I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
I love the Redsox. they make me so happy. lol
Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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i want to loose 4-up pounds in about 9 days. I really just want a flatter stomach but still wanna loose some punds. What can i do? Need all the help i can get. (Usally rate HIGH) (link)
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stop eating and do tons of sit ups. basically. thats all you can do to loose that amount of weight in such a short time. run too.
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My little brother suffers from an extreme case of obsessive compulsive dissorder and a short fuse. How do I deal with his upsetting behavior? (link)
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love him. thats all you can do. love him despite his faults. he's your brother, and maybe you can get him some help if he doesn't have any already. its tough and i'm sorry that this happened to you.
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Ok...I'm 16 years old and I don't go to a regular school...I go to a girls' school. I don't KNOW any boys. I just don't. I wanted to meet some because I really want a boyfriend. So, I went to a restaurant the other day, and started smiling at one of the guys there. He just gave me a look like "What? Why are you staring at me?"
What is wrong with me??? I thought that was a good way!!
Well, atleast I got his attention, right?
ugh......... (link)
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eh, maybe he was taken.
keep smiling, and flirt. be a big flirt. guys like that. go out to clubs seeing as ur 16 and can probably drive, right? go out a lot, and flirt with guys.
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ive never had a b/f and im 13 but all of my friends have and they make me mad cuz they always say how great it is 2 have one but i dont like the guys at my skool cuz they judge me on how i look wut should i do 2 get a nice cute guy 2 ask me out? (link)
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no, guys aren't that great.
flirt if you really want a bf, but eh, love sucks, and its just not that great.
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i would lije people who have either seen this movie or saw a scary movie and had the same problem as me to answer this.
i watched this movie "The Ring" like 5 months ago,and i still get kinda scared and cant sleep.what should i do? (link)
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yeah i was really really scared when i saw it too. just remember it was a fictional movie. watch funny tv at night, and unplug your phone so it won't ring and freak you out. leave one in my inbox if you still need help.
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ohh my how do you get rid of a large scab on your face in a mattter of a few days!! I really really really need advice, its not huge but, it just makes a difference and i feel like its all that people are looking at! Please help me! (link)
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put cover up on it if you're a girl. if your a guy, grow a beard over it. eh worse comes to worse, come up with a really great story that will be entertaining to people to hear.
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i have a bf and i really like him and we have been going out for about 9 monthes. but this past day i went over to friends house and she has 1 brother and he is really cute and i like him as well as my bf....so what im saying is what should i do should i break uo with my bf or stay with him!! HELP!!! (link)
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stay until ur absolutely sure.
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me and a friend well we just found from both of each other (were both females) that we might have this connection between us.. or something. I try not to make it uncomftable and i know we have actually talk about it and stuff. But im kinda scaried shy to bring the subject up. I dont know how to bring up and how to make it less uncomfertable for the both of us??
any ideas?? (link)
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and stay good friends. you don't need to make things weird. being bi/gay is perfectly normal. maybe your feelings for each other will develop as your friend ship continues. good luck.
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Hey, Well there is this guy I USED to like..(Well..I actually still do) but I found out from my best friend who is friends' with the guy I like said that he was talkin' crap about me ... Well I got some1 thats spose to beat him up but he actually beat up 1 of his friends..Well I got news from this 1 guy that talked to they guy I like and he told me that (the boi i like said this)... "Did crystal* say that she was gonna get a gun and shoot me? Well tell her this, Tell her I said that I will get a gun , load it for her then give it to her and see what she'll do with it.." I never said anything bout a gun or shooting anybody!Can you plz help me!
Another thing, I'm really confused alot of my friends says that he likes me .. .but I dunno now I'm not so sure.. I found out he was talking bout me 2 weeks after school started... and well I dont talk to him that much... Alot of times he wanted to talk to me but I chickened out -n- went home... Can u plz help me?
