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Hey Guys.
My name is Meghan.
I live in Garden Grove,California.
I am 16 years old.
I try to give the best advice that I can.
I won't sugarcoat answers just so you can hear what you want to.
I am pretty straight forward and honest and there is no reason you shouldnt appreciate my work.
I know a lot about;Health,Friendships,Sex,Sports,Cars,Driving and Fashion.
I am always here to help .

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Sorry if this isn't in the right category. I wasn't quite sure which one to put it in.

Okay so here's the deal. I got in a huge fight with my dad (we always fight and he's an alcoholic) right before going to my friend's party. Well, everybody knows what happens at highschoool parties: everybody get's drunk and whatever. Well, I was really upset about the fight I got into with my dad and at the party i decided to drink A LOT(which isn't good because the whole reason why I was drinking was to forget about my alcoholic dad and I don't want to turn out like him) and i usually don't drink too much at parties, maybe get a little tipsy but never over the top piss drunk. Well, this time I did. I passed out on the couch not too far into the night and woke up the next morning naked on the floor with my clothes scattered around the house. I don't remember what happened, what I did, what I didn't do, and I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO scared that something could have happened. This is a huge problem because there are so many things that could happen. I could've had sex with somebody and gotten pregnant or have an STD or something. I don't know.... And if something happened things with my boyfriend are shot to hell which REALLY isn't good because he's the only person i can talk to about anything and I love him and I don't want to lose him... I wish I could take back that night. I don't know what to do. This stress is killing me. HELP.
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you have to go to the doctor 1st
and tell them the story
they will test you to see if u got raped
do it as soon as possible


i have just turned 15 and im a male, right i am 172 cm and 56 kg i have been doing sprinting my whole life i am white aswel i currently set 12.81 seconds in 100m sprint i also set 6.24m in long jump i need to know how good these scores are please anyone experienced help me out and if anyone has any tips please say (link)
yeah they are
=]
i was in track
so i know
hahah .
keep up the good work


Okay, well I'm 5'6 and 135lbs, & I'm aware that for my heights that's a good weight.. But it's all focused in my stomach. I want to lose my pudge, and have a flat stomach. But what kind of excersises would be good, are aerobics classes any help? And a lot of people tell me if you workout too much, your body will get use to it and it wont be affected by excersise, what's the deal with that. A list of some foods to & not to eat would be amazing alsoo. Thanks! (link)
just eat healthy
fruits and veggies
it'll help
and also
try to run and push ups will also help flatten the stomache . i know its weird but it reallly qworks . thats how i lost weight
and alsodo sit ups or crunches
that will give you a better image of yourself
=]


i have been fingered 2 times and ate out 2 times im i still a virgin? (link)
well .
you are still a virgin
unless
he put his . . . inside of you .


Okay, so is it a little to old for a 15 year old to go out with a 21 year old? Im 15 and the guy I kinda like is 21. He doesnt smoke doesnt drink just works. He is mexican [which doesnt matter] and he is a sweetheart. He asked my mom for approvel and asked to take me out on a date. He said he will call me this weekend. I dont think he will, Im a little scared. I have told some of my friends and they said, ''You know guys like that just want some booty''. But it doesn't seem like he is that way. I dont know what to do, give it a chance or forget it?

-Confused. (link)
if you like him
it shouldnt matter what others think
its the one you wanna be with
then be with him
=]
and if ur mom approved
thats also a plus
hope i helped


and never forget
there is never an age limit on love


how much weight would you lose if you didnt eat for 3-4 days?

please do not lecture me (link)
um
i would have to say a pund a day
so like maybe 4 lbs .
but make sure you at least have water .
dont want you getting sick

feedback !!


is there such thing as a phobia of open spaces? i have it bad. i can never walk alone in large open spaces/floors and when im walking down the hallway at school i tend to walk right next to the wall and kinda on it. i could NEVER get on a stage or walk in a field of grass or just any big open floor without holding onto someone. can someone please give me some info on this phobia and how i can get over it? (link)
yeahh
its kinda a disorder
agoraphobia


What are some good brands of makeup that will last for hours? (link)
maybeline [not the eyliner it hurts when applied]
loreal
cover girl



i get expensive makeup that costs a lot for best results
but these ones are great and also great quality


