Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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this boy used to call me like everynight and IM me and stuff and then at school be MEAN and like really rude in front of his friends. Than this weekend , he called me to hangout with him and his friend.... I couldnt because I was going somewhere. Than that night at like 2 am he called me twice.
The next day, I went for a walk and he saw me and screamed my name out of the car window and called me like right after that , and then i went for another walk and i saw him and his friend and he like talked to me for like a split second and then kinda ignored me.
Then that night, I IMed him [i never really IM him] and I said "hey is it raining where you live"
He says " Did I say you could IM me?"
I said "ugh no?"
He says "then dont talk to me"
then he says
"haha jk, but yeah its raining"
and i felt like shit.
Whats going on??
[by the way he has a girlfriend and im 13] (link)
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Okay, wth.
Tell that bipolar ass not to not talk to you. And you shouldn't. He shouldn't be all hung up on you and then just because he's with his friends, totally blow you off.
PLUS he has a girlfriend?
Just lay off him, hun. Lay off.
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What is up with these 13 yr olds and getting pregnant/asking for advice about fingering and sexual things like that. wtf is our world coming too.When I was 13 I was still playing coodies with the guys next door or riding my bike around the neighborhood. Gahsh by the time I turn 30, 5 yr olds will be worried about sex. WTH (link)
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DUDE, AMEN.
people are fucked.
I was way over the cooties thing when I was 13 personally lol, but I wasn't anywhere near sex either. I dont know if sex makes them feel more mature,'cool',or whatever but theyre not gunna get anything out of it except an STD+a reputation
&I know a lot of them claim to be "in love" and thas why they do it, but cmon. No ones gunna find the "love of their life" at fucking thirteen.
Eh, I'm not gunna get much into this subject because it's not like theres anything we can do about it :]
But yea, can't wait to see how our next generation is gunna turn out like...
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heyyy on myspace how do you skip a space?? like on the about me section?
instead of
just like
this...
how do i
skip a space
like this?? (link)
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you just use < B R >
^space it together though.
like
and. WA LA.
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hey gen
well i like this guy alot hes rlly cute and very nice.but i think he has a thing for one of my best friends. he flirts with both of us. but he talks with her alot more. he always leaves her picture comments telling her she hot. i think he may like her and if he does she likes him back so i know there would be no problem there. what do u think i should do? (link)
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Hmm, thats a tough situation mayne
But yeah, does your bestfriend know you like him? Yeah, maybe you should clear that up with her first. Thats like really sucky though...If they both like each other, what are you supposed to do, yknow? xX Hmm... Well. Yeah, I need more detail with this. From my perpective though, I say let them be for awhile.
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alright well geintals yeah but this one girl that i like alot but she said that myabe in the future she said she doesnt really know me taht good now i dont kno wat to do im really hungry right now im out of popcorn chicken so really should i wait around for this girl or should i just move one (link)
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Iuno...
All I know is that I wouldn't wait along too long for a hoe. Tell her to make up her goddamn mind and see what happens
Because people who are "confused" or "not sure" aren't good enough to be waiting around for, all they do is waste your fucking time. When you couldve been finding any other bitch to like. Maybe you shouldve give it a little time like a couple days. Iuno. I'm just like that but you know. whatever
that's just my perspective.
do whatever you want..
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um alright genitlas im sooo confused i like this girl and everything but i think i told her but i really dont remember but i really like her and i dont know wat to do i tihnk she knows and i wanna know im making some popcorn chicken right now so im happy a tthis moment but wat should i do?? (link)
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Well sometimes people are confused because, you can like someone a little, but have liked someone before them and then all of a sudden they come back into your life. You should just be patient and still keep your options open. Have fun with that popcorn chicken.
x Friend of Gen's.
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listen i know you like two other boys i wont tel you who i am but tell me what i can do to change myself for you to notice mand like ME (link)
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ummm
I like a variety of people..
just talk to me uhhhh uhhhh uhhh
yea.
x
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hay gen.....listen i dont kno wat to do. ive never had a boyfriend and i relly want one im soooo need for love.....and im relly fat...i think thas why....i weigh 117 pounds......i dont kno wat to do...like im tryin to get rid of my fat bt i dont kno how....and my life jus sux i want a boy and be skinny (link)
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Okay, so do you know how much of a dumbass you sound like right now? O_o
Dude, you have friends and family.