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hunni, i might be able to hlep you if i know what the hell was going on, (punctuation would help) but ne ways, let me try any way.
ok, talk to the dude. don't have other dudes talking to him for you, cuz thats stupid. infact, thats really stupid because guys don't like know anything. girlfriends know nothing either. they just want to make you happy so they tell you crap that isn't true. you have to sort this crap out between you and this guy you like. he doesn't like you if he said that. he's obviously creeped out by you, or he's tired of you because well, he wants you to kill him or something wierd like that. he probably is sick of you. sorry, its the truth. i know you don't want to hear it, but its the truth. sorry.
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is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
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ok heres the deal
if you walk and run the same distance, you burn the about the same amount of calories. running is just faster, so people prefer to do it. they also "feel the burn" that way. so really, if your walking, just go far, not long. running, go far, and you'll go long. hope i helped.
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A while back, I used to use a lot of hairspray and gel on my hair and, when the stuff would drip onto my back, it would break out.
Since then, I've stopped using leave-in hair products altogether but my skin is still breaking out.
First of all, my back is awful. It's a lot clearer than it was a couple months ago but the acne never seems to completely go away.
The skin on my chest is also bad. I have little, red bumps all over and, although the pimples aren't that big, their very red. I can't wear any low-cut shirts because of this.
Also, I have a problem with the skin on my inner-thighs. It's not acne. In fact, I'm not entirely sure what it us. But I do know that I've have little, red bumps all over my thighs and they're EXTREMELY hard to get rid of.
Can anyone tell me how I can get rid of these pimples (and redness) on my back and chest fast?
And does anyone know what the bumps on my legs are and how to get rid of them?
Thanks in advance!
(Sorry if this is posted twice.. O.o It didn't show up the first time..) (link)
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go to your doctor, or like a dermotalagist. they would know better than any of us.
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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense (link)
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frizz-ease and something called cross-trainer. i dunno where to get cross-trainer, but frizz-ease can be bought at any drug store. buy the little packet first so you know if you like it or not because its kind of expencive.
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Hi my name is jessica and i have this friend and she likes the same boy i do she knows i do but one of us is going to end up going out with him but if we do i dont want to loose everything we have because if one oof us go out with him the other will get mad what do i do? (link)
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i don't think you need advice. it sounds like the two of you have it under control. it was very mature of you guys to realize that guys come and go, but bffs are here to stay.
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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!! (link)
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alright, cutting is when someone deliberately slits there wrists or cuts themself.
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Here's the deal, I hate school so much! I do really well, but I just hate it? Any suggestions? (link)
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not really. you kinda just have to go through it. if your going into hs, load up on credits so you don't have to go all four years and graduate in 3.
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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help. (link)
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no, you couldn't lose weight. you are like rail thin. i'm the same hight and i'm 150 lb, and i'm not fat either.
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Hey..I'm only 14, and a girl. Lol. Well, I have a lot going on in mii life, I have had three boyfriends, and I am pretty good in school, but when it comes to makeup, I need help. I know that I look fine and everything, but when I do make up, I hate the results..does anyone have any good tips? I mean mii make-up doesn't look horrible, I just want to look better, but I don't seem to be any more pretty. Thanks! ;-) Katie (link)
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Make up, eh, not to much cuz thats gross looking. actually, less is more. pale eyeshadow, light brown eye liner and clear lip gloss. bring out your natural beauty.
glad you realize that make up doesn't make you any prettier too. that might just work for you.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani
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take him to the game and then do stuff after.
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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do?? (link)
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blow him off. don't be mean or anything, like stay friends, just know that making plans with him might not be the best idea.
eh boys are stupid. give them a chance.
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i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin (link)
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yep. i'm in nineth grade and no one ever asked me out and i never went out with anyone. think of all the people that never get married. they're not abnormal or anything. Normal is just whatever you want it to be anyway. there is no way to Define Normal (good book). Maybe you'll get a bf this year, but theres nothing wrong if you don't.
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