...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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What do boys REALLY like in a girl? All these magazines & stuff say that they love what's inside, not outside. Is this true or is it crap? (link)
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Imature boys like the outside, but gentlemen like whats inside. It really depends on the package.
-shay :-)
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Everytime I am on center stage, for playing an instrument, singing, acting, auditions, giving a speech in front of my class, whatever.... I get soooo nervous. My feet shake, my hands shake so hard it's hard to hold papers or instruments steady and they get really cold. Sometimes I get this nervous twitch above my lip. I don't know any way to get rid of it! And I can't just avoid the stage, because even though I get nervous, I really want to perform. Ugh.
Help! (link)
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Well this is very commen to most people, but not everyone has it*COUGH*COUGH*POLLY*. The best way to get rid of this is to imagine yourself in the crowd before you're about to talk, sing, etc. Think that if you were sitting there and there was someone about to sing what would YOU think. I mean of course nobodys gonna say that you did bad they'll look up to you that you were brave!
-shay :-)
Oh Polly, not everyone has this. I dont! SPEAK 4 YOURSELF!
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Ok...I want a guitar. Badly. I've wanted to buy one and learn how to play it for like 3 years now. But, I know absolutely nothing about it. So could someone please tell me what's a good guitar to start out with??? Ahhh, I feel stupid. ThankYOU. (link)
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There is many diffrent types of good brands. I cant name them at the top of my head though. Go to the nearest music store to your house and they'll know what to give you.
-shay :-)
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There is this guy in one of my classes, and I'm not sure but I think hi MIGHT like me. he's on tha honor role but he's not a nerd. HE's actually kinda cute, but we've only really talked once. we were on a field trip and he just came over and started talking to me. Later I decide to eat lunch with him and he asked if I wanted his oreos. I know that sounds like a question a friend would ask but the way he said it was so sweet a kind (not like other people). So I'm confused. Does he like me or doesn't he. Kinda sounds like a question Shakspere would ask (to be or not to be? That is the question.)
Confused (link)
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Well he sounds like more of a friend then more then that. I would stay close to him in a friendley relationship and maybe it WILL be!
-shay :-)
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Dildo sword fights are all right arn't they. I'm playing with my cousin ryan. Jon and Adrienne (link)
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What the hell is this supposed to be? I could really care less if you fighting or whatever. This place is for ADVICE.
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what do you do when u fall for you best friend? i know it sounds like the CLASSIC relationship question.. but i really dont know what to do! i have been best friends with this guy for 3 months.. that mite not sound like a long time... but we have grown really close in that time! i like him as more than a friend now and when he starts to talk about who i like... i dont know what to say! he says im shy.. and well i agree.. lol cause im not the foward type to just come out and tell someone that i like them... i dont want to ruin our friend ship by telling him how i feel, but what if he likes me 2 and he wants me to make the first move?? please someone help me.. (link)
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Ask him who he likes. If he doesnt say anything hes doing the same thing you're doing. Or if he does tell you, you'll know if he likes you or not.
-shay :-)
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My friend hasn't been doing her homework and she has 6 zeros in the grade book. I'm afraid she is going to fail. What to do? (link)
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It seems to me that shes being lazy. Call her over after school for a little study group and help her out a bit.
-shay :-)
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My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
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You really have no control over what your friends do. Just hope she has a good time and keep in touch with her.
-shay :-)
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What does everyone here do to become a better writer? I want to be a writer when I grow up and I want to know if there are any writing excercises to become a better one. I know reading helps...but I'm just always in a writers block because all my writing is the same and it gets frustrating.
Know any way to improve my writing?
Anything...even if you think it sounds stupid.
Thanks! :) (link)
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Write little stories. Take references from many different books that you've read and write a novel yourself.
-shay :-)
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I am getting a new bass/guitar. It is a washburn. I was wondering if it is hard to learn, or if my fingers will hurt the first few weeks or something. . . Im just curious, please tell me if its easy or hard or if it will hurt my fingers or etc. . .