You don't need a boy to be a happy person. No, fuck that. >> Yeah, love's good and all, but you should wait for it, and not be searching for it. Cmon now, dont be stupid.
And 117 pounds? You gotta be kidding me. That's not fat and either way, no one cares. Why don't you just be happy you have food and water to live off of, huh? Ok, whatever. If really want to lose weight, just start excersising more, and eat healthier. It's not that big of a deal, honestly. Do crunches, run everyday and eat some vegetables. You'll notice the difference in a couple weeks.
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i LiKE THiS GUY ..... ALOT BUT i HAVE NO CLUE iF HE NOSE THAT i DO ... LiKE WE HANG OUT AND EVERYTHiNG BUT i DONT THiNK HE LiKES ME ..... AND i LiKE HiM A LOT [[ LiKE i ALREADY SAiD ]] HOW CAN i GET HiM TO SORT OF LiKE ME ... i DONT UNDERSTAND ... AND HES FRiENDS WiTH A LOT OF PRETTY GiRLS SO i THiNK HE WOULD RATHER CHOSE ONE OF THEM THEN ME ! (link)
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Ahh, so you're hanging out with him more, eh?
That's good. Keep hinting that you like him and get a real reaction out of him now. See what he feels about you.
And if you think he likes your friends just because they're pretty, then fuck him. He's a shallow bastard and doesn't deserve you.
x Hope I helped
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HEY THERE iS THiS GUY WHO iM FRiENDS WiTH AND i REALLY LiKE HiM!!!!!!!! i DONT THiNK HE NOSE THO ... BUT SOMETiMES iT SEEMS LiKE HE LiKES ME BUT HES FRiENDS WiTH ALL THE PREPS AND STUFF AND SO SOMETiMES i THiNK HE WOULD PORBLAY LiKR ONE THEM iNSTEAD OF ME ... iM FRiENDS WiTH ALOT OF THEM BUT iT SEEMS LiKE HE DOESNT SPEND ENOUGH TiME WiTH TO LiKE ME ... iM A GiRL .. DUH AND iM 13 (link)
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Okay first you said it seems like he likes you sometimes, and then you say you think he likes one of your friends?
Make up your mind, woman.
Build up some confidence and go up to the boy and talk to him =) ALONE- 1 on 1. See how he acts when he's JUST around you. Don't compare yourself to the other girls. See what happens.
x Hope I helped
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yo gen wats happening oh yea i still love a girl that still loves me but she says i am bein overprotective but she never told me that i was doin anything wrong until it got to a point where she couldn't handle it anymore and now she broke up with me for that and i am tryin not to lose her for good but i dont kno what to do and i guess now she is believing a rumor that was spread that me and one of her friends are goin out but thats not true and its really bothering me and she wont tell me anything. I found out why she broke up with me from one of our friends and i dont kno if i should give her space or try and bring her back but thats the problem she wont listen to me and we both still love eachother but idk pleaze figure out what i can do thanx
b - d im in ur friend doggggg (link)
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That's gay.
If ya'll still love each other, ya'll should be together.
And she should try to hear your side of the story also instead of just automatically listening to rumours.
I mean, cmon now.. I think you should for the time being, at least try to talk to her to maintain that friendship. Because you defently dont wanna lose her as a friend or anything of the sort, so yea try talking to her a couple times. If she won't give you the time of day, then let her cool off for a bit and see what happens. Get back at me
x Hope I helped
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like omfg why are you like so fucking hawt??like omg?!?!
your soooo sexy!
i WANT you!
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I know who this is =)
Thanks, fool.
x Love.
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Hi :)
It's really cool how you've done this whole advice thing! So awesome, yo.
I don't need any advice right now, but it seems that you know what you're doing. :D Keep on keepin' on!
Bye for now! (link)
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Thanks for the appreciation. :)
x Love.
