*tasha*'s

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ok i met this boy nick like in the middle of the skool year...and i hated him soo much...he was going out with my friend....and i dont know i just hated him...then one day i went skating and he was there and i started liking him...well a week later he asked me out and we were goin out for like a month then we broke up...we were on and off all year...well then a month before skool let out he moved....it was the hardest day of my life saying goodbye to him....he was my first love ever and thats the truth.....well now he still calls me and everything and we r still friends and he wants to go back out and i love him sooo much and wanna say yah but i cant cuz ill never c him cuz he moved what should i do~!?

Well,long distance relationships are really really hard..But if you really do love him and if you think you guys can make it work then yea do it!Hope I helped.GOOD LUCK!!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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I am 14 and i just started going out with this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago.. he lives like 30 mins away and hes a total jock so we don't really get to hang out much... so when I have him over I want him to enjoy it with me do u think 14 is to young to be giving head? some of my friend think it is but I don't..

Uh..I think it is.You guys have only been goin out for 2 1/2 weeks anywayz.Thats a little soon to be doin oral sex.Maybe if you feel your ready after like a year then maybe you could..I wouldn't but im not u and thats your decision and no one elses..Hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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hey girl.. i need help right now well i love my bf... but its like my best friend likes me well i took him today dat i only like him as a friend and nothing else.. but i hurt him really bad.. but he just cant get OVER ME!!!!!!!!!!! and i want him 2.. bc i dont look @ him like dat.. bc my bf iz da one 4 me and i love him 2 death... can you tell me what 2 do?
plz..

Tell your best friend that you do love him... as a friend. But you only love your boyfriend as more.And he's gotta accept that!If he still wants to be friends and if he likes u that much then he'll accept it..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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OK. So I had a dentist appointment this morning and my mom, dad, and brother were all working. So, my dad called my neighbor 'Don' to ask if he could take me to the dentist. He said it was fine and he was happy to do the favor. I could have rode my brothers bike there if I absolutely HAD to...but I wasn't thrilled when my mom suggested the idea. My mom just called and said she was embaressed when she found out that 'Don' had driven me there and back. I don't like it when people are mad at me and now I feel guilty and my happy mood just went to bad. Am I being selfish or is my mom over reacting?

I think your mom is over reacting..she'll get over it..moms do that a lot..GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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okay well my frend was sleepin ova one nite last week and we kinda snuck out at like 1am to go see my frend lets call him adam ok well we walked to adams house nd its like 1 nd he came to his window nd was like go to the back yard so we met him in the back yard and he came out nd i guess we were talkin too loud cuz his bro woke up nd flipped out nd yelled for his parents nd everythin so me nd my frend ran like hell to get away from there wit out them noticing so we ran nd idk wut my frend said but i think wen she was yellin for me tryin to find me in the dark she mita sed my name, but we got home nd now its been a week and i just found out that adam got sent to christian camp because of it nd his bro knos it was me nd told my other frends bro who was askin my other frend y i was over there that late and my other frend thinks he couldve told her parents who will tell my parents sooo idk wut to do.. should i just like wait for my parents to find out or should i tell them myself oh ya nd by the way before we snuck out my mom specifically told us not to leave the house nd go walkin round the neighborhood or to adams house... so yea im kinda screwed help out!!! and soon please im kinda freakin out!!!

OKay..I think you should tell your parents yourself.They will probaly appreciate you being honest..You'll still get in trouble probaly but not in as much trouble as you'll get if another pair of parents tell them...cuz then ur parents will be emberassed and all this bad crap that goes on..I've went through this before (not EXACTLY the same thing but pretty darn close) and I got grounded for a week but yea..Its better than a month huH? I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!!

Well it sounds like these girls aren't really your best friends...If they ere they WOULD answer your calls and they would care about how you were feelin.Maybe you should start hangin w/ some other people...I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!!


*much love*
*~tasha~*

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im fourteen and mi name is sarah.
i duno what to do n e more bout jordan my boyfriend. i mean, i think I love him. But then other times, I just feel it would be better off as us just being friends. But everyone says he loves me so much. But... i mean... ugh. I dont see myself being with him forever. Im starting high school in like 30 days. I wana get into a relationship there. With new guys, and new people to hang out with and everything. I don't want him like tagging along... kinda ya no? I duno.. I want to start off fresh. But he cares so much.... if i told him i couldnt go out with him anymore then he would kill himself. Thats what he said to me b4. in front of mi face he just said out of no where... sara if i lost you...... i dont think i would be able to go on. I dont think id be able to last. like that scared me. I mean... ugh it sux.. im so confused.
Do you think i should dump him?? or just keep going out with him?

I think you should do what you wanna do.Don't let ur friends tell you what to do w/ ur relationships..If your not feeling any vibes w/ u and jordan than yea break up..He won't kill himself if you break it to him nicely..Just remember..dont be harsh about it!be nice..I hope I helped..GOOD LUCK!

*much love*
*~tasha~*

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i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx

Just think...if you lost ur daddy and u feel this bad think of how ur friends and mom will feel if they ever lost you...cuttin IS deadly and you can die from it..yea it is scary but true.You shouldn't keep living like this and no theres nothing ANYONE can do to stop you from doing this. Only you can stop you.So you need to buckle down and tell yourself that you NOT cutting anymore.And actually stick to it!I hope i helped...GOOD LUCK!

*much Love* *~tasha~*

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my family is very racist and very controlling when it comes to mixed relationships and recently i started goin ot wit an 18 year purtirican/black guy. i am italian/mexican and im 14 my family stilll does not no and i dont no what i should do bout this i wanna be with him but i dont want my family to disown me at all. what should i do ?

I think you should just tell your parents like it is...If you have feelings for this guy then tell them and if they have a problem w/ it then thats too bad because ya kno this isn't the 1800's we get to pick our boyfriends and stuff..I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!!

*much love* *~tasha~*

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I don't really do that well on tests and I try an study an hour the night before tests. What are some things to help me score higher on tests?

What I do when I'm studyin is I make sure I have no distractions...like a tv or a radio or a window to look out of...Study when your focused and not when your thinkin of boys or somethin else fun like that.lol and also don't try to cram all the info for the test into ur brain 5 hours before school.lol that doesn't really work out too well..I have tried it and it really doesnt...I hope I helped...GOOD LUCK!


*much love* *~tasha~*

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Alright my boyfriend and i have been on and off for almost a year..hes changed alot..we have been going "steady" for 4 months now he sayd he loves me but i dont belive it..he has hurt me so many times and the only thing that makes me believe it just a little is i said if u love me you'll quit smoking pot..and hes been clean for 2 months now and i was not doing it to be a bitch but i did it b/c he is always on trouble with the cops and now hes on probation for 3 years..i just wanna know if i should believe him when he tells me..hellllpp pllz!

He's your boyfriend and yes you should trust him...But take it slow still and don't get to attatched to him.Maybe if you don't believe it you guys just shouldn't say it.? Well Good luck!!

*much Love* *~tasha~*

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ok..i've just started talking to this guy on the internet and my friends have told me good (: things about him and im really starting to like him..but he has a grl friend and shes younger than me..how do i give him hints that i like him but i still want him to know i respect that he has a grl friend?

Okay..I have learned that guys like bold girls..(well some) I think you should just take your chances and tell him you like him...just be like..."yea I kno you have a gf,but I like you.I just thought you should know" well I hope that works for you if you try it. GOOD LUCK!!


*love alwayz* *~tasha~*

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