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Hello. I don't claim to be a specialist and I don't claim to know what I'm talking about--unless I do. I'm not going to fill your head with a bunch of bull just becuase I don't know what I'm talking about, I will refer you to someone else. Feel free to contact me by messenger, i'm usually logged onto them via cell phone but will hop on a computer if possible. Anything else, ask
E-mail: jeanine0408@yahoo.com
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Location: Illinois
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Age: 18
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i think im bi and i wanna make out with a girl butt i dnt want to tell anyone how do i make out with one?? i really wanna!! (link)
Damnn .. lol .. Just go with it. me and my friends make out, just to "practice kissing"
LOL I guess you can do that, its awkward at first, but hell, who cares. Only you and the other have to know about it.

Don't worry.. being bi ain't all bad. Its a MAJOR turn on for a lot of guys! (Your more opt to have a threesum with bi chiks!) LOL


me and this grl were best frends at first and we have benn on and off like i have told her we shouldnt be frends then we would be frneds but one time she slpapeed my and then we wrnt frnesd but then i forgave her?? should i still be her frends if she is doing this 2 me??ughh.. (link)
thats complicated. I'm not sure what exactly is going on here, but it sounds like you and your friend have some issues to solve. You need to sit down and just talk it ALL out. I can't tell ya anything else unless I know the whole story.

If that doesnt work or she doesnt want to. Then you shouldnt be friends. Friends always work out their problems.


one of my best frends has like changed and she is like maiking funn of me and it really hurts my feelings adn i have already told her that and like i cnt just liketell her i dnt want to be frnds cuz i have known her simce i was like 2 and i just cant do that she is like eraly meen to me adn she a really big slut!! ugh.. help me!! butt i luv her!! grr..
why me (link)
Hmm. . . People do change, thats for sure. You seriously need to have a LONG talk with her. **I just did with my best friend** It really helps. Talk about everything about each other that you DISlike. Then try to see if theres anyway of changing those things. And if all else fails, forget her and make some new friends.

Telling her your honest feelings will make her realize that you truly care about her. If she can't see how much she means to you , shes really not much of a friend anyways.

GOOD LUCK!
~Mucho Amor~


hey im 15 yrs old and ive been with my boyfriend for 1 yr and 3 moths and i really wana have sex but i hate my body and how i look he said im fine but i hate it do u kno anything i could do to help my stomch look better? aim me at luvwithinme or email me at babiegurl2290@yahoo.com thank *nicole* (link)
I'm SURE your boyfriend is right! He wouldn't be with you if he didn't already think your perfect! Don't worry about it .. he isn't going to judge you when your having sex...

If you really want to work on it though, I recommend doing crunches daily, and eating healthy foods. Yogurt, Even though i HATE it, is really good for getting a flatter stomach. Just substitute your favorite yogurt for a meal a day, and it should help. Also avoid fatty/oily foods.. that helps too!!



anyone know a place to where you can get free ringtones for your cell? (link)
Depends on the kind of cell it is .. try google.com and search free ringtons for ** whatever model of phone you have ** Theres a lot of free sites, you just have to look for them!


there's someone that i like. but he told me i wasn't usually his type... what does this mean? (link)
Type is like the kind of people he usually dates. Some people only date dark haired people.. or blondes... or people taller/shorter than them. It just means that your not like the other people hes dated


im special buy other ppl don't think so what shud i do (link)
Don't worry about it .. the only thing that matters is what you think of yourself ... and what those closest to you think ... who cares about everyone else.. their opinion shouldnt matter anyways! Just be yourself no matter what


My bf and i have a long distance relationship and i really want to call him but i dont want to be clingy. Would i be clingy??? HELP!!!

i rate high!! (link)
Not really.. just don't call him ALL the time. That gets annoying. Maybe call him once or twice a day is fine. Just don't over-do it .. Then you would be clingy ..


does anyone no a self tanner that goes on really smoothley without streaking...because im so pale! (link)
Try Neutrogena *Build a Tan* You gradually get tanner.. so its more natural, and you can discontinue use when you get to be the color you want. The only problem with it though.. you have to buy one kind for your body.. and another for your face. Its like .. $6-$8 each i think.. It does look natural and everything.. and it doesnt take long to appear, so if it does get streaky.. you can go over certain areas and get it all the same! Hope I helped!


