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Not much to say today. I only know I should be getting to bed because it's late. Oh snap. Here comes another calender day.
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My sister, who is almost 20 years old, is with a guy who is totally wrong for her. He never takes her out on dates, or buys her anything, (not meaning that material things are that important but come on...), and the second she gets her paycheck he turns around with his hand out, telling her that he deserves some money for some reason or another. She is in college right now, and I can tell that this guy is ruining her life. She has dropped a lot of classes just because she doesn't have time for them because she has to go help him with his kid (from a previous relationship)or some other chore that she really has nothing to do with. He wont let her hang out with her old friends, because they might make her "disloyal" to him, in his opinion. I keep telling her that she needs to back off and find a better guy who has her interests at heart, but her response is "you haven't been in a relationship like tihs, when you're in love you have to make certain sacrifices" I don't know, maybe it's just my opinion, but when you're in love, you normally don't break up at least twice a week. (4 times so far since the beginning of April...today is the seventh...) Am I overacting or am I right in trying to convince her to ditch the guy? And how do I go about convincing her?
Concerned Sister
You should talk to her. Soon, he could tell her not to visit even her own family.
About the "sacrifices" part, tell her that it seems that he is not doing anything for her. If she says he is, ask her WHAT they are.
If they broke up four times in a week, clearly he is wrong for her. All he wants is for her to act stupid, waste her time, and get whatever it is he can get from her. He is not making her life better, and you SHOULD butt in. She is your sister.
I've liked a certain guy for over a year. I know that he used to like me, but I don't know if he still does. Whenever I get a friend to ask him, he won't answer them. But he always stares at me, which is really confusing, because it's in a good way. Like, he'll smile as he looks at me. But his friend said that he doesn't like me that way. I know that I should just get over him, but it isn't that easy. There's no other guys like him.. He's the only nice, sweet, and funny guy at my school who isn't taken. It's all so confusing.
Those looks he gives you should make you feel more comfortable. Talk to him and then ask him how he feels about you, even if it may seem a bit scary.
I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and now I just found out that he's gay. Do you know if he could be lying to just make me jealous or grossed out? I don't know what his intentions are...
Maybe he was questioning himself...he didn't want to belive so. Maybe he wanted to make sure or maybe he just found out he was 'gay.'
If you are worried or something, talk to him about it.
my mom has a friend and her daughter erased my game on my gameboy and I almost beat the game
how can I confront her?
What apha had said, but also remeber, it was just a game. There will be better scores. It might be hard to let it go, knowing it was a great score, but there are worse things that can happen in life.
:)
I just moved here and we have neibors and a boy that is my little sisters age and they are both 5 years old and we have to be to him and she doesnt like him and she told him that she doesnt like him and then he said,"you wont get no kisses from me."
Signed,
confusedGirl
They were probably playing around..or talking useless things as all five-year-olds do. There is nothing to worry about, if you ask me. That is, until they get older ;).
If you think he is a trouble maker, never leave them two alone.
I just got to this new school and a boy goes there that ive know just about my whole life and we hate each other and we got into a fight and I have a huge bruise and im a girl he likes to pick on me.
Boys shouldn't hit girls...tell an adult. He might tease you more, but you'll be better off when people are protecting you.
You shouldn't have responded with hits as well. But with was done is done.
I want men to die... is this normal?
Yes. It is very normal. But think, if they all died, the human race would as well. Maybe...
dun dun dun!
Have some pride, sista!
Ok I have my own room and its great but ever since I moved out of my sisters room she is taking all my stuff out and planning how it made her so much happier and hauled all my stuff out she is acually happy im moving out!!!!!
Signed,
My own room blues
Get your things back and have a lock. If you two still live with your parents, tell them. If your not or even if you ttwo are, you should talk to her.
I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do?
Why did she do it? Listen to her sid eof the story -- talk to her. Be patient with her even if she gets insane at some point.
I don't wanna clean my room! should I?
If you love the sweet rotten smells, fungus onyour walls and bugs mating in your room, I suggest not.
i need to loose weight! what should I do!!!!!!!!!!
You shouldn't hate yourself. Just run a block every day and eat healthier -- less fatty food, but don't stop eating everything...that is worse.
dear, any one
one of my friend is a gay/lisbaian
person i dont think its tht bad but it goes alout against my religion is it wrong of me not to care even tho my religon says that they will not go to heaven at least thts wat my mom says but im 16 and 16 a very confussing age
*The confussed 16 year old*
Does it matter? They are still a human being. There is nothing bad about it either, except that the human race would end if everyone loved their same sex.
But either who...some things are more important.
what can i do to make my boyfriend more interested in sex i never had this problem in the past all i had to do was kiss a guy and it was there my boyfriend is older than me but he is not the first one that was older than me and i never had any problems before so please help not sexy lingerie or any suggestions like that i mean something sexual if anyone knows especially guys if they something they like feel free to reply
Sex is not why people are boyfriend and girlfriend...but today that only what people think of. How ignorant.