On myspace, i see people that have captions under their pics saying things like " Zelophobia- Fear of jealousy" and also " Mnemophobia- Fear of memories" Where can i find these? (link)
google
and type in phobia list


i got my eyebrows waxed earlier today and they always stay red for so long[like a whole day] but i have a dance tommorrow and i was wondering if i put neosporin on it would that help? (link)
ok
put that on it
and if that doesnt work
all you have to do is put ice on it for a while
like 5 minutes
if that doesnt work
put any type of makeup on to cover up the redness


http://images.google.com/images?q=tbn:HHJjcaNfj3VQKM:http://www.germes-online.com/direct/dbimage/50290087/Women_s_Underwear.jpg

do you know what kind of underwear these are...
they are like short shorts type things i dunno?
and do you know a store where i might be able to find and purchase them? (link)
hahah .
i wore a pair of them today.
lol .
they are called BOYSHORTS .
they are rellly cute .
but if ur not used to it
kinda uncomfortable at 1st
so yeah
you can get em
wherever you get undies
american eagle has them
and victorias secret
any store at the mall that sells bras
would definitaly have them



If my question is on the wrong category,sorry. I didnt know what category.
Anyway. I feel sad a lot. But when i'm at school or with friends or their family I try to hide. I have been goin through a tough time. But my dad is doin the best he can to make me happy. He doesnt really know that i'm sad...ALOT !! and i honestly dont know why either. But I am upset everyday. Yeah sure I have fun a lot but sad sososo much...
I dont think i have depression..but doesnt anyone have any idea...why i could always be feelin like this?
please answer as soon as you can
and thank you for readin this :]

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ok
hey im meghan
i wanna help you thru this
in a way we all go thru this
so yeah
its just a phase
all you haev to do is . . .
in the morning when you wake up
. . .
thinkk
positivlyy

look in the mirror and say
wow its a nice day
it will change ur outlook on the day
it works for me
hope it does the same for you


I did 1 thing in my past that I regret...lets just say im not really a virgin. But It wasn't my fault. And I wasn't raped, so. When my friends ask me "are you a virgin?"...I'm like stuck because I don't know what to say. If I tell them I am a virgin i would be lying, and if they find out i don't want them to get mad. But if I say I'm not they will think I'm some kind of slut and they will ask what happened, and I do not want to tell them....its personal.So? (link)
WELL . . .
i would just say , like its my business if i am or not
you know ?
like idk what else to say .
but why should your friends realllly care ?
its dumb .
and if they wanna call you a slut or w/e just let em . they have to callll you names cuz they get called worse names
lol
well i hope i helped


do u know what the song is that goes..



"la la la, all around the world it's lalalala" that's all i know because it says that a lot.
anyone know who does it &/or the song name? (link)
i think its . . .



ASHLEE SIMPSON LYRICS

"La La"

You can dress me up in diamonds
You can dress me up in dirt
You can throw me like a line-man
I like it better when it hurts

Oh, I have waited here for you
I have waited

You make me wanna la la
in the kitchen on the floor
I'll be a french maid
Where I'll meet you at the door
I'm like an alley cat
Drink the milk up, I want more
You make me wanna
You make me wanna scream

You can meet me on an aero-plane
Or in the back of the bus
You can throw me like a boomerang
I'll come back and beat you up

Oh, I have waited here for you
Dont, keep me waiting

You make me wanna la la
in the kitchen on the floor
I'll be a french maid
Where I'll meet you at the door
I'm like an alley cat
Drink the milk up, I want more
You make me wanna

You make me wanna la la
in the kitchen on the floor
I'll be a french maid
Where I'll meet you at the door
I'm like an alley cat
Drink the milk up, I want more
You make me wanna
You make me wanna scream

I feel safe with you
I can be myself tonight
It's alright, with you
Cuz you hold, my secrets tight
You do, You do

You make me wanna la la, la la la, la la, la la la la la la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la

You make me wanna la la
in the kitchen on the floor
I'll be a french maid
When I'll meet you at the door
I'm like an alley cat
Drink the milk up, I want more
You make me wanna
You make me wanna la la
in the kitchen on the floor
I'll be a french maid
Where I'll meet you at the door
I'm like an alley cat
Drink the milk up, I want more
You make me wanna
You make me wanna scream

You make me wanna la la, la la la, la la, la la la la la la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la, la la, la la la la la la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la, la la, la la la la la la la la la
You make me wanna la la, la la la la





hope i helped !!!



