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i masturbate ALOT i know it's too personal for me to ask you but do you masturbate alot or a lil i need advice on how to slow down (link)
i'm not gonna answer because it IS indeed, too personal.

If you wanna slow down, just resist the urge, go outside so you can't or somthing.

Why do you care if I do the nasty with my hand, wtf is wrong with you ppl? I'm allowed a ceratin amount of privacy, aren't I? You are a sick, sick bastard.


i was with a guy last nite and he had his penis around my vagina and he didnt have a condom on he was also leeking fluids and im not sure if i can be pregnant?? (link)
I'm not sure, but I think there is some semen in pre-cum. You should definately get checked out, and DEFINATELY use a condom next time!


How come on aim you can't warn people anymore? Like sometimes you can..but then you can't..cuz when i press the button it says "Warning of '*BLAH BLAH* ' not allowed."...how can i warn someone?! lol please help!! (link)
You simply type, "Dude, you're annoying me, shut the fuck up before I block your ass." or something along those lines.


I need a good, INEXPENSIVE (Below $40) Ceramic Hair straightener. Have any advice on where/what to get? (link)
Walmart was devised by satan. Try Rite-Aid or another drug-store type place.


I'm a 13-year-old girl and I always want to have sex...I just get this feeling a lot "down there" and it feels really good. I think about it a lot. I know that 13 is WAY too young to be having sex and I would never ever do it until I'm married, but I feel really guilty for getting like this. Am I way too young to be feeling like this? Am I way too young to even be thinking about this? Is there anything I can do about it without intercouse?


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You're 13, you have rampant hormones. Being horny and thinking about sex is perfectly normal. If you really want to do something, jack off. (Finger yourself, stick someting remotely-penis shaped up yourself, anything that feels good.) I don't know why you're worried.


What are some EMO stores? Pacsun is too punkish. Hot topic is great but its too gothic. i want something emo-ish


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*emo-lost* (link)
ENOUGH WITH THE FUCKING LABELS!

Go to merveyns, or target, or macy's, or whatever store you want. Pick out clothes that you like. Don't define yourself by someone else's view of what you should be like.

Jeesus.


I am 17/female. I am wanting bigger boobs. I am a 32A and I'd like to go up to a B or a C cup. Do you know of any natural ways to get a bigger bust? Even if you can find a link please post it.

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uhm, wait untill they finish growing? Sometimes have a kid makes them bigger, but please don't do that. It's mostly based on genetics, so there isn't much you can do. But having small boobs isn't a bad thing, just look at nicole kidman and paris hilton. You are what you are, and you can be whatever you want wether you a 30-a or a 44-e.


i am not sure sure how u cook a damn shrimp!! i tried frying it but the house caught on fire and i just stole a laptop from my grandma and wanted to ask you. so if u could really answer this question for me that would be really good

thank you
anynomous. (link)
you steam it. Boil a pot of water, then put a steamer on top, and put the shrimps in. Cook untill they're pink and warm.


So me and my boyfriend are having sex and hes been going in me cause im on the pill. Yea I know statistics so please dont lecture me... and we lost our virginity with each other... anyways question is, how do you keep everything in without it all leaking out?
I also get this discharge and when I orgasm its like a waterfall, so it gets everywhere.. how do i control that too? (link)
part one ("how do you keep everything in without it all leaking out?") I don't quite understand, do you mean with a condom (wich you should be using, btw) or what? Are you talking about his semen? You can't keep it all in, it's supposed to keep out, if you're worried about it, have him pull out when he's about to cum.

As for the discharge, it's called "Female ejactulation" and it's perfectly normal, don't bother to try to controll it. Just put some towells under your butt if you're worried about messing up the sheets.


What should I do if I am in love with DangerNerd? (link)
Ask him/her out? Show affection? Flirt? What do you do when your'e in love with "uubercool"? Unless DangerNerd is a person. Then most of this responce is obscelete...


