you're fourteen and gas costs as much, its hard to do anything.
advice on how to overcome this would be nice
thnx
Hmm ,well if i were her that would be totally understandable.
Im sure she wont get mad if you guys cant do as much.
What would be fun is if every week you guys met halfway some place fun and had an outting t yourself and her.So then she would be driving half way and you would be driving half way.
Another good advantage to that is you guys wouldnt get bored. Maybe sometimes she can come to where you live and sometimes she can come to where you live.
If you wanna do low cost things, try walking around the mall or going to the park or playing games or sports or even just watching a good movie.
I know if i were her that would be flattering.
Good luck!
--Kendra
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ok. so i have a boyfriend. and i like him a lot. im in middle school so i see him between every period. which is roughly every hour. i have a best friend. who is a guy, and my boyfriend thinks i flirt with im whenever i talk to him, and i dont. my personality is flirting. i've already tried talking to my boyfriend. and hes always just like 'yeah whatever' and he always gets mad at me for it. i hate it. what should i do??? please help.
Your question is pending an answer.
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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH
ddgre
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http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=imarockstar&prev=1
thank you.
Just by doing that people will see it!
EVERYONE CHECK OUT THAT ADVICE COLUMN TOO!
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when my bf cums after I give him a hj should I wipe the mess up or let him do it.
Let him do it :]
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can yu tell me why in the morning getting out of the shower is a lot colder than at night? I DONT UNDERSTAND IT LITTLE PREPPY CHEERLEADER! help me please!
Well, when you first wake up in the morning,your body is cooled down and it is colder outside than at night when your body has worked up a sweat and its warmer outside.
I hope I was a help!
--Kendra
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im going to a party in, like, an hour.
it's a black-and-white party and i have no idea what to wear!
it's funny cause im usually the one helping other people what to wear and im usually voted best dressed! but im seriously stuck!
please help me, FAST!!!
Ahh well do you have black and white polka dots
those are the style
or put a black bow in your hair or a white one
and maybe black and white jewelry
Good luck!
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i have been together with my boyfriend for awhile now. and i want us to actually, hookup. but im to scared to make the first move. what should i do?
Hmm , well sounds to me like it should come natural.
If you guys have been going out for a while now and he still hasnt made the first move, he either is scared to make the move or he thinks your not ready. If I were you , Id let him know your ready too and even if you watch other people hookup or see it on tv alot , he might get the hint.
But if you wanna make the first move, thats a good idea too considering guys sometimes like when girls make the move, depending on the guy.
Good luck and if you have any questions.. ask!
--Kendra
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there is a guy at school who i really like please help me find a way to attract him...I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP!!!!!!!!!
Hmmm,your desperate for help but dont act desperate in front of him!
Guys love a girl who is hard to get, so first get him to notice you.
A good way to get him to notice you is hang out with the same people he hangs out with or be near him as much as you can, maybe even plan a group outting with him somehow by having one of his friends invite him somewhere.
And bring you lipgloss too!
Good luck!
--Kendra
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What are good ways to get curly hair without getting a perm or using a curling iron?
hmm ,
I like to scrunch my hair.
Usually while its wet, just take your hands and scrunch it.
Usually they sell some products such as Ausie SPRUNCHING spray[in a purple bottle] and Pantene Pro V has a good spray too.
Also put gel in it to reinforce it so it stays like that for a while.
And last , top it off with some hair spray and your good to go.
I know exactly how you feel ,because I have naturally pin straight hair and I hate it lol
Good luck!
-Kendra
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f/14
my brother died about four years ago on a motorcycle accident
i still get sad over it and i dont like it i dont feel like being sad all the time i know it happened a long time ago but sometimes like at night i start to think abbout things that we used to do and he used to do and i just start crying
at times ive been up crying up till 5in the morning on school nights
im sick of crying myself to sleep every night
plz help or just say something !!!
anything !!!
keep it zen !!!
thanx !!!
Times are tough and it sucks.
I sometimes stay up late thinking about bad thoughts or negative feelings.
The best way to cope your feelings is to write it down in a diary , it will help you express yourself and think about all the good times you had with him and be happy you had all those good times.Also, do something to take your mind off him, if his past is coming into your mind , read a magazine, turn on the tv or the computer or catch up on some studying or listen to music, it will change the way you think of things.
Hope I was a help!
--Kendra
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ok so i have homecoming in 2 weeks and i was wondering what would clear up current and help prevent zits for the next two weeks. thank you very much. i wash my face twice daily and i dont have that much money. i can feel one coming just below my nose. what can i do to get rid of it fast. it hurts really bad.
(f/16)
ahh
i hate that.
The best thing you can do is use Benzoyl peroxide.
Usually a dermatologist has to prescribe it, but fortunately they sell some over the counter acne medications with benzoyl peroxide. So look for products with that in it at the drug store. Another thing you should make sure you do is keep your hair clean , because sometimes dirt builds up and goes to your face and you might not even know it!
One last suggestion i have is usuing Oil absorbing pads, they are about 3.99-4.99 at drug stores in the brand of Clean and Clear, they work great to remove excess oils from the face with cause acne to occur.
Hope I was a help!
p.s. If you feel one coming now, use a heat activated mask or some type of facial mask and use ice to reduce the redness.
--Kendra
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ok i just turned 13 a week ago and i'm in 7th grade, and i havn't had a boyfriend yet...i'm pretty sure its because... i'm ugly, i mean i wear glasses i'm 5'0 or 5'1 and i'm fat... (135) waht do i do??i cant talk to a friend or cousin or aunt, and my mom passed away. so i live with my dad. what should i do?? please please please help me.
Ah Im 13 , 8th grade and weigh about the same.
I havent had a boyfriend either, its not that your fat or ugly or wear glasses. Thats nonsense.
You probably are just to good for the people at your school , and maybe your higher standards than the boys at your school.
Once you get into highschool , you'll probably have an older boyfriend and everyone would be jealous.
But never be down on yourself , you can always make yourself look better if you think its needed.
And I know its hard, because my mom lives in another state so i just live with my dad too and im an only child.Try reading books and spending extra time with your mascara and lip gloss, you'll have fun.
Good luck!
If you have any other questions, I'll be glad to hear them!
--Kendra
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Okay, so 2 questions...both of them leading into another. Anyways when you shave (legs) is it better to use a razor and shaving cream? If so which brand of razor is the best and which shaving cream? Or is it better to use those hair remover crema product thing? Such as Nair...and which product works the best? Don't say nair becuase I'm allergic to it I think...it leave little tiny red bumps
Hmm , Deffinetly use a razor and shaving cream.
Thats alottttt better than using Nair for numerous reasons.
Nair smells bad, takes longer, and doesnt work as well , and yes you could be allergic to it.
Those little red bumps arent neccasarilly an allergic reaction, they might just be razor burn, which most people get around the knee area.
If you do shave with a razor and shaving cream , your best bet would be using Skintamite shaving cream , it makes your legs very smooth and smells good. Its about 1.99-2.50. And the best razor i think is Venus Divine, or the Venus Vibrance. They work great without the ouch !
Hope I helped!
--Kendra
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