Okay so sometimes every once in a while I get these pains in my wrist. And it switches back and forth to each wrist. And it gets to the point where I cant bend it without EXTREME pain so I have to wear a write brace. I know I should go to the doctor but at the moment it isnt possible.
Does anyone know what it could be that is causing this ?
Please help :] (link)
it might be arthritis .
my friend go that when he was about 8 .
so dont worry
about it .
you will be fine .
but get a creme for it .
and aoid cacking you fingers and wrists , etc .
it will have less pain til you get the doctor .
but when you get a chance tell yor parents you have a pain and need to see a doctor

hope i helped!!


What is the Florida High School Athletics Association? If a competitive cheer is recognized by them, does this mean anyone is allowed to try out? (link)
um
i live in california but i think that they have to be invited
thats just me
sry
hope i helpped


ok my glasses just broke and im tired of it. i want to get contacts but i want to know the pros and cons of them first before i spend my money on them. would it be better to just get my glasses fixed and what is the best place to get contacts. also i am 14 f and i have to pay for them myself so i need cheap one's ( but good quality). my friend said go to walmart and get them. is that ok? i just need help intirely! please help me... (link)
all i have to say . . .
is
save up money because contacts are still pricey
and dont settle for cheap ones bescause you could get infections easier that way
and
try to fix your gllasses
but tell your mom because its dangerous also .
your eyes will get used to no glasses
so yeahh
hope i helped


Okay so Im 15/f and I Am scared to do things withmy boyfriend. When I was younger my grandfather molestested me. I was six years old though. How would that effect me today? I mean he didn't stick his fingers or penis in me just just touched me and rubed. But could that even effect me? I mean I wanna dos stuff soooo BAd but I cannot. Will, I be a virgin forever? Alos, my boyfriend is shy and I am also. How can I give him a sign to make a move or make a move myself. (link)
yeah well i think that you should at least talk to your parents about this if they dont already know
but tell him that you love him and that you want to step it up a knotch then he will you know . . . and then you wil . . . and then you will MAKE BABIES . AHAHAHA jk .but i mean if you have the time / money / courage to get counceling go for it
but dont let something that happend 10 years ago still affecct you today .
you must be a sweet girl . dont waste your life flashbacking !!


hope i helped


i'm going to be 17 in a little over a month. i weigh about 170lbs and i'm around 5'3 or 5'4. i know i'm overweight, but i was curious--what do you think is a healthy weight for someone as short as i am? do you have any tips on how i can lose that weight? (link)
wow
well
as long as your fine with your image you shouldnt worry abuot it
but here is a site
its your bmi


http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/


i went ahead and did yours .
make sure you have the corrrect weight and stuff .
cuz if not it might say you are obese .
but i dont know if you are or not


lright so my hair is naturally wavy. and this thing i hate about it is that in the summer is perfect and in the cold it is so not. like its straight in the front and wavy on the bottom and too poofy or what ever. sometimes its perfect and sometimes not. i ussaully just let it go natural or straighten it but thats getting boring. it also is getting split ends like CRAZY. i dont even straighten it that much. i put stuff on my hair before i straighten it too so that it wont happen.

so any really good hair ideas.. nothing stupid- serouisly.also i wanna know how i can like... make my hair perfect wavy.. not just like weird wavy haha. something like this:...but no gell if thats possible.

http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi46.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ff117%2Fdianaspin123%2Fscrunched.jpg&searchTerm=scrunched%20hair


and how do i keep my hair healthy??

my hairs blonde.. just incase that helps. ha.

ohh and any other good hair/make up ideas.

THANKSSSS =]
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ok
well
i have the same issue
hahaaha .
i like to keep it simple by straightening it .
but sometimes i just let natures toll do its work
so
i would let you try . . .


straighten the bottom
and then get small parts and curl it to a pigtail curl and hold it with hairspray

or


take a shower
and USE CONDITIONER!!!
towel dry it
but keep it a little damp
and then put mouse in it
and then fringe it .
[grab it and twirl it to form some curlish looks]

it looks soo sexy .
lol



and makeup ?

what i do is i get eyeliner[black or any dark color] and put it on the bottom and then i put a line also on the top
and then i get the darkest eyeshadow and put it on and then go lighter towards the top and add mascara if you go for that look =]
it looks very nice


hope i helped




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