I want to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom wut should i do?
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Your mom will totally understand. Shes a girl too! Just tell her your old enough and responsible enough to start shaving. Depending on your age, she will make the final descision on whether or not your mature enough. And if she tells you your not ready , listen to her. She was your age once, and I hate to admit it, but usually.. moms are right when it comes to girl things!



ok so people keep thinking im in like 10th/11th grade when im only in 7th(im 13) and its really weird and it just started happening like a month ago...and these older guys will try to pick me up..and when they ask my age and i say 13 they go...ur kidding right? i know this should be like a good thing but its kinda creeping me out (link)
I'm 14 passing for 20 .. take it as a compliment.. you can't change how you look..


Alrighty... well I'm 14 and I weigh 90lbs and I'm about 5'2"! Well I can find some pants that fit me in my thighs.. I usually go for 0s but I have to find the ones with really skinny legs so they will fit tight on me! I wish my thighs were bigger.. and if I like try to eat fatty foods I'm sure that it won't all go to my thighs, so.. I wanted to make them more muscular so they can fit tightly in all my pants! What are some exersizes I could do to make my thighs bigger? It's almost summer break and I was thinking I'd want to go into 10th grade and have more muscular legs..so I could work on it! Any ideas? Thanks in advance (link)
i wish i had your problem! I'm opposite! I'm a size 7 because my ass and thighs are too big! I recommend Squats and wall-sits. Look them up if you don't know what they are .. i reall don't know how to describe them ..But they really strengthen your legs ALOT . We do them in volleyball all the time!


are men (guys) supposed to masterbate? (link)
Sure.. whatever makes ya happy. LOL... some guys do it cuz .. its .. good .. others do it cuz they cant get any.. haha.. sorry that was mean


OMG, I am so frustrated right now, because I just went shopping and must have tried on over 20 pairs of jeans, and every single one of them was big in the butt. I went shopping last week, too, and still nothing. I have the smallest butt in history. I feel like I'm gonna have to walk around naked the rest of my life! What am I gonna do? Does anyone know of any stores or brands that sell their pants with smaller butt sizes? Please don't suggest Hollister, but I'm totally poor! We tried that today and they were like, $80! I've tried Vanilla Star, L.E.I., Mudd, Arizona, Paris Blues, Union Bay, and other regular brands, and I've also tried Aeropostale. Does anyone else have this problem? Where do you shop at? Thank you so much.
x3 Erin (link)
I have the exact opposite problem.. if theres a DEB store near you.. they have good clothes .. for big and small asses.. and maybe try like.. Kohls brands and stuff... It really depends on where you live.. and what your size is..


hey .. i have a good friend of mine and she wants to kill herself because her and her boyfriend broke up .. and i dont know waht to say to her to make her not kill herself .. like i've said pretty much everything possible and i just dont know waht to do .. nothing i say will make her realize that hes not the only guy and all .. i really need help like asap .. !!
-- ash (link)
Well actually.. there isnt much you can do.. girls tend to be like that.. I went through that.. just as long as shes not cutting her wrists and stuff.. then I don't think you need to worry.. but make sure you keep close with her... and listen when she talks about her problems.. that will help her deal a lil better


Hey, I believe in God and pray to him a ot when I need help. I don't go to church though, but I still believe. Is it bad I don't go to church?? Am I gonna go to Hell????

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First of all.. Church don't mean your goin to heaven.. Who gives a **** if you go or not.. "God" Don't care if u believe and go to church.. or believe and dont go to church.. all that matters..you believe.

And I'm goin straight to hell.. I dont believe in any of the BS in the bible


where is the verse "Jesus wept" in the bible?
thanks sooooo much!!!
xoxo (link)
Personally.. i dont care.. the bible is : by man, for man, about man! In other words.. its All FAKE.
But your question.. I HIGHLY doubt it.. theres SO many bibles.. he couldnt have wept in them all .. DUH


hey, i just had an idea to make my friend a cd. One with cheerful songs so when she's feeling sad it will make her feel better. Does anyone know some good songs that will put her in a good mood?
Thanks! (link)
Put a smile on.. idk who sings it.. and Don't worry, be happy, and songs like that. Go to www.letssingit.com and search lyrics that contain words like cheer up and be happy and stuff.


Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!! (link)
Age is a NUMBER. To me.. it means absolutely nothing.. except in a lot of states.. its against the law for someone over the age of 18 to even be dating someone underage.. so be careful about that.. but i say go for it.. you never know till ya try!


This is a really dumb question, but idk if it's true.


Is it true you can lose your virginity froma tampon???? (link)
Not exactly.. you "open up" when your on your period so it doesnt tear any tissues "down there" (the hymen aka your cherry) So its VERY unlikely




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