It might not be that you are not sexy or anything, maybe he is just waiting for a prefect time.
Talk to him about this.
i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do.
Ugh! Ignore those insults and crap. Even I dislike them.
Anyway, you were sleeping with all five of them at the same time? If so, then maybe you shouldn't have gone behind their backs. Maybe some of them thought you two had something going on. It wasn't you that was hurt emotionally, but them.
If not, screw them. They just wanted a piece of you and end it there.
Your friend shouldn't have done that anyway. It was mindless...what kind of fight would make her do that?
Well, your beautifull and sexy, but what good did it do? Nothing. You shouldn't care about them now, but your baby.
Unless your going to abort it. But that is painful and dangerous - you hvae to tell your parents or whoever it is taht your living with.
You can also take a DNA test to see who the father is.
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You can always contact me.
My sister has been using my advicenator thing to ask questions, my mom saw them and thought that i wrote the questions. they were suicidal things and sexual questions. She also jus wrote one about the ratings, you don't have to answer that though.
Liz
Why would your mom think *you* wrote those questions?
Talk to your sister and your mother. If she still doesn't believe you, well then let her believe what she wants, you know it isn't true, and maybe one day, she will forget. Until that day comes...
Good luck.
Hey I have a question it seems no matter where I go I hear a song by Hilary Duff and I see her on Tv. Naturally I have nothing against her or for her. Now What is so great and what isn't? Don't tell me she is a good role model because a good role model would encourage a person to be comfortable with themselves and she isn't example: height. Think about your future example Bys a 400 dollar vintage shirt for a "BOYFRIEND" so just comments would be great.
Cspinoza1
A lot of people I know don't like her...they never even talk about her. It's just rap or rock.
I do not think she can act or sing. But those are not reasons to "hate" her. I dislike her...if I ever want to find out more about her, then maybe I'd like her more. But until that day comes...bleh to her. Her singing. Her acting. BLEH!
I didnt't really know where to put this in a category but...
Well this whole religous thing.. IM not religous but I want to believe in something and no I dont want to believe in "GOD" or Jesus Christ I do already believe in satan that he is real.. "Lucifer" I want to learn more about him..
I dont want to hear stuff from all you catholic and christian people unless u have the truth because the bible it doesnt know what happened.. and neither do u.
Can someone give me some sites and places I can go to search further on Lucifer?
Because I've always believed their was a satan and people awlays said he was mean and tricked people into selling their souls and he has demons and he hates god why? why does he hate god? WHY I NEED TO KNOW I want to be educated cuz u know they dont teach these type of things at school or church.. they teach about god and math and science and englisha nd all that..
I just want to be something
Im sick of being the non religous person who doesnt know anything about god or heaven or being catholic or christian or anything
I "WANT" to learn more about satan not god satans life satan where does he live hell ya I know but whats it like fire? hott,? torture? Or is good? and is heaven really the evil place..??
WHAT IS IT.. give me some information please
Im not crazy and Im not a satanist I just want to learn about him to see if I would like to become a satanist
and if u think thats dumb eh go fuck urself!
Atleats I want to learn more about what I believe in
And I want to do like traditions
I wish the whole world was gothic and satanists.. it would be great
I mean the theme of the world being gothic..
well fi any one has any information or sites on satan and about being satanist and any traditions
PLEASE LET ME KNOW!
If there is no devil, then there is no god.
Gothic is not dressing up in black and shit. That just drives me up the wall.
But whetever you want to learn, go look it up in google.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&q=satanist+
I'm sorry I said what almost every other person said...but eh.
All right, here's the picture. I'm a boy in 8th grade. Last year, I was a bit of a pervert and got a huge rep as one. That all changed over summer break. However, no one realizes that, and so my rep still stands. That is the only reason I cant get a girlfriend. And for some reason, I feel a need for the companionship, and not on the level of just friends. What should I do?
Too bad, so sad...act the way you said you changed...er...I don't believe that a person can change that fast in a week. Maybe they can, but I just can't believe it.
Wait a few weeks. Or months. Or years. There is this "pervert" where I live and says he treats the ladies with respect and all, but once he is near one he doesn't do so at all. If he changes and he believed he changed, those women aren't going to trust him anyway because he could be pulling a trick.
bleh. Something like that. What I am trying to say is, us ladies can't trust you until we've seen your new actions.
This is a thank you to all those who gave me advice with the bullying good news im now home schooled started from last wednesday i have to teach myself but i proved to my teachers ppl just dont like me for what ever reasons so a masive thank you to all of u it means a lot.. good luck in ur lifes and i hope i could return the favour.
:)
That's great, but, what do you mean to teach yourself? Isn't there an adult?
I need help in finding a career that's risky, adventurous, enjoyable and never boring.
Any suggestions
What may be cool for me might be boring for you.
I love photography...I could explain why...but not at the moment. I mean, there are all sorts of things out there...anywhere...infront of an exploding volcano or something. and photos are enjoyable to see. Same with cartooning...it all depends on the creativity and imagination that you have.