Ok, I have this really rare blood type (AB-) and my mom told me that if I want to have children, I have to go with my "partner" to get tested to see what blood types can mix with each other and be ok. She said if I mix body fluids (blood) with someone that isn't the same type as me, I'll die. And I really like this guy, but I don't know what blod type he is. And I don't want anyone to know that we....um, yeah. And I'm just....full of freaking questions! I'm such a dork! (link)
That doesn't sound right, but I'd ask your doctor. It sounds like bullshit though... (no offence)


Whenever I try to put in a tampon, it won't work because there seems to be this flap of skin just past the opening. Even if I use the smallest size. What do I do? (link)
I belive the flap of skin is probably your hymen. you can either just push past, or stick with pads. Up to you.


I have had a cat for 6 years and my sister recently got a new puppy, which is 7 months old. My sister lives in an apartment right above me and is always bringing the puppy down to play with us. The puppy is very active and loves to play and is extremely nice. However, my cat just seems to hate her...my cat puffs up immediately and hisses and scratches the dog continuously and this happens everytime they see eachother. The dog does not fight back and tries to get into play-mode, yet my cat is actually trying to fight. Any suggestions? (link)
Cats dont paly with puppys, it doesn't work. You play with the puppy, let the cat hide.


wat do you do when the one u love sent love you back!!!!!!
sighned confused person
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uhm, make a move, ask him/her out, you're lucky.


i wanted to know if there are any side effects of depression pills like losing weight gaining weight drowsynesss any of that and also which different type of pills have what side effect?
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probably, ask your doctor, read the labels. it's not difficult.


Today i saw this football thing and I forgot what they were called. he object looks like a mini football and at the end there is a tail like thing. When you throw it, it makes a whisteling sound (sometimes they don't) anyone know what they are called?? (link)
a nerf ball?


do guys suck each other at sleep overs as dares? my boyfriend did and i dont think its normal? (link)
There's nothing abnormal about it. But I'd consider it cheating. Confront him. He should be sucking you off, not his buddies. Unless you're not at that point in the relationship. Them the only thing he should be sucking on is lolipops. Unless he's diabetic...


I just finished watching the Exorcist. Is this stuff real? Has this ever happened? I know back in Jesus' time it happened because he performed an exorcisms, as it says in the bible. But does or has this happened lately or around the 60s-70s? I have read many things and there are some stories of exorcisms being performed, but the weird thing is when I watched this movie I don't see how all those things can actually happen to someone innocent whom ingaged in the Ouija board a few times, how does it happen? Im so lost and scared as well. (link)
It's not real. It's entertainment. Don't worry. Ouija boards are bullshit anyway, so just don't bother with them because it's a waste of time. Although is you believe in that junk, there's a chance that you'll show symptoms because of your psychology, just like women who think they're preagnant (even though they aren't) often get morning sickness and other hormonal things.


yesterday there was a trojan going around through aim that if you got it it would send it to everyone on your buddy list with the im saying 'how do i look' with a link and i clicked the link and now i have the trojan. i then ran a spy sweeper sweep and it found traces that it removed but the trojan is still there, i can see it on windows task mangager. i also know what the file is and where it is so i deleted the floder but it keeps reappearing and i even searched the folder with spy sweeper and it came up empty but i kno thats it because spy sweeper keeps saything theres two new threats and when i click details i get the location but it wont go away. i also cleaned out my internet files but nothing is helping so will someone please tell me what to do?? please dont say call a person. (link)
You need to run a virus program. Spy sweeper only takes care of spyware. I suggest AVG, although it doesn't always work, it's free. Also, clean out your always keep folder on spysweeper (it's under options) and make sure everything is checked in always remove.


ok i got the top of my ear periced but it got infected so now it if like a big ball on top of my ear. how can i make it go away so no one in school tomorrow can see it plz help fast i rate 5s (link)
go to a doctor, clean it with hydrogen peroxide n the stuff you got to clean it with. Soak it in saline solution (salt water). Cover it up with your hair or a scarf until it goes away.




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