Bye (link)
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It really wont hurt your fingers unless you really go into it. Some people use guitar picks if that works for you.
-shay :-)
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Why do people who don't know shit about music insist on "answering" some of these questions, when they have absolutely nothing to offer?
I mean, if I were to ask the best way to resolve a chord progression, there would be at least 4 people who would answer by saying that they have no clue. Why? Why do these people feel compelled to answer on subjects they don't know jack-shit about?
p.s. - if you don't play guitar, don't answer guitar questions. If you don't play music, don't answer questions about how to play something or about music theory.
Thank you, that is all. (link)
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AHH! Someone actually came out and said it! I hate when people do that too.
-shay :-)
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does anyone have any good advice on how to have the perfect hairdo or style so u can make boys heads turn when u walk by? (link)
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I know this one! Well today my hair is neatley in nice bobbypins. If you like it down then you follow these steps.
1. take a shower
2. blow-dry your hair with a brush
3. Curl it in with a cyurling iron
-shay :-)
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I HAVE A RABBIT BUT I HATE RABBITS. I LOVE DOGS, THOUGH. MY GRANDMA (WHOM I LIVE WITH) SAID I COULD HAVE A DOG IF I TOOK CARE OF A RABBIT FIRST. I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I KNOW I HAVE TO. WHAT DO I DO? I DON'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF IT BUT I REALLY WANT A DOG. (link)
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Well if you really want that dog really bad you will work hard to feed and care for the rabbit.
-shay :-)
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i really like a boy but i not sure how he feels about me . how can i find out???? (link)
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Well you should look for some signs to show that he does.
-shay :-)
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Alright. Stop being psychic and fast.
Us other columnists see an interesting question and you've already answered what we would've said. We're feeling redundant, you know.
Keep up the good work and let us know when you plan to take a vacation so we can get some glory :) ? (link)
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lol! Sorry! I, didnt really get on today though exept now.
-shay :-)
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if i went out with a boy but now i hate him cuz he is mean buti cant stop thinking about him andi want to talk abotu him what does this mean? and how can i stop it? (link)
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This means that either you're not over him yet or you just getting over him. Go ahead and try to talk to him.
-shay :-)
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All my best friend talks about is her computer! Me & my other friends will talk about what we did over the weekend, and "Ellie" will just talk about gigabites, megabites, and that sort of stuff. We don't understand that sorta stuff at all! How can we get her to talk about normal people stuff, like guys, parties, or even her pets?! (link)
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Tell her that you have no idea what shes talking about, but your glad she knows so much about the computer. Also tell her that no matter how much she talks about it you still wont understand. She'll eventually come around.
-shay :-)
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Okay, I have a boyfriend who goes to my church (on wednesday nights) but i never see him because he never goes anymore and he doesn't go to my school. i want to dump him because i have this other boyfriend who i want to dump because he never sees me or calls me and i don't have his number and he doesn't go to my school. Okay, I want to dump both of them because I like this other boy who DOES go to my school and i know he likes me. If i ask him out though then ill have 3 boyfriends. i consider myself as if i don't have a boyfriend but i know i have to and soon will have 3. What to do? (link)
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Your cheating on your boyfriends? You know thats not good right? Well I'd say that you remain their girlfriend until you do see them. Or else you will be known as the unloyal girlfriend. Hold off on the boy that you like for a wile and choose between the two you're dating.
-shay :-)
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how do u know youself if your a good or bad kisser?help please (link)
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Im not sure how you know, but I know some cool ways to help you practice or want steps. Come to shay*shay if you want them.
-shay :-)
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honestly I said lds it says in the regular Question.
:)
~kat~bare~ (link)
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What? I know you said lds, but I just know us by LDS and mormon. So I didnt know what you were talking about, but now I do cuz Im one of you!
-shay :-)
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