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i always pretend to be someone im not, cuz im afraid that if i show people who i really am they wont love me anymore, i smile when im crying inside, and i lauf when im dying inside. i cant tell anyone of my friends why i moved away b/c i know they wont understnad. they wont understand the realmee.. everyone sais to stop beingso afraid but if they knew why i am, they would undersytand..
x0x-living in hiding
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Ok first of all: Keeping it all inside is NOT GOOD. Like as much as you don't WANT to let others know the real you, you have to open up to other people. Let people try to understand you, yknow? You can't call someone a friend if they don't know what's going on with you. Real friends are there to help you.
Second of all: I can't really help you because I need to know the real problem. What can possibly be SO bad that you're living in your own shadow? SO bad that you "feel like you're dying"? A LOT of people go through bad stuff. Some people who seem super happy even go through some. But that's the kind of people who don't let it affect them. You have to try to do that. No matter what it is, try not to let it affect you.
x Hope I helped.
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GEN-
hayyy ive been havving trouble lately im having trouble at home . my paretns yelling is getting louder and louder and even some screams. i cant tell my parents any of how badly im hurting so i took some pills and feel GREAT not having to think about it...now im wanting to do more serious hardcore drugs... i dont know wat to do bc usually im just the innocent smile pretend nothings wrong when inside im really crying kind of person...
wat do i dooo cause i knwo if i do the drugs.. i wont be able to stop...like my brothers.and parents...wat do i do
btw-i know you know who i am...
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Okay. STOP taking pills. And don't plan on doing drugs if the only reason is your parents screams. IGNORE your folks. No offense, but everyone has problems with their parents >.< I don't know of ONE person who hasn't had their parents yell at them or make them feel like complete shit. Just ignore it, but if the verbal abuse is growing everyday, then you should tell another adult.. Because it all depends on what they say, yknow? If your parents are the least bit reasonable, then tell them how the way they scream at you makes you feel so low to take drugs. DON'T tell them you took some already though. Ehhh.
Sorry.
x Love.
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Do you have any advice on how I can motivate myself? How is it that you have such a love, such a passion for something...and yet you can't seem to do what it is you know you should? It's like I have such a desire to do something but everytime I begin working at it...myy desire vanish. Btw I'm talking about music. And I LOVE YOU GEN! (link)
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That's hard to answer because I have a bit of the same problem. I love playing guitar but whenever I'm not playing, I don't feel like doing it. but I know that when you do anything dealing with music wether it's an intrument or your vocal chords, when you've accomplished writing a song, or performing one and you feel like you've done good, it's an amazing feeling, isnt it?
What I do is promise myself that I'll never stop doing what I love to do and try to practice as much as I can no matter how hectic life can be>.< You have to MAKE yourself work at what you want, there's no tricks on how to motivate yourself. It's not like you can pop a pill in and sudenly, you have an urge to play/sing.
You, yourself, have to keep you going on what you love to do and make sure that you'll never stop bc once you do>.< you know. By the time you go back to it, youve lost your touch, yknow?
Love you too =).
x Hope I helped!
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would you ever go out with a 7th grader plzplzplzplzplz tell me YES!!!!!!!1 (link)
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Um.. Probably not.
But if you were REALLYREALLYREALLLLLLLLY determined, I might consider it ;P
x Love.
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i need more help w/ oliver this is the same person who asked about him in the other ques. well i gave my friend a letter to give it to oliver but now he has it and im wondering if its a big mistake. cause no everyone knows and yeah so answer me this question?
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Well, if you wanted him to know about it in the first place, who cares.
People eventualy are going to find out, we live in Katy for christ's sake.
Nothing's kept secret in this gossip-invested town>.>
All that matters is the boys reaction.
WHAT DID HE SAY?
x Love.
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jk gen ur site is da bomb ¥¤ƒƒÜÖ (link)
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Thank you, Cameron!
x Love.
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I cant find people who want sex! (link)
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Wow, I know who this is..
God, hun I didnt mean ask a question like THAT.
But if by any chance, you're serious, try the following:
sexforlosers.com
sexforthedesperate.com
oralfortheneedy.com
-Nods-
x Hope